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It looks like scabies. Most topical ointments are for children a ove 2 months. Ask for soomehing safe to use for the baby from your doctor or pharmacist . |
There is nothing like the classical egoistic Nigerian Man. So you married a Godly Man and he changed. What did you do about it? You have a part to play. He is head, you are the kneck. If you uphold him in prayer, selflessly, walking in love towards him ( in the true sense of what walking in Love means from the Bible perspective),he would change... that is a certainty. If you had continue praying for him from your marriage, he wouldn't become what you say he has become. Marriage is the beginning unit of Gods church, break or bring disunity in a marriage, you bring destruction on the family and home. What should you pray about? Pray for him to be the Man God intended him to be. Pray for yourself also. If you listen to the advices you have recieved here, you would destroy your home. Check women who are separated. And count the number of them who are successful. I am not excusing his attitude. He is answerable to God, however, God would only deal with every disobedience once our obidience is complete. The is factual. |
There is no easy way to say this, However, if you take these advice, you'd be the better for it. From your statement, it seems your husband wants to have sex almost every day, but not everyday, and you have a problem with this. Do you enjoy sex at least some of the time? If you dont could it be that he isn't helping you get ready and in the mood and just jumps from gear 1 to 5 without going through 2,3,4? Do you suffer virginal dryness hence dont enjoy sex? The first step to sorting this out is to dalk to him about it. And while you do, you need to be open minded. Accepting that it could you an issue of a lack of sexual appetite from you, and not an overly high sexual drive from tour husband. Do a mental rethink of the times you have enjoyed sex. Why did you enjoy it? Whon innitiated it? You or him, what happenings preceded your enjoying it? Talk to him about it. If you feel he rushes you and doesnt engage in pre-intimacy, ask him to slow down, do you kiss? Does an mouth odour put you or him off from this? Talk about it, get him and you to consciously prepare for it or give him a chewing gum if you smell an unpleasant odour. If you experience virginal dryness, talk to him about it, talk about buying a virginal lubricant from the phermacy. Experiment with MouthAction. If the mind set of each of you moves from getting sexual satisfaction for yourself first to satisfying your spouse, in a short time, you would discover you both are enjoying sex together. Except you have a "plan B" or want him to have a plan B which either way could ruin your marriage. Better to talk it over and take steps to find solutions than to just want him to leave you alone. Before you know it, he would have a side chic. |
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