₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
If the girl is not willing to leave the man and his family, there is nothing the mother can do about it though.

Yes, the girl is angry with the mother because when she found out the guy was lying and told the mum, the encouraged her to endure since they've already started the marriage rites to avoid shame. Now she's the one calling her to come out.

But the question is why would the guy present himself as what he's not. He even told the girl after their marriage that whatever lie that he lied to her is to make sure she marry him, so she should deal with it. This is bad for God's sake!!

Please I need a good advice on this issue from matured minds.

A friend of mine called me yesterday and was seriously crying that she wants her daughter that just got married to come back.

REASON:
Last year, her daughter of 21 years got married. From the look of things, the marriage was contracted on falsehood.
The man( daughter's hubby) was introduced to the girl by another woman. The young man and his mother presented themselves as very good people. The young man claimed to have money and working in Abuja as "interior decorator" . He made the girl believed that he has money where's he was borrowing to do the the marriage rites.
After the first stage of the traditional rites, he lied to the girl that bank seized his money because someone from abroad sent more than the approved amount (ie. millions) into his account. The girl had to use the little money she received as salary to sort out certain things.

To cut the long story short, marriage was scheduled, on the eve of the wedding (the bridal shower night) , the young man beat the girl blue and black to the embarrassment of everyone present including his own friends, that was how the bridal shower ended with the poor girl crying all throughout the night. This is just because of flimsy excuse, to make matters worst, the girl was some weeks old pregnant which he's aware of.
To worsen the situation, after marriage, the man left the lady in the village with the parents, two days after marriage he travelled for a job, while the girl is left alone in the village without any pocket money and without any job since she's stopped the job she was doing before marriage. She's just Living at the mercy of the guy's parents with the mother treating her like trash.

Please Mod kindly push to the front page, I need matured advice.

Dsalvo:
That is poetic justice in fluid and dynamic motion. They were shouting "Edo is not Lagos" thinking they are mocking Tinubu.

Do they not wish Edo is Lagos today after worthless Obaseki has shagged them senseless without Vaseline?

Even the IPOBians shouting against Tinubu today, what becomes of them if what is shown below happens tomorrow?

They will be begging Yorubas to adopt them just so they can live and survive in the SW rather than return to their barren SE.

Too many ingrates and ignorant chest beaters in Nigeria.

Lagos na your village?

Mention any other state in South West that you're proud of. Everytime Lagos Lagos. Over hyped state with so many slums, dirty and smelly ditches here and there.

How many Yorubas are living in good places in Lagos. Olodo.

Peacemaker5129:
IPOB terrorists are behind it
My mind is telling me that

This is because you have a dumb mind.

pinkPUSSY:
Peter Obi did not mention anybody's candidate, but watch his supporters felling guilty..


Meanwhile....I’m a presidential candidate and I say I’m educated BUT I don’t have classmates
Who am I ??

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