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gawu1:
Which certainly is better comparatively. In muslim word no culture exists which ask their women to sleep with their dead husbands for certain period long and to drink water used in bathing their deceased husbands.
Neither do muslims throw out of house wives of their deceased relatives.
Corinthian 2 (3:55)
''and women must drink from water used in bathing deceased spouse before internment to prove her innocent''

oladoja1:
Deuteronomy 22:21
she shall be brought to the door of her father's house and there the men of her town shall stone her to death. She has done an outrageous thing in Israel by being promiscuous while still in her father's house. You must purge the evil from among you.

adonismuller:
a for akpa amu

swuftz:
I thought Balyesans are part of the futuristic land of Biafara. or am I mistaken?

LordOfNaira:
But the Bible supports raping and killing defenseless women. It supports dashing babies against rocks. Don't even bring the Bible into it because the Bible itself is a hater of women.

LordOfNaira:
But the Bible supports raping and killing defenseless women. It supports dashing babies against rocks. Don't even bring the Bible into it because the Bible itself is a hater of women.

adem30:
Why is everybody going against Igbos in this country, Even their acclaimed Brothers

LordOfNaira:
Not just the Quran. The Bible supports violence against women.

Fortunately, I don't believe in both books. I have always encouraged people to see relationship counsellors (not pastors) before getting married. It is not about the money but we see farther than you do!!!

LordOfNaira:
I won't beat my wife. I may not even have a wife. I am a therapist and I trust I have helped a lot of people.

LordOfNaira:
You are missing the point, my friend.

When you encourage a bad act, you are not helping that act. Nagging is bad, beating a woman is bad. That is my point. You cannot tell me that all cases of wife battery was initiated and carried out all by the man? Domestic violence will continue until we address the root of the problem. A nagging wife is abusive, a wife beater is abusive. Once you understand this, you will know that you are doing more harm than good by trying to correct just the man alone. Taking sides will not solve the problem. Even if the man becomes more patient, the problem of nagging will still persist and one day, the man will again beat his wife.

For instance, a man who used to beat his wife every time she as much as shout at him is talked to and he becomes calmer and the issue of the woman shouting at her husband is not resolved, the woman will only most of the time become encouraged to become even more daring. When you want to address an issue like this, don't overlook the fault of the wife. Saying stuffs like "no matter what a woman may have done... " is overlooking the fault of the woman and putting all the blames on the man.

LordOfNaira:
Your preaching is one-sided.

The Bible also talked about the frustration of living with a nagging wife. In one occasion, the Bible said it was better to live on the rooftop than with a troublesome woman.

If we all sincerely want an end to domestic violence, we must understand that domestic violence is not just physical. We must speak to both men and women. I am so angry that even you men are saying this trash. I am sure Freeze will understand my point as he has lived with a woman who abused him physically.

Some of you come here and say stuffs like "no matter what, a man shouldn't hit a woman". This idiotic statement is easier said than done when you have a killer for a wife. A woman who would batter your mother or send her into the rains without caring one bit.

My point is, we need to train not just men but also women against violence. Domestic violence is not just physical but verbal. You can't warn a man not to beat his wife and not warn the woman not to be rude or verbally abusive. There should be respect in the relationship. Respect is reciprocal. When you nag your man and he hits you, you don't need to play the victim's card. You were both guilty of domestic violence. Look at the new statistics coming out now about domestic violence against men. It will continue to rise until women start being held responsible for their acts as well. If the only way you can get your husband to do something is to abuse him or taunt him, then you are abusing him.

Men and women abuse one another. We must preach against it and not take sides. Taking sides will encourage women to become abusers. It is becoming obvious with the ratio of men to women in abusive relationships. Women are clearly becoming more abusive (even physically) because of the laws that encourage them.

ProsperOkec:
Wow the grace and anointing

Mariinee:
Could you show us the verse before that verse?
Why do you idiots enjoy portraying Islam in a bad light?
May Allah forgive you.

Aremuagan144:
receive brain dnt be an enemy of islam u r a boko haram in d making

Oches4me:
u are very stupid morale bankrupt to spread lies about islam

oswardic:
Your wives or girlfriend without any intention for marriage Just asking

Jiang:
looks like comprehension is a bit of problem for you, You are free to stop quoting me whenever you get tired

Jiang:
looks like comprehension is a bit of problem for you, You are free to stop quoting me whenever you get tired

Jiang:
so u admit, ur flat headed bros, are genuine fu#k boys

Jiang:
Pls lets stop ut5, the way you southern coppers IMPREGNATE women when you come here is quite alarming

sunnysunny69:
All mouth, naija will not devide.

Jiang:
so what of the northern coppers that gets thrown into ur mosquito laden jungles & land full of erossion to teach ur ignorant relatives in the VILLAGE. 90% of southern coppers choose redeployment to the southern states while the northern ones keep teaching ur village people for peanuts or nothing sometimes

CONFAMA:
She is surely a Yoruba lady because she doesn't have yam legs and hairy chests like the one below...

okochaik:
I know her. She is from Biafra Republic

AjoOfia1:
Buhari is a terrorist