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Blessing16:
You'll be surprised to know that a woman doesn't have to do anything wrong for a wife-beater to beat her, all it takes is for the man to be a wife beater. I've bn around quite a few men who beat their wives and when they tell you why,you'll run from them as far as your legs can carry you.Their excuses are usually absolutely stupid. Funny thing is, poor men beat their wives more, they have nothing to loose.

you are not wrong maam, but how will we know if this man in question falls into the beast class you mentioned if he isnt heard from too. we all weren't there. it will be unfair to not know the specifics of a problem and then we all jump into conclusions, simply because the woman came and reported. but you think of it, we are all humans and not martians. have you ever seen someone being beaten in the way the woman described above without any reason like she claimed. whether the reason has any bearing is left for all of us to decide after hearing from both sides. isnt that a berra way to be a "good" judge

[quote author=Claessique1 post=54606136][/quote]yes ma. it pays to be an objective judge. not a woman pleaser.

Amberon:
God is a merciful God and hence I believe He will send some sense across to you shortly.

amen

Angeleena:
I don't know you,but am convinced in my heart that you must be a bipolar patient.. u wife/girlfriend is in a very big trouble.. ur types are difficult and hard to please, you are so insensitive to have spilled such thrash in here.. you dick has to be Peirced with very very hot rod.

you must be really hooorny to find my dick worthy of your expletives. madam take your mind out of the gutter and learn to realize that many of us, do not appreciate the victim role women take all the time. if you had a sound mind, you will ask to hear the other side of the story before crucifixion. but of course you are a woman. MEN are out to get ya, they are the enemy. sine you aint my woman, dont worry about them, if your right, you will get to read our own disgraceful story on nairaland someday, then you can call me bi-polar or mono-polar.

JustinSlayer69:

Nice comment.

I don't in any way support domestic violence, but i dislike when women pretend they are total saints and did nothing wrong.

A lot of people would come and condemn the guy without hearing his side of the story. They would believe he beat her 20 times according to her without any evidence. Why did she wait all these 20 times? is it because of the Range Rover?

I have seen cases in America where women intentionally slam their heads on walls to incriminate their partners. In the US, domestic violence is seriously punished.

I can bet the beating was due to infidelity.

Say NO to domestic violence AND infidelity

thank you, ya sense dey ground, not all those peeps who cant read with any understanding of my objectivity to the case wey dey abuse me since.

deathwing:
You are a fool if you think it is ever ok to beat up and make a woman bleed. If she slept with his friend in his presence, divorce courts are not lacking. If she stole his money, police stations are never far away. Would he do this if it was a Kemen from Big Brother who annoyed him? Men always showing power with defenseless women.

If you are weak when you are in love, I suggest you find other things to do with your immaturity.

mr kemen please respect yourself. i am not TBOSS. no be me commot you from BBN. that being said, you all jump to divorce and police cos your still very naive , as to how the human psychology works when in love or lust. biko i dont wanna fight, mr voltron the defender of beaten women

daretodiffer:
You need to shut the fvcking up

Yes there are people, men or women who blow up their tops liek that for little to no fucking reason. Perhaps you should take a very long walk round your neighborhood to see for yourselves. I really wish you have a worse story to tell soon . Woman hater!

fine girl, after all this while here you are again, ready to trade blows with yours truly over trifles. i am not a woman hater hon. i just prefer to objective. its this objectivity that can help one determine a provoked man and a beast of a man. i don't just make a habit of gobbling female victim tales line hook and sinker. cos fairness is good for men too ya know

Are these threads on salary package meant to encourage people or increase the profile of the play boy bankers in the system.

Bia how much do u pay for a 500word article. Simple

Bia how much do u pay for 500words. Simple

Kwuo eziokwu. What a kontili. No wonder grannies and grandpa never heard of cancer. Now cancer is the new flu. Well this is the black man mentality working. Many who work in that philandering company know this fact. So far they encourage their family and loved ones to stay away. The rest of the country can go to blazes. I doubt a black man can make heaven, even if one does , I doubt he will be nigerian

expensive2:
evening guys..pls help me out. have been thinking of posting all this while i thought I could help myself but it not turning out well for me.i have been dating this guy for three years now ,tho we broke up in between but we decided to come back again........ it was not as if i was forced but i gladly reconcile with him...but i noticed that the feelings and passion is not der...tho i love him but d emotions are not der like before. i really love him and I wish we could get married but d feeling,passion,emotions is missing in me like i said earlier... pls help a sister out,wats really happening to me.
tosynetomuch,op,lalasticlala,seun
help me out please

redefine your relationship with him. You are no longer blinded by love. Thus this is a time to objectively assess him to determine compatibilty. You are lucky to feel this way. If you finally discover that he is compatible with ya, such a marriage will have a golden jubilee in bliss.

As usual women and victim tales, they have started again. Just see the description of the violence your husband meted on you. Yet you expect us to believe he is an animal who blew his top like that. Do people blow their top to tthe point of daring murder without and reason ? I very much doubt that.

This is the problem with loving the wrong person. When one is in love he is weak, and slight hurts appear too painful to bear, utter betrayal by these cheating and deceptive 21st century nigerian women , makes one think of murder thanks to utter shock of it all.

How easy is it to gently seek a divorce when blind sided by the sudden realization of the betrayal or crimes of someone you loved. Nevertheless its a better path to choose without violence. Not because the scum doesn't deserve to be dealt with as your mind tells you, but because you need freedom (not going to jail) to enaable you find a berra mate and move on with ya life. Thus I say no to violence.

Woman, stop with the victim tales, confess what you did wrong even though u denying it cos the man likely has no concrete evidence. Marry not a woman you love, but strictly a woman whose loyalty you can vouch for completely. Nobody attacks another without reason as we have observed, mad people don't even do that often.

Well he "turned" the money towards his account for personal keeping. Its high time the government embarks on wealth scrutiny, the should be able to visit everyone and let all prove how they acquired it legally. This will go a long way towards curbing every form of corruption and illegaal hustles such as yahoo boys , fraudsters and criminals

Please other people should accost that man, yes I know he is a samaritan, but we know there is no samaria in nigeria, that woman is obviously unconcious and vulnerable. Biko what happened to the men in the flying busn no samaritan found them worthy to be saved ?

Please bro join the frat. Please we beg you in the name of all the gods. Food and accommodation is scare and expensive thanks to overpopulation. We will forever be grateful by your noble efforts to remedy the situation , by your expected future violent death.

To be a fool isn't hardwork, all you need do is to rationalize the irrational and then ask stupid questions on social media. Anu mpama

I noticed same too when I last visited awka. I hope it never caves in with people on or below it. God bless anambra

The way people apply common sense has clearly become shameful. Mr charly man, stop sitting on the fencen nobody stops gay people from what they do in the confines of their bedrooms, as so many of them abound, we just say clearly , keep ur weird love to urselves. Don't bring it to the public and force us and our children to aaccept it, don't bring it to our churches , don't shove it up our faces and call us unenlightened because we refuse to be enlightened enough to stop differentiating between a man and a woman.

It hasn't been proven that homosexuals or homo-tolerant are advanced beings, neither ddo we want to prove to you that you are freaks of nature, just keep your gay and gayisms to yourselves. Mr gay charly man.

If he is aware, then I praise you for being a brave woman, now ur enemies are toothless with that history. Women can learn from this. Your skeleton is news as long as it remains in tthe cupboard , away from those who shoulda known and accepted its existence. Peace

If only oh ye shepples fight for God while upholding his principles the way you all fight for your God of men, thhe world woulda been a better place. Even if a video or pictures of ye apostle is provided , all of you will still cry fake, fake. There is no smoke without fire. I will not judge his actions and call him guilty or not, neither will I vindicaate him of all accusations because he is a god of man. Because I am not a judge of this world. I will rather keep reading to see the end and the expected outcome of all parties involved. If reverend king still hs loyal followers , what can I say about a booty loving apostle

Evaberry:
...

please I'm really depressed right now

something just happened

and I'm crying
can Someone pls help me with encouraging words

I just feel like dying

pls don't mention god
thanks
.

why not look @ what's happening with you, objectively. Is there something you can do about it ? Have you tried doing that ?
Are you sure you have done everything you can to change or affect the situation ?

If you have done all that and there is nothing humanly you can do again, sit quietly and let it do it worst. You are stronger than what is bothering you. Be patient and endure when the pain goes, you will emerge stronger. God helps too. Say a prayer if you can.

poshestmina:
what exactly are you on about? Dat her death was OK because she 'cheated' ? oh please!

haba I never said her death is ok cos she cheated, I am not for criticizing reactions only but also must consider actions. I believe she cheated and as much as that's a bad common thing nowadays , I advised women to choose emotionally stable men before cheating on them. Clearly the man isn't mentally stable. And the reprecusions to follow this action of his , is proof to statement

Death is a visitor we can all expect to come one day, her journey has just begun, I wish her ijeoma. Rest in peace ajuwaya

Durentmoney:
no make me slap u oo. Stupid boi. U don ever see me dey fvck ur father anus?
Hold yrself well oo. No provoke me

gaybriel, we knoww ya. I don advise you finish, either you take it or go. And ***

Nwokem u don dey irritate me. Kip kwayet . Voltron the defender of women

Keep matching throttle , micheal schumacher, the way you peeps drive sef, imagine say no be better tire dey the motor sef, your lucky the car flew off the road and did softt landing. Dem for scrap ur meat from coal tar. Rubbish.

Isn't you dah gay man ? Wetin ya dey find bear bear for ? Stop dat "collecting" nd beards will grow naturally. Beards are for male men, not female men

Well I believe she truly double dated, what a LovePeddler (rip), I believe that immature nincompoop of her boyfriendd has ekpa for brains, to think killing her justifies his insecurities or dat the toto belongs to him alone sef. Thus aas he decided on her life span, he should join her painfully sooner rather than later.

All them cheating women, please don't show ur cheating ways with emotionally unstable freaks of nature called "some men" . Tenk

Tthe people in the north, start keeping vigil, every action could bring an equal and opposite reaction. Apologies and excuses are needed now more than ever to quell all greiviances. My two cents