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FamilyRe: Can An Open Marriage Ever Work In The Real World? by ELLYsian: 7:02pm On Oct 24, 2014
Billyonaire:
I commit extra marital affairs.
Does your wife know?
And what if your wife wants to do the same?
FamilyRe: Can An Open Marriage Ever Work In The Real World? by ELLYsian: 7:01pm On Oct 24, 2014
SirShymex:
Er, I guess you don't know most folks in marriages creep around, no? grin
I don't know if most people creep around.

So, rather than do it in secret - why not do it in the open?
Many people prefer to do it secretly because ...
... they don't want to be faithful but want their spouses to be faithful; they are not able to cope with jealousy.
... their spouses wouldn't agree to an open marriage.
FamilyRe: Can An Open Marriage Ever Work In The Real World? by ELLYsian: 6:52pm On Oct 24, 2014
SirShymex:
Since you'll know whoever she's involved with, prevention against STIs would be much more easier than if she's sneaking around without your knowledge like most women do.
Well, I think that the best way to prevent STDs is to be faithful but I am aware of the fact that not everybody is monogamous. To each their own.
FamilyRe: Can An Open Marriage Ever Work In The Real World? by ELLYsian: 6:41pm On Oct 24, 2014
SirShymex:
Honestly, I wouldn't mind since I lead my life never to trust people. And folks will always do whatever they want to do, either in the open, or in secret, regardless. So, why not give them a leeway to do it in the open, if they want to?
Well, I have absolutely nothing against it as long as it makes you and your partner happy.

What about possible STDs?
FamilyRe: Can An Open Marriage Ever Work In The Real World? by ELLYsian: 6:34pm On Oct 24, 2014
Billyonaire:
Its freedom if you ask me. More liberal and mature minds can thrive in it, but the jealous simpletons could be consumed by it.
Would you be ok with your wife having extra marital affairs?
FamilyRe: Can An Open Marriage Ever Work In The Real World? by ELLYsian: 6:34pm On Oct 24, 2014
SirShymex:
I actually like the idea of an open marriage. And I believe it will help solve a lot of problems. However, the practicality will always be the problem due the emotions involved and, our subconscious ownership spirit, which might hinder the sharing.
Are you saying that you would be ok with your wife having extra marital affairs?
FamilyRe: Do This At Your Own Peril! by ELLYsian: 3:37pm On Oct 24, 2014
He does not look happy. undecided
FamilyRe: Opinion!!! Wanting To Have Children Is Every Woman's Dream. (how True?) by ELLYsian: 3:36pm On Oct 24, 2014
Majority of people, men and women, want to have kids one day.
FamilyRe: Loyal Or Rich Abusive Wife by ELLYsian: 7:13pm On Oct 23, 2014
FamilyRe: BEATING YOUR KIDS; Discipline Or Abuse? by ELLYsian: 7:08pm On Oct 23, 2014
Codedone:
Just my thought.

As a child i would listen to my parent,and my father mostly largely due to fear,d most my mom will do is ground me,stoppin me from doing some certain tins,wish didnt rili stop me from doin watever i lik,wen it was jst me and my mom at home(takin some few gadgets or toys from me for a while wont kill me,lol).but putin my dad in d mix or just a threat by her of tellin my dad,was enough to turn my obedient switch on(he knew how to cane d evil spirit off).and am hapi he did wonder how i would be if d worst they could do was ground me.
we shouldnt feel because some western countries dnt can apply dis method of discipline makes it wrong,and if u tink their method is better than ours,have a rethink.
Well, if you use very harsh methods on children right from the beginning, you will have to continue as they get used to them.
Severe punishment makes kids dull to other forms of punishment.

This is what happened to you.
FamilyRe: Nigerian Couple Welcome Octuplets In South Africa by ELLYsian: 7:00pm On Oct 23, 2014
Not good. undecided
FamilyRe: BEATING YOUR KIDS; Discipline Or Abuse? by ELLYsian: 6:46pm On Oct 23, 2014
manutdadex:
i wud beat my kids!! because i was beaten and it helpd me...
How did it help you?
FamilyRe: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by ELLYsian: 6:29pm On Oct 23, 2014
How comes nobody is quoting Bible verses here? undecided
FamilyRe: Why Women Of This Generation Are Not Submissive By Tosin Martins by ELLYsian: 2:59pm On Oct 23, 2014
And people say that women are more emotional undecided
FamilyRe: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by ELLYsian: 10:08pm On Oct 22, 2014
GodofGrace:
I couldn't wait to read page 2&3 before I make my point, I'm still in my middle twenties anyway but I have to say this why do you women think you can compare your self with men?. is not that I don't want career women to grow but at the same time if your family is felling the pain of your career then is out of ordinary, the last time I check my bible it said wives are the helper of their husband....... the little I expect woman's to do is assisting their husband spiritual, financial,emotionally and morally to bring up their children in a Godly way. so now tell me when woman become a competition with men in a career world.
insult me if you want,I don't care I have said my mind.
Not everyone is a Christian.
FamilyRe: Should she abort the pregnancy by ELLYsian: 9:30pm On Oct 22, 2014
She has to decide whether she is ready to carry the pregnancy or not and she is the one who will have to live with the consequences of whatever decision she takes.

I wouldn't want to be in her shoes now. undecided
FamilyRe: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by ELLYsian: 9:27pm On Oct 22, 2014
JayJustus:
Dieu tu benisse mon frere
Merci beaucoup cheesy
FamilyRe: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by ELLYsian: 9:19pm On Oct 22, 2014
JayJustus:
Firstly, Dangote is an example I used of someone that didn't wanna use shortcut by doing fraud to make wealth

secondly... China, Korea are examples of countries that have removed their reserves from the USD...


thirdly: Im not supporting crime but only stating the worst scenario where someone might need help...not everyone charged for a crime is guilty of that crime...so extradition law can be wrongly affecting an innocent person...

lastly: selling snacks on the street is better than fraudulent marriage just to get an LPR... read through the lines and digest before attacking baselessly.
@bold
I wish more people had such an attitude.


Comme il faut.

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