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ProfChris10:
I see you already have your answers made up in your mind, and I doubt if you will see reasons. You are not asking to learn. I doubt you will get an answer.
 
Your premises are based on penetration only. Your argument is not founded. If you insist that penetration is the basis for rape and then insist that since only one gender possesses the organ for penetration, then your point is that rape can only be one-sided. That's baseless!

Studies show that an unconscious male can get an erection. In this regard, what do you call a scenario where a male was drugged and then a female had her way with his erection? Will you say, because there was a penetration and, therefore, the unconscious male raped a fully conscious female?
 
What about consent?

ProfChris10:
I see you already have your answers made up in your mind, and I doubt if you will see reasons. You are not asking to learn. I doubt you will get an answer.
 
Your premises are based on penetration only. Your argument is not founded. If you insist that penetration is the basis for rape and then insist that since only one gender possesses the organ for penetration, then your point is that rape can only be one-sided. That's baseless!

I love this... the OP doesn't even know the meaning of rape, she's just concerned abt penetration, also unwilling to learn
 
Studies show that an unconscious male can get an erection. In this regard, what do you call a scenario where a male was drugged and then a female had her way with his erection? Will you say, because there was a penetration and, therefore, the unconscious male raped a fully conscious female?
 
What about consent?

Fabulouslouie:
I'm done with clearance and even tired of waiting for them to upload my name

johnsmhelia15:
Please can more names be addedd to senate list while registration is stil on??

MyOleSolksjaer:
Dear All,

I need your candid advise on these matters that touch the heart. I got married last year to the mother of my beautiful daughter sometime in August last year during the COVID lock down. The marriage was against my wishes and due to parental pressure. Prior to marrying my wife, I was doing a good job by making sure I take good care of my daughter and the mom. My daughter just turned 2 in July and has already started going to school. My wife and I met online and started dating immediately after our first sexual encounter. Along the line she got pregnant and we started having misunderstandings. We both decided we will keep the baby because I made a vow with God not to abort any child with any woman I impregnate.

However, to cut the story short we both agreed we won't get married and her parents were cool with it as long as I take care of their daughter and my child. Then came COVID and during the events of the lockdown, I entered into a relationship with a Chemical Engineer that earns a 7 figure monthly salary. The relationship lasted for months but my mom never supported the relationship and did everything to make sure I break up with this lovely lady in a bid to marry my baby mama. I was against it knowing fully well that she is very quarrelsome and dramatic. I had inner peace with my lockdown girlfriend. Till now I still miss her and want to be with her despite being married to my wife who is always looking for ways to suspect me for one thing or the other. She has even threatened that if she catch me cheating, she will cheat back.

My marriage for the past 1 year has been full of problems, drama, and even attempted violence. My wife just graduated from Uni and is about to go in for her NYSC. I am even praying she gets posted out of Lagos preferably the North. This marriage has drained me of all my resources and has taken away a lot from me. My wife doesn't appreciate the good I do for her and my daughter. She is always quick to judge me and criticize for every small mistake I make. She nags all the time and always want to pick a fight for bullshit reasons. I don't find my wife attractive anymore and I have lost every desire to have sex with her from the first day we married in August last year.

She gets upset when female colleagues at work call me. I had considered resigning because we had an issue over my boss at work who always calls me for work related stuff. I am not on good terms with my mom because she engineered this marriage against my own wishes. My wife and I don't have a good relationship. It has gotten so bad that we don't sleep in the same room anymore. I had to leave the house for some time to stay in an accommodation provided by my work place so I can have inner peace and regain my sanity.

I am so pained because of my relationship that ended abruptly. I tried getting back with my Ex whom I still love but now she doesn't want to have anything to do with me despite how much I still love her. My question is, should I still try to win my ex over or find another woman? As for my marriage, I consider it dead and over. I don't care what my parents particularly my mom will do. I don't bleeping care anymore. All I want is my love to come back to my life and end this toxic marriage.

1Sharon:
No, not drugs. Mental illness, or simply because he's a psychopath?

BlissGod:
This is a personal thing that happened in my present.

So, back some years ago when I was a student struggling to pay bills. I was blessed I got a job good enough to sustain me. Later my madam became sick and I had to leave the job. My landlord was oweing me, I paid for a room and parlor to be completed but he spent the money .

When my rent expired I came to the new landlord expecting a new house I have already prepaid for, I was left in shock. He has spent the money and didn't finish cementing the walls and painting the place and no door yet.

I had no money then the man offered me another room he had a big house. I started living there. No cash just some savings left with me.

My landlord's daughter had a friend from Edo who genuinely care for me. She'd buy me gift and foodstuffs and I was always thanking her.

One day she suggested I follow her to her night out, I said no can do. She left. I didn't see her for about a month. The day I saw her again she was dressed in nude and I greeted her she didn't respond. That night I had a dream where suddenly became mad and started vomiting dollars and a big snake was inside her stomach. I woke up and I prayed aginst that evil dream.

By morning I called her and her friend (landlord's daughter) I told them about the dream. She was like she's going somewhere. By evening she would be back and I will pray for her.

(Off topic: the landlord paid me my rent that week in full and apologize for not using it for that purpose, that money sustained me till I got another job about 6months. Most disappointment is a blessing in disguise. I was living with them for free now)

I didn't see her that evening. Anyway, I forgot about the dream. Three days later landlord's daughter travelled and came back. She was calling my phone but I refused to answer. Later she came to disturb me when I was sleeping that afternoon. She was shouting and screaming that my dream has come to pass.

I jokingly said is it where I won $10million. She was like it's a matter of life ooo. Then I told her to calm down and she was upset that she called throughout yesterday I didn't answer or call back. I apologized. That my head was full I didn't want to talk to anyone.

She told me she was in a prayer camp where they sent that her friend for prayers. Even the pastor have told them to come carry her. She might die there. They went to carry her to another place.

She explicitly to me the girl has run mad and she was vomiting dollars for one guy in his room until the guy was caught. He tried to run but people beat him blue black. The guy's friend saw what happened and called people.

The so called yahoo boy have used the girlfriend for money rituals.[b]

[b] Unfortunately, the girl vomited money and blood for several months and became extremely sick. I don't know whether she's alive or dead. I left that house when BABA GOD opened a mighty door for me.

Newdawn30:
I also don't believe in money ritual, I am glad to see that many people herw share my opinion too,
Its sleep deprivation and use of drugs, these guys are known for there heavy use of all.sort of drugs coupled with sleep deprivation wish causes temporary insanity

ifyken:
It doesn't work the way you think if not girls would have been a rare species in Nigeria. It works psychologically if someone is confident and desperate enough to do ritual the person will have the 'mind' to take riskier ways of getting money from clients
Yahoo plus doesn't work,there is no God,Satan,heaven,hell(nigeria is a synonym though). You are on your own

RomanGreen:
What about violence against men?

ogbiwa:
https://www.dailystar.co.uk/sport/football/ryan-giggs-threw-ex-out-24601779

Meister:
I literally made emphasis on reasonable, A02 is a complete waste of money