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I am not proud to say this,but I am a stubborn woman.My stubborn nature becomes obvious if I am being pushed and treated unjustly.Na that time my stubborn button go just activated.Talk from today till tomorrow,my mind no go move.

Most times, people's attitude towards you brings out that stubborn part of you.
I am a very easy going person sha and I don't lack empathy.

Kindness, humility,integrity,respect, positive mindset amidst every challenges.

He is not an overly religious person which my siblings and I inherited from him,but he never failed to tell us that God is the author and finisher of our faith.We should only depend on him alone.

I learnt how to relate with people in all fairness
and equity.You are not bigger than the pepper seller we dey your street,na just life happen.

He taught me how to manage and plan myself, especially finance wise.
He showed me that family matters alot with the he relates with all his siblings.Always being there for them in his own little way.

Finally,I inherited his stubborn nature🤗🤗

Bread🍞.Even my kids know bread is my favourite food.

Congratulations Nwanna. May God keep blessing you.The eyes of the evil ones will not see you in Jesus Mighty name amen.
I pray God comes through for me and my family too.

3rd alert received.Gtbank, Ogun State Batch C1.Yuzjet,hope e don reach your side?

yuzjet:
You go see am.

I see am yesterday morning.Thanks

yuzjet:
Since morning. I don spend am finish sef.

No time....I never see my own

yuzjet:
Gtb Ógùn C1.

you don see your own?

lilioj:
Very Easy Yogurt Cake

2 large eggs
150g Sugar
226ml yogurt
1/2 cup Veg Oil
2 tspn Baking powder
1/2 tspn salt
192g All Purpose Flour
1 tsp rind of Lemon(optional)

-Crack eggs in a large bowl, add sugar and whisk until pale yellow and frothy for about a minute.
-Whisk in yogurt, oil and vanilla
- Into the bowl with wet ingredients, whisk in baking powder, salt add flour and stir until well combined. Do not over mix

Pour into a well oiled loaf pan and bake at 150° for 40mins or until a skewer comes out clean when inserted.
Enjoy! 😉😉

Can hollandia yoghurt be used?

ajog1:
Na just jara them give us. No expect any other money oh

ajog1:
Na just jara them give us. No expect any other money oh

🤓🤓

yuzjet:
We're eating Gucci for another 12months ni yẹn.

No be small thing o🤓🤓🤓

yuzjet:
Guess what?

I just received another stipend for September just now. Gtb Ogun.

Same here too.I received mine about the same time you received yours too

Any Gtbank, Ogun State?

yuzjet:
Oops! I've signed out of this program bro. Dunno anything about stipends again. Sorry bro.

Alright, thanks

yuzjet, abeg you don see any alert.Gtbank, Abeokuta

Any Ogun state please?

I need just 5k to pay school bus fee for one of my daughters.May God continue to bless and keep you.May he always come through for you in all your endeavours. Amen

Bluekapon:
Same with me. I didn't see the mail early. But my application status is showing APPROVED. And I got the mail for online classroom and virtual training

I am yet to get the mail for virtual training/ online classroom.

Bluekapon:
I'm in the same shoes with you. I applied for Specialized Work Force, Anambra state.

What did you apply for and what state? Did you later go for the screening?

I don't even know what I applied for,it was my brother who did the application for me.I did not go for screening.I was not able to fill the availability form cos it was already late when I saw the mail.Where you able to fill yours? I am in Ogun state BTW.

jeremiah123:
Yes, a mail was sent which followed by a link and other information, mind u is for specialize work force only

The mail I received earlier was from census specialized work force too.The content of the mail was: availability form,learn enumerator stuff and the virtual screening date.I am yet to receive any link from Google classroom.I am yet to enrol for certification courses, could that be the reason I did not receive the mail? Thank you btw

Nadingo:
The essence of the screening is to approve you at the end. There wasn't any form of documentation so I don't think it is necessary again. Only thing is that we signed an attendance sheet which I doubt will be used for anything again. So long as you have been approved, you have no issue. Moreover, the screening exercise has even ended.

Thank you very much.

madri4u:
I have joined the Google classroom for the specialised workforce virtual training but it looks like the training has not started yet. Is anyone else here in my shoe.

Please, were you sent any link to join the Google classroom?

Nadingo:
Mine was approved the very minute I was screened. I checked the portal immediately after stepping out of the screening room and saw approved. I sharply inputed my account details.

Please,I just checked my mail and saw the message for the screening exercise and the availability form.I clicked on the form but was told it was no longer available.I decided to check my application status,the status changed to approved and my account details was requested,which I inputted immediately.Should I still go to their office for the screening exercise?

Na just foodstuffs I need, nothing else.Make person chop better food that day at least jare.

Graduate2015:
So sorry you are going through this. This life eeehh imagine you wanting to be involved in the decision making. Mine doesn't make any decision without my input. Sometimes it irritates me.

Thank you dear.I am already used to the situation.Stay strong

Graduate2015:
Waoo waoo u are truly an Analysist just like ur username. I'm going to copy ur suggestions and read them everyday to keep myself in check because it can be very frustrating. I used my time to research on adult ADHD and that's is my husband. He forgets things, once he is home he is always looking for his phone. Everything about Adult ADHD is my home. I also read experiences of partners living with them and that's my life. They turn u into a nag as that's the only way things can get done around the house. They also mention that they can also suffer from bipolar disorder and sometimes both are interwoven. I have been complaining that he doesn't listen when I'm talking to him or even when I ask him to do something he will just forgets it. He doesn't remember any of our children's date of birth. I have researched about ADHD in kids as we suspect my son has it. He is constantly on the move especially in daycare that they cant cope. He can't sit still for more than 2mins. I also remember my husband saying how he never entered class in early stages of primary school as he was busy playing around and can't even remember where his class was. Thank you for this insight. I pray he reads about adult adhd and acknowledges that's his problem. I've always imagined why he just can't organise, manage himself or pay his bills.

This one kind of ties in with relationship woes, because it has to do with a person’s emotions. Someone with ADHD will experience a constant flux in their emotions. One minute they are up, the next they are down. It’s also closely associated with some of the other symptoms on this list, such as being easily distracted or unable to focus. “You can easily become bored and go looking for excitement on a whim. Small frustrations can seem intolerable or bring on depression and mood swings,” explains Healthline. These kinds of unstable emotions can cause an array of problems both in your personal and professional life.

In relation to this, Health.com also explains that adults with ADHD might suffer from a short fuse, or quick temper. They will have trouble controlling their emotions in heated situations and find themselves easily frustrated and fuming mad one second, then completely over it the next. This symptom is tricky and is easily misconstrued as bipolar disorder. In fact, Health.com notes that often times people with ADHD are misdiagnosed with bipolar disorder.

Hmmm,this is quite insightful.I need to read about this ADHD

Madam Graduate2015,I must really empathize with you for what you are going through.It is not easy at all because I can relate to your ordeal.It is a crazy situation i must say.You have come a long way sis,16years is no child's play living with such a person.Mine is just 5years,I would have left but I can't for the sake of my kids.Yours is better,at least you have the finances to make life better for you and you are also in a better environment.We are practically struggling here.I am a very emotional person and words get to me deeply.My husband will never appreciate the little effort I make,he sees me as the cause of his ordeals,says hurtful things about my family; same people who have been there for him all these years,he wouldn't involve me in decision making,alot of things I can't mention.I have totally lost all affections for him.I just allow him have sex because i noticed that denying him sex na wahala I dey find. I will advise you to just ignore him.People like that don't listen to advice,they are always right.Forget about that family time you are clamouring for cos you won't get it.Stop the nagging attitude,always allow him have his way(The word "No" no dey their brain),do not involve in any form of argument with him at all.Spend quality time with your children,overtime you will get used to it.Get help to assist with the house chores if it becoming too overwhelming for you.Please,do not deny him SEX,even if it means laying like a log wood,do it sis.Your mental health is also important. E- hugs to you dear.

NobleAngell:
Just in a bid to look unique, he looks like an object that should be dangling from the ceiling.

I no fit laf abeg.Dude be looking like a chandelier.