tundeayo2020:
I think I am dying, It all started in 2012, I had a terrible dream that night and ever since then, my life has not remained the same.

In 2012 I weighed 71kg but now I'm 48kg and I don't know when this will stop, every day I'm losing weight the more I try to eat the more I lose weight. I used to have really big muscles and thick thighs, I never slim fit my clothes, but now I can count all the bones on my chest, my hands have become so thin, all bones and no fat.

I have to wear long sleeves and trousers to hide my problem from the rest of the world- And its eating me deeply.
I can no longer engage in activities I find pleasurable, such as sports, running, swimming, working out etc. These where activities I could do before for lengthy hours I can barely do them now for three minutes without
getting super tired and all my body will ache for days afterwards.

I've spent all the money I have on treating myself at local clinics but nothing seem to be working.

I DON'T KNOW WHAT IS EATING MY MUSCLES AND FAT.

And its getting worse, Even though I've never had sex before in my life, yet I've gone for HIV test three times and it's always negative, I've done diabetes test several times and the docs said I'm not diabetic.

EVERY MONTH I KEEP LOSING WEIGHT, LIKE IN MAY I WAS 53KG BUT IN JULY I'M 49KG AND NOW IN AUGUST I'M 48KG.

GUYS I NEED HELP ADVICE OR ANYTHING TO HALT THIS UNINTENTIONAL WEIGHT LOSS.

I mean I eat at least four times a day and barely work hard. cos I'm a full time fiverr worker.

If things should progress at this rate I may end up with less than 30kg by December. And I dont want to die, I'm still in my late twenties.



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Sounds to me you have hyperthyroidism (overactive thyroid). You need to do blood test. This could be dangerous if not treated.

Read more about it here
http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/Thyroid-over-active/Pages/Introduction.aspx

Good luck.

Justwise it seems as if you got ur info from dis website

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Now take a very good look at this website too.


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What will i gain from lying? This happened for real and this my friend called me the day her boyfriend got his biometric card and the next time i saw them, they both showed me the letter from the home office and the biometric card.

thegreengooner:
@biolachick I suggest you follow the counsel given by Justwise. He has significant experience in these matters and he is usually right.

Is Justwise a lawyer? Very funny abwt Justwise has significant experience in these matters. Im nt saying he doesnt, but in this occasion, he is WRONG

Justwise u r wrong tho. Discretionary Leave is not only for Assylum Seekers as u claim.

Discretionary Leave can be given provided the applicant has strong ties in the UK. The application will be reviewed under Humanitarian Right and with the help of a very competent lawyer.

A friend of mine went through same ordeal. Her boyfriend overstayed. But what strenthened their case was that they have both been living together under the same roof with proofs of cohabitation. Also my friend is british and the baby she has for the boyfriend is british too.

They applied for Discretionary Leave to Remain in February through a very good lawyer. The Lawyer's fee was £2400 inclusive of Home Office fee. A letter from the Home Office asking for the boyfriend's biometric was received in March. In April the boyfriend received his Biometric Card and he was given 2.5yrs discretionary leave to remain which he wil be renewing evry 2.5yrs for 10years.

So with the help of good and competent lawyer, the case is winable

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InZA: Have you tried slapping the living day light out of him?

Or

Maybe shouting on him.. "Young man would you come and sit down here this minute!!!.. Do you think I have your time!!!"

You can keep your comment to yourself. It's not by force to comment

Thanks evrybody who contributed positively .

To Kanwulia & Xsenga, u ave a dirty mind

MadCow1 u r so not serious

dytbabe: Not all babies take solid, my son will be 2 in another mnth, since 6mnths I have bn forcing him to take swallow, the young man will jst lock up and cry, bt he eats other meals except swallow, even plantain sef, I have to force him

Jst take ur time to study him, give him spag with carrot, mashed potato, fish, egg, mashed beans.
I am sure he will like this for a start.

It can be frustrating watching your kid refuse food.

My dear, i've tried different types of food o, i'm not even sure wot other food to try him on, he just doesnt have any favourite food. . I've tried all the food you listed up there, all the people that I know donkt even know what to do to him . Guess I have to keep on doing what I am doing by chasing him. God gives me strength

McWhillion:
I think the problem is the cereals you're still giving him. I believe if you concentrate on giving him only normal food he will adjust, he is still kind off used to mashed foods/milk/cereals. To him food is anything that's still semisolid.

Sometimes you've got to force him, he might not know how good normal food tastes until he tries it

I give him normal food like rice, scrambled egg, toast, beans etc he eats them but just tiny bit. He doesnt eat them to fill him up.

I don't think anything is wrong in the cereals I give him coz he eats different types like, weetabix, golden morn, aptamil cereals etc.

Not that he wont eat the food, he just enjoy me chasing him round the house.

For example one day I gave him one spoon of food, he rejected it and walked away, while he was walking he was checking behind him if I will follow him as usual of which I didnt.

He is so much used to me chasing him that he now takes the mick out of me...my issue now is how can I break him of that silly habit?

DickDastardly: Give him multivitamin.
Then use incentives to lure him to eat. Like making what he likes most a prize if he eats and denying access to them when he won't eat.
Force him to eat, as it's his right to be fed as a baby and not given choice of empty stomach when he doesnt want cause he doesnt want

I always give him abidec.

How can I use incentives on a toddler that is 15 months....i've tried that, he just looks at me as if i'm high on something . he doesnt understand that yet

sunnydayasaba: Maybe you should see a Pediatrician (Doctor) maybe they will advise u on the type of drugs to give him that will help boast his appetite

I've been to d Doctor and I was told that baby goes throught different phase that he will soon change. The only medicine I was asked to be giving him is Abidec which I have been doing for several months.

McWhillion: I ve a niece who behaves like that, but the thing was she was still on breast milk, when she was weaned she began taking normal food

My son is no more on bossom milk and he doesn't take bottle anymore. Although I still prepare his cereals with baby formula.

My baby won't even take normal food like amala or pounded yam, I will have to blend the pounded yam into a puree like mashed potato before he can eat it

Hi people,

I have a 15 month old toddler that's always fussy with food. He has always been fussy right from when I started him on solids.

Everytime I want to feed him is always hard work. I will be following him round the house and hold his mouth before he will take it. I normally do that for 1hour or more during each meal. I have tried different types of food but no he wants to be chased around the house before he takes it.

I was advised by my health visitor not to chase him, that he's got control over me instead of me being in control . She said when he is hungry he will eat the food. I tried that for 1 day but i cldnt stand it. Reason being that if i feed him 9am in the morning, he wont want to eat until around 6 hours or more, now how can i watch him starve like that?

Is there any other method or ways I can get him to eat?

Thanks for all the advice in advance