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Ifyjos:
Now I have confirmed that you are nothing but a jobless hopeless fool , all your life u will be saving stupid meme on your phone and insulting people while others are progressing in life so continue don’t be tired

you are here by declared one of the people progressing ONLY in prick business. Weldone and congrats on your endeavors you are one of a kind loving prick above your own life.
Hahahahaha.

The last two pages are just so funny.
The ifyjos struggling to convince people she is having a great time with her lowlife prick alone is rib cracking.

calling other people she knows nothing about beggars is not a surprise because judging from all she keeps repeating she only knows that type of life which is predominant in the place where she was raised and is part of the reason why she thinks everyone leads a beggarly low life like her aside from her shortsightedness

living from hand to mouth is the life she has settled for and wants to give her daughter, that’s why she is fighting for the child to join them in the shanty they are squatting in with other thugs, very soon she would start hawking things for her parents to feed.

She would soon inculcate in the little girl waywardness, sex(since she would be watching it live as her parents would be doing it like dogs on the street) disrespect, violence, witchcraft, contentment with backwardness, from all she has been writing you know she has no good morals to give. She is like a 512 memory she maybe 21 but she sure has the brain of an unruly 7year old.

This type of girls it’s only time that can teach them
I hope it won’t be too late.

Ginaruby:
This is no play and I mean every word I type...
She had a baby because she decided to keep it... So many persons throwing stones here have had more than 5 abortion's...

But the society sees who ever keeps hers as a wayward human... I don't see them as such...

She made her mistakes and such mistake should not be rubbed on her face continuously get that...

Genevieve Nnaji had her daughter at same age and Is doing better than a lot of people...

Her family, her mother should have taken custody of the child while she continue with her education but no they want her to carter for the child with her jobless boyfriend and keep insulting them...

They are lucky I am not a member of that family... What nonsense...

Ignoring her future isn't enough, that they had to always insult her...

Her sister deserve exactly what she got...

see your life?
You would have killed everything body in the family na abi chairman of anger.
They would have taken custody? did you not read that it’s the sister that is the bread winner of the family?
The girl made her choice and if she was repentant and saw what she did as a mistake she would have been better than where she is now by trying hard to fix it rather than plot evil and pride herself in premarital sex.
You make reference to Genevive did she stay back to defend her mistake at the detriment of her family? Did she not go back to school forgetting about jobless pricks with dirty crowns?
In life you help people who want to be helped, if she really wanted to better herself from the moment she made that mistake she would have her family would have saw to it, her sister would have helped her In Fact she made reference to a cousin the sister is currently setting up a biz for.
Oga talk with wisdom settle down analyze things first before you jump.

Jayae:
U're welcome. Don't worry about your mum, she'll surely come around. As for her trying to send ur daughter to ur brother in Lagos, I don't support that because u can never tell how they'll treat her there, so u have to act quickly, Sunday is too far, go on a weekday when u're sure she's the only one at home and apologize, even if she tries to chase u out, maintain ur stance and beg, she can do anything to you but she'll never kill u.
As for ur bf, don't tell him that u've confessed to ur family, he might get really angry and may kick u out(guys can be really unpredictable), just stylishly tell him that u're considering telling the truth to ur family and know what his reaction will be. If he gets really angry, just know that its not yet time to tell him, so just concentrate on your family forgiving you first before u even consider telling him

guys can be unpredictable? Are you serious?
So she should stay with some man that is unpredictable? Some unstable man with a flawed character?

Is that the advice you give to your 21 year old sister as a man? Keep indulging her o.
Unpredictable Adviser of the century

It seems you are afraid of this your guy, he may throw you out or stop loving you if he finds out that you are trying to make amends and peace with your sister, I know that’s your number one fear right now.Thats totally unhealthy for true genuine love expels fear.

Tell him and see how he reacts atleast you can confirm the love you believe he has for you and prove all naysayers wrong, most importantly so that this amendment mission with your family would be more genuine, easy and who knows your family may give you two their blessings while forgiving you.

Ginaruby:
Now we are on same page...
I am not in support of her actions in any way but fair verdict needs to be served...

Something lead to something that lead to the stage of the OP family, while judging u don't just cut from up you cut at all angles...

I try to put my self in the shoes of all the parties involved to be able to know how I will react in each...

Our people say after blaming the person that killed the dead you also blame the dead for prompting what caused it's death...

I hope you learn one thing out of this argument...
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Nigerians judge so much with emotions and not logically...
Next time her sister will mind her business...

N/B I have been following this thread from day one...

” you also blame the dead for prompting what caused it's death” I have nothing more to say to you after reading this. Maybe when you experience this story from the sisters position you will learn a thing or two about life.

Ginaruby:
I have seen how irresponsible toad's react for the first time in my life... Thanks for coming through...

Your view about life must not be same as everyone at all time so learn to respect other peoples view if you intend to have a happy relationship with people...

Learn to always present your arguments without insulting people...

sorry I called you a toad Oga. But I can imagine your own relationships with people when you strongly supported a vengeful act after reading what the op had posted. I’m surprised you talk about respect to be honest, if you have gone through all 36 pages of this s thread you would have made a saner comment than instigate the lady to more violence against her family. And yes people view of life are different that’s why we have people who act more responsible than others.

Ginaruby:
Didn't you read that it was a continuous lash each time she sees the both of them... Who does that? That was way too much... When a man is pushed to the wall for so long the reaction is disastrous...

She got exactly what she wanted...
Make she taste that side of life too...

you are very irresponsible for supporting this.
Irresponsible toad.

Ifyjos:
I’m squatting with my guy and his friends. I do have uncles ( my mum brothers) they are not the the type of person who like to make peace because they will add more fuel to the problem. I deserved everything for my bad actions , I’m deeply sorry for hurting my sister and they all hate me but right now all I want is my daughter

it will pass it needs time. But you have to stay true to been repentant and becoming a better person one people would remember only for good, a great mum and influence for your child. Now that uncles or close relatives are not an option, you could meet your spiritual leader in church to help you or someone elderly that can go with you.

BRATISLAVA:
The only person who can go with her to apologise is the one who stole her childhood, that she calls "crown". He's a "good guy". If they want the child he knows how to fight for it. She can sit on them and hold down their hands while he gives them "respectful beatings" and collects the child.

She still maintains that her sister isn't fertile(how does she know this? A lot of things she's not saying that she did), is still bitterly jealous of her (great jealousy and hatred), she probably said all those things to her, has probably not apologized for beating her elder sister with her man(she's still justifying it). The remorse isn't real. It's just the fear of being homeless(a fact she keeps repeating, ironic). But the good news is that she's now with her *good guy". The one who looked lustfully at a 14 year old. The one who she idolized above her sister who truly loved her.
We should be kept informed on what's going to happen to all the love she used as a reason to be unkind to her sister, now that they will actually live together. All the warts will show. Very immature to claim he loves her when she had never lived together with him before. Now they will be in close quarters, what "love" it shall be, and he will have to face up to what her sister and parents were doing that they both never appreciated. "Love". "Maturity".
35 pages of advice, hopefully she has truly repented never to do evil again. But can the leopard change it's spots? She fears they will do evil to her child because she would do evil in their position. She should be happy nobody is smoking and doing drugs around the child.

Her elder sister will rise and return bigger and better than before. It's a pity her trial was from the enemy within.

Theres so much sense in all you have said
I hope she learns this time. I hope she comes to realize that family is everything and the love stories on zeeworld and Africa magic are not real but illusions.
I hope she really turns a new leaf. Life is too short to be vengeful.
From all this I’m sure she would be experiencing new situations that would open her eyes to the many truths that some Nairalanders have shared here.

Ifyjos:
Sorry guys I haven’t been able to come online to give feedback because things are not looking good at the moment , my sister came to found the truth like I sent her on WhatsApp , she sent me a long voice message she was very angry crying and cursing me even myself I was in tears by the time I wanted to reply her , telling her how sorry I was from my heart she blocked me and I tried calling her number it wasn’t going through, just next minutes my brother from Lagos called cursing me he didn’t even give me the chance of explaining or to ask for forgiveness , he ended the call and my other brother called to same thing with curse that nothing will be well with and when mum called that was when I knew my life ended my mum said lots of thinks to me that she even regrets given birth to me and she told me not to step my footsteps in the house or I will regret, I cried begging my mum to please forgive me I didn’t not mean but she didn’t listen and told me my daughter will be staying with them. My whole family disown me, I haven’t been able to go home yesterday , I know i deserve all this but it broke my heart I won’t see my daughter , I can’t bear to live without my child I’m just no myself , my heart is bleeding I’m crying . I know they all have the right to hate me because I deserve to be hated but why are they keeping my daughter with them? My daughter won’t be in peace in that house because they will make her pay for my sins and my child doesn’t deserve this . Please someone help me to atleast get my daughter back from them

do you have an uncle or aunt there in Ph? If yes go to them this time you must be truly remorseful ready to make amends go to either of them and beg them to go with you to apologize to your family it is very necessary.
Where are you staying currently?

Ifyjos:
No I didn’t go to his office again because He won’t even want to see me and That would be a waste of time and transport. But before I left the house this morning , I did recorded some voices videos narrating what I did and sent them to my sister WhatsApp, so far she hasn’t seen it yet because it’s only showing one tick and her last seen on WhatsApp was yesterday 8.19pm so I’m just here waiting to see what will happen when she listen to those voices I sent her. I’m scared and my mind is telling me because she hasn’t seen them yet I should deleted but I don’t know if I should or not

this is one step in the right direction.
Make up your mind to bare whatever comes. Beg for her forgiveness that the only way you can ever be free, even if the relationship never works out between them.

Hestywhyt:
Ifeoma Joseph...weldone

so the troll has been identified.

Ifyjos:
I was 14 and very matured , i almost 21 in March . It’s not a pedophile because age it’s just a number, if it was a pedophile why he is not in prison then? You can say whatever you like about him , am not bothered because I still love him and your words is making me loving even more. I can sense jealousy because u don’t even have a guy in your life and konji and ulcer has been killing you that’s why you are talking rubbish

hahahahaha you have been a mature goat good for isewu and nkwobi not even good enough for sacrifice. Useless toad it’s only sex you know. Sex kee you there.
When that agbero carwasher start beating you make sure start another thread to share it o. Silly Olodo.

sassysure:
Close your mouth, u uncouth gal.
Learn good manners.


I'm sure this is how u run your mouth at home.

If your sis happens to come here, we won't be shocked at what she will say about you.

Genevieve nnaji gave birth at a very tender age like you but where is she now?
She dusted herself up and moved on to carve a successful life for herself.
She didn't wallow in self pity. Her family was hard on her.
Send her to the east when everybody was living in Lagos to finish school.
Look at her.
Lots of people talking to you here have seen so many people who ended badly because of mishap like yours but refused to listen to words of reason.

Also let me tell you, some of the people u seem so eager to insult here are people who can actually set u up had u had a remorseful and repentant heart.
This is a secret but not so secret forum.

Lots of people have had their lives turned around here cos of their attitudes.
So don't ever think that everybody here are like you.
Some are looking for who to train in handiwork, start business for or train in school.
Some are even old enough to be your parent.
Haven't life thought you any lesson at all.
Almost 30 something pages and u are still here doing what?

Girl, u are so unwise.
U missed lots of opportunities honestly.

atleast she is not a goat for nothing.she still knows how to chase good away from her self with her disgusting attitude.
She thinks life is all about having sex with agberos, producing a child they can’t take care of, passing their responsibilities to others,ganging to kill the person if they don’t accept.

midnighter:
Can the mods please close down this thread? I dont think she should talk anymore, it's just so terrible to read.

This person cant be a real human, maybe they grew her inside the lab as part of an experiment

she is even threatening me o. She may have killed before to have that kind of audacity.

Ifyjos:
yes thank God u are not my sister because u cannot be one too or else I would have ............. long time ago , I know your type u talk rubbish behind the screen but in my presence I know u wouldn’t even dare say a thing , I pity u .

i said it your are supposed to be in a mental institution you are dangerous to a sane society and to think that a child is in close proximity to this your psychiatric condition is disturbing.

Btw you would have what? Hahahahaha you never see madness naim make you still no get sense. You’re lucky sha.

Ifyjos:
She doesn’t need your stupid wish and keep it to yourself , I have never live a wayward life , I have been with my guy ( my crown) for almost 7 years now and he is the only man in my life and by God grace we will grow old together. So I don’t care about what you think because it doesn’t affect me at all

let me leave this one for other Nairalanders to hammer you.

Ifyjos:
I’m not disgusting but I’m only responding to you because you are very judgemental and u have pride and ego , so u think because your sisters / brothers are under your feet so u can treat them anyhow and do u think me I will tolerate your rubbish talk? Hell no , go and preach it to your younger ones and not me because I’m thinking about how to resolve this my problem and you are here insulting me? I don’t even care about the insult and please don’t be tired , continue

the next thing you want to do now is to tell that you agbero to come and fight me sad thing I’m not your sister and God forbid I have your type in my community i know it’s your small work to gang and destroy people.
You will soon snap again please don’t take it out in your sister at home o, she has suffered enough you hear unwa jezebel

Ifyjos:
Hahahahha do you know what ? My daughter will be greater than me , everywhere that I have failed she will succeed in her life , she is a future doctor so don’t mess with my child and everything that u have said about her will go back to your children . It’s your children that will be useless in life and nobody will favour them

for her sake I wish her the very best that I know you can never provide. I pray God helps her out of your waywardness so that she can see clearly and make the right decisions for herself as you have failed to do and are stil failing so that she can achieve her dreams and goals. But if it were left for you you know nothing to teach her that sex and puppy love with meat sellers and carwashers
Ewu Hausa.

Ifyjos:
Yes I can see that you are barren and looking for a child to steal , I’m sorry my child is not for sale, u can go to a motherless home and adopt one while u are waiting for a widower that will pity and marry u

that your child you had with an agbero? Hahahahaha I would rather pass abeg.
The one that you had having sex on the bare floor outside at night with a carwasher?
You are truly sick. You need help

Ifyjos:
So do u think confessing is something easy to do right ? I don’t know even have the strength to face her And narrate everything We did to her , don’t even know where to start from and u are talking like that because u are not in my shoes because if you were in my shoes then you would know how it feels. I did it out of anger and that time I had no remorse but now I feel remorse and regret it but don’t know how to go about it, I said I will do it this evening but anytime I want to open up my heart is beating faster and I’m thinking how the whole family will gang up and beat me then throw me out of the house. It’s not easy for me

having sex at 14, ganging up to beat your sister with an illiterate idiotic troll and plotting to destroy her life and executing it in a heartbeat is easy to do na.
You think you are doing your sister a favor by making amends and fixing this mess you have created, you don’t know it’s for your own good that of your child.
If you were remorseful you won’t have that disgusting tone you have in all your responses.

Ifyjos:
Why take pandol for someone else headache ?

and you think it’s your headache? That dustbin you have for a head that is not useful?
I wonder how you would raise that you innocent child with this you level of dullness you would probably teach her how to start having sex from childhood from age 10 since you’re so daft and maybe you would also want to take pride in becoming a grand ma by 26 as sense is far from you
That child should be taken from you because you have no moral standards to raise her.

I want her sister to find out some how so she can know and see her for who she really is.an unrepentant evil little girl that would never grow up.
So she can be careful and get protection from her and the agbero( sorry her guy)
With this her mental ailment she may snap again and this time maybe pour her the acid she wanted to initially.

sassysure:
I actually said I won't comment on this useless thread but here I am

I read most of the posts here but u all fail to tell that girl the truth which is,
Her sister will eventually know what happened whether she tell or not.
Again, her boyfriend will use that to blackmail when the going gets rough.

If he can happily gang up with her to beat her sis, time will come when he will openly tell her she is indeed wicked and he dey fear her if she can betray her sis like that. Even though the guy is a typical bad boy, he will still crave for a woman that has soft heart which this babe don't have. So he is searching. U spend your lifetime with somebody that motivates and challenges u.
A guy that loves u will endure crap from your people and prove them wrong. But here he is, beating her sis up and with her consent. How free is she?
He now know she has nobody and one day, will beat the hell out of her. He can also use that to emotionally blackmail her. Guy is yet to upgrade but when he does, he will look for somebody that is on the same pedestal with him which she obviously isn't.
She has not positively affected his life nor him so they are disaster waiting to happen and by the time he drops her like hot iron, no family will be there to pick her up.

Everybody gets tired of sex, she will and reality will set in.

As for the sis, if I'm her, I will completely erase her from my memory when I know what she did.
Can't even share the same air space with her.

most people posting here have told her exactly that and more but is she sensible enough to use any good advice? She even said she hasn’t seen any advice to pick from in this entire 33 pages of her evil story ,This one that sex and dirty puppy love has clouded her reasoning abi is it that her head that is full of coconut water and sawdust only good for plotting evil and bringing shame to her family?
This type of people should be in mental institutions she is a danger to her family as it is already.

midnighter:
With the kind of psychotic derangement she has posted here in the name of "reply", she should never ever in her life think of revealing her location to anybody here.

She is not smart enough to differentiate dishonest persons from genuine ones, which is even why she is in her current mess.

Anyway, meeting with her will be an utter waste of time; she will only succeed in dragging you into her agbero lifestyle and maybe get you beaten up join.

I predicted that by the time the thread reached 32 pages she would still be here repeating the same insanity from 10 pages ago...now look at it

I will confess this evening, I will confess tomorrow morning, I will confess yesterday night, until the day of Judgement hahaha

hahahahahaha you have said it all. the agbero part cracked me

midnighter:
You mean you want her to tell you where she is so you people can beat her very well?

Ify no try am ooo!

hahahahahaha asin ehn but the mumu wey she be she go fit send am.

Ifyjos:
Yes u are right butconfessing to her will make everyone hating me , and they will all forget all the bad things she has done to me and I know for sure my parents will throw me out of the house which it is not fair on me and my child. Anyway I will try this evening but am scared , don’t even know how to start

thats how you keep procrastinating now your are thinking twice before you make amends when you destroyed someone else in a heart beat without a thought you did it to her with you useless boyfriend.i pity you and that idiot.

Ifyjos:
Its you that’s wicked see for the fact that you have been insulting me since I started my thread , it show that you are heartless evil soul and U have no peace and go and take your frustration somewhere else , u r taking as if u have a man in ur life and who will want to marry a heartless thing like u? Well all I know is my guy loves me a lot and we will get married . U old cargo keep waiting for a widower to marry you and that will be your sisters portion too not mine. I have a big God he can never failed me

you deserve more than insults you deserve all and more of the pain you have put your sister through and you will get it you cursed toad.
See how short sighted you are your life begins and ends in marriage it’s no surprise you opened your two left legs for an NAF because you are one. You better do what is right quickly before it is too late
It is your kind that can kill their own blood for complete strangers because your kind lack fret matter and a brain.
You keep calling God and claiming breaking limits with this you wicked heart I hope you break all the limits to all the poverty you are so tirelessly working towards.
You are just so repulsive kai.
Only a person with strength can endure you.
You think that your yeye boyfriend loves you? Start leaving together then you will understand that marriage is not all about sex but more than people like you can ever understand because of your daftness.
If you really are remorseful which is a far cry from what you have displayed here in your responses you won’t be fighting people trying to advice you and obviously irritated by this atrocious act of yours

[quote author=izzygoing post=85672390][/quote]you think she wants to fix this she is very happy about it
She won’t reach out to you don’t even bother.
She is just an evil sad little toad that is envious and bitter that she destroyed her life and her sister is better than her.

Ifyjos:
Well it is not the end of the world because everything is possible with God she can still get married even at 50 and that’s not a problem. I wasn’t jealous of her because I’m only 20 soon to be 21 I can still achieved my goals and be greater than her.

your heart is wicked for saying this there is no peace for the wicked. That your stupid boyfriend will not marry you In fact you will wait till you are 60 before you see a shoeshiner widower that will pity you and marry you then you will know that the seed you sow can germinate and you must reap.
Imagine saying she can still marry even at 50
I felt like cursing you when I saw that but you have cursed your self already.

Gloriagee:
You are very wicked and jealous. Look at how happy you are that she's not working while wishing her fertility issues. Your sis will rise again and what doesn't kill her will make her stronger. Breaking limits on top wickedness abi....continue

na breaking limits into her untold hardship