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There is a popular saying that it takes 3 weeks to form a habit when you repeatedly keep doing something... Trust me for masturbation a week and you already in it... I started doing it frequently, I don't sleep at night.. I download porn clips and service myself all night.. it became a real addiction that I couldn't stay a night without engaging myself, something I do 5 times daily... This lasted all through my service years also when I passed out from service...

Now I've passed out from service, I am now open to the real world and I'm to return back to my sweet home in Benin City, Edo state... I've got babes I left waiting for me... Funny thing was I couldn't still stop it... Infact I had started preferring masturbation than the actual sex. My first sex after service was unlike me, I struggled to have an erection, couldn't last more than one round , I was having lasting pains all through out my body..

I was now having problems Concentrating, loss of weight, I became very light, my sperm was watery, had breathing problems, stubborn headache, i was generally now weak... Guys masturbation drains you comoletely... Completely... Do not be deceived when you hear people say masturbation makes you good... Haven't you heard about the popular saying by a boxer that sex weakens the leg, masturbation weakens more and drains all hour energy and stamina.... Me that use to last rounds before abs maiñtain erection even after sex for rounds was struggling in the first 2 minutes no to cum...

My life was really messed, still I couldn't stop...

This also affected my relationship with girls, There are two things masturbation does to guys;

1. Makes you see all girls as sex objects, you just can't think of anything but sex... "Wow she got a good ass, I shouldn't masturbate over that, she reminds me of my favourite porn stars"

2. It makes you have low self esteem with women, you are now at the mercy of sex alone and so you act and behave foolishly because of sex... It ruins everything

I had gone through all of these for years...

Came out for deliverance, pastors laid hands on me, stopped watching porn but a week time I go back, seen the devasted side effects of it, that it can affect ones fertility.. I get touched when reading this, vow never to return, still I did

How did I overcome



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This whole masturbation shit happened during my NYSC days, before now I used to feel that people who masturbate are mentally sick until it happened to me.

During my NYSC days I served in taraba 2014.. and was posted to a dead local government called gembo... I had always like women and fun, but from reports we heard that gembo having a population of less than 1000, most of them are HIV positive hence it shares borders with Cameroon and sone of these women where cameroonians... I was in the health CDS and I confirmed this because I see people trooping in Mass every month ending for HIV drugs... Most of them, even as young as age 5... I had always love women and like to taste different cultures, but when I heard stories also of corpers who came there and contracted the virus, I knew this wasn't about just playing safe but abstaining..

But you know konji now, for months I stayed without touching women, worse of it all was they never posted any of our female corpers there and I couldn't even think of having affair with their indigene even with condom...

That was when this whole shit started, I download clips, watch at m leisure and then try and see how it goes by servicing myself.. I wasn't used to it, tried it the first time.. had erection ofcourse but didn't ejaculate, i get ashamed of the act but then i keep going back, till It because a habit...

But there was a problem....

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Hello Nairaladers, usually masturbation is something I never admit I do, it's a thing of shame and trust me it's a low self esteem act... I had to create this thread to help you understand how to conquer this evil monster called masturbation.. some bad habits are very hard to stop if not almost impossible.. bad habits like masturbation and smoking.. I was able to finally overcome mine afte 5 years of addiction.. it almost ruined me, actually it did.. This is no motivational talk, it's talking from my personal experience. Most people watch porn and masturbate while they do, bur the real problem is when you masturbate even without watching porn.. you see some sensual picture or nasty romance thread on nairaland and you begin to masturbate, THAT IS THE CLIMAX of addiction..

Follow the thread, I will tell you from my life experience how I started masturbation, how it became a habit, the travails I went through, problems attached to it and my victory at last...

I will update you on post few minutes..

GreatResearcher:
Canada, Germany.

Mind isnt to leave d country it's to hav my 2020 goals achieved. First quarter of d year is gone.

Perhaps we may need to talk on that Canada package... Pls can you leave me your contact

Hello Nairaladers, usually masturbation is something I never admit I do, it's a thing of shame and trust me it's a low self esteem act... I had to create this thread to help you understand how to conquer this evil monster called masturbation.. some bad habits are very hard to stop if not almost impossible.. bad habits like masturbation and smoking.. I was able to finally overcome mine afte 5 years of addiction.. it almost ruined me, actually it did.. This is no motivational talk, it's talking from my personal experience. Most people watch porn and masturbate while they do, bur the real problem is when you masturbate even without watching porn.. you see some sensual picture or nasty romance thread on nairaland and you begin to masturbate, THAT IS THE CLIMAX of addiction..

Follow the thread, I will tell you from my life experience how I started masturbation, how it became a habit, the travails I went through, problems attached to it and my victory at last...

I will update you on post few minutes..

GreatResearcher:
they say there's light at the end of the tunnel and i keep asking. 'how long is this tunnel?' cos i've been going thru it sightin d end.

I just want to hastily leave this country bro.... that will be my light at the end of the tunnel... do you have any sure country with link in mind to immigrate to?

GreatResearcher:
bro we in the same shoes though mine has a worn out sole.
I keep stayin awaking thinking about so many things. Thinking of how i've proved my uncle right by being reckless. Shame does allowd me call home again. Fair weather friends compas me about. I feel sad most of the times. D lockdown is making tins wat for me mentally. Life is nt fair

It's just the reality of life bro... I feel life hasn't started for me at all and would not start till I leave this forsaken country.. I need a fresh start, a new location, a fresh breath... lots of expectations are beamed on me.... I wouldn't blame anyone for not attaining the height I should have attained I don't do that.. but I've come to realize there are and will always be audio and fake family members who never want to see you outshine their progress so you forever be a boy to them and it hurts when you just can't prove them wrong at that moment . I had started my Visa application before the Corona outbreak and now my dreams seems to be on hold... When I think all these through, sleep eludes me bro

Hello Nairalanders, lots has been going through my mind lately... I've been thinking so deep and I never stop thinking because nothing changes for better... The country Nigeria has failed us... Finishing school after years no job, trying to set up business epileptic power supply and all ruins it, as one ages you begin to get Dawn to realities about getting married, taken care of families and all and you are like wow...

Most painful now is this Corona virus halting businesses, trust me I doubt salaries will be paid for those working...

what keeps you awake to sleep... don't tell me nothing, we all have worries that keeps us disturbed...

Nigeria is not habitable again... once I exit this country my lineage is gone for good

opebiboy:
Coronavirus wey we no see na audio

lol.... pray make you or your family nor see am oo

Hello Nairalanders, it's no big deal that single mothers and father's are on the increase now...But if you check carefully, amidst the baby daddy and baby mama drama, if what they had is a male son, the women are usually asked to give up custody of male children to their fathers.. You see elderly women wtg experience saying, women cant cope raising a male child as against a female child... why is this so, or is this wrong... your contribution please

chai some other guys are banging that babe now... wait oo.. u sure that boy is yours?

Openbusiness:
No let Drake catch u, na him ex-babe b dat

Drake can't hit it better than me, he can only spend cash better....

My primary place of Assignment is circled below.. but wait oo... looking at that circle environment he go dey sweet in the middle but deep in the middle too oo

bigpriik:
Guy you don travel ooo

me sef tire oo

fuwaski:
IBRAHIM ! Oya bring Vaseline

or hand/prick sanitizer

okoroemeka:
I have a sneaky suspicion that our creator must be a little too mischievous in creating this special type of women to torment manhoods and then give us orders not to touch,this must be a marcabe joke.if dissecting that body will take me to hell so be it.

I nor follow you talk this one... but how can? how can one not disect these special breeds... Hey!!!

Openbusiness:
Lol, Lagos way babes full everywer like pure wata. As a confam Lagos guy, I can never pay kobo for sex

Omolagos... na to hit you up if I come Lagos be that

Openbusiness:
For wia, for this ma side nothing like lockdown, na film trick d govt dey do everything normal. Babes still dey go collect their cucumba Na d rich people for Ikoyi and VI dey do quarantine

bad guy... Benin for Edo state lockdown ooo.... But inmessager girls now dey very cheap.... lots of desperados for two reasons now

1. KONJI
2. Money

Openbusiness:

how far una.... how isolation dey do una... girls are really scarce now oo... Even runs babes don empty for hotels now

heed101:
Op nawa for you o. Freebasic. Thanks to airtel

Airtel get data bonus package ?

yes oo... it seems it's everywhere, Corona virus has kept them indoors and even managers of hotels has sent them packing, but like I usually recommend one can use inmessager to get these girls now... They are very cheap now half the price trust me.... Half the usual price.. I'm talking from SEXperience

Kenneygirl:
Well written. Number one is all I need--Job

where is your location??

Openbusiness:
Boss I dey Nigeria I'm already used to handling fake, that wan na small matter, even the Nigerian government is fake

seems myself and you have alot of things in common which is ladies big nyash.... which location are you? I'm in Edo

Openbusiness:
you know go come back 9ja again ooooohhhhh, na naturally endowed beautiful girls with flat tummy full der, no fat, no silicone, just crazy curves on soft jiggling yansh and smoothest freshest brown skin Abeg wen u land, greet dis babe for me. He dey Tanzania

I had a Tanzania friend then in her 30s.. her ass was so exrra-ordinary.. you could even see her curves from her shadows... if there's any country with curves, I give Tanzania and south African.. mehn!!!

omo.... see that babe nyash ontop of chair... After Corona virus I'm visiting Tanzania

Openbusiness:
I'm not a pervert oh ***rolls eyes*** but Sanchi pictures full my phone . I dee come, make I load small. The girl is a pure goddess. Her face is average (or below) but her body is 100%, best curves in Africa mehn

hurry up

oya first, make una drop una location... Situation report here is that I'm from Edo State. in Benin City, we have 17 oloshos joint in this state...

oya introduce yourself ??

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
You mean, *surgeons* are wonderful

why are all the babes saying seorgeons here... the fact you have a skeletal ass doesnt mean you shouldn't appreciate others fleshy.. haba stop the hate nah... c'mon nyash again una dey hate

please let's make this appear on front page... One thing is synonymous to this isolation period... KONJI..
and we must take palliative measures to act on it...

please OP copy those who would love this topic let's make it the bomb

AFvckingAlpha:
Aunty thickness! The goal is not to make you pained, Grow the fvck up! Jeez!!

Try what again? Maturity no mean say you get sense o. Aunty, when you go marry sef it was you who said I should try again

you sure these once go marry..? can't you see she's been trying so hard to make herself important here since...

guy abeg check out this natural hot babe from KD

Freeman50:
hi pretty, can j slide into your DM?

Na Dem, na Dem!!! instead of you to slide into calvarys blessings. Hurray, it's Easter!!!

by the way, merely looking at that babe...you need something really thick to slide into that girls personal DM