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Nairaland GeneralVery Funny Video: Nigerian Woman Freaks The Hell Out Over A Drone. by emmy9688(op): 12:21am On Feb 11, 2018
You will be literarily torn into pieces while laughing over a woman’s reaction on seeing a drone; probably for the first time. Watch video below.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=peCDjV1g43A
full video http://www.enigeria.com.ng/fun-comedy/very-funny-video-nigerian-woman-freaks-the-hell-out-over-a-drone/
Science/TechnologyAuto Dialers by emmy9688(op): 10:49pm On Oct 29, 2017
Does anyone have any information on setting up auto dialers that can call atleast 10000 phonenumbers with a pre recorded message
Nairaland GeneralBig Brother Anambra Coming To Your Screens Soon! by emmy9688(op): 10:21am On May 29, 2017
Wonders, they say never cease and this is the typical case with Nigeria. Every day, new surprises.

A picture of the Anambra version of the Big Brother show that was recently held in South Africa was spotted somewhere in the state.

See photo below:

culled from http://enigeria.com.ng/entertainment-celeb-news/big-brother-anambra-coming-screens-soon-lol/

CelebritiesRe: Nigerian Ladies Comes For Bella Hadid On Twitter After This Happened by emmy9688(op): 10:35pm On May 23, 2017
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CelebritiesNigerian Ladies Comes For Bella Hadid On Twitter After This Happened by emmy9688(op): 10:31pm On May 23, 2017
Online reports indicate that model Bella Hadid and boxer Anthony Joshua are flirting the millennial way – by liking each other’s pictures online.
British Anthony Joshua became heavyweight champion last month when he defeated Wladimir Klitschko, and it hasn’t gone unnoticed by one of the Hadid sisters.

It seems his successes has caught the eye of US model Bella, who has been dishing out the Instagram likes ever since the pair met at a GQ bash last year, reports Metro UK.

This hasn’t gone unnoticed by his fans, especially the female folk who took to twitter en masse to protest the possibility of the hookup between the boxer and the star model.

See some of tweets below:


culled from http://enigeria.com.ng/entertainment-celeb-news/nigerian-ladies-comes-bella-hadid-twitter-happened/

CelebritiesI Will Do House Chores For You: Read Weird Message Man Sent To Busty Owerri Lady by emmy9688(op): 9:06pm On May 21, 2017
Ifunanya Thompson, the lady who was pictured with P-square singer sometime ago revealed a very weird chat she had with a male admirer.

Here goes the message:

culled from http://enigeria.com.ng/entertainment-celeb-news/will-house-chores-read-weird-message-man-sent-busty-owerri-lady/

Romance52 Year Old South African Claims She's A Virgin And Hasn't Kissed In Her Life by emmy9688(op): 12:07pm On May 19, 2017
Meet This 52 Year Old Woman Who Claims She's A Proud Virgin And Hasn't Kissed In Her Life

A South African woman identified as Thembisile Ntaka who is 52 years old claims she's a proud virgin. The woman made this shocking revelation at a social cohesion dialogue about virginity at Moses Mabhida Stadium in Durban on Tuesday night.

“I began this journey when I was 14 years old. I get a lot of people criticising me for being a virgin and not having children. Some even tell me I will die a lonely woman. But that does not make me want to change my life.” Thembisile said she has never slept with a man or even kissed one. She said she is one of the most respected women in Botha’s Hill.
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Thembisile encouraged young women to stay virgins. “I’m the lastborn at home. My eight siblings got married and left me with my brother’s two children.” She said when she was young she heard her brothers’ friends saying bad things about the girls they’d had sex with. “I decided then I didn’t want to be one of those girls,” she said.
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She said each time there is virginity testing in her area, she is always the first one in line. “I don’t care if I die without children or a husband. I’m happy with my life and so is my family.”
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During the conference, where virgins and virginity testers discussed the importance of purity, tester Zanele Shezi-Sishi said it’s important for women to look after themselves.
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“Staying a virgin helps to avoid infections and disease.” Head of recreation at eThekwini Municipality, Thembinkosi Ngcobo, said they chose the topic because too many girls fall pregnant at an early age.

Culled from http://enigeria.com.ng/romance/52-year-old-south-african-claims-shes-virgin-hasnt-kissed-life/

CrimeBoko Haram: Top Wanted Leader, Pepper, Nabbed By Troops [PHOTO] by emmy9688(op): 9:14am On May 16, 2017
Nigerian troops attached to 233 Battalion, 27 Task Force Brigade of the Nigerian Army, have arrested a wanted Boko Haram leader, Abubakar Adamu AKA "Pepper".

This was announced in a statement signed by Brigadier-General SK Usman, Director of Army Public Relations.

According to the statement, the 35-year old premium terrorist was arrested by troops stationed at 'Forward Operation Base,' in Potiskum, Yobe State.

He was arrested, with the assistance from local vigilantes around New Prison area of Potiskum.
The statement revealed that "Pepper" hails from Yerimara village in Potiskum Local Government Area and has been involved in carrying out attacks and other terror-related activities around the northeastern part of the country."

In a related development, the Army also announced that troops of 231 and 331 Battalions jointly foiled an armed robbery attempt at Chanchara village in Shani Local Government Area, where they recovered an AK-47 rifle, machetes, and ammunition.

culled from http://enigeria.com.ng/local-news/boko-haram-top-wanted-leader-pepper-nabbed-troops-photo/

PoliticsBuhari's Sickness Should Not Stop Nigerians From Re-electing Him - APC Chieftain by emmy9688(op): 8:43am On May 16, 2017
The lawmaker representing Ikara/Kubua federal constituency of Kaduna State and chieftain of the All Progressives Congress, Yusuf Bala has explained why Nigerians should elect President Muhammadu Buhari for second term in 2019.

Bala said that Buhari's second term would enable him consolidate on the achievements so far recorded by his administration.

The lawmaker said as long as the president was alive, nothing stopped him from seeking for reelection in 2019.

He told Sun that, "As long as the President is alive and healthy, let him contest and continue with the good work he started, otherwise, we will have a problem in the country.

"It is sustainability that matters. He has a lot of initiatives, but people might not feel the impact immediately. If he has the opportunity to continue, the impact will be felt by Nigerians.

So, I am in support of his reelection if he decides to continue. And I will give him the maximum support I can muster. I am in support of him seeking a second term."

Balla insisted that Buhari's ailing health should not be a yardstick to deny him second term, stressing that anyone could fall sick.
I am going to support his reelection as long as he wants to re-contest. We are all humans. We are mortals. You can fall sick. I can fall sick. My child of one and half years was admitted in the hospital recently. We are human beings. Sickness is something that we can't avoid. It can happen to anybody. That angle as far as I am concerned, doesn't matter," he added.

culled from http://enigeria.com.ng/politics/2019-buharis-sickness-not-stop-nigerians-re-electing-apc-chieftain-bala/
CelebritiesDavido Shares Picture With New Lady; These Fans Comments Will Make Your Day by emmy9688(op): 8:28am On May 16, 2017
DMW boss, Davido shares picture with new lady and fans go beserk with hilarious comments.

So someone cannot post a picture in peace again?

Davido's fans are ripping off his Instagram page with comments because he chooses to share a picture with a lady. The IF hit maker tagged the photo "Sippin brukutututu"

Fans are showing concern especially because the singer has a new baby girl with another babymama in the US. Some fans are like ....

culled from http://enigeria.com.ng/entertainment-celeb-news/davido-shares-picture-new-lady-fans-comments-will-make-day/

HealthHow To Treat A Swell On The Face by emmy9688(op):
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CareerRe: In-sourcing, New Way Of Hiring Desperate Job Seekers by emmy9688: 8:33pm On Nov 10, 2015
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Nairaland GeneralThis Man Gets Paid $1,000 A Week To Stand In Line For People by emmy9688(op): 12:10am On Oct 29, 2015
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CrimeBoko Haram Now Using Ipads, Laptops, Phones For Bombs – IGP Arase by emmy9688(op): 11:39am On Oct 23, 2015
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The Inspector General of Police, Solomon Arase, has advised Nigerians to avoid the temptation of picking iPad, phones or laptops not kept by them, as terrorists now use these attractive gadgets in manufacturing bombs.

The IGP’s warning came on the heels of the arrest of some suspects at Karamajiji Village, behind Military Cemetery, Airport road in Abuja, with dangerous bombing tools.

A statement yesterday by Force spokesperson, Assistant Commissioner of Police (ACP) Olabisi Kolawole, said items found on the suspects include: “Engineering textbooks, laptops, phone, face mask, funnel, text tubes, iPad, 2 number plates, gloves, 27 pieces of detonators, and aluminum powder”.

Other items are: “Hexomine, hydrogene peroxide, sulphur powder, sodium azide plus nitrate, iron 11 oxide, soldering wire, sugar, litmus paper, sodium carbonate, thermometre, chlorate, filter paper, strings, potassium chlorate, 12 ready-made Improvised Explosives Devices(IED), and a full bag of fertilizer”.

“The IGP said the arrest of the suspects was made possible by the proactive nature of the newly formed Intelligence Response Team”, Kolawole added.

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SportsRe: Oliseh Ill, Flown Back To Belgium by emmy9688: 11:27am On Oct 23, 2015
Oh, get well soon.

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RomanceSEE The REAL Reasons Women Turn A Blind Eye When Their Men Cheat by emmy9688(op): 11:25am On Oct 23, 2015
Plus, 5 ways to deal when you’re ready to face the truth!

You’re in a relationship and everything is going well, until the ultimate betrayal occurs … he cheats.

Your mind goes crazy with questions, wondering how you missed it. Or maybe you kind of knew all along but didn’t want to face it. Or maybe it’s not you at all, but rather a friend who is sticking her head in the sand about her husband’s obvious indiscretions.

Why?! WHY do women pretend not to see what’s clearly happening in their relationship (even when everyone else around them sees the signs they’re ignoring)?

Well, you can basically thank your brain for protecting you with the defense mechanism known as … denial.

Denial protects us from pain

When we’re hurt, afraid, or highly stressed, our brains sometimes engages in a process of denial. It is a powerful defense mechanism that allows us to take in only what we can handle when we feel overwhelming emotion or pain. And, the betrayal of cheating is definitely deeply traumatic.

When emotional pain feels too great, the brain simply ignores the information in order to protect us from that reality. Denial is deeply subconscious, leaving us unaware that it’s preventing us from facing the truth.

Denial both helps and hinders us

As a protector of the psyche, denial is very helpful when we need to avoid an intense traumatic situation. Denial lessens the shock of something that is too difficult to process all at once, such as a death, an accident, or even the sudden discovery of your partner cheating.

You might need time to slowly digest a traumatic event. However, if denial lasts longer than a few weeks, you get stuck in a dishonest reality. It’s time to confront the truth, as painful as it may seem.

So if you think you’re in denial about your partner’s cheating, here are five ways to finally handle confronting the truth:

1. Trust that you can handle the (temporary) pain

Heartbreak and betrayal are incredibly painful, and something we all work to avoid. However, the brain and the heart have amazing capacities to heal.

All pain is temporary. You may experience giant waves of grief, anger, or sadness. Other days, you may just feel smaller, more tolerable pangs of emotion. They will vary in size, intensity, and duration, but it’s essential to feel them all in order to heal. Trust that you can ride the waves. And trust that you will land on solid ground again on the other side.

Though we say “I can’t handle this.” The truth is, we can. It just doesn’t feel very good. When you recognize that you can handle whatever life throws your way, you’re less likely to hide out in denial. And this is a helpful mindset to incorporate into your daily life for all of it’s stressors (whether there is cheating going on or not). Think of it as a preventative measure, to help avoid moving into denial with any possible future stress.

2. Focus on the facts

When you’re in denial, you see the evidence right in front of your face, but it just doesn’t connect. If you have any questions in your mind about your partner’s behavior whatsoever, or a friend has tried to raise your awareness of cheating, think about the specific facts you actually know.

Have you seen text messages between your partner and another person that seem suspicious? Have you seen strange charges on a credit card bill? Does he stay late at work more than usual? Does he openly flirt with other women in front of you? Does he seem secretive of his phone and e-mail?

Be willing to dig deeper if you have any shadow of a doubt. Ask a friend for an opinion outside of your own. You want to get grounded into reality, and not just lost in your own mind.

3. Listen to your gut

As women, we are incredibly intuitive. Society just bombards us with messages throughout our lives trying to convince us we’re insecure, over-reacting, emotional, or crazy. Even if you don’t have facts to support your doubts, pay attention to the “red flag” moments that tell you that something just isn’t right.

Intuition can sometimes feel vague, like a quick thought that pops into your mind that just won’t go away. A nagging sensation in your body that something is “off.” Intuition doesn’t feel anxious. It feels like a burst of information. If it repeats itself, that’s even more reason to pay attention.

4. Know your worth

Do you believe that you can’t find someone better than this man? Do you find yourself thinking negatively about yourself?

Most women who ignore their partner’s cheating behavior struggle with deeper issues around self-worth. Sometimes, these messages are not in your conscious awareness.

If you’ve ignored his cheating to avoid confrontation with your partner (or the possible loss of your relationship), it’s time to give your self-esteem a boost. You deserve truth, commitment, and respect in your relationship. If he’s not honoring the commitment the two of you made to one another, then trust that you do deserve better.

5. Believe in a brighter, more honest future

Finding the courage to confront the truth is difficult, especially after you realize you’ve been in denial about your man’s cheating ways.

Trust that, in the end, you really will be happy that you chose truth rather than ignoring something that brings you pain. A hard truth always trumps a pretty lie. You deserve truth. You deserve integrity in your relationship commitments.

You don’t have to go through it alone. Reach out to friends, a therapist, or a relationship coach for support as you step out of denial and face his infidelity head on.

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CelebritiesRe: Dayo 'D1' Adeneye Nominated As A Commissioner In Ogun State by emmy9688: 10:53am On Oct 23, 2015
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HealthRe: Woman Gives Birth To A Mystery Baby In Lagos(pictures) by emmy9688: 10:53am On Oct 23, 2015
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PoliticsRe: Osinbajo, El-rufai At Energy Event In London by emmy9688: 11:32am On Oct 22, 2015
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