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anyways my own summary is dis, I always advise guys if u working date a working class not a broke girl and definitely not a student. and ensure both of u spend money on each oda., not one way

Shugavee:
yes he shouldn’t!!

wow u are d kind of lady dat will abandon her husband if things go bad

chiommy123:
we will not take you for granted oh. women are not like that. but you funny

have been a victim of dis oo. an all I did was DAT I was just a good guy and yet she messed me up

fancy4eve:
and wen a lady demands for little of dis, u will all tag her a gold digger, but now it is good for men. God is watching

a lady dat does dis I will definitely spend on her till my last cent so will any real man

ubunja ubunja happy bday bro. may u continue to open our brain for us. d wise man. more wisdom to u

wit d rate ladies are after rich guys, d funny thing take Nigeria for example 90percent of men even the ones dat are made still believe they are hustling. so if the men now decide dat it is wen they have enuf money they will marry, most of our ladies no go see husband becos even someone earning 6figures will tell his friend he is still hustling

a true lady wud support her man thru thick and thin even if he is broke as long as he ain't lazy and a real man will work his ass out to make it. I will say it a again. money doesn't make a relationship or marriage work cos if it does no rich couple will divorce worldwide.

Shugavee:
I agree!!

but u castigating broke guys and not poor guys. now at dat instance are u saying my friend shouldn't ask a girl out

but wait ooo, been poor is diff from being broke ooo. for u to b broke u must have had money for sometime and den due to some issues u had to spend till ur last kobo. see u can b rich and yet be broke. I have a banker friend dat earns 6 figures and yet he called me one day saying he had to use his money to purchase stuff and he is broke. but I know he ain't poor.

wildimagination:
Don't u know it's okay for girls to be broke in relationahips...because they have vajina..their only contribution.

The sex they are enjoying with u is still seen as favour they are doing for u. Supposedly the only thing they do when they claim they suffered with u.

So u return the favour by paying...

Sadly...the unconscious Nigerian girl mentality...

Again..I blame the economy...

prostitutes everywhere..

bro dis part sef dey annoy me. as in wen u wanna have sex wit ur gf or wife most of den see it as doing u a favour. and dats rubbish

Ximenez:
Love is different from what we see around these days, it might come when you are poor or when you are rich, but the problem is that it might only come once and if you don't take that chance you might never get it again.


These days what we have is people writing down specs and going about looking for people who fits into those specs and for most girls it revolves around money.

That's why marriages don't last these days. You see people paying 2m for bride price, 5m for wedding and another 2m for honeymoon ending the marriage after few months with a text message of 4Naira, because they've missed their ideal partners in the past because they didn't meet/see them in the position they envisaged then.

well said well said

ubunja ubunja my padi u too much, our op I also hail. being broke is not a sin. most likely is a phase. money is involved in a relationship but from both sides. but it should never b d foundation, love is wat makes a keep a relationship strong. if u enter a relationship cos d guy ain't broke, wat now happens wen d guy becomes broke, u will leave to a richer guy. Anyways broke or not if u love a girl ask her out. girls dat notice ur hustle and ur effort will push u to become who u are meant to be.

mariesucre I one cannot give my wife dat amount of money and she won't tell me how d money from d business is being spent. u said a man is d head of d home gud, then he should takia of her homely needs her business is not part of what she needs as a wife. its a very good man dat decides to open a business for the wife and den the wife has to contribute something. and so u know husband's nowadays also assist their wives at home. so my own is dis if she feel d money from d business is hers alone she should raise d capital by herself without ur help den u can foot wateva bills of d home and d home only.

am Patrick from cross river though lag based, ajah precisely, my no 08129592680 WhatsApp 08168626426

HALBRIZZ:
The issue of cheating is not perculiar to men only as wives tendto lose interest in sex after having babies and as such shift their attention to their children rather than their husband. Even, cheating is in men DNA cos even the father of faith, lay with his wife's maid.

excuse me read ur bible well it was sarah dat gave him d maid.

oga dis is not abt bam bam and am not yoruba. they are sonethings dat are not to be said abeg. wat she said abt d dress was wrong wat she said abt d tailor was wrong and also abt d tribe

wat nonsense. and yet some people are supporting her. its disrespect to a full tribe. if she spoke abt a yoruba or ibo dress like dat am sure u peeps supporting her will complain. wat is wrong is wrong and she aint the only person in d world to loose her mum. they are peeps wit beta attitude yet no parents nor sibling

iboboyswag:
God bless your kind heart for this very unbiased update!

And they say Cee C is rude... The okpolo Brain girl that ate from someone's food and couldn't understand that the owner is upset by it to properly apologize is basing her reason on the food being open.

SMH! Such a fish brain
Quote me and die!

what nina did was rubbish abeg nina is so dumb but even wen cee c does something wrong she dpesnt apologise sef na

shinarlaura:
I agree with you. Nina was very wrong.

didnt ceecee take nina meat too last week or so. and she is calling nina stupid yet she saying nina is insulting her. so who is now stuupid