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RisenJoe:
Let me put it this way,

A young man had a qurrel with his old man and out of anoyance he beats his Dad and now the Father laid a curse on him that his kids will beat him(the young man) the same way he dealt with his Dad.

Now the young man grew old and one day he had an issue with his son and his son beat him up the same way he did his own Dad due to the curse laid on him by his Dad. And he in turn might have forgotten about the curse his father laid on him, now my question is what happens if he in turn lays a curse on his own son?

Will the curse come to pass knowing very well that his own son dealt with him the same way he dealt with his own Dad?

Pls I need contributions and opinions on this.

There are natural laws to deal with him regardless of the curse laid on him and for his sin if not corrected a pattern will be created and a spirit with ensure the pattern is maintained, is not yet a generational problem but most likely will be because the son that beat the old man that beat up his Dad is not yet in know what happened, the Dad need to open up and address the issue once and for all

Forgive the son and set him free from the curse laid on him if not this will travel down to 4th generation and if not check definitely will be a generational Problem

tsdarkside:
or loot nigeria dry....

they cant even manage south east region,na gra gra nigeria they wan manage....??

Lol why do you say that ! I’m from Edo but I tell an Igbo President will change lots of narratives for the nation, look those guys a highly productive, one thing is for sure Nigeria will be industrialized it’s in them period. We have lived in self deception for ages, some foreign set have seized power for years and have ruined the economy of this nation yet the point fingers against the very ones bringing value to the nation.

As a BDC operator back in the days, one man in the North will own over 35 licenses, while in east you’re not permitted to own more than one yet they turn that one to multi-million Naira company...

The west, has done so far tremendously okay in bringing education and raising the standard for others

The south have maintained a strong cultural heritage which brings and reminds the nation that our history transcend the lies given to us in secondary school (Clifford, McPherson constitution bra bra bra) cos without history a people is lost and completely confused. Some foreign set that mixed the Core Northerner are bend on wiping away our history

Why do we fight ourselves and the real enemies is busy having a free cruise � and messing with our common wealth. See whenever then Pro Osibanjo was allowed to preside over the nation at the absence of the “President” see how the nation calms, exchange rate normalizes and tension seizes and but look at the nation now with all the borrowing ? How come Islamic Bank is so rich �? Yet no form of check and balances is permit


Let he that have ears here... we can keep on fighting ourselves or come together to reclaim our land. Yoruba Is Not your Problem, Igbo is Not your problem, Middle Belt is not your problem. No son of the soil will harm the soil he came from only slaves and foreigners do harm the Soil

BryanZino:
I know 8 months is a lot but I've stayed there 8 years and never owed and I haven't been able to gather the bulk to pay right now but I don't think he's at liberty to break and enter and select what he can keep for himself

Your landlord is wrong �, you know he doesn’t have right to break into your home, if he has sent a quit notice through his lawyer then you will be given max duration of 6months from the day the quit notice was issued

Gather yourself together, don’t worry, call your number and put it on record to repeat what he told that happened have that as an evidence, tell your brother or relative not touch anything

Whatever your property is worth he’s going to pay in full... if sincerely you don’t have the money to pay now, then is okay but you have to come back to make payment you can pay from anywhere... just do the needful

Don’t banter words with him, since he lied that he knows nothing about that, let the Law do the job. Any good lawyer can nail this easily

orohbiro:
You are heartless as u come shop her 200 naira how body come do u . I blame d girl for not been smart

So it’s good for a girl to chop a man’s money with her own format but it’s not good for a man to chop a girls money with his own format

You girls are selfish bunch of people, she wanted to scam him one month sub over 1500-3500 depending but got scammed of 200naira you’re complaining

It’s good for her next time she will go to her boyfriend or parents to ask for help �

This isn’t right lol
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This gender Kai [color=#990000][/color]

First off you must understand that two wrongs don’t make right

Secondly, you must understand in the first 3 to 5years is your discovery year, what are you discovering
1. Your differences: this is not what you can change, you’re not discovering to change the person, but to figure how best to live with the person, if your spouse wants to change it will be based on his decision, this doesn’t include character flaws like cheating, lying and flirting, don’t say this is how you’re so go about lying and cheating, no no no please, I mean things like I like my room lights on while sleeping, I love playing video games, I want my bed made up immediately we wake up kinda stuffs, this can really course husband and wife to fight �

You need to confront him, and talk to him about it, learn to have conversations with him without fighting, respect his opinion you mustn’t agree but know his the head of the home as long as his decisions are godly given two options always drop yours make him feel like a king and watch him treat like a queen you’re. Don’t challenge him but respectfully disagree. You’re there for the wrong motives change your motive, you can’t be there because you’re not independent yet, that’s a terrible mindset, you think your ex will be different when you marry him, he already had a broken marriage, he wants to add you to that least and he certainly doesn’t love you but probably using you to heal from his brokenness, you thinking you’re healing no you’re not my dear you’re only covering a wound, you must confront your husband respectfully, win his heart again if you want to leave, please do as long as you’re sure he cheated. Mind you,
You’re already cheating waiting for the day the real action will take place so you’re as guilty as him...

I don’t know you nor your husband, the Devil you know is better, most marriage face the most difficult times during the first 3 to 5years don’t be deceived, find out who your husband is learn to love, don’t be selfish, engage him more, drop your own needs, nobody will tell a man about his wife’s need, you will be shocked what he will start doing for you, those things you’re fighting for he will give them and more to you, go about them like a queen you’re not a nag or tiger, I’m not saying you’re one. It’s not easy don’t let your issue degenerate to violence cos finding healing from your ex is toxic and dangerous to you, nothing good will come out of it. You will only live in regret. Avoid this now build your home. Cherish your husband, you don’t want to be divorced my dear

Cheers �

SifonAbasi:
When I met my husband my ex was oversea. He came back after my wedding so nothing like double dating. To my knowlege, he doesn't have a fiacee yet. He's not in a relationship.

How did you know all these informations about him, clearly you've been having some "Decent" intimate conversation outside work you shouldn't be involved in whatsoever...

My dear you've made that mistake but you can correct it now, don't entertain a man that's not your husband inside alone, leave the people telling you is nothing, they wouldn't tell you the battles and struggles they face inside and how many times they misbehaved but because they're not caught they say it's nothing but you and I know, each time spent with him creates a bond, guess what, even if you're quarreling, arguing or having normally innocent conversation, bond is created. Now tell me why would you want to create a bond with a man who is not your husband, my dear you don't need that kind of confusion and emotional turture.

Save Yourself and save your marriage
KICK the Guy Out nobody will do it for you, your husband will not do it for you, he expects you to respect him enough to do it yourself... He's watching and observing from a distance, men are Logical Beings.

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jaxxy:
Probably I missed that part. I responded based on the info I read sofar bt if her ex still habours any ulterior motives then he must be a lunatic bt I don’t think that’s the situation yet.

Then I ask why also is the husband being so nice to her ex? What cud be his reasons? because he’s the one responsible for all this frnds associations.

Any man that visit a woman has an end in man to sleep with her PERIOD.

No man flexes with any lady he's has not slept or imagined sleeping with, you've no business looking for exclusivity with someone's wife or any woman you don't have interest in...

You want to chat with a friend look for a single woman, you don't have fine one and build your relationship with the person.

The Lady as much as the guy know the relationship is not healthy why play around with it, the guy knows he can get the lady just a matter of time the Lady knows that already why waiting till it happens, it's good you share your experience here to get help but beyond this add action, you already know what to do, STOP thinking of how to do it, JUST do it. KICK HIM OUT

Honestly i fault your orientation, first you don't need to be polite about it, when someone is trying to ruin your destiny for you, you're thinking about humour?? You've no idea, until the yawa go gas, don't think your husband is not aware, that's he's quiet and acting cool doesn't make him less human... You will be shocked to your toes when he catches you in action with the man. Kick him out now, he is clearly there to ruin your marriage don't be polite about it. Save your yourself and your marriage.

If you tell us the truth, you will see that there's already some form of reaching and crossing of boundaries, see old flames easily catch fire �
Let's not deceive ourselves

You can't be taking such risk being with a man that have slept with you before alone in a house?? He's feeling welcomes that's why he's coming back, beyond your words add action, don't open your door let him go back and come back when your husband is back, when he's treated like this twice that tiny demon will leave him...

Kick him out and keep him out

1. He loves and cares about u
2. U must understand that fact
3. If u leave, u may not see a guy so committed as he is, do u keep leaving?
Now my dear, for u to have been a relationship this long with him, u fought for him before ur family members n won their heart to accepting him, to the extent they have come to love him so much, ah ah something must have made u do it, what happened that thing, u once loved and embraced him d way his is n now he is choking u? Come on, it only means the young man is taking u more seriously, for the constant choking every guy will, wants they get serious with u, some will notice it like u, but some will not because of the degree of loyalty they ve built for their Man, u see, that moment will only last depending on how u handle it, for instance he is checking ur phone and all allow him, since u ve nothing to hide unless u do, he will get tired as soon as he gets Wat he is looking for, which is, can I TRUST this girl, is SHE really mine(loyalty) do I have contenders? Every guy that truly Loves u n wants to spend the rest of his live with u, definitely continously or uncontiously will have to ans these questions in his heart before he...Pls don't give him another fight, that only is enough fight for him make him win faster, don't nag him, don't complain, flow with it n sooner or later u will be the demanding for those attention, it will only last n cud cause u that relationship if u keep fighting, nagging, complaining, treating him like there something special he not doing or that he is choking u...

My dear, maybe u shud pause n think again, every man needs 3things
PEACE
RESPECT
LOYALTY
Let him find that peace again, flash that critical Torch again inward, u will see wia u ve missed it, in making him feel he is not the only King...
Wish u well My Dear

Pls grow up, know wia ur problem is coming n don't fight the solution

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mrkayusfit:
[size=[s]11pt] Laughing at the gullibility of their poor followers. Perhaps another private jet is one the way to add to their fleet. They enjoy the luxury of life and tell their followers to seek the kingdom of God first. Preaching the same hopeful message every Sunday while nothing changes in the lives of the followers but pastor's account keeps growing fat. The same biblical scammer that prophesied that gate of hell will open on people who vote buhari. A man who should be in prison for openly slapping and assaulting a young woman. He has suddenly become dumb make EFCC no reason him matter for the 7billion naira prayer money wey GEJ dole out to them.
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SHUT UP
How much do u burn in club every weekend, that adds nothing to u rather takes u 2 steps to ur grave, how much do u spend on shows that gets ur life more miserable, from there the Artists re paid for polluting the mind of young youths with the junks the vomit in the name of punch lines... some of them own jets, u don't c anything wrong with that but u see something wrong with a Pastor changing lives positively to own one. I know u don't study ur Bible but is ok, u still need to work on urself (mind especially)
By d way I don't go to winners, incase u don't know.


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mrkayusfit:
By now the Tanks and bomber jets should have been deployed in full force to the entire Niger delta cos it seems the Indigenes are sympathetic to the scAvengers. Bombing of our oil facilities is a treasonable act that must be considered an act of war against Nigeria. Many states cannot pay salaries and people are dying of hunger because of the actions of these few vagabonds crippling our God given oil wealth. The federal government should not negotiate with them but instead warn innocent people to vacate the region so full military might can be deployed to wipe out the terrorists.

The oil is our collective wealth and no group of people can hold us to ransom. We once fed the whole country with cocoa and groundnut pyramid money and no youth from those regions formed militancy. A word is enough for the wise . Really, ur mind is this big? Hmmmm nawaoo all these Hauda-Fulani boys, na so three enter bus pay 50# for trip of 100# each yet refused to come down... well it runs in them, to always take by force with doesn't belong to them n claim rights

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