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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Choski78(m): 7:14am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Julietsim:Do try and engage him in a dialogue talk to him, sex is a mutual thing both parties must enjoy it if not it become slavery, so engage him talk, there is nothing that can't be controlled. |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by ibinaboonline: 7:14am On Apr 28, 2020 |
This is the best answer and I hope the woman takes it. She needs to open up and talk to her husband and both of them will figure something out. If the man can't be considerate in this issue, then, not good at all. bdchange: |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Excellent7(m): 7:15am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Stephenmoka4: What a solution! |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by donMIG(m): 7:16am On Apr 28, 2020 |
U knew perfectly well what u wia delving b4 now but u still enta... If u wan cope just open make my guy pump dei him way no way out |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Kingofpalmgroov: 7:16am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Julietsim: Person wey no get head get cap, the one wey no get cap get here. (Yoruba Adage) |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by LordShiva97(m): 7:19am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Imustsurvive: Genius! Such ingenuity! |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by fuludu: 7:19am On Apr 28, 2020 |
[quote author=bdchange post=88879382] what do you mean by saying she is lucky? is the man supposed to start having sex with other ladies apart from his wife..because people do it does not mean it is the norm.[/quot Normally I don't quote situations like this she is lucky through this lockdown some men have not even touched their wife's. She should be grateful too that he does not cheat on her madam u no get problem |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by sirbabajoe: 7:20am On Apr 28, 2020 |
OK na |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by chuksme(m): 7:20am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Jesuisbelle: This advice is enough to break family. If you are a married woman, with out being told. Your relationship with your husband is not okay. There must be issues in that marriage. Mrs Juliet please don't listen to this advise. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by OgbeniOja1: 7:20am On Apr 28, 2020 |
See my problem with no sex before marriage He din shock u ani?? Julietsim: |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by LordShiva97(m): 7:21am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Rozz: Brilliant thinking 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by HARYUBAR: 7:21am On Apr 28, 2020 |
[left][/left] Julietsim: Julietsim:[quote author=Julietsim post=88879061]My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue. Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?[WATCH Religious moVieS] |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by LordShiva97(m): 7:21am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Omoluabi16:So predictable. |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Eldub: 7:22am On Apr 28, 2020 |
There is no easy way to say this, However, if you take these advice, you'd be the better for it. From your statement, it seems your husband wants to have sex almost every day, but not everyday, and you have a problem with this. Do you enjoy sex at least some of the time? If you dont could it be that he isn't helping you get ready and in the mood and just jumps from gear 1 to 5 without going through 2,3,4? Do you suffer virginal dryness hence dont enjoy sex? The first step to sorting this out is to dalk to him about it. And while you do, you need to be open minded. Accepting that it could you an issue of a lack of sexual appetite from you, and not an overly high sexual drive from tour husband. Do a mental rethink of the times you have enjoyed sex. Why did you enjoy it? Whon innitiated it? You or him, what happenings preceded your enjoying it? Talk to him about it. If you feel he rushes you and doesnt engage in pre-intimacy, ask him to slow down, do you kiss? Does an mouth odour put you or him off from this? Talk about it, get him and you to consciously prepare for it or give him a chewing gum if you smell an unpleasant odour. If you experience virginal dryness, talk to him about it, talk about buying a virginal lubricant from the phermacy. Experiment with MouthAction. If the mind set of each of you moves from getting sexual satisfaction for yourself first to satisfying your spouse, in a short time, you would discover you both are enjoying sex together. Except you have a "plan B" or want him to have a plan B which either way could ruin your marriage. Better to talk it over and take steps to find solutions than to just want him to leave you alone. Before you know it, he would have a side chic. |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Fairbanks(m): 7:22am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Julietsim:I feel ur pain madam but ur husband is sombody like me. I don't cheat but I can't stand seeing my wife indoor without feeling like having sex with her even after 2 kids. my own is caused by d fact that my wife dresses half naked when indoor, not purposely for attraction but she likes being body free when indoor and me oga can't stand her physique without winking my eyes. She knows how to satisfy me but if she's tired I leave her in a reasonable manner. Yes my advice is that you may try as much as possible to dress covered in some cases when indoor not necessarily to get look disgusting to ur husband but at least to reduce d mindset . Your husband may be someone like me and maybe you do behave like my wife indoor. The quoters don't quote me wrong, my kids are little females. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by seanjy4konji: 7:22am On Apr 28, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy:stick to the topic.advice her on what to do |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by GAZZUZZ(m): 7:24am On Apr 28, 2020 |
franugo: lol |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 7:24am On Apr 28, 2020 |
LordShiva97:lol |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by wany(f): 7:24am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Amumaigwe:Your comment is warp and very insensitive, also spelt out your person.sad for the women i n your space 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Bbklopsy: 7:26am On Apr 28, 2020 |
bukatyne: OP ?? |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by funkyj99(m): 7:26am On Apr 28, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy:it's just a post from one man not Nigerian men,no use am rub everybody and the wife should do some fun acts like find him a new girlfriend. |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by NwaIgboBoy(m): 7:28am On Apr 28, 2020 |
anytime he comes to fuc**k tell him u are in your period.... |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by highmood(m): 7:28am On Apr 28, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy:Just like men, some women are sexually unattractive. If not for the marital vows, more men would have joined in the challenge . I think someone else gave her a suggestion, maybe she should get another woman or a side chick and get herself relieved. Is that thebest? No! Well I may doubt the fact that the man demands sex almost everyday even when the woman is on? Except her judgment is based on this lockdown when what we do is Prays, Eat, Sleep, Watch TV and Sex. Nothing much. See, somes years ago, I used to have sex with my girl almost everyday. She got used to it and over fed me with it to an extent I was the one resisting whenever she then demands for sex. I tell you, I ran. I got exhausted. Seriously, the woman should let the man understand whenever she isn't strong for that. The woman can help in other sexual ways to relieve the man rather the man inserting. Maybe they are new couple, and the urge is still there. She shouldnt make that mistake of resisting the good man to an extent he seeks for other girls outside. Mind you, there are other women out there who needs so much sexual satisfaction, in short some women needs everyday sex. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by humilitypays(m): 7:29am On Apr 28, 2020 |
isaacprinz:its alright |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by LordShiva97(m): 7:30am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Julietsim: Your husband, whom you claimed is a good man said something like that? That's a very inconsiderate, insensitive, selfish and callous thing to say. I'm not married and I know little or nothing about marriage but that he shouldn't or doesn't cheat doesn't justify or give him a free reign to work you like a sex doll. You're a human being, not a machine, it's normal and human that you'll get tired and sore and needs to be given a break. If he cares only about his pleasure and doesn't understand that his wife is tired and needs rest, then I wonder the kind of good man he is Seems you have two clear-cut options: stand your ground and let me him go cheat outside or burn yourself out for his pleasure (if you die from exhaustion and fatigue, he'll still go cheat outside). A case of choosing the lesser of two evils. Good luck ma. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Adakintroy2: 7:31am On Apr 28, 2020 |
bdchange: You watch too much movie. Reality is different. We talking about high sex drive. You can't quench it so many girls out there can. At least he is open about his problem. |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Achorise: 7:32am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Davash222:See advice.� |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by adecz: 7:35am On Apr 28, 2020 |
You don go marry sex addict.. Nothing can change this man. How can somebody be having sex everyday? Tohtoh self go tire & all the suspension of the tohtoh go just slack finish. Choi !!! The only way out is for him to marry another woman join. Your man probably had a sexstarved youth & is using you to catch up. |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by LordShiva97(m): 7:35am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Another reason why premarital sex is very important, don't marry a sex freak who'll want to ride you to your death! They no dey tell pesin |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Dirpetaner: 7:36am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Jesuisbelle: Something is not right about your mindset. Don't end up with 4 children with 4 different fathers. |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Tom05: 7:37am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Open up and tell him what you are experiencing. I expected that your relationship should have this intimacy understanding, that’s what real relationship is all about. If your husband cannot understand you it means you are in a wrong place. That’s ain’t relationship.. please don’t ever introduce any 3rd party to discuss this with your husband. Tell him if he really loves you; you want something from him and you will be happy if he can adjust. Discuss with him maturely, he will change if he does not want to lose you or hurt your feelings. I’m married with 2 wonderful kids and I pity my wife often time to even ask for sex at times hard me. Women they try honestly.. At times I will meet her in the kitchen tap her bom bom from behind she will smile. Definitely that night we in it together. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Parisian: 7:37am On Apr 28, 2020 |
So if the woman also decides to look outside too will heaven fall? Unik3030: |
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