MorningStar233:


Do another scan else where if you can, and again those sonographers give different fetal age based on some parameters.

Two done
First....35weeks
Second....34weeks

kokaiye:
Hi... Did u check ur sugar level? It might explain why your baby is bigger than its gestational age or u shld do anoda scan smwhere else.

Yes... He did check my sugar levels...it's very okay

Two scans done...
First....35weeks
Second....34weeks

Good day Mama's, I'm currently 31weeks pregnant and diagnosed with gestational hypertension also at risk with preclampsia.

I've been scheduled for C.S. at 37weeks at a general hospital on may 3rd.
I was sent for scan and my baby is measuring 34weeks.
So the gynaecologist is doubting the date I gave as my last LMP.
I'm extremely sure of it because I use an app and track my period effectively.

He has earned me to be sure because he said I must not go beyond 37weeks.
I'm confused now.

Thank you for your responses.

I think it's best we remain apart because I'm at peace where I am.
I guess it's loneliness and the fear of taking care of two kids all by myself that was making me reconsider our arrangement.

I'm at peace with myself, I don't hate him but I can not forget how toxic it's been.
I really do hope we maintain being cordial, for the sake of our kids.

I honestly do love him but the truth is we are truly incompatible and love is just not enough.

Our marriage of seven years has scarred me emotionally and mentally.
I actually do not want to be entangled with anyone anymore, I just want to focus on me and my kids.
I guess because I don't talk much about it or I'm always jovial, he still doesn't understand.


Thank you all.

I created a new ID for this post and it's a really long post.

I've been in a toxic marriage for seven years (like a crazy marriage).
I have a child and I'm expecting another one on the way.
Anyway, I walked away last year September (note this is my second time of walking away from our home)
I walked away about 3years ago and we both reconciled.

Last year, I was about three months pregnant and we had a serious issue about finances regarding a medical procedure that I had to undergo inorder for me to keep the pregnancy.
He refused to contribute a dime and we both had a serious argument and he beat me up the night before my surgery and because of that I packed up my things and left.

Two days before I left I approached him that I've gotten a house and I'm moving out and he said nothing.
On the day of my leaving, he was at home when the van pulled up and left but he did nothing.

December Last year, he approached me that he wants to see his son, I sent his son to him and he brought his son back to where im currently living.
We had a cordial discussion about life and he dropped some allowance for his son.

We've been cordial, I guess to much and right now I'm no longer comfortable.
He has been helpful in my condition because I live in a town with no family and friends.
He is the only adult I can count on and he has been helpful but not perfect.

The Problem is I can not forget how toxic our seven years together has been and my gut feeling tells me to quit the marriage.
He still does not realize how bad he hurt me and feels because I'm cordial with him, I still love him.

I'm almost due with our second child and I really want us to be good friends but I don't want us to be married.
I actually want boundaries between us but I don't want to push him away.

For the first time in seven years, he provided our monthly upkeep and my hospital money without fighting and argument.
He's been good this month but it was hell with him for seven years.

I hope I'm clear enough, what should I do? please