₦airaland Forum

Sophyrocks:
Eyah. Pele. Truth hurts. Reality will always stare at u in the face.

I watched Trisha two nights ago, there I watched the shock of my life, Men who considered their wives as mere properties in USA. You would have thought, 'At this time in USA'?! These 2 women should be long gone. But we must agree that some women are to emotional to decide on issues like this.
You could feel the disgust of female audience and it got more when one of the men told his wife to help him massage (spelling not sure) his toes. People were calling for them to quit the relationship but we all could feel they didn't want to.
Instead of Trisha to encourage them to quit, she took both men into a room and councelled them. I could feel the remorse on their faces, one even burst into tears as he explained himself. Jesus needs women like Trisha, who could think that she could save a marriage, not people like you that you think you can help free a woman from her holy matrimony. Your worst enemy, through perseverance can turn to be your best friend. Women get easily distracted by people's opinion expectially when they are in emotional distress. A comment today, no matter how honest your motives are can destroy a life. Those two men and their submissive wives are now living a beautiful biblical life. So emotional!

Sophyrocks:
Lets not deceive ourselves with this comparison. There were still divorces back then even though they were not as rampant as it is now. The fact that the marriages lasted longer then does not mean they were all happy, healthy ones. Some of them had dysfunctional families and were just merely patching up. We have people who can testify to this in their indivdual homes. These same marriages of then produced new generations with a lot more horrible mentality towards marriage thus transfering the same dysfunction from generations to generations. Now add that to the low morals of now plus marrying for flimsy reasons or to please society, then you see the product as many more dysfunctional marriages and more divorces. A good marriage of an old generation will produce sane and sound individuals with a healthy mentality towards marriage.

Lets just say that people are now more aware of what they want and would not remain in a marriage when their lives are at stake unlike that of marriages of old. Since many are marrying to please society or to fulfill righteousness then expect more divorces.

Little can I wonder the number of marriages this single post can break. I sincerely hope you are not a christian.

delishpot:
Oh, another woman bashing thread. NL men, una favourite food done cook o. E don done. Make una come chop.


Eh, let me say what the typical NLand men/ boys will say, its the womens fault. A mans attitude should be borne by the wife no matter what, our fathers beat our mothers yet they still stayed. Our fathers married and fathered kids all over our village yet mommy still stayed, she made him happy, knelt down to serve him water and food, knelt down every morning to greet him. Our women of these days have been exposed to education. They can now get jobs and feed their kids instead of depending on us as before thereby making them our slaves. Our parents no longer send their abused daughters back to the abusive husbands again. In the good old days, fathers will return abused daughters cos they had no food to care for her and her kids. Nowadays they dare keep them!
Hmnnnn, men be wise marry a church rats daughter who is ignorant, do not let her earn a penny, keep her always on her toes, trying to make you happy even after you rain her some hot slaps or insults like, has your father ever bought a TV in his life? In the village where I picked you, did you even know what a wC meant? Howmany of your brothers can afford to lay a stone on the ground talkless of building a house? She will still lick your bum cos she aint got no where to run to. Shebi its the type of wife most NL boys want to marry? Good luck finding one sha.

What are actually the main points of this junk? Men are abusive? Men like treating their wives as slaves? Don't let nollywood decieve you, women were seldom beaten those days. Beating of women began to rise as monogamy rose.
In those days, a man could have 5 wive and 25 children, he didn't have to concentrate on a woman, therefore, her flaws were well hidden and domestic violence was low. Polygamy in those days gave a lot of independence to women, even more than feminism can ever give. That is why our mothers were very industrous cor they could leave the whole family without woring about the family. Except for lack of sex, they had a lot to gain. The rest are left to be imagined. No wonder divorce was so low.

carefreewannabe:
For now they have rights in Nigeria.

So this foøl is still on Nl. If you think Nig is that bad, keep it to yourself, skùnk! Still doubt you actually live in Germany.

These people draw near me with their tongue, but their heart are far from me. Hypocrites!

Vivly:
I keep looking forward to the day Men Will stop objectifying women and women will stop men from objectifying them.
Someone compliments your a$$ and you say 'Thanks'? That's crap!
See a woman as totally beautiful, a complete package and stop the stereotypes on a$$ and boo.bs.
It never used to matter before. Why the sudden change now?
Just my humble observation though and No, I'm not flat assed.
The objectifiers can now jump on my post.

You are fighting a lost cause. Sometimes when I watch Dr 90210, I can't help but shake my head on how doctors make money out of women's fragile emotions and how women risk their life to satisfy their objectified body. Blame the west and feminism.

anitank:
My name will be heard and celebrated like this one day...

Congrats ma'am

As old as you are! Instead of thinking of how to get a befitting grave.

Do men feel threatened by the success a woman? Well, the answer is yes. Do women feel threatened by the success of their fellow women? Absolutely!

Okay

christopher123:
So they rarelu get wet i mean their toto

Tilluv said women have lost their value, she was right afterall.

OtunbaJega:
Seun you need IQ test...seriously!

Oh boy!

nedu213:
I thought d north east is arid?

Wats up with dis hunting tin over dia?

I need answers.

Some parts are semi arid, while others have sahel and sudan vegetation. Due to the presence of rivers like Chad, komadugu, yedseram, there are sparse forest areas e.g. Sambisa.

Weah96:
The general consensus of every Christian scholar is that YOU are telling LIES.

Didn't you click the link? The explanation using the bible was provided by ALL OF THEM.

The verse was written over 23 centuries ago, not 13, the fact is that every commentary against my view was not drawn from the bible i.e the trusted KJV. Rather, it was drawn from the view that it was a gramatical construction, but the verses before and after does not show it as a mere grammatical statement.
Imagine yourself living just 500 yrs ago and you were shown a vision of a airplane, how will you describe it? Isaiah explained that this object moved like cloud and even explained the landing like that of a dove.
Studing the mood he used in pening that statement, we can infer that he sounded confused. I know it appealed to you, that is why you searched for information on it on internet, the many comments showed how powerful the verse was and how many people tried to infer meanings to the clear statement. That apart, are we going to say because there are many arguments, my view ain't true?
The bible says, 'But foolish and unlearned questions avoid, knowing they do gender strives.' 2 Timothy 2:23. My main aim of arguing is to make sure christians are strenghtened and are not shakened by the 'wise' men called atheists.

Max24:
Your mindset is the typical retrogressive Nigerian mindset.Does a lady have to be in the sex trade business to pay a visit? And what do u mean by randomly? The main reason people do this is because they feel the society will blame the girl rather than the molester as u are trying to do.Probably you are one of those who think if a lady is raped it is because she caused it(thru dressing,making friends,going out).Thats exactly what am against. I know that is how Nigerian parents raise their daughters. So instead of punishing the molester everybody blames the victim. That is why many girls raped cannot come out to complain becos even their parents would rather ask why they visited the friend. Does that guy look like a nobody? For everything we do in Africa we subjugate the woman instead of protecting them. Other societies protect their girl-children through public opinion and law. A Yerima in the north is molesting minors in the name of religion- he abandoned logic and claimed his religion permits it.Till today nobody have successfully risen against the Yerimas in our midst. And there are many Yerimas all over the country. The Nigerian man molests a girl before marriage and keeps molesting even in marriage. I can cite many other instances of prejudice against women in our society-[b] eg why cant female daughters become kings in Nigeria when in England male and female heirs have equal access to the throne.[/b]My point is that ur reaction is a typical Nigerian stereotype way of response to issues concerning women but we need to change that.[b]Yes,thats what our forefathers taught us but they were wrong!!! [/b]Do research on how other civilised societies protect their girl-children.

Rape can't be prevented, enjoy it.

tilluv:
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Mtscheww, what is "force" what is "rape". Seriously, have bn ffg the comments of both women and men on this issue and then I find out dat men dnt even see rape has a big deal cause u bought takeaway 4 a lady does dat mean u shud force her into sexing u!!! And if ladies are advising fellow women not to go visiting/following a guy home, how wil u know ur real suitor? Hw do u start a relationshp? Must every relationshp b based on sex! Can't there b fun,jokes or other means other than guys demanding 4 sex?. Dis things baffles me. Nowadays u see girls of 14yrs old having more sex experience even with styles than a 28yr old lady infact ready 2 coach. Ladies has lost deir dignities,deir prides. Men dnt beg women again, dey see it as norms, saying if u dnt allow me deir are millions and one ladies begging 4 it. It's so pathetic.

Please, are you female?

This is where they spend our money. I'm not rich, neither I'm I poor, just content.

dmostcheerful:
even if its messi, so what? irrespective of a persons calibre, or my sexuality status (virgin or non virgin),the said person will face the law. some had say its just sex even if its rape, but i tell you it dont end just like dat the post trauma effect, varies individually some cant have a healthy rest cos the scene keeps popping up dey head y some will just go tempprary mad talking to them self about the incident and so on.

Given the fact that she isn't a virgin and for the fact that he used a condom, even went to the extent of feeding her and giving her drugs to make sure she can withstand his strength, I think the case is null and void. Most of the post-forced sex trauma are due to the societal view. There have been even cases of forced sex victims having orgasm. Since she ain't a virgin and also for the fact he used condom, a little alcohol will flush off the memory. We need to understand that the whole situation is not the man's fault, its the fault of our manly instinct that necessitates that we sleep with as many women as possible.

One of the saddest lessons of history is this: If we’ve been bamboozled long enough, we tend to reject any evidence of the bamboozle. We’re no longer interested in finding out the truth. The bamboozle has captured us. It’s simply too painful to acknowledge, even to ourselves, that we’ve been taken. Once you give a charlatan power over you, you almost never get it back........Carl Sagan

Guidette:
Are Nigerian men such animals that a woman cannot stay in an empty room without thinking about rape?? We need to get our pririties right. Instead of blaming the victim, how about prosecuting rapists to the full extent of the law and praising brave women who come forward.

I really am scared of Nigerian people and their way of thinking. Very backwards mentality.

You are still in the stone age where people percieve women to be harmless cos they piss from the back. Men too suffer from this overhyped thing called rape. Also fvcktard, stop referring to Nig men as rape specialists, cos some of us are not as sexually active as your father.

dmostcheerful:
i love her approach to this saga. the brother deserved what he got from her. rape is rape irrespective of the rapee or or raper .

What if Messi rapes you ? According to the passage, she wasn't raped, she was forced. The girl sef no be virgin, so what's da big deal?

Weah96:
So how come all the expert Christians reached a different conclusion upon analysis of the text and it's meaning?
http://biblehub.com/commentaries/isaiah/60-8.htm

At least you can read and write? Metaphor ko, oxymoron ni. If it were anything other than airplane, he would have talked more on it in the next verse. People had been deliberating on the fulfilment of the aircraft 100 years before it happened. So explain using the Bible or you're saying jibberish.

Weah96:
Chai!

Isaiah 60:8

Who are these that fly as a cloud, and as the doves to their windows?

Where is the airplane?

O ga o! So you and ifeness thinks its not an aeroplane after reading the whole chapter 60?! Whao! What does it mean then? He talked about moving people in on land, sea, but was astounded by the vision of the aeroplane that he asked a question. Instead of caving in, you are still arguing over an obvious fact. If he wasn't talking about an airplane, tell me what he was talking about, taking into consideration that he used the knowledge available to him over 13 centuries ago to describe it.

ifeness:
Because they have always been in that form. They were mortals/Extraterrestrials/ from another planet..... And besides,the original story was an Egyptian story. Abraham never really existed.

Wait a minute ifeness, open to Isaiah 60 vs 8, Isaiah predicted the use of aeroplane during the coming back of the Jews to reclaim Istrael! Even he was shocked!

ifeness:
So who was the Lord there and you mean the angels eat food like use and visit the toilet? They are mortals like us too?

The angels came in human form, the same way Amen came in human form.

ifeness:
Remember they were called Lord. Do you know how many other places in the bible the word "Lord" has been used? In this perticular case,the word Lord was used. Could it be because they were seen to have advanced technology? They were on the mission to bomb Sodom and Gomorrah before they met Abraham.

They were Angels of God. He had to call them Lord because they brought him msg from the most High. Read Jeremiah 30 and Rev 18 They prophesied Holocaust and 9/11 respectively.

finofaya:
Dude, if God is alive, God could not have spoken life into existence.

What do you mean? Even by the words of a mere magician, a rat changes to a bird.

ifeness:
Genesis 18:1-8

1 And the Lord appeared unto him in the plains of Mamre: and he sat in the tent door in the heat of the day;

2 And he lift up his eyes and looked, and, lo, three men stood by him: and when he saw them, he ran to meet them from the tent door, and bowed himself toward the ground,

3 And said, My Lord, if now I have found favour in thy sight, pass not away, I pray thee, from thy servant:

4 Let a little water, I pray you, be fetched, and wash your feet, and rest yourselves under the tree:

5 And I will fetch a morsel of bread, and comfort ye your hearts; after that ye shall pass on: for therefore are ye come to your servant. And they said, So do, as thou hast said.

6 And Abraham hastened into the tent unto Sarah, and said, Make ready quickly three measures of fine meal, knead it, and make cakes upon the hearth.

7 And Abraham ran unto the herd, and fetcht a calf tender and good, and gave it unto a young man; and he hasted to dress it.

8 And he took butter, and milk, and the calf which he had dressed, and set it before them; and he stood by them under the tree, and they did eat.

From the bible I am using Gen 18:1 used LORD. Gen 18:3 used Lord and they were 3. If I send a poorly fed servant to you to tell you I'm coming to burn your kingdom, will you view the words of the boy as that coming from a servant? Rather as that of mine.

finofaya:
@Emmalot121

It is you guys who believe in God that think life came from nothing, or rather that there has always been life. Remember that "life" also includes the life of God.

According to the venerated St. Augustine, a thing cannot cause itself, since in order to do that it will have to already exist. God therefore could not have caused himself (or itself) or in other words he has no hand in his existence. By extension, he is not needed in the equation of life.

Also, science doesn't suggest that life came out of nothing. It supposes that life is a reconfiguration of already existing elements. Lastly, atheism is not the same as science.

Note this, there is difference btw created and self existent. God did not create life from nothing, rather, he spoke life into existence.

ifeness:
This is the point that makes the christian god questionable. The bible claimed this god walk in the garden and even had a meal with Abraham.

God of the bible was probably a Jew or pro-Jew,that is why his son was Jewish too. On the Dollar bill,it is written "in god we trust" The same god who favors Jewish American and Jewish Europeans.

Which verse did God eat with Abraham? Don't dilly dally.

macof:
"He" is a gender. The same god is also called father, Lord all masculine titles yet you say he is no man in space
The same god walked the earth on foot in Genesis 3:8 yet he is no humanoid

Your god cannot possibly exist

I've answered this question before. Even Jesus came to this world, when Nebuchadnezzar said, He looks like the Son of God. KJV. According to Bible, the Garden is powerful, containing Tree of life and The Tree of knowledge of good and bad, which we read through the Book of Revelations that its in Heaven.

Kay17:
But your belief in a Western conception of God could easily be an error from tradition. It is a possibility that humans creative and imaginative enough developed a very powerful idea of God. An idea of God so powerful, people are misled to mistake it for reality. Does the fact that we know too little led us to more errors?!

Christianity is not western.

macof:
so ur god didn't exist before the beginning?
Moment! Wat is this beginning?

The same way you refer to the beginng of an element as atom