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Oyindidi:
Don't hold it, I know men hold it longer to get maximum satisfaction.

lols
yeah you're right actually
but that's not the case with me am not holding on to it.

Oyindidi:
10 minutes sex no satisfy you, that's enough time to be satisfied.

Not about satisfaction actually
It just take long for me to ejaculate.

greatcrown:
Let your wife try "Silky Kola with Lakanin Ningi"

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Thank you so much bro
sorry do you know like the yourba or English name for the silky kola?

alphaNomega:
Your wife does not like s3x, you're free to cheat

Cheating is expensive.

MissJoy29:
Can I give you a secret?

If your answer is "yes", then I need you to answer this very important question: does she reach orgasm before you?

The answer to the question will determine whether you need to hear the secret or not. Although I already know the answer. The description is accurate.

Yeah she does before me

inioluwajoe:
let her try blending coconut, tigernut(yellow ones) and dates(dabino) together. she should tale it a few hours to sex. This will help her juices flow and energize her for action. I have friends who experience such. na Small tin bro.

Will definitely try this out as well
thanks so much for your input

1984och:
There's nothing wrong with your wife. You just overlooked the se.x while dating.

Your wife is the type that would like fore.play. It is not just about penetration. Kiss her, smooch her, suck her nipples while finger fvcking, go down and suck her clit very very well.....watch her face/eyes as u suck. When you discover she's feeling it wella, then you can penetrate, and try to cum with her. Communicate in sex. You can do 69 too. Spice up your sex life bro. Make it fun and enjoyable for both of you.

Don't do like our fathers and fore fathers. And then why do you have to stay for a very long time hitting her? You don't have better things to do? Do you take any performance enhancer before the se.x? Stop it if you do. Go natural.

There's nothing wrong with your wife and nothing wrong with your marriage.

I literally didn't see this...
pre-intimacy is always top notch actually
she loves giving me Mouth Gig a lot
69 is always in our game plan as well cos I introduced her to it
fingering, manipulating nipples and all sort of stuffs is present
kissing earlobes and everything is what we always do
I could remember vividly taking rounds in tying each other up like just pinning hand and feet actually I did mine in the first day...30 mins section she moaned a lot and I did all sort of things and she did have more than enough and she moaned a lot and as a matter of fact she's a squirtter...
And I don't do drugs at all... I hate it so much even if I have PE or sth I'll rather cure it by taking fruit's and all sorts..i just do not like the idea of always using drugs to impress a lady so I don't do it at all...
just my natural self and I don't know if there's a way I can have PE or a way to cum ASAP

seyigiggle:
oga this round you are talking about, dem no dey give trophy oo na joke oo.

Fruits don't go wrong.
she could eat fresh cucumber regularly to keep her hydrated because drinking much of water before sex would not really help keep stamina.
also, let her try eating oranges at least one hour before sex.

is she a sugar girl? Consuming sugary foods affect females too

Thank you bro
would definitely look into this as well

Gaggi:
It's not by all that, she might be frigid I'm afraid and little or nothing will change that. I once had a girlfriend like that in the past. Why not condition yourself to c.u.m faster, that's the solution for now. That should not be a problem right? When some people advocate for knowing your would be partner sexually before marriage, others will see you as a sinner. This is a compatibility issue and she will work well with a man suffering from P.E.

Cumming early is a prob for me as well
I've tried that like I increased my sugar intake for some couple of weeks cos I do hear that do make guys cum easily but even with that there's no change maybe the first round 20 mins or so...

zeb04:
Op see a doctor

When thrusting and you notice she is going dry, just pull out so she can make you cum with her mouth or hand.

There are other ways to cum. It mustn’t be penetration alone.

And pls, see a doctor. Most people with endometriosis, experience painful Sex.

But Cumming via hand in as much as it's an option I'll still feel somehow about it like this ain't how someone with a wife should cum and besides how will she even concieve..

Gloriagee:
Guy u sound like the perfect husband material and I'm impressed. I think you should explore the medical option to assess if there's any reason why sex is so painful for her. Maybe endometriosis or maybe nothing. Hang in there and be patient with her. You have already noted her frustration with her issues. God bless.

Thanks Gloria
I'll look into all that as well

tabithababy:
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Haaa. Don't follow that . he will break your joyful home


Imagine that boy advising you to
Stop buying your wife gift
Sleeping in different room
Quit helping her with chores

Haaaa beginning of the end of your marriage

tbh am just confused tho I don't wanna do what's gonna leave her traumatized and I know she wanna please me as well but it's just not happening.

kunleweb:
Rewarding bad behavior has nothing to do about finance here


On the chores,while you think its nothing,its psychology,emeka will stick by me even with bad sex and behavior. You've programmer her that you're content with anything hence the internal capacity to make improvent isn't there.


You've unconsciously conditioned her mind to anything is acceptable and as such no need to stress improvement.


Also if you're too used to each other to diminish your attraction,stop sleeping stark naked and start sleeping separately for a while so familiarity is replaced with desire. Excessive familiarity dimishnes desire even in marriage trust me. I've know this since 4

I sincerely understand This perfectly bro
thank you so much
I'll give it a trial asap.

MrBrownJay1:
Well then, this does NOT work so try something else.... Why don't you go home and take it as it comes, no planning. Make it special, make it a surprise, make love to her in places you don't normally do. Make her feel special, make her feel incredible/irresistible. do things you don't normally do....go out of your shell and try it all until you find the perfect fit that works for both of you. It's clear as day that you are enjoying what you are dong while she isn't.

Alright thanks bro
I actually don't get satisfied but she's always satisfied with the few minutes sex.

kunleweb:
1. She knows shell be rewarded for either bad or good behavior hence she sees no desire to improve performance. This even applies outside the bedroom. Stop rewarding bad behavipr, start placing demands on positive character



2. Sharing chores is see finish. You've reduced to being her first born or younger brother

As regards no 1 when I met her I wasn't having dough at all but with her support and she ain't freaked about my financial situation and loads of time when we started dating she was the one giving me money and she stood by me till am well to do now and I feel like the greatest honor is to care for those who once cared for us.
no 2 I really do not see it as much of a big deal.. like it's not much of a hectic work just to lend a helping hand n

MrBrownJay1:
Isn't it obvious that you guys ain't sexually compatible?! This babe is a one minute "mount me and cuum quick" type of babe. So you either go for 10 mins and bust a nut or have her complain in pain....

Also, it has all to do with what you do in bed. How do you pleasure her? Have you ever asked her what she would like you to do? How she want to be pleased? How she wants to be touched etc. it's important that this woman is aroused and STAY aroused...it's obvious that within a short time, she is not aroused any longer.... And that could be down to your sexual capacities.

To get to the bottom of this, you need healthy/X-rated/no sugar coating communication with your wife.

We communicate a lot during sex and even before the sex...
and divorce ain't really the option now
just seeking for a way out

kunleweb:
One question have you spoken with her about your concerns? I'm led to ask this single question o

Yes bro we've spoken a lot over it she wants to please me as well I could remember vividly the day she was so determined to carry on she was literally crying and I was forced to stop cos o can't stand seeing her cry but she was like I shouldn't worry but I just have to

MrBrownJay1:
Isn't it obvious that you guys ain't sexually compatible?! This babe is a one minute "mount me and cuum quick" type of babe. So you either go for 10 mins and bust a nut or have her complain in pain....

Also, it has all to do with what you do in bed. How do you pleasure her? Have you ever asked her what she would like you to do? How she want to be pleased? How she wants to be touched etc. it's important that this woman is aroused and STAY aroused...it's obvious that within a short time, she is not aroused any longer.... And that could be down to your sexual capacities.

To get to the bottom of this, you need healthy/X-rated/no sugar coating communication with your wife.

all these things are in check brother...
we text for minutes before I get home as regards how it's gonna go down at night..
we plan every move even before we see BUT....

kunleweb:
This is clear depression. Find out her stressors,better still she needs to see a psychiatrist to deal with unresolved psychological issues that are draining her energy and causing her to lose interest in pleasurable activities. If you have financial issues, you need to improve and up the game around your home. When the energy in the home is low,it will reflect in the sex life


She needs to speak with a shrink. You need to find her stressors. For starters help her reduce workload at home. Close early, get a house attendant, give gifts to stimulate and jump her internal happy emotions. Take her on vacations. Invest in building positive energy in her and as you build her spirit,soul and emotion up,shell in turn reward you sexually. Don't demand sex cause your a husband or man in this case,but build her up and shell reward you sexually. Its whorish,but this is the sad reality man.



She's clearly unhappy or has unresolved issues,you need to find and fix cause it has formed mental blockages that deprives you of the joy you desire.

Like they say in marriage what affects one,affects both


Missjoy29 DukeofNZ abi I lie?

Thanks bro but sincerely speaking I treat her like the twin sister I never had we play a lot and division of labor is highly practiced I blend pepper and she'll do the rest of the cooking and make live videos whilst she's doing that.. it's all fun actually
we sleep stark naked and I get her gifts at least twice in a week
Just yesterday I got her 2 pairs of sneakers we have loads of uniform wears..
like same wristwatches
same chain
we engage in all sort of pre-intimacy...69, massaging her whole body and boobs with massage oil, pouring fresh yo on each other's sensitive body parts and licking it off..
everything is cool and we're quite young just this sex aspect is what's killing the Vibe

sisisioge:
Wow! Sorry fa....what can one say bayi. It is well fa.

Thank you

Good evening everyone,
Am actually in this family section because I know I'll definitely be getting advise from experienced and people who are willing to help.
I actually got married around January and I dated my wife for some couple of years, tho we were not that intimate due to the fact that she had a terrible experience with her ex boyfriend. So she was trying to play safe cos she probably think I'll break her heart and zoom off.
As regards our sex life when we were dating it was more like quickies and afterwards she'll be really tired after cuddling actually, and whenever we're about to have the second round maybe after 3hrs plus.
Sex wasn't really the priority when we started dating so I wasn't concerned about that and I literally overlooked it.
Now we're married, my wife gets tired after like 10 mins into the sex and there are times when she'll say she needs to rest for like 3 minutes and whenever am still trying to tell her to let's continue my dick would have shrinked and I somehow get really angry about that.
I tried to discuss this issue with her cos I believe in dialogue a lot and she opened up to me that she always get dry after like 10minutes and whenever am thrusting the sex will be painful to her and it do hurt a lot and we've even tried using lubricants but she'll still complain of being tired and then drink water from the bedside fridge and stopping during sex ain't really my thing and there are times when she'll say she ain't interested in it again since I've not yet ejaculated for long.
I love mi wife a lot and I want us to trash this issue out together because cheating is expensive and it will do me more harm than good.
Please help me guys