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I almost fell in this trap

God when ooo.

Abeg which dating site una dey use get the love of una lives make i go try luck

brain54:
This your post dey contradict o...


After saying what you want to say. You come congratute them again.



Anyways, I know a lot of people married to esan women. And they are very happily married. I even have close in-laws married to esan women and they are happy together.


I know men that were discouraged from esan women... close people... one at a point I felt the pressure myself even though I wasn't the one getting married to her and if I was the one directly faced with such pressure I'm sure I might have buckled at a point. But he went ahead to marry her and till today no regrets.


I actually like the esan women I have met character wise and I don't see anything particularly wrong with them.



Most times it is esan people themselves that try to discourage esan women marriage or paint them in a way.


I won't be surprised if you are esan. Maybe, easans don't like themselves or I don't know the reasons for that.




I once stayed in a compound were an esan recently rented at the time and just moved into his apartment. I told him the landlord of the next compound we shared a fence with was esan, thinking I was doing him a favor introducing him to his brother. His demeanor changed immediately and started saying negative and insultive things about someone he had never met.


Till this man later moved out from the compound years later he never spoke with that neighbor and would spit each time he saw him drive past.


I don't really understand why they are like that to each other.


But I know personally the esan women I have met are not bad in anyway i can think of. Even when deliberately testing them or looking for faults due to what I had head. I even dated a few in the past. And I like their women for being caring and loving. I was particularly close to one but long distance later cut short the relationship because she was in "xenophobia" republic.


Stereotyping people is a somehow something!

With this your long defence, nothing anybody wan tell me, na Esan you be or you lowkey married one and she dey show you pepper, but just like the GNLD crusaders, you want to rope some brother men into marrying Esans so that you won't feel the shege alone

Hezzyluv:
This Sunday lgboho has become a total joke.



We are one Nigeria, no need for this.

But it is no joke when South Africans are chasing y'all out abi?

Dogalmighty17:
Something Nigeria was given for free. Government workers are now hoarding it and selling for private gain.

Everybody just wicked for this country na. Most of us will do worse than the current politicians we have. Go to ministries, administrative offices and see corruption na

Thought they've stopped that worldwide already

Abi wettin make Lenacapavir jumped from 60k to 400k for Naija?

clearcrystal:
I'm with Gbadebo on this.
Could anyone believe that in my compound, we have 3 month refuse piled up. No PSP operator showed up to evacuate the refuse. This is the situation in my community.
Assuming I don't have space to accommodate 3 month refuse in my compound, won't I be tempted to drop some on the road median?

Is that why he was crying coz they called him Chinedu?

What's happening in UK? Why are their top leaders resigning?

Kalulu44:
Even if it's the first child? Is the child running away. Won't he see the child after the world cup, what if he's in prison or at the war front?

What you don't get is, his head will not be in the game.

What is the point of fielding a player who wouldn't be present emotionally and mentally?

Kingray10:
Is he the doc that wants to deliver the baby 😄
Well, I understand he ought to be there in these hard times for his wife tho.

Tell me you are a Nigerian without saying I am a Nigerian na hin u do so o.

The situation of the country have messed up so bad that we rarely have basic empathy.

That's his first child and you are here asking if he is the doctor, again like I said, na Nigerian man u be so it is understandable sha

CodeTemplar:
All islamists believe most isreali believe.
Have you guys started digging new tunnels? The g-hard must continue.

So who won the war if I may ask you?

See how they are collaborating at the top ba?

But one uncle or aunty with Pencil camry and 3m for bank account go dey form I don't need anyone's help

Thank you so much for putting this out.

All those Emeka and co in computer village won't like this sha

Gagare1:
I was a City Head with Multipro. If you want to work like a slave and get shouted at by Indians, please apply.

Why are you discouraging others?

So if you do your job professionally, shun cutting corners and corruption and respect yourself, you will be shouted at abi?

Samantha125:
At least she's able to pamper herself with some Louis Vuitton...

But honestly, marriage and children aren't a big deal, personally, I don't view them as achievements... There are many women in loveless and abusive marriages who wanna leave, but have nowhere else to go... In fact, marriage is a humiliation ritual for many women out there.

The same way there are many elderly parents whose children have abandoned to die from loneliness.

Until you become old and realise loneliness is real

That woman is obviously not happy, forget about what she is saying and look deep into her eyes.

Only less than 40% of Black South Africans are literate, do you now see where the problem is coming from?

TyrellObi:
"Repentant bandit" is an oxymoron...

The Nigerian government is filled with morons...

If you ignore the signs, you'll see wonders...

Not morons but accomplices

If Trump were to be a pilot, he fit hijack the plane and crash the plane. Man just seem not to be fully ok upstairs

TemplarLandry:
This is great news, that self-righteous brute called vdm has to be grounded.

And when will bandits and terrorists be grounded?

Coz I heard una government is given them a pardon

Dreal1247:
I don't believe in this statistics. The number of deaths in Nigeria is is much higher than deaths recorded even in the waring Israel, Iran and the USA. The reality is that they are underreported. The media is being suppressed to cover up many killings going on under the present government.

And you got the stat from where? A beer parlour gist

Dem no like una, yet una no wan leave
Is just like someone cme to your house and you ask him to leave and he says no.

It's their country, it's their rule. Whatever rocks their boat

TheStoriesOfMan:
Mind the way you talk. This is an adult forum, not a kid's washbowl..

No be kid she be o. Na she be women leader of E N P oooo

In South African accent
Do and go bak hom and fight for ya jab
Weena

Either this is a propaganda, or there is no any male adult left in Ukraine at the spate they are being unalived

This is no deal, so long Isreal isn't part of the deal.

The fight was between Iran and Israel, before America jumped into it in other to support Isreal, so how come Isreal is not part of the deal?

This gives room for Israel to attack Iran in the nearest future

Na part of the agreement for the 5 billion dollars wey dem wan collect from UAE be that?

SIMPle man has spoken, those who share the same view as him will agree with him, those who don't? Will disagree with him

Fuckyoumod:
I wish Iran luck.
But don't forget that Bibi ordered the HIT ON ALI KHEIMANEI. The same Bibi is still alive and ready to order more hit on the Ayotallahs. whereas Ali Kheimanei is in the freezer chilling.

Bibi that sent him packing out of this world is sipping coffee and tea.

I know, all is fair in war, just a clarity that when Iran hits back, hope America won't back track on the MOU signed and take side with Bibi and Israel

mrvitalis:
Do you want to learn what to do with borrowed funds ? And how’s it’s done ?

Yes, Educate me pls

mrvitalis:
People don’t understand the impact of all the unviable road projects and rail projects APC have been borrowing to do since 2015 … they would keep making us poorer as a people by devaluing naira

They tell you naira is falling because we import too much , lol we don’t even import Enough

If you look at Nigeria trade balance since 2015 it’s positive 70% of the years and positive cumulatively

So why then is naira falling ? Infrastructure done with borrow money …. How ?

You borrow money to build a road that can’t generate money to pay back , when it’s time to service debt you print money enter the forex market and boom naira supply increase dollar supply remain same

In naira Nigerians earn far more than 2015 but it’s worth far less

I always urge Nigerians go and watch obi n osibanjo debate in 2019 that’s where APC policy is exposed and where Obi won me over 100%

Listen ,research and learn

Soon if we continue like this minimum wage would be 1 million but would be worth less than 70k today

So we should borrow to pay salaries that's comparable to that of South Africa? ??

Na Equador be formidable??