MASTURBATION

When a person touches his/her own sexual organs to have pleasure which often results in an orgasm is often refered to as masturbation.

Masturbation may be done alone (sole masturbation) or with another person (mutual masturbation).

A lot of youths are into masturbation.

When a brother or a sister masturbate and still commit sexual sins it shows that he/she is still canal, a man cannot be born again and still be commiting all these sin. It means he/she is not dead to the flesh.

Mind you He /she might be speaking in tongues, they might be active in the church, being active means they can be worker and some ministers are not left out.

The Bible says in Romans 7: 15 I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do. And if I do what I do not want to do, I agree that the law is good.

Masturbation is a spirit. For those that have been addicted to masturbation, they will want to stop but they find it difficult because masturbation is a spirit and you need to stop that spirit before it stop you.

The Bible says in 1Thes 5: 21-22 Test all things; hold fast what is good. Abstain from every form of evil.

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NEGATIVE EFFECTS OF MASTURBATION

🔹It drains you spiritually.
🔹It weakens your spiritual life.
🔹It makes you weak spiritually
🔹You become insensitive spiritually.
🔹It kills your prayer life because you will notice anytime you want to pray the thought will just come to your mind especially those that are addicted to masturbation.
🔹Feeling useless and powerless after each act of Masturbation.
🔹Semen leakage
🔹Loss of sexual drive towards the opposite sex
🔹Premature ejaculation (ejaculating too early during sex)
🔹As a lady, you kill your ability to enjoy sex in future.
🔹Erectile dysfunction (weak erection).
🔹Dizziness
🔹Vaginal dryness and low sensitivity during sex.
🔹Great exhaustion after exercising.
🔹Nervousness.
🔹Insomnia (lack of sleep).
🔹Loss of appetite leading to weight loss especially in female.
🔹Decrease in manhood size and length.
🔹Prostate enlargement which eventually leads to Prostate cancer.

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HOW TO STOP MASTURBATION

🔹You need JESUS.
🔹 You need the help of the Holy Spirit to overcome masturbation.
🔹You have to be determined that you want to stop masturbating. Your determination matters a lot.
🔹You need to be mindful and aware of your thoughts, triggers and actions as it pertains to Masturbation.
🔹You need to disassociate your self from people that masturbate. Bad company they say corrupt good manner.
🔹Stop watching pornography.
🔹Avoid being bored and alone in the house. Always occupy yourself and your mind with something good, something edifying. An empty mind is the devils work shop.
🔹Avoid spending much time in the bedroom.

I assure you if you can follow this steps on how to stop masturbation, you will overcome it.

I pray anyone in the bondage of masturbation the Lord will deliver you and you will be set free from the spirit of masturbation in Jesus name.

I love you💕💕💕

Peace

©️ Abiola Abolanle

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MASTURBATION

When a person touches his/her own sexual organs to have pleasure which often results in an orgasm is often refered to as masturbation.

Masturbation may be done alone (sole masturbation) or with another person (mutual masturbation).

A lot of youths are into masturbation.

When a brother or a sister masturbate and still commit sexual sins it shows that he/she is still canal, a man cannot be born again and still be commiting all these sin. It means he/she is not dead to the flesh.

Mind you He /she might be speaking in tongues, they might be active in the church, being active means they can be worker and some ministers are not left out.

The Bible says in Romans 7: 15 I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do. And if I do what I do not want to do, I agree that the law is good.

Masturbation is a spirit. For those that have been addicted to masturbation, they will want to stop but they find it difficult because masturbation is a spirit and you need to stop that spirit before it stop you.

The Bible says in 1Thes 5: 21-22 Test all things; hold fast what is good. Abstain from every form of evil.

Please like and follow this amazing page on 👉 facebook.com/elnaloba

NEGATIVE EFFECTS OF MASTURBATION

🔹It drains you spiritually.
🔹It weakens your spiritual life.
🔹It makes you weak spiritually
🔹You become insensitive spiritually.
🔹It kills your prayer life because you will notice anytime you want to pray the thought will just come to your mind especially those that are addicted to masturbation.
🔹Feeling useless and powerless after each act of Masturbation.
🔹Semen leakage
🔹Loss of sexual drive towards the opposite sex
🔹Premature ejaculation (ejaculating too early during sex)
🔹As a lady, you kill your ability to enjoy sex in future.
🔹Erectile dysfunction (weak erection).
🔹Dizziness
🔹Vaginal dryness and low sensitivity during sex.
🔹Great exhaustion after exercising.
🔹Nervousness.
🔹Insomnia (lack of sleep).
🔹Loss of appetite leading to weight loss especially in female.
🔹Decrease in manhood size and length.
🔹Prostate enlargement which eventually leads to Prostate cancer.

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HOW TO STOP MASTURBATION

🔹You need JESUS.
🔹 You need the help of the Holy Spirit to overcome masturbation.
🔹You have to be determined that you want to stop masturbating. Your determination matters a lot.
🔹You need to be mindful and aware of your thoughts, triggers and actions as it pertains to Masturbation.
🔹You need to disassociate your self from people that masturbate. Bad company they say corrupt good manner.
🔹Stop watching pornography.
🔹Avoid being bored and alone in the house. Always occupy yourself and your mind with something good, something edifying. An empty mind is the devils work shop.
🔹Avoid spending much time in the bedroom.

I assure you if you can follow this steps on how to stop masturbation, you will overcome it.

I pray anyone in the bondage of masturbation the Lord will deliver you and you will be set free from the spirit of masturbation in Jesus name.

I love you💕💕💕

Peace

©️ Abiola Abolanle

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Don't get me wrong. God speaks to spiritual Father (Pastors) and God is not an hypocrite, Daniel 4:17

LETTER TO THE SPIRITUAL FATHERS

I was reading news yesterday and I was very angry in my spirit and some of the comments have been hearing are very derogatory comments about our spiritual Fathers (Pastors) concerning the just concluded general election and that was what prompted me to write this.

Who is a spiritual Father?

A spiritual father (Pastors) is someone who cares for us who imparts to us love, identity, spiritual covering, who prays for us and is concerned for our well being.

1Cor 4:15 says Even if you had ten thousand guardians in Christ, you do not have many Fathers, For in Christ Jesus I became your Father through the gospel.

I will like to talk to the spiritual fathers that are showing interest in one candidate, which should not be because they are in are revered position.

Even if they have a particular candidate that they support as a spiritual father (Pastor) and a shepherd who have many ships under his care they are not suppose to make it known to the public rather they are meant to go on their kneels and pray for the candidate.

As a Father let's take for example, a father that is showing favoritism among his children how do you think the child you are neglecting will feel and if at the end of the day the child you neglected now become successful how did you want to face that child or how will you feel.

As a spiritual father (Pastor) you are suppose to be still and watch what will unfold from afar. This is wisdom and it is profitable to direct.

Some of the spiritual fathers (Pastors) are even telling their spiritual children (members) to cast their vote for a particular candidate. They are the one dictating to their spiritual children (members) who to vote for, instead of them to just instruct their spiritual children (members) to cast their vote to whomever they thought is the best candidate who will rule the affairs of the country well and pilot this Nation into the terminal glory (Ebute ogo).

They are distracted because of politics as if they are politicians forgetting their roles and duties, they forget what the Bible called them that they are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God's special possession, that you may declare the praises of him that called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.

I see them as a shepherd but they don't behave like a good shepherd.

I'm just pained that most of them let their emotions to take the best part of them at the crucial time.

Giving the unbelievers and even the so called believers that are baby Christians the benefit of doubt to ask whether God is in the affair of our Nation. Does God answer prayer.

You God answers prayer and that's why it's good for you to know God for your self have personal intimate with him.

I even watched a spiritual father(Pastor) that was telling his spiritual children (members) that God showed him the accepted candidate will win and the rejected one will go to jail.

Making the unbelievers to say uncouth words against the church.

Who told them the candidate they are rejecting God cannot touch his heart and rule the Nation excellently well, when it is written in the book of Proverbs 21:1- that the king's heart is in the hand of the Lord, as the rivers of waters: he turneth it withersoever he will.

The book of Daniel 2:21 also says that and he changeth the times and the seasons: he removeth Kings, and setteth up Kings: he giveth wisdom unto the wise and knowledge to them that know wisdom.

*Now that the rejected stone has become the corner Stone. Now that the rejected candidate has won the election. How did they feel?

These spiritual Fathers(Pastors) preach about God's love. They tell their spiritual children (members) they are Christ like.

In the Bible it is the character of the Christians that make people around to testify and they are chirst like and they called them Christian.

Act 11: 26 says "...for a whole year Barnabas and Saul met with the church and taught great numbers of people. They were called Christian first at Antioch." They were called "Christians" because their speech and behavior were like Christ.

I want to ask these spiritual fathers(Pastors) one question.

*Can Jesus they claim they are preaching about, can he behave the way they did?

Mind you I'm not against any spiritual fathers (Pastors). I respect them and honour their anointing.
I'm just talking from my own view and how I think it should be.

May the anointing upon their head never run dry, may the Lord continue to increase them, may the not be an abandon vessel and I pray they will not be find wanting on the last day.

Peace

God Bless Nigeria 🇳🇬

©️Abiola Abolanle

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LETTER TO THE SPIRITUAL FATHERS

I was reading news yesterday and I was very angry in my spirit and some of the comments have been hearing are very derogatory comments about our spiritual Fathers (Pastors) concerning the just concluded general election and that was what prompted me to write this.

Who is a spiritual Father?

A spiritual father (Pastors) is someone who cares for us who imparts to us love, identity, spiritual covering, who prays for us and is concerned for our well being.

1Cor 4:15 says Even if you had ten thousand guardians in Christ, you do not have many Fathers, For in Christ Jesus I became your Father through the gospel.

I will like to talk to the spiritual fathers that are showing interest in one candidate, which should not be because they are in are revered position.

Even if they have a particular candidate that they support as a spiritual father (Pastor) and a shepherd who have many ships under his care they are not suppose to make it known to the public rather they are meant to go on their kneels and pray for the candidate.

As a Father let's take for example, a father that is showing favoritism among his children how do you think the child you are neglecting will feel and if at the end of the day the child you neglected now become successful how did you want to face that child or how will you feel.

As a spiritual father (Pastor) you are suppose to be still and watch what will unfold from afar. This is wisdom and it is profitable to direct.

Some of the spiritual fathers (Pastors) are even telling their spiritual children (members) to cast their vote for a particular candidate. They are the one dictating to their spiritual children (members) who to vote for, instead of them to just instruct their spiritual children (members) to cast their vote for whomever they thought is the best candidate who will rule the affairs of the country well and pilot this Nation into the terminal glory (Ebute ogo).

They are distracted because of politics as if they are politicians forgetting their roles and duties, they forget what the Bible called them that they are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God's special possession, that you may declare the praises of him that called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.

I see them as a shepherd but they don't behave like a good shepherd.

I'm just pained that most of them let their emotions to take the best part of them at the crucial time.

Giving the unbelievers and even the so called believers that are baby Christians the benefit of doubt to ask whether God is in the affair of our Nation. Does God answer prayer.

You God answers prayer and that's why it's good for you to know God for your self have personal intimate with him.

I even watched a spiritual father(Pastor) that was telling his spiritual children (members) that God showed him the accepted candidate will win and the rejected one will go to jail.

Making the unbelievers to say uncouth words against the church.

Who told them the candidate they are rejecting God cannot touch his heart and rule the Nation excellently well, when it is written in the book of Proverbs 21:1- that the king's heart is in the hand of the Lord, as the rivers of waters: he turneth it withersoever he will.

The book of Daniel 2:21 also says that and he changeth the times and the seasons: he removeth Kings, and setteth up Kings: he giveth wisdom unto the wise and knowledge to them that know wisdom.

*Now that the rejected stone has become the corner Stone. Now that the rejected candidate has won the election. How did they feel?

These spiritual Fathers(Pastors) preach about God's love. They tell their spiritual children (members) they are Christ like.

In the Bible it is the character of the Christians that make people around to testify and they are chirst like and they called them Christian.

Act 11: 26 says "...for a whole year Barnabas and Saul met with the church and taught great numbers of people. They were called Christian first at Antioch." They were called "Christians" because their speech and behavior were like Christ.

I want to ask these spiritual fathers(Pastors) one question.

*Can Jesus they claim they are preaching about, can he behave the way they did?

Mind you I'm not against any spiritual fathers (Pastors). I respect them and honour their anointing.
I'm just talking from my own view and how I think it should be.

May the anointing upon their head never run dry, may the Lord continue to increase them, may the not be an abandon vessel and I pray they will not be find wanting on the last day.

Peace

God Bless Nigeria 🇳🇬

©️Abiola Abolanle

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Good and loyal women are one of the greatest gifts a man can have.
But it takes a real man to know the worth of such a woman.

Elnaloba therefore, portrays women who deserve loyalty from their men.

1. Understands you

Have you ever seen partners who seemed to understand each other to the point where words are no
longer needed to communicate?
When you find yourself a woman who knows what you want each time, when to leave you alone,
when to stick by you even when you ask to be alone.
Such a woman deserves your loyalty as a man.

2. Perfect for you

Are you with a woman who puts you at the top of every list she has in her life?
Do you have a babe who thinks of you and considers you in every decision she wants to make?
Have you met that woman who doesn’t cheat, doesn’t make you feel less of a man, and doesn’t ever
make you question your place in her life?
Your loyalty shouldn’t be a big deal in such a relationship.

3. Financially disciplined

When, as a man, you find a woman who functions beautifully as a financial adviser, a partner,
comforter extraordinaire, and at the same time, a tigress between the sheets, my man, you’ve struck
gold.
When you find yourself a woman to whom you not only comfortably bare your soul in deep
conversation, but with whom you also get intimate ‘deeply,’ better not let her go.
There, in your hands is a jewel you might never ever get a better replacement.

4. Supportive

If you have a woman who got your back at all times, who’s got you covered come rain or shine,
please you have to hold on to her.
Someone who is always ready to support you, your career and makes you a successful person.
You can’t afford to let her go. It’s one loss you just might never recover from.

5. She is uncomplicated

There’s no complication – no shady conversations with an ex who keeps popping up on her phone.
No colleague at work who’s too close for comfort, nothing.
It’s just you and she makes that abundantly clear in words and actions.

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There are foods that increase your penis size naturally, These foods are what you can get around you.
Easy to get yet very active.
Elnaloba presents to you foods that increase your penis size naturally.

Watermelon

Regular consumption of watermelon can easily help to gain extra inches.
It contains a higher amount of citrulline amino acid that helps in boosting the penis size.

However, this fruit gets converted to a penis friendly L-arginine amino acids which stimulate nitric
oxide that increases the blood flow to the penis.

Onions

Onion is a rich food that enhances blood flow circulation from the body to the heart.
Also, Onion is a great food that can help increase your penis size by allowing blood flow to the penis.

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There are top foods that can help fight the risk of contracting deadly infections.

Elnaloba.com presents to you top foods that fight Sexually transmitted diseases.(STD).

Ginger

Ginger has exhibited the ability to inhibit the growth and even kill oral pathogens. It has also shown to have an antibacterial effect on respiratory and periodontal infections.

Coconut Oil

Coconut oil is antifungal, antibacterial and antiviral as well as being a good safe lubricant for sensitive skin. It also contains a medium-chain fatty acid called lauric acid that lends coconut its antibacterial properties. Using a natural lubricant such as coconut oil will help reduce this risk.

Cabbage

Cabbage has shown the ability to combat bacteria. Also, Cabbage juice, in addition, has traditionally been used as a cancer inhibitor and protective agent against radiation exposure.
Because of this, cabbage is also effective in detoxifying the liver, bladder, and colon.

Pure Raw Honey

Honey has been used for centuries for medicinal purposes. It is particularly honored for its complex antibacterial properties due to its high sugar concentration. Honey is also a timeless remedy for infections and antibiotic-resistant bacteria.

Cranberry

Cranberry juice kills bacteria and also helps in relieving the irritation or pain the person is experiencing. Besides consuming fresh cranberry juice, an individual may also choose to take cranberry supplements. Berries, particularly cranberries, also help ward off urinary tract infections.

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There are some ways to be happy with your single life.

So do yourself a favor, give yourself a little hug and start to love yourself more.

With help from Elnaloba.com, you can sort out some of the factors that will help you be happy while you are still single.

Focus on your career

Instead of ranting about how unlucky you are in a relationship, why not just focus on your dreams. The harder you work for something, the greater the happiness you will feel when you finally achieve it. Your success is your happiness, so if you really want to be successful, invest in yourself.

Spend more time with your family

Surrounding yourself with supportive people will help you feel happy. Always remember that you don’t have to be in an intimate relationship just to be happy. The love and support of your family to yours is already enough to keep yourself happy.

Encourage yourself

Daily positive affirmations can help you to feel happier every day. You may tell yourself: “I am intelligent.” “I can do this.” ‘I am beautiful.” Say anything that would make you smile and that would make you feel appreciated.

Eliminate toxic people in your life and workplace

Avoid tying yourself to clients, business partners, investors, or people who make you unhappy. It’s obviously harder to take the same approach with family members.
However, walk away and hang your phone just to avoid unhappiness.

Learn how to be alone

While singleness is great, it can be hard sometimes to be alone with your thoughts so often.
However, learning how to be alone is important. You can prove to yourself that you’re independent and don’t need to rely on a significant other to be happy.

Protect yourself

Don’t let the wrong people strode into your life, instead bring the right people into your life. You deserve to be surrounded by people who truly love you rather than those people who take pleasure in your pain and loss.

Treat Yourself

Spend more time with yourself, pamper yourself with food or buy yourself clothes. This will help you explore more about yourself, it will also make you appreciate yourself for being authentically you.

Keep in touch with your friends

Surround yourself with those who make you happy. Aside from your family, you also have Friends whom you can count on.
Make sure to choose friends who are worth it and real. There are probably things, you can’t share with your family that’s why you have your friends with you.

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Sometimes, I don’t know what some men really want in relationships. You will see a man who has a good woman in his life, one who loves him, supports him and is faithful to him, yet he leaves her to go marry a devil.
I have seen this happen over and over again that I am tempted to say that some men don’t know what they want. They are confused about this thing called relationship. Or, perhaps, they get swallowed up by their greed because they want to have everything!

When it comes to relationships, you can’t have it all. You should be in a relationship with someone with whom you are comfortable. You shouldn’t lose that because of mundane things. Some men know exactly the type of girl they are supposed to be with. They know exactly the type of woman they should end up with in order to have a happy and healthy relationship. They know the kind of woman they should marry and raise a family with, but they suddenly go in the opposite direction. Why?

They will leave that woman who is ready to move heaven and earth for them. They will play with her but choose the one wrapped in adventure. But when trouble starts later, they will start crying that all women are bad.
I would advise men to stop thinking with their penis but think with a good head instead when it comes to relationship and marriage. Don’t go for a bad woman because you think S3x with her will always be good. There are other qualities you should look out for in a woman.

I had a neighbour some years ago who left a beautiful, hardworking, respectful and calm lady he was dating because his father told him that Lagos girls are bad and corrupt, to settle for a village champion instead.
The ironic thing was that his wife was a stark opposite of his former girlfriend. She was ugly, ill-mannered, disrespectful, fought all the time and was lazy. She ran down his business in three years.

She fought with almost everybody in our compound then. People avoided her like a plague. It affected her husband’s relationship with others as well as his business. If they fought, she would start breaking plates and cups.
She would also throw things at him; verbally insult him and his family members to the hearing of their neighbours. She didn’t mind disrespecting him all the time. The marriage wore the once nice guy down. But it was too late. He couldn’t undo his mistake. He blamed his father for choosing the devil as he called her for him.

When I asked a friend why good men marry bad women, he said that because men are risk-takers; they believe that they are up to the task. Even though it is glaring that a woman is bad for them, they would still go ahead and date or marry such women because they feel they can handle it.
Some men end up with bad women because they think that good girls are boring in bed. I have heard men say this. They tell you that good girls are just there but the bad girls bring out the best in them.

These men claim that bad girls drive them wild in bed, so they marry them. They forget that marriage requires many qualities. Their eyes open after marriage. They then understand that there’s more to marriage than great S3x and wild Org*sms.
Some men end up marrying bad women because unlike women they have a difficult time figuring out what they truly want. These men will tell you that they want a beautiful, hardworking woman who should be a wife, a mother, a Wh0r3, a cook, a washerwoman, a secretary and adviser. They just want their women to be everything, which is impossible.

I knew a young man who had a good woman by his side for over four years. She was with him through thick and thin. They met in the university and she stuck to him like glue even though he offered her only himself and his lofty dreams.
She loved him, stood by him while he was still trying to find his feet. She refused to leave him even when her friend tried to match-make her with one big boy in town then. This girl was certain that her boyfriend would succeed and marry her. She refused to listen to anything contrary that people were telling her.
But years later, after the young man started making money, he broke up with this girl. He said she was too humble and quiet for his liking. He claimed he needed a feisty woman by his side who would sustain the success he had attained. The girl was shattered. She cried and begged him but he stood his ground.

Months later, he married the woman he wanted by his side and all hell broke loose. While in courtship, she pretended to be nice at first and won the hearts of his family members. They welcomed her and sang her praises to everyone who cared to listen.
But things changed after they got married. She became the opposite of everything he wanted from her. She would insult him, steal his money, buy things in his name, chase away his family members from their home and almost destroyed his business.
The young man regretted his action. He traded the good woman he had for someone who gave him high blood pressure. He had to lie on his bed the way he made it. So, I ask again, why do good men marry bad women? Is it because of confusion, greed or excitement? I need your answers.

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Do You Know That A Baby Can Have Two Biological Fathers? You might think it’s impossible but this is possible through chimera.
A chimera is an organism, which can be a human, resulting when two fertilised eggs combine and develop into a single individual instead of non-identical twins. The fertilized zygotes merge and develop into a baby with a mosaic of tissues with different DNA makeup.

Chimerism is extremely rare. Only about 100 cases have ever been recorded.

For one baby to have two fathers what would have to happen first is bipaternal twins, which is rare. It is when two eggs get fertilized by two different men’s sperm and become fraternal twins. For a chimera to happen, then one of those twins would die early in the womb and the other twin would absorb it and then fuse together into one person (a chimera).

Check elnaloba.com example of fraternal twins with different fathers and a lady who is a chimera.

So we really don’t know how common chimerism is. But it’s probably not extremely rare.
Some studies have suggested that 8% of fraternal twins are blood chimeras — they have small amounts of their twin’s blood circulating in their own bloodstream.

Since it’s possible for the eggs to be fertilized by different men, you can get a person with chimera-ism who has two fathers. More likely, however, it would be like combining non-identical twins by the same father.
Furthermore, if someone is a chimera, the organs which produce eggs or sperm may differ from the tissue in other parts of the body. There is a case of a woman (Lydia Fair child) who was said to be her own twin. She appeared to be unrelated to her children because their blood types were incompatible. Another man appeared not to be the father of his children but was genetically related as if he were their uncle. He had no brother – but was a chimera formed from elements of two fraternal twins.
Many people never realize they are chimeras. They can be very healthy and appear completely normal: therefore, they have no reason to ever suspect their make up is unusual.

For some people, the differences can be seen on the surface with a patchwork of different skin tones and perhaps eye colour (note there are other far more common reasons for such appearance, so don’t assume that anyone with blotchy skin or different eye shades is a chimera).
Sometimes the merging twins are of different sexes, and this is one cause of hermaphrodism, where someone has both male and female Instruments.
All this is very rare. Not impossible, but highly improbable. However, you might be a chimera and never realize. Thought provoking?
The thing is that there’s no real test for it. Your toe could have DNA from your d**d twin, and how would anyone ever discover this?

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The marriage of a lady allegedly came crashing down after she refused to pound yam for her
brother in-law who came visiting them in their home.

A friends marriage ended cos her brother-in-law came home after she just finished cooking rice n offered him n he said he wanted pounded yam n he won’t eat rice n she said she can’t make that she is tired, he shud eat rice or go n make it himself

He started bragging talm abt it’s my house blah blah n she said it’s her n her husbands house not his. And he called his brother n reported the wife. When the hubby came back, he didn’t even ask her what happened he started raking and he said if she can’t accept his family.

Then she should leave his home. She why he didn’t ask for her side of the story n if he is for real that she should leads his house n he said yes. She called her brothers n those ones got angry n came to pick her, she left with just few clothes thinking den go settle

Na so the hubby send his brother n his sisters to bring her remaining clothes. Na so relationship of 5 years n marriage of one end o. After months of staying home she called her hubby that they should settle, she’s sorry for leaving but he said mba.

They have a child, she left her with kid, he comes to see the kid, takes care of the child needs and all.

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Not everyone is someone you want to wake up to every day for the rest of your life. Look for these qualities to know if she’s wifey material.
There are some women who are dating material, and others who are wifey material. What’s the difference? There are certain qualities that make a special woman someone you want to devote your life to. She challenges you, makes you feel good about yourself, and makes you want to be a better man. So what is it that these vixens possess that not all girls do?

The 25 character traits that make someone wifey material.

If your girl possess these personality traits, it might be time to put a ring on it and seal the deal, because she is definitely wifey material.

1. She listens to what you have to say

Someone you want to spend the rest of your life with will listen to what you have to say and will take it to heart, remember it, and try her hardest to respect it.

2. She fits right in to any crowd

A wife is someone who you are proud to be with. Whether it’s a black tie affair or a cousin’s wedding in a fire hall, she can roll with the punches.

3. She takes care of you when you’re sick

If you’re going to spend the rest of your life with someone in sickness and in health, that means that she’ll be there for you to help you feel better, even if it means she has to cancel some of her plans, too.

4. She has motherly instincts and kindness

If having kids is important to you, it’s important to think about the long road ahead, not just the first leg of the ride.

5. She is independent

You want someone who wants to be with you, but who doesn’t *need* you for every little decision or once of stability in their lives. It isn’t that you don’t want to work together, but each partner should bring something to the table.

6. She’s not simply in it for money

There’s nothing that will break up a marriage quicker than continuous arguments over money. If there are signs that finances will be a major crux in your relationship from the get-go, chances are, she’s not the wifey material you’re looking for.

7. Sharing is caring

A wife is someone who not only shares your bed, but she shares her life and everything in it as a partnership.

8. She wants a partnership

There’s no room for egomaniacs or control freaks in a marriage. Your relationship should be an equal partnership, where both parties get a say in big decisions.

9. She is kind to your friend

. Your wife is going to be at your side to death do you part. Some who is good wifey material should like your friends, not just tolerate them. Your friends know you best, and if they don’t like your wife, that will make for a very long, lonely, life.

10. She pushes you to better yourself and step outside of your comfort zone

Having a lifelong partner means that you’ll always have someone cheering in your corner and motivating you to do the things you’ve always wanted to accomplish.

11. No matter what you want to do, she supports you through it

If something is important to you, she will give you the reins to help you make your dreams come true.

12. You can cry in front of her and know that she won’t think less of you

You can be you and show your weaknesses around her without feeling stupid. There are going to be times in your marriage when you’re going to need to lean on her. Someone who’s wifey material can take the weight off your shoulders and help you get through life’s obstacles.

13. You can show your vulnerable side

You don’t always want to have to be the big tough guy. Find someone who is okay with seeing *and nurturing* your raw, vulnerable side.

14. She isn’t selfish

A wife is someone who won’t ever ask you to sacrifice yourself if she wouldn’t be willing to do the same. She wants not just the best for herself, but for you as well.

15. She is okay with being a little adventurous in the bedroom

Sex can get, well, boring. A wife is okay with trying new things in the bedroom to heat it up and is willing to be open, communicative, and adventurous.

16. She gets along with your mom

If she doesn’t get along with your mom now, she’s eventually going to either make you choose or make your world miserable. Try to find someone who can get along with your mom *and family in general* for a happily-ever-after.

17. Your family likes her

If your family isn’t into the woman you’re with, there’s probably a reason. Your family is on your side and has no reason to try to dissuade you from loving someone unless they see trouble in your future or an unhappy union to come.

18. She gets along with other girls

If she can’t get along with any of the other girls in your life, that’s a big sign that she may not be wifey material. You want to be with someone who will treat those in your life with kindness and respect.

19. She believes that a home isn’t a structure, but a feeling

She wants to forge a home with you. This doesn’t mean simply a beautiful house in the suburbs to show off to her friends, but a true home that is filled with love.

20. She’s willing to compromise

Someone who’s wifey material will be willing to compromise and not always have things her way. You don’t want to spend a lifetime never getting what you want or having to sacrifice your own needs.

21. She cares about your dreams

A wife wants the best for you and for you to live out your dreams. She has no problem helping you realize even the most seemingly far-fetched fantasies, provided you’re also willing to do the same for her.

22. You get a feeling around her that you haven’t ever had before

The believe that you’ll just know when the right person comes along really does have some truth to it. You’ll get a feeling about a special girl that’ll tell you right away that she’s wifey material.

23. You can’t stand to see her cry

If you hate to see her cry and want nothing but to make her smile, then she’s probably wifey material.

24. When you picture your future, you can’t imagine it without her

If you can’t imagine life without her at your side, she’s surely a keeper.

25. She cares about furthering your career as much as her own

The woman you marry should be equally concerned with your aspirations as she is with her own. As a team, the two of you can achieve so much more than would be possible on your own.

Some women are fun to date, and others are ones with whom you want to spend the rest of your life. If you think she may be wifey material, take note of these 25 character traits to find out for sure.

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If you have been on the internet for the past two years then you are probably familiar with stuff like “relationship goals” or something like “boyfriend/girlfriend like that”. The reason why this is so much popular is because everyone is looking for a healthy and stable relationship with whom they can see a future with. While not many people are as lucky and have the perfect relationship with, some people have managed to stay forever with their love. We asked around for relationship tips and here are the top 5 secrets that help the couples to stay together forever.

Elnaloba.com presents to you 5 reasons why couples stay together forever.

1. MOVE PAST FIGHTS

Every relationship will have their ups and downs and it is inevitable that you two will have fights down the line. But that does not mean that fights will be the end of your relationship. Of course, you can have different opinions and arguments but you need to understand that no fight is greater than the relationship. You just need to compromise and look past it and get on with the relationship.

2. LITTLE SURPRISES ARE IMPORTANT

No matter how much people deny it, surprises are one of the best things in life. So if you want a long and happy relationship then surprise your other half every once in a while. It does not have to be something expensive or huge. Surprise your boyfriend with some of his favorite chocolates or favorite football team jersey. Gift your girlfriend some flowers on your way back home, cook her favorite meal and so on. You will be surprised at how much the other person will appreciate all these.

3. PRIORITIES

Yes, you both can live busy lives and may or may not have to attend important meetings and parties. But sometimes you just got to put your foot down and say no and spend some time with your partner. You don’t necessarily have to attend all 5 work parties, nor do you have to have girl’s night out every week. Stay in, or order some food and have an indoor movie date. This will show that you are in her/his priority list and that you are willing to make the effort for them.

4. TREAT THEIR FAMILY AS YOURS

When you are in a committed relationship, you have to meet up with their family members one time or another. A common mistake that most people make is making their partners choose between themselves and their family which is plain wrong. You should treat their family as part of you own. Bridge the awkwardness and be together. Trust me, he or she will love you even more for making that effort and being so good with their family. Don’t build a bridge between the two groups. And if you can do it, then better make sure they do it too.

5. BE SPONTANEOUS

One of the key reasons why relationships at the beginning feel so good is because of the thrill and spontaneous feel about it. Anything and everything you do is a new start. But over time, the thrill dies out and you get into a monotonous lifestyle. Don’t let your relationship go through that patch. Be spontaneous with your partner. Plan surprise trips, hit the road, do something crazy every once a while just to keep the flame of excitement burning. You can even try out new things together to further strengthen the bond. This is essential for any good relationship and if you want yours to last forever, then it is a necessity!

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HOW TO DO AWAY WITH BAD BREATH

Most individuals do not have confidence when speaking in public because of their bad breath. This is one disease that many people have been suffering from. If you find yourself suffering from bad breath don’t worry this article is for you.
In this article, we have listed 5 steps to follow in other to do away with bad breath.

1.THOROUGH MOUTH BRUSHING

Brushing of mouth is one of the health principles required by any individual. those who do not brush suffer disgusting mouth odor that makes it difficult for them to expressed themselves in public. However, thorough brushing of mouth is one factor that establishes good breath from such mouth. After eating, it is a basic factor to brush your teeth so as to keep off the food particles that decompose and gives a bad smell.


2. REFRAIN FROM FOODS THAT SOURS YOUR BREATH

Despite the advantages of foods such as garlic, onions e.t.c. it is advisable to do away with such foods. According to research smells travel through the bloodstreams and make their way through the lungs which air travels. it is advisable you take such foods before brushing so as to keep your oral hygiene good.

3. AVOID TOBACCO

Tobacco is not only harmful to health, but it also damages the gum, teeth and it affects the air you breath out from your mouth. The process of smoking tobacco is also a platform where you gain diseases to your lungs, it damages your respiratory organs which controls the process of breathing. This can result in having bad breath. It also affects the color of your teeth, which makes you less hygenic.

4. AVOID SUGARY SUBSTANCE

Chewing gums are expected to be used after a meal to aid digestion. But it should be sugarless chewing gum because bacteria in the mouth love sugar. These bacteria use the sugar from any sugary substance to make acid. that wears down your teeth and causes bad breath. To avoid bad breath, chew sugarless gum instead.

5. GO FOR MEDICAL CHECKUP

It is advised you see your dentist occasionally to keep your teeth healthy and also avoid bad breath.


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I have a friend that I chat with regularly who has been married for 43 years. That’s a lifetime!
I always enjoy our times together as whenever the conversation turns to anything marriage-related she smiles because she’s been through it all, and then she always reassures me. The things that come up are not earth-shattering, just things that are par for the course but that can become burdensome if our perspective is skewed. Things like dealing with adult children, or the empty nest phase, or just day-to-day stuff.

My 28 years seems like baby steps compared to hers, but it’s reassuring to speak with someone who has more life experience in this area. Oh, by the way, she’s genuinely happy – she’s not saying one thing and doing something else.
She’s had her share of ups and downs just like I have, but faces life each day with determination and joy. So wherever you are in this journey, here are 10 things that will help your marriage:

1. Pray – Just Pray

Ask God to bless your marriage; ask for insight and wisdom when you’re puzzled by what’s happening around you; unload all your angst and aggravation to the One above. Pray for your spouse as best as you can; pray during the tough times and easy times. Pray. Pray together or separately, but pray. Because only as you are submitted in prayer first to God and then to each other will you both be able to stand and endure. Pray. When you have unloaded yourself in pray, you are better able to deal with what is in front of you, so just pray.

2. Laugh

Neither of you may possess the best sense of humor, but the ability to laugh with each other, at each other and at your circumstances will allow you to look at each other and your circumstances differently. Things won’t seem so burdensome when you share a good laugh.

3. Reminisce

Remember what brought you together in the first place. Remember how your heart skipped when he walked in the room or how your face lit up whenever you saw her. Reminisce about how up to this point you have found a way to conquer anything that came your way. Reminiscing allows you to celebrate and to become hopeful. Then use those memories and build on them to get you through your current situation.

4. Get Physical

Sometimes everything seems so much better with a tender touch in the small of your back, a thumb that circles your hand as you hold hands or a hug. One of those all-encompassing hugs that screams love; and if these hugs lead to greater intimacy that’s fine also. Physical touch and connection let’s each other know that you’re still there and that you’re both important to each other.

5. Know that Tough Times Won’t Last Forever

What makes a situation change? Either the situation changes or you change your approach to the situation. For example, during our marriage, we’ve dealt with job loss. During that tough time, we adjusted the way we lived and became bigger supporters of each other. We had always planned for famine, but even with planning the reality is tougher than when it was a plan. Tempers flared, etc. but we knew it was because of the situation, not each other, so we dug in together and forged our way through.

6. Navigate Bumpy Roads Together

We could pull apart, but invariably two heads tackling a problem was more resourceful. Invariably the tough situations drew us closer instead of apart. We focused our energy on tackling the problem instead of attacking each other. During job loss, I helped with resume revisions and emailing resumes. When I was emotionally overwhelmed, he organized his schedule so that I got my sacred “me” time. When you come through the other side, and you will, you recognize that because of each other you are both stronger together.

7. Take A Moment of Silence

Enjoy the quiet solitude and patterns you have with each other. There’s a stereotype of an old married couple out at dinner and neither is saying anything and it’s usually portrayed negatively. Oftentimes there is silence because there’s nothing to say in the moment, but also because you speak to each other so often you both relish the silence. Reflect and be introspective with each other until you are ready to converse again; after all, the silence is simply for a moment.

8. Cherish Good Friends

Surround yourself with good friends; they don’t all have to be married or be similar to you but they should love you and have your best interests at heart. Sometimes outside of your spouse, you need another listening ear. We have found good friends through work and church. Good friends who have your best interest at heart energize us.

9. Create Different Experiences

You’re a unit, but sometimes day to day living becomes draining especially when times are tough. There’s nothing wrong with giving each other space in the form of expanding individual interests. For me it was delving into exercise on a deeper level; for my husband, it was finding a Table Tennis club. The beauty of this was that it enriched both of our lives and added new dimensions to our interactions while providing a necessary distraction.

10. Be Kind

This might seem like the hardest thing to do during a tough time but it is the most needed, because more than likely you’re both impacted by the situation. So instead of being angry at each other, make an extra effort to speak sweetly to each other. Be considerate – do a little thing that might make a huge difference and reinforce that you’re both still there for each other. Kindness rocks and usually wins the day. One of my favorite marriage verses is Ephesians 4:32 which says “Be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as you have been forgiven by God. So it’s not so hard to be kind to your life partner since your Heavenly Father already showed His kindness towards you.


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But just because you and your boyfriend have taken the plunge and are living together doesn’t mean that the hard work ends here…
When you finally meet a guy that you like enough to date for a long period of time, let alone decide to move in with, life feels pretty much perfect. You’ve won the dating game and don’t have to sort through all those losers anymore in the hopes of finding some kind of gem. But just because you and your boyfriend have taken the plunge and are living together doesn’t mean that the hard work ends here… or that you can both act super lazy.

You might find that cohabitation brings a whole bunch of problems that you never even thought about before. Some of those problems take place right in the bedroom (and they actually have nothing to do with getting busy). Read on to find out 15 bedroom habits that will eventually ruin the relationship. If you want to save your love story, don’t do any of these things!

1. Texting In Bed

Of course sometimes, if your boyfriend is already asleep and you get an important text message, you are going to have to answer it. But you do not want to text in bed every single night. You just don’t. That basically means that you are totally ignoring your partner and not actually spending time with him. Don’t you want to cuddle in bed and chat about your days? Don’t you want to get even closer and talk about the future?
Building a relationship with someone definitely means making sure that there is some level of emotional intimacy going on, and when you live together, chances are that all happens when you are in bed with your boyfriend. So put down your iPhone and start focusing on your relationship… before your guy gets super fed up and soon you are fighting all the time. That is probably not what you want.

2. Being A Social Media Addict

This is similar to having the bad habit of texting in bed but it can be even worse since let’s face it, you’re probably a social media addict. You can’t help it, right? Everyone is a social media addict these days, for better or for worse (and often, for worse, at least when it comes to your relationship).
If you don’t want to ruin your relationship, then don’t check your social media accounts when you’re supposed to be cuddling up to your boyfriend on a cold winter’s night or when it’s a sunny Saturday morning and you should be sleeping in together.

How would you feel if he was always more interested in checking his Twitter feed or updating his Instagram account instead of hanging out with you in your very own bedroom? Yeah, exactly. Sometimes it helps to put yourself in your BF’s shoes when you’re not sure if you’ve got a bad habit (and in this case, this is a really bad habit).

3. Watching TV

Whether or not you should have a television in your bedroom is a pretty controversial subject… and it deserves to be because it’s not always the best idea. Okay, it’s never the best idea. You should honestly think about leaving your TV where it honestly belongs — in your living room or den or whatever your main living space is.
It’s tough to stop the temptation of watching TV in bed since let’s be real, at the end of a long day, you’re exhausted and all you want is some fun and somewhat mindless entertainment. But if you and your boyfriend have a TV in the bedroom, you’re going to drift apart because you’re going to spend more time watching TV and less time actually talking to each other.
You can absolutely still watch your favorite shows (it would be horrible if you stopped!) and of course, you can both watch shows together. But just keep it out of the bedroom. You seriously won’t be sorry.

4. Reading EVERY Night

OF COURSE, reading is a great idea. You should never stop reading. But one bad bedroom habit that can ruin your relationship is if you get into bed every single night and read. As in you don’t talk to your boyfriend. You don’t want to hang out with him. You don’t want to spend any time together before you go to sleep. Nope. You’re too into the story that you’re currently reading.
The best way to deal with this? Don’t go into your bedroom and read for HOURS every night of the week. You can still read before bed because that’s a great relaxing activity and an awesome way to wind down before heading off into dreamland. As long as you’re still giving your boyfriend the time of the day, then it won’t be a problem.
These things only become problems when they happen all the time. It would be like if he was always playing video games before bed and totally ignoring you. You wouldn’t like that, right?

5. Working

If you usually work in bed late at night with your boyfriend right beside you, STOP RIGHT NOW. It doesn’t matter if he’s awake too and scrolling through his phone. It doesn’t matter if he’s fast asleep and swears that he can literally sleep through anything and it doesn’t bother him.
You don’t want to work in bed. You don’t even want to work in your bedroom if you have a desk or some kind of office set-up. Okay, yeah, if that’s the only place in your apartment that you can set up a workstation, then fine.
But if you don’t have to, then don’t. Because you want your bedroom to be for hanging out with your partner and, well, you can probably guess what else. If you bring your job into the bedroom, you’re just going to be stressed all the time and thinking about work. You won’t be able to stop.

6. Super Girly Decor

Yeah, this is your bedroom… but it belongs to your boyfriend, too! And chances are he doesn’t want a super girly bedroom. Yeah, he might lie through his teeth and swear that he enjoys the colors pink and purple. He might say that he has zero decorating ability and that you can feel free to go to town and do what you want.
He might really want to make you happy or he might be trying not to start a great big fight. It doesn’t matter why he’s telling you that he’s fine with the bedroom decor. The truth is that he’s not. If you want to ruin your relationship, then decorate your room to your heart’s content and make sure that your BF hates every square inch of it.
He deserves to enjoy his room too! Make sure that your decor reflects both of your styles and tastes. Yes, even if that means you decorate in a really minimalistic and simplistic way so it suits both of you.

7. Taking Up The Entire Closet

It’s become kind of a cliche at this point to say that you as the girl in the relationship would take up the entire closet once you shack up with your one true love… but sorry, it’s true! If you take up the entire closet, then you’re being a.) a jerk and b.) you’re going to ruin the relationship.
You’re not taking your boyfriend’s thoughts and feelings into consideration. You might think that it’s no big deal because girls historically have more clothes than guys and care more about things like outfits and closet space. But come on. You’re kind of proving to him that you don’t want to create space for him in the apartment and in the relationship too (both metaphorically and physically).
Who knew a closet could be so deep?! Jokes aside, you want to make sure that living together is the right decision for the two of you, and so if you really don’t want his stuff in your place, then you have to think about that.

8. Not Cleaning

Not cleaning your bedroom is not only kind of gross and ridiculous since you’re supposed to be an adult at this point. It’s also not fair to your partner. It doesn’t matter if he’s messy and so you figure that you can be messy, too.
It also doesn’t matter if he’s the neat freak in the relationship and you’re the total opposite. If you want to live together in total and complete harmony (which should probably be the goal!), then make sure that you’re taking care of the apartment. Yeah, that means cleaning. Yeah, that means you have to clean even if you hate it.
No, that doesn’t mean that you have to clean alone and that your BF never has to lift a finger! Of course he should totally share in the chores too. You both want to have a room that belongs to you as a couple and you can’t enjoy it if your floor is always covered in clothes!

9. Acting Platonically

If you act like you and your boyfriend are simply roomies or best friends, you’re going to ruin things between the two of you very fast. You want to make sure that the romance is still alive and well.
That doesn’t mean that you have to spend tons of cash and litter your bed and floor with rose petals (although of course you can do that if you want to be cheesy AF). It just means that you should have some fun together and make sure that you’re telling each other on a regular basis that you really care about each other and are so glad that you’re living your lives together.
If you act platonically, you won’t get what you want out of the relationship since the two of you will get into a groove or routine where you see each other in the morning, head to work, make dinner, watch TV, then go to sleep. Where’s the love?!

10. Bringing Up Your Deal Breakers

Everyone has deal breakers. Even if you don’t think that you do, you definitely do. It’s human nature to have a list of things that you want in a partner (and a list of things that you don’t find attractive at all). Just because you’re in a relationship and are living together doesn’t mean that you have found your ABSOLUTE perfect match.
Life and love are both about compromise and you can’t ever forget that. Another really bad bedroom habit is bringing up your deal breakers when you’re in bed aka talking about the things that you think are going wrong in the relationship… or the things that you think he should change about himself. You don’t want to do that.
You barely even want to bring those up in the bedroom at all, even if you’re only getting dressed in the morning or something. You’re going to set the bedroom up as a space where you talk about super difficult and tricky things, and soon the two of you are going to be fighting a lot. So talk about those things when you’re in other areas of the apartment. Your relationship will thank you.

11. Taking Up Too Much Space

If you take up too much space in your bedroom and act like it’s only YOUR room, that’s not going to be a good thing for your relationship. If your boyfriend has moved into your place, it can be tough to think of it as “OUR” place instead of only yours, but that’s something that you absolutely have to do if you’re going to happily live together.
If you’re having trouble letting go, you might be spreading all your stuff out in the bedroom. That could mean that you use half the room to put your makeup on and do your hair and get ready in the morning or before you go out with your girlfriends.
Or you always leave your stuff all over the place. Or you have your books and stuff on the bookshelves but don’t want your BF’s things anywhere. He’s going to feel really bad and left out and eventually, he’s going to think that you don’t even want him there, so this is more important than you might originally think.

12. Stealing The Covers (Or Sleeping In The ENTIRE Bed)

Are you a cover hog? Do you love to sleep in your ENTIRE bed as if you’re still sleeping alone and your boyfriend isn’t even there? Raise your hand if you’re guilty! The problem with this, of course, is that you’re going to seriously annoy your boyfriend.
If he was doing these things, you would be frustrated AF too. You don’t want to make sleeping in the same bed so totally and completely impossible that you start arguing, you don’t get enough sleep, and you wonder if you should even live together at all.
Thinking about your sleeping habits is a simple way to make sure that you get through this cohabitation in one piece and can happily live in the same place. After all, if you’re super in love, you don’t want the fact that you’re a totally annoying sleeper ruin your relationship! You just might save things if you can figure this out.

13. Fighting Before Going To Sleep

Yup, you knew this one would be on this list, right? Fighting with your significant other before you guys go to sleep is probably the WORST thing you could do… and it is definitely the most horrible bedroom habit out there. People say that you should never go to bed angry at your partner and that couldn’t be more true.
There’s also the fact that you probably won’t even be able to get your beauty sleep (or any sleep at all) since you’ll be so pissed off and upset! And then in the morning, you won’t feel better — you’ll feel even worse since you’ll be pretty sleep-deprived.
So never fight before going to bed… and definitely, don’t fight when you’re both IN bed. As long as you make this your golden rule, you will be doing a great thing for your relationship. And you won’t ruin anything at all!

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See there is this idea that men always need to do something super Sexy to woo a woman. It has to be Sexually related to making her go crazy and fall for you, head over heels. But that’s actually wrong. While there is nothing wrong in doing something Sexy for your women, you don’t always have to be lust-oriented. There are simpler and everyday things that can make a woman fall hard for you and drive them crazy. Not sure what I am talking about? Check out the list below.

1. Make her laugh

As the saying goes, there is nothing Sexier than a man who knows how to make his woman laugh. Females love it when their partners can crack jokes and make them grin from ear to ear Sure, women will smile every now and then at your words and remarks but to truly make them laugh out loud is a difficult task and if you can manage to do it then your woman will go crazy for you and be even more attracted towards you.

2. Use your height

This particular point is only applicable if you are dating a short girl or if you happen to be really tall! Sometimes your partner will have trouble reaching for things that are placed way above her head. Maybe it’s the container in the kitchen or a hook that she is trying to reach to hang something or anything that is out of her reach. During these times, you should swoop in and help her get her stuff. It’s a simple act but girls like it very much. They get this feeling that you are there to protect her no matter what, even if it is from objects placed at great heights. Girls sure did tall guys!

3. Playing with babies

This has to be the ultimate deal sealer. There is something about men playing with babies that women absolutely adore. They go crazy every time they see a guy who is good with kids. And if the baby happens to be somebody related to the woman and the baby likes you back then you can be assured that the woman is never leaving you. Maybe watching you take so good care of the baby makes the woman realize that you can be sensitive and not hurt them and that you will take care of her too.

4. Dress up for her

Men aren’t known for always dressing up and looking sharp. And you are forgiven most of the time for not looking at your best but that does not mean you won’t put in some effort. When you actually get off your lazy Bvtt and shower and put on something nice, your woman will automatically be impressed. She will feel special that you actually did something nice for her and that will make her love you even more. You really don’t have to do much. Just put on something nice, a shirt or a dinner jacket and wear some perfume and you are good to go.

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It is no news that women marry quite early in life while men stay late and some very very late before getting married, some even wait till their 40s and 50s before settling down?
But what could be responsible for this trend?

Fear of commitment

“While a few men have no problem with sticking to one woman for a very long time, there are lots and lots of men who have a problem with it which is why most men get scared at the thought of marriage; they’d rather be in the sort of relationship where they won’t have to feel responsible for, and accountable to someone than be in one where their ‘freedom’ will be limited, they want to live life their own way, and not have to be bothered about someone else’s feelings”.
Fear of getting into the wrong union
“The problem for some men isn’t commitment; rather, it is the fear of falling into the wrong hands in marriage; many men have heard different stories about failed marriages, and the reasons they failed; others have had a few bad relationships themselves, and when they put these into consideration, they opt to remain single, than put themselves in danger of settling with the wrong woman, and suffering the regret and trauma that may follow”.

Financial status

“We all know that money plays a major role in starting a family, without money, you cannot even have a decent wedding in most parts of the world which is why you find that most men would rather wait till they have enough of it before they take the big step in their relationship and for this set of men, the will is there, but the money isn’t”.

Single friends

“When you are single, and most of your friends are, the thought of marriage may hardly occur to you because you have no one in your life to remind you of it; you tend to live the sort of life they live, just so you continue to have them in your life and this is why you see that most men get married only after their friends must have because that is when reality sets in and apart from that, there are instances where friends dissuade friends from taking the next step in their relationship; all these can contribute to make a man uninterested in marriage”.
So here are some major reasons why I think a lot of eligible men are still single instead and are afraid of starting a family. “Are you an eligible bachelor? Why are you still single?kindly, share your reasons with us.

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