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But remember that you are one once you get married o. You share basically everything

slyIsaac:
keep ur shiit lemme keep mine... tats how it should be...

Would you agree to a joint account with your partner especially if you are the one making most of the money and also considering the fact your partner can change to become either a lavish spender or a cheat? With all the uncertainties flying around would you still obey the Lords commandment about being one and sharing everything with your partner?


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Would you hit your best friend with a car for 5 million dollar. Before you answer think about your financial status and the situation of the country at the moment. Please i want truthful answers.










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They were in love, then they got married.

Few months after their marriage, the man finally got his visa to travel to the United States. He traveled and this is 5 years later, he is not been to Nigeria because he does not have a Green Card yet.

Each time she calls him, she hears the sound of children in the background. Then one day she summoned courage to confront him and also confirm her suspicion. He was married to an Oyinbo and they have two kids together. She was distrust and heartbroken as she had a child for him and she had been faithful all these years hoping that he was getting things ready for them to come over.

He apologized saying that the marriage was just a contract on his part since he did not find it easy to get a green card and he did not want to come back to Nigeria at that time, plus if he doesn't tread carefully the Oyinbo might report him. He has also promised her that he would return in two years time and that by then he would have gotten everything ready for them to all live together (without the Oyinbo in the picture)

The thing is she has to wait for another two years knowing that her husband was sleeping and living with some other woman.
My question is do you advise her to wait for another two years or just move on with her life?







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lol. very true and sometimes without any boxers

mhisbliss:
going about bare chested like tout, with thier trousers sagging showing a very dirty boxer

really. i bet you are a guy.

youngest85:
D guy should move on wt his life na!


There are lots of fishes in da river.....

so you are saying that she should just forgive him like that na

bigiyaro:
I advise she gets a basket of clay and mold a man for her self, exactly the way she wants him to be.

Name something, men do that turns you off, but they believe its a turn on.










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A lady whose wedding was slated for 25th of june 2016, got to know that her hubby was cheating on her two days after her traditional marriage.

After finding out she was heart broken and decided to call off the wedding and perform all the traditional rites to break all ties with him. The guy has been on her case since begging, and apologizing for his mistake that it would never happen again.

Deep down in her heart she really loves him and thinks that age is no longer on her side as she is already 32 years old. She has heard so much from people like 'men will always be men/ its a man's world, just forgive him since he already apologized'. Now she is thinking of forgiving him and of course continuing preparations for the wedding as soon as possible. What would you advice please?

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If you were the president for your country for a day what would you do differently?

Obasanjo, Babaginda and Buhari were in a plane.

1. Obasanjo said: i can throw 1000 note out and make someone happy.
2. Babanginda said: i can throw two #500 notes out and make 2 people happy.
3. Buhari said: i can throw fine #200 notes out and make five people happy.
4. The pilot heard them and said to himself : 'IDIOTS' I CAN THROW THREE OF YOU DOWN AND MAKE 150 MILLION PEOPLE HAPPY!!!!
SO WHO DO YOU SUPPORT AMONG THESE FOUR?

A- Obasanjo
B- Babangida
C- Buhari
D- Pilot

#MyPalmchatExperience.

Given the opportunity to slap any celebrity (local/ international), who would that be? #MyPalmchatExperience

Hey people, so i was thinking about our country and its polity. Military v. Democracy, which do you prefer and why? #MyPalmchatExperience

even when you are moderate, some guys still have a problem with that.

Ngwa Men Get In Here...............................................................


Men men men!!! So complicated, so confusing, so hard to please....if you try to please them,you are cheap...if you love them,you are too emotional....if you don't,you are playing hard to get....if you give them attention,you are bugging them....if you don't,you are with another man...if you demand for attention,you are a nagging woman....if you don't,you are not understandable....if you dress sexy,you are attracting other men...if you don't,you are local...if you wash their clothes and cook,you are desperate...if you don't,you are not a wife material...if you are beautiful,you can't stay with one man...if you are ugly, you are not presentable...If you are independent, you are chasing men away...if you are not, you are a liability...if you are pregnant,you want to trap them..if you are not,you must have damaged your womb...so WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT??

Make una answer oo

#copied #MyPalmchatExperience

Let's do this. It's #throwbackthursday. What is/ are your FAVOURITE movies of all time. #MyPalmchatExperience

My people please help me make a decision.

I have this uncle and aunt that i used to live with, when i first moved to Lagos. They were very hostile towards me. Even their children were very disrespectful to me because they watched their parents treat me badly. One faithful day a family friend of visited, saw me and asked about my educational background, i told him that i had graduated but was still job hunting. All i had was a job as a sales person at a nearby super mart. He then told me to send my CV to him through my uncle, since he had connections in one of the well established banks in Nigeria. I was excited and hopeful, so i sent my CV to my uncle to a day after that.

After 5 months of not seeing or hearing anything from him i lost hope thinking it was (send me your CV but do nothing to help you relative). Thankfully i met this family friend 5 months later at a church convention and was really reluctant to greet him (Thank God i greeted him sha). So he asked me how i was doing and if i had secured a job yet. I told him i was still doing the same job as the last time. Then he went on to tell me how unserious i was as i did not send my CV as requested(it happened that my uncle did not send my CV). He also said that my uncle said that i am not efficient or trust worthy. Hence all of these discouraged him from helping me. Then i told him about my experience in that house.

To cut the long story short........... i am now working at a well established Nigerian bank, with the help of the family friend. I moved out of the house after i got the job. I am even married too. All is going well with me.

The issue now is...........my uncle's disrespectful daughter just finished OND and needs a place for IT. She and her parents contacted me to help her since i have connections. As a matter of fact they expect me to automatically help her. But i haven't forgotten what they did to me some years back and i am still very unhappy with them

I am now at a crossroad....... SHOULD I HELP HER OR NOT? PLEASE YOUR ADVICE.

so what is your love language?

mira4u:
None of these!!!

Tell me your love language. #MyPalmchatExperience

i think i prefer Adele's songs sha.

yea. it was not done intentionally. my bad. sorry.

keepingmum:
double post

hmmmmm........................... when you are in Rome behave like the Romans.

i guess they have their reasons for thinking that women turn out to be proud in situations like this.

Two Palmchatter were having an argument about Adele and Beyonce. So i decided to bring it up here to get your opinion. Adele or Beyonce. Who is more talented/ who do you prefer more? support your answers please.

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Essence6055:
It totally depends on the relationship the man and his wife has at the moment and where they are seeing themselves in ten years to come....

The man should understand that he is not going to be a stay at home dad forever as he is developing his own business. (Now that makes the money from the wife useful... As he can use it as capital) ...

Before the man jumps into conclusion on the advise of his friends... He should first understand his wife... Is she a cultured and respectful woman.... Is she easily moved by money, anger or other emotions...v

And then the man should also understand himself.... Would he be able to live knowing that his wife is the breadwinner... Would his ego/pride allow him to survive on that....

Once all these questions are answered by the man himself..... I believe this problem can be solved...

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A family friend's husband decided on his own to retire at 40 years. Before then his wife was a stay home mum, because they had two little children 6 and 8 that needed to be looked after. Just after his retirement, his wife got a very good job with a fat salary that can take care of the home while the man focuses on developing his business. Since his wife will be earning more than him at the moment his friends began to advice him not to allow her take on the job as she will later become proud and uncontrollable. This also meant that he (the husband) will be a 'STAY AT HOME DAD', as he would be taking care of the children, the house chores etc while the wife takes care of the finances. His friends are seriously advising him against it as he would be mocked and be called 'HOUSE HUSBAND' by people. Now he is confused. What would be your advice to him?

A family friend's husband decided on his own to retire at 40 years. Before then his wife was a stay home mum, because they had two little children 6 and 8 that needed to be looked after. Just after his retirement, his wife got a very good job with a fat salary that can take care of the home while the man focuses on developing his business. Since his wife will be earning more than him at the moment his friends began to advice him not to allow her take on the job as she will later become proud and uncontrollable. This also meant that he (the husband) will be a 'STAY AT HOME DAD', as he would be taking care of the children, the house chores etc while the wife takes care of the finances. His friends are seriously advising him against it as he would be mocked and be called 'HOUSE HUSBAND' by people. What do you think about this.