Yes, let me clarify. By exes I mean ex boyfriend/girlfriend not spouses...no children involved, no further ties to each other beyond the memories they may have shared.

elmagnifico411:
Ok, so I had an accident around ekiti state, on my way to abuja. I called my wife to inform her and assure her that I’m fine, then later called my married ex and told her too cos I had to go back to Ibadan to pass the night. She later called the next day and asked me howfar.

We are still in touch. We never we have a lengthy discussion, I delete d chats cos I don’t want any wahala. I know it isn’t okay, but u know how these things are... we still connect on many grounds, we couldn’t just end up as couples.


E.g, her aunt’s husband is a distant cousin of my wife, they even share same surname. 2, her husband’s birthday is feb19, my wife ‘s birthday is same date.. the thing sef just tire me.

Wow, too many connections...you think it would make a difference that ur ex is married too? If she weren't married would you remain in contact?

mylove4God:
It depends on what reason he/she became an ex.

Can you explain please?

Safitu:
After marriage you can’t even have close female friends not to talk of communication with an ex. Are you alright?

Who said anything about close female friends. One, the question is regarding chatting up exes not friends of the opposite gender though you are assuming female gender. Secondly, there was a follow up question about how one would feel if said person deleted their convos with their ex whether that is more suspicious. Thoughts?

ifyalways:
I will never understand the reason of keeping in touch with an ex. People find it difficult to move on that much

Married and still in touch with an ex? Absolutly disrespectful.

And I imagine even more suspiscious if the person deletes the convos with said ex don't you think?

What's the general consensus? Do you think chatting/talking with long term exes after marriage is wise, no big deal or looking for wahala?