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He wants us to join hand together when it comes to defending the nation. Why he is busy destroying it alone.

It is very difficult to comprehend our President whenever he is talking on national TV. How did he manage to convince the whole nation

If I'm skepta I will never date this cry cry adele.
Overused newspapers wey no wan marry

anthonyuncle:
continue with ur relationship.
in fact, on ur wedding day,
make that ur uncle chairman of da day.

Okay

Starboytwo:
If I'm your uncle I would disappear back to this Earth and sound you a very dirty slap...you did not even let his dead body to reach heaven in peace,you have started cheating on his boyfriend...this is heartless,haaaa people wicked gan ooo....
IN advance country like America, you can even be arrested for mansluagther self.Yes you can,since you are already loving your uncle's wife before he died.What manner of person is that,is that not a devil person?...

Please repent and ask her for forgiveness,go to your uncle's grave,kneel down and pray and also ask God for forgiveness so that your soul can be redeemed...

now I know why you are starboy2 instead of one.

;Dae

babyfaceafrica:
you deserve her...nansnense!!

babyfaceafrica:
someone saw your picture a d fell in love with you?... and you believe that?....is that how love works?....


the gal dated your married uncle and you are happy with that?...someone that can date a married man?



you have no shame...both you and the gal deserve each other

when she was dating my uncle, my uncle was not married then. So save your insults for other members of your family

Scam

anochuko01:
this one get as he be o. but if na me, i go first observe from far far before taking any step.

thanks . You have a valid point

flokii:
Like I said earlier, this is my own view. The choice is yours to make.

Okay I have heard what you already said and I'm giving it an honest consideration even though its not easy for me

MhizzAJ:
What is wrong with nairalanders.
They don't even get to read the story before commenting, that's why most of them are in failed relationships especially the guys.

The lady in question didn't date the dead uncle, she wasn't a girlfriend to the dead uncle.

You can go ahead and marry her sir, there's nothing wrong as long as you both understand and love each other , there are a lot of problems in this life already for one to be thinking whether or not to date his uncles former girlfriend, why didn't the uncle get married to her in the first place, some men can do anyhow.

You have a valid point. I know I love her even before she told me about her past with my uncle. And I don't think I would want her past to come between our future but I'm just confused if this my decision is right. My uncle will get know one day for sure but I'm not worried about that since I don't depend on him on the choice of who to marry

Easybela:
if u really know wat it means to settle down forever with a woman ,somebody u barely know would be ur last option,those who date for like 2 or more years b4 thinking of settling down ar no foolsif u think u wl be bold enough to introduce her to uncle as ur "wife or gf", go ahead.

right now I'm still dating her and have not revealed my plans for the future with her.

boxer022:
For me the fact that your uncle who you respect so much is cheating on his wife with another girl is bad on its own. Now to the issue at hand, if you love the girl in question, go ahead and date her; as for marriage, you need to do proper investigation to know if the family knows of his extra marital affairs and if not, for love sake go ahead and marry her.

You are right bro, I just want to date her first and maybe take my time to get to know her more. But so far so good she has been worth it.

flokii:
The lady in question saw the poster's picture on his uncle's phone without seeing him and fell in love..

Same way she'll see his friend or cousin's pictures and fall in love over again.. Why do you pple hate truth?

you have a point bro. So you suggest I should just 4get her and look for love elsewhere?

flokii:
you know what she will do to you?

She'll drain you emotionally, use you for her sexual satisfaction, show you off to your uncle (he'll get to know one way or another) to make him mad at you and then she'll drive you nuts to a point of regrets, depression and possibly suicide.

If you love yourself.. RUN!

My uncle already know. But you have a point bro.

flokii:
I feel she wants to use you to get back at that your uncle..

Please use your head so you won't end up in regrets.. #cheers!

I had same thoughts and feelings too.

Easybela:
I thought its only women dat jumps on d bed b4 a man says "hi", men do too

what happened to comprehension

SBL28:
She saw your picture and fell in love abi? Just like that? It sounds fishy o, shine your eyes.

been thinking the same here

badadvice:
Bro I dont see what the problem is here.
You find a girl, you like her and you find out she likes you too, so whats the issue.
I'll advise you go on with the relationship cos its not easy to find love or a lady who loves these days.
I dont know though.

Abi oh.

LiveByNight:
And there you have it.

The fact you don't know how to handle issues like this at your age is the problem

Grow up

thank you

dairykidd:
Its a free world and i am certain u already know what u intend to make out of everything no matter what ur told here.. Enjoy ur life the way it suits u. Its a one time experience

if I have already made up my mind on what to do, why should I be here to waste my time and yours, have you ever seen what you have been looking for in a dirt, would you abandon it because of the circumstances that brought it to the dirt?

LiveByNight:
Why is it hard for people handle issues maturely

what should I do here? If I had known the way to handle it, I wouldn't have wasted my time to type all this epistles

dairykidd:
Would you be kind enough to define the term love in this context.. i'm not getting how u fall in love with someone u don't even know and secondly how would u even feel comfortable yanshing ur dead uncle's ex? u sound like a novice and u will soon learn about women the hard way if u don't listen o advice. OYO

What value will be to you if you allow me to go through what you went through. I posted this problem of mine here because I don't want to make any mistakes. She is not my dead uncle's girlfriend. My uncle that dated her is still alive and I have strong affection for this girl.

LiveByNight:
I am tired of reading so stories here

Grow up and handle your own issues like adults

Everyone has issues!!! If everyone posted their problems here every single thread of from page would be made by someone seeking advise and what do you think would happen to nairaland?

Bros grow up

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why is hard for people to read and understand?

Kusherman:
Na so e dey easy to love faa? Me I wouldn't date her, maybe if the said uncle was still alive and as you guys were close you would have spoken to him and he gives the go ahead then fine. But we're different ppl, so las las do what you want

she is not my dead uncles girlfriend. She is the former girlfriend of my uncle who is still alive

Warning !!!

Please I want only honest and reasonable opinions, please if you dont have nothing reasonable to say just skip this thread. I don't want insults please.

Here is how my story started. It is a very short story but very confusing to me. I lost my uncle just two months ago, he was my best friend and we grew up together. I was so touched by his death that I decided to post a picture of me and him together on Facebook, I tagged some of our family members including one of another uncle whom I respect so much. Comments were coming in especially from my friends and family and from their friends also. few weeks after the burial of my uncle and my friend, almost when i have forgotten about his death I saw one comment from one pretty girl. I have never met this girl before and I have never seen her all my life. She was so pretty that I had instant crush on her so I decided to send her a friend request. she accepted and I decided to run some games on her. I tried to open her up as a stranget But something strange happened

The girl in question was madly in love with me already, she started asking me out and I was so surprised. I asked her to be my friend and she she said she was already my friend before i met her that she only wants to be my lover. I was like, this girl are you sure you are real, how can a pretty girl like you be so in love with me despite the fact that you have never seen me before. When I said this she said something that SHOCKED me.

She told me that she has already known me for a very long time through my uncle whom I respect so much. She told me that she was my uncle's former girlfriend and I was the reason why she broke up with my uncle because she loved me right from the day that she saw my photo on my uncles phone. She told me all her encounter with my uncle and am the only person who she loves and she really wants to settle down with me. She told me that she has been trying to find a way to reach me but all proved abortive not until she saw my post on Facebook which I tagged my uncle. She told me that her only fears was her past coming between us. But without her past I wouldn't have met her.

Actually I'm planning to settle down next year and I don't actually have a girlfriend. So fellow nairalanders is it wise for me to date or marry my uncles former girlfriend. One thing I'm certain about is that I didn't love her because she was pretty but because she has all that I seek in a woman. She is my spec and she has all that I want in a woman.

Note
She is not the girlfriend of my dead uncle, she is the girlfriend of my uncle who is still alive whom I respect so much. My uncle is now married

Next story will be "success stepmother spotted in a market square"

;DScience students.

Buhari is still doing campaign...

What if atiku is buhari and everything is mind game? What if atiku is the cabal. Just asking

GoTV:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, i think the Federal government should ban television and hip hop music in Nigeria. This useless mediums are responsible for the spread of devilish dances like shaku shaku and zanku. We are not yet matured for TV and useless music in this country. The government should focus more on how to curb the vices in our society so that we can all make heaven.

okay speak for your self. That you are a born again Christian doesn't mean you should be selfish. What makes zanku and shaku shaku devilish?