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Romance › Re: Paradox Of Polygamy by ekemini606(op): 5:29pm On Sep 21, 2015

gj22:
This is assuming it's all women that want to get married. The world or even Nigeria is not as it was, marriage is no more a must. Would like to see a source for your demographic tho

Let's not kid ourselves. Polygamy began because some guy wanted to have his way with more than one woman.

Have u ever considered what is like to manage one, let alone multipe wifes? Dont answer.
The men dnt always benefited as you want to believe.
Like i said, society was the winner, not individuals

If I were u I would be worried about your fellow women.
Because one of the reasons for polygyny, was that any woman who is not married, constitute a threat to those who are. Need I explain that as well.

Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Atheist Hate Something That Doesn' Exit. by ekemini606(op): 5:00pm On Sep 21, 2015

keenn:
Nigga, don't talk this way pls. Were ur forefathers not taught what they worshiped, likewise your parent, including u?

Like wise if u give a child a toy box to play with, curiosity will make him/her wanna crack the box in wonderment to check what's in it...is our said child looking for a God in the box? LMAO

My brother with your last logic u sounded more like an atheist

What about time and space, societies at parallel, suddenly in unionism believing in a define being. Who telepathically passed a message?

Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Atheist Hate Something That Doesn' Exit. by ekemini606(op): 4:31pm On Sep 21, 2015

johnydon22:

Threatening people with a fire is not a warning but a threat. It is a threat that is meant to scare the person into submission through extortion under the threat of torture and violence.

It is same a threat as Islamic terrorists cajoling people into submission or face death and so this threat should be treated as a threat.

I only feel sad that you are a victim of this fear instilled by this threat without knowing it and in so trying to drag others down your mess, well in a sane society they must be someone who stands against any negative postulation.

When the law say do not steal/kill or face a certain penalty, that's no threat right?
But when a devine creator say same, it suddenly becomes a threat.
Play on.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Atheist Hate Something That Doesn' Exit. by ekemini606(op): 2:51pm On Sep 21, 2015

If there where no God atheist wont exist.
Truly makes God creator of all things.

Logic! Logic!!
There are phenomenon that dont fit by way of logicall consistency.
am a christian, therefor when it comes to God, am illogical on purpose.

Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Atheist Hate Something That Doesn' Exit. by ekemini606(op): 2:36pm On Sep 21, 2015*

OgundeleT:
yes u are right, it require faith to believe illogicality

Crime › Re: How I Killed A Man, Kept His Flesh For Sale —Suspected Ritualist (Pictured) by ekemini606: 12:38pm On Sep 21, 2015

If there is God, then man needs to be stop.

Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Atheist Hate Something That Doesn' Exit. by ekemini606(op): 11:47am On Sep 21, 2015

OgundeleT:
yes, they always use a claim to prove a claim and if u refute it they will start threatning one with hell

God doesn't run on logic, but faith!
once again God exist and that's final.
If you want prove, its you.

Christianity Etc › Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by ekemini606: 8:53pm On Sep 20, 2015

MizMyColi:
We live in a society that harps a lot on stereotypes.

Because everyone goes to church seeking for husbands, then that must be the situation of everyone.
What you have chosen to be oblivious of is that there are a few out there who have chosen to go against the stereotype...of course, Rome wasn't built in a day, but people are beginning to take their lives and destinies in their hands. They are learning to live in the now, they are no more susceptible to the whims and caprices of memories and anticipation.

I ask you....If I were someone close to you, would you advise me to get married to someone who thinks he's doing me a favour?

I think that when people everywhere begin to realize that come what may, everyone will always have their opinion, the better.

The onus lies on you and I as the subject of discussion to realize that people's affirmation of us is WELCOME, but NOT NEEDED.

I was on a thread where people were bashing Linda for being unmarried....agree or not, people who curse others based on their life sutuations are equally miserable people who are merely projecting their insecurities and perceived flaws on others.
When you realise this truth, you will become less and less bothered of what they say or do.

And just so you know....this is my default mindset. It's a truth and reality that has become deeply rooted in me and I am thankful.

People should stop feeding their pain and learn to walk away from negativity of every kind.
#Emancipation

Emancipation my purple striped asss.
If i date u for two years, without proposing, you wuld start comparing me to your friends who have been married. Your women victimize yourself, that's why we give marriage to you as a favour already.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by ekemini606: 8:37pm On Sep 20, 2015

MizMyColi:
The desperation to get married comes from a place of incompleteness, a sense of lack and a total disconnect from one's worth and value.

I will rather remain unmarried and keep on being the best I can be, while ensuring that I fulfil my life's inner purpose....than get hitched with someone who thinks he's doing me a favour.
To hell with that kind of mentality and God forbid!

Well, thankfully, that's not the case

Quit being too strong, its not a woman quality.
Moreover no one talks about career when they are 50
You simply just look at your friends kid and wish you had given it more go.

You are giving work/career more meaning and importance than they where originally intended to have

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Romance › Re: Paradox Of Polygamy by ekemini606(op): 6:44pm On Sep 20, 2015

MrsChima:
I know it's hard to imagine given the global reputation, do you know there are women who isn't driven by money nor impressed with status?

Just because a woman is a 6th wife doesn't mean she is authentic. If I was a man and want multiple wives I would focus on what they can give me excluding toto and children.

I don't see how any woman who is sane will participate in a harem. I guess free will is also for the insanevas well!

First, polygamy wasn't design to favour or punish any particular individual. With polygamy everyone loose._but society. Demographically, there are more women than their are men to go round them. If you then decide to pair them(monogamy) their centainly would not be enought men to go round. IThis is the problem women are facing today. It often called " Flipside of monogamy"

Its harsh to say, but with monogamy, the majority of women would not be married.

Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Atheist Hate Something That Doesn' Exit. by ekemini606(op): 6:19pm On Sep 20, 2015

God existence is final! Weather or not human logic support it. God is in man.I believe no one is actually thought about God.

sincerely, if you take 200 infant from our civilization, raise them in some remote country, far from any outsde interference_ a handfull of them will still look to the sky and wonder.."what else is out there". .And before you know it, a God would appear.

Romance › Re: Paradox Of Polygamy by ekemini606(op): 11:29am On Sep 20, 2015*

If you think am senseless, answer this rightly.
Do you think most women prefer being your single wife, or Dingote's third ?

Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Atheist Hate Something That Doesn' Exit. by ekemini606(op): 11:11am On Sep 20, 2015

nedu2000:
You can't have feeling for what doesn't exist....one hates a fellow human,a system,a policy,a soccer team et al. But something that doesn't in anyway arouse any kind of emotion due to its non-existence can't be loved or hated as the case maybe

My point exactly.

Christianity Etc › Why Do Atheist Hate Something That Doesn' Exit. by ekemini606(op): 9:52am On Sep 20, 2015

I see so many few atheist littering everywhere with their gospel of non_ existence of an almighty being. For some reason this few enlightened, seem to believe that everyone across time and space who have somehow believe in an all powerfull being are fools/ irrational. Forgetting that some of the most rational men ( Isaac newton for instance) believed in God.

Anyhow, my question for them this morning is_ how do one project so much hate and dislike towards something that does not exist?

Romance › Re: Paradox Of Polygamy by ekemini606(op): 6:51am On Sep 20, 2015

Are you seeing the number of single ladies, do you even know why its so. Did you even read the post.

Their are things, one can be illiterate about.
Am not senseless my friend.
Am an anthropologist.

Romance › Re: Paradox Of Polygamy by ekemini606(op): 10:32pm On Sep 19, 2015

MrsChima:
I disagree. The man is still able to explore and sample in the name of polygamy.

According to some biblical logics if you are married when you married the second or third times, it is not valid according to the eye of the spiritual world.

I didn't mean to bring religion in it but marriage is a religious/spiritual thing.

Biblical logic?

Bible does nt run on logic.

Anyhow you are being mono direction using christianity as case study.Consider also that Islam support polygamy. Since you decide to go the way if religion, you should argue the position of the other(religion) on the subject.

Romance › Paradox Of Polygamy by ekemini606(op): 10:08pm On Sep 19, 2015

Once we begin to look at things through the lens of evolutionary psychology and biology, they start to look quite different. Something that we previously thought was quite bizarre and morally wrong, like polygyny, begins to look quite natural and common. The perspective also gives us a new insight, like how women, not men, mostly benefit in polygynous societies.

Contrary to popular belief, most women benefit from polygynous society, and most men benefit from monogamous society. This is because polygynous society allows some women to share a resourceful man of high status. George Bernard Shaw (who was one of the founders of the London School of Economics, put it best, when he observed, “The maternal instinct leads a woman to prefer a tenth share in a first rate man to the exclusive possession of a third rate one.”

Or, as the comedian Bill Maher asked his panel on his TV show Politically Incorrect on January 7, 1998, “Would you rather be the second or third wife of Mel Gibson or the only wife of Willard Scott?”, to which one of the panelists, the conservative commentator and activist Susan Carpenter McMillan, responded, “If it comes to Mel Gibson, I wouldn’t care if I was one, two, or three.” Of course, this was back when Mel Gibson was highly desirable. Substitute Matt Damon for Mel Gibson. The cast of characters changes in a decade, but the principle remains the same.

In contrast, most men benefit from monogamous society. Given a 50-50 sex ratio, monogamous society virtually guarantees a wife for every man, even a third-rate one. Under polygyny, some third-rate men may not find a wife at all, or, even if they are lucky enough to find one, their wife will not be as desirable as the one they can secure for themselves under monogamy, because under polygyny more desirable women would have become the second, third, or tenth wife of more desirable men.

The exceptions to this rule are highly desirable women, who benefit from monogamous society, and highly desirable men, who benefit from polygynous society. A highly desirable woman can marry a highly desirable man under any circumstances, but under polygyny she’d have to share her desirable husband with other women, whereas under monogamy she can monopolize him. A highly desirable man can acquire multiple wives under polygyny, but must confine himself to only one wife (albeit a highly desirable one) under monogamy.

It’s the nature of the statistical (“bell curve”) distribution, however, that most people are not extreme on either side; for example, most people are not extremely tall or extremely short, but of more or less average height. Similarly, most men and women are neither extremely desirable nor extremely undesirable. So most men benefit under monogamy, and most women benefit under polygyny.

When men imagine what living in a polygynous society might be like, they imagine themselves married to several wives. What they don’t realize, however, is that, more than likely, they would be left without any wife in a polygynous society. Polygynous marriage in a polygynous society is always limited to a minority of men. If 50% of men have two wives each, then the other 50% cannot have any wives. If 25% of men have four wives each, then the other 75% cannot have any wives. When women imagine what living in a polygynous society might be like, they imagine themselves having to share their current, no-good loser of a husband with other women. What they don’t realize is that they could be sharing Matt Damon or Bill Gates with other women.

://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-scientific-fundamentalist/200802/the-paradox-polygamy-ii-why-most-women-benefit-polygamy

Celebrities › Re: Dija Vs Agbani: Who Rocked This Hairstyle Better? by ekemini606: 9:28pm On Sep 19, 2015

Luchi20:
Me!!!!!!!!!

U de ur oga shop De snap/_ bend mouth.
No focus on price.
Na so u go sell the man thing trowwe! angry

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Sports › Re: Chelsea V Arsenal_ Scores / Prediction by ekemini606(op): 5:32pm On Sep 18, 2015

successinlife:
What is sure in tomorrow's game is that both will score and over 2.5. Chelsea Vs Arsenal = & over 2.5.

yea! 2.5., not so sure. Draw is good result.

Correct score. 1_1

Sports › Re: Chelsea V Arsenal_ Scores / Prediction by ekemini606(op): 5:31pm On Sep 18, 2015

successinlife:
What is sure in tomorrow's game is that both will score and over 2.5. Chelsea Vs Arsenal = & over 2.5.

yea! 2.5., not so sureDraw, is good result.

Correct score. 1_1

Sports › Re: Chelsea V Arsenal_ Scores / Prediction by ekemini606(op): 4:52pm On Sep 18, 2015

ammyluv2002:
Lol...okay o!

Chelsea 1-3 Arsenal

Sports › Re: Chelsea V Arsenal_ Scores / Prediction by ekemini606(op): 4:50pm On Sep 18, 2015

KashyBaby:
hahahahah…yeaaah coz all our ass were laughing to y'all …don't tell me ur blues coz u know ur team aint no place on premier league

Am no blues. Ur right blues has no place in the premiership. For all I care, they could be playing in coca cola come next season.
R
Rep. Gunners to the fullest. Ever since iwas a sperm wink

Celebrities › Re: Rukky Sanda Shows Off Bikini Body (Photo) by ekemini606: 4:40pm On Sep 18, 2015

Systematic prostitution.

Don't worry I will call u.
My sanator friend ask for ur description.

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Sports › Re: Chelsea V Arsenal_ Scores / Prediction by ekemini606(op): 4:28pm On Sep 18, 2015

ammyluv2002:
Oh! You can say that again dear. #TeamUnited

I'm rooting for Arsenal #MySecondClub

But this thread is for Chelsea/arsenal na?
Wetin all u devils find come here?

Anyhow, wen we meet we will do to you guys what is usually done to the "devil"

#bind you#

Sports › Re: Chelsea V Arsenal_ Scores / Prediction by ekemini606(op): 4:17pm On Sep 18, 2015

KashyBaby:
I'm a Red Devils fan and I'm no side of these 2 teams

I will juz wait til Manchester United crashed these 2 teams again and again

Lol united!
U guys couldn't find ur own ass with a mirror and a compass. What makes u think u find the net when u meet us.

Programming › Re: Nigerians To Represent Africa At The Hacker Olympics by ekemini606: 4:14pm On Sep 18, 2015

Na teenage Chinese kid weh De make chinco go use dem clean yansh.

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Sports › Chelsea V Arsenal_ Scores / Prediction by ekemini606(op): 4:07pm On Sep 18, 2015

So tomorrow, London gets to stand still or partition_ depending on whose side ur on.

Team arsenal takes this one. Not because am a goon, but because Chelsea hasn't pretty much convince anyone this season even their supporters.

So let's hear ur prediction.

Foreign Affairs › Re: Photos: Kenyan Maid Accused Of Using Urine To Cook For Her Boss by ekemini606: 10:51am On Sep 16, 2015

[quote author=modelmike7 post=38060556]Wickedness of the Highest order. Sometimes you imagine if the devil's cousins live on earth![/quote

Did u hear her say she has been maltreated?
Sometimes some of this rich people are far more sadistic than we know

When ur poor no one listern.
Hope that man ate some urine stew!

Celebrities › Re: Phyno And Olamide Visit A Traffic Warder In Lagos (Photo) by ekemini606: 6:35pm On Sep 15, 2015

Go chop am ursef.since when naija man start to call person come shop?

Celebrities › Re: Phyno And Olamide Visit A Traffic Warder In Lagos (Photo) by ekemini606: 6:33pm On Sep 15, 2015

News scarcity.
See why gej b my man?

By now pej for at list don give us somthing.

Duling aboki cattle man is in aso rock washing his yansh with kettle as we speak.

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Politics › Re: I’m “reasonably Satisfied” With Buhari So Far — Obasanjo by ekemini606: 6:22pm On Sep 15, 2015

With loopsided appointment as obvious as this, its strange no top politician has had the gods to come out openly and say the obvious.

If it was gej, all of them would have been ranting rubbish!.. Justbecause the man is simple.

If I hear piim!..name sanko straight.

cowards with skeletons to hide!

Sports › Re: If You Hate Chelsea, You Would Luv This (photo) by ekemini606(op): 5:52pm On Sep 15, 2015

Lol

"Chelsea want to cry"

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