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My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by emperorsversion(m): 11:00am On Apr 15, 2020
Hello Nairaladers, usually masturbation is something I never admit I do, it's a thing of shame and trust me it's a low self esteem act... I had to create this thread to help you understand how to conquer this evil monster called masturbation.. some bad habits are very hard to stop if not almost impossible.. bad habits like masturbation and smoking.. I was able to finally overcome mine afte 5 years of addiction.. it almost ruined me, actually it did.. This is no motivational talk, it's talking from my personal experience. Most people watch porn and masturbate while they do, bur the real problem is when you masturbate even without watching porn.. you see some sensual picture or nasty romance thread on nairaland and you begin to masturbate, THAT IS THE CLIMAX of addiction..

Follow the thread, I will tell you from my life experience how I started masturbation, how it became a habit, the travails I went through, problems attached to it and my victory at last...

I will update you on post few minutes..
Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by Enoch07: 11:01am On Apr 15, 2020
and now that u are saved, don't look back
Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by donbachi(m): 11:11am On Apr 15, 2020
I just imagined when i had malaria +,my doctor come say i get typhoid join am..it was not easy treating..e come be almighty porn+masturbation..thank GOD for u.
Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by Jashub: 11:13am On Apr 15, 2020
donbachi:
I just imagined when i had malaria +,my doctor come say i get typhoid join am..it was not easy treating..e come be almighty porn+masturbation..thank GOD for u.
Op, please continue.
Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by emperorsversion(m): 11:14am On Apr 15, 2020
This whole masturbation shit happened during my NYSC days, before now I used to feel that people who masturbate are mentally sick until it happened to me.

During my NYSC days I served in taraba 2014.. and was posted to a dead local government called gembo... I had always like women and fun, but from reports we heard that gembo having a population of less than 1000, most of them are HIV positive hence it shares borders with Cameroon and sone of these women where cameroonians... I was in the health CDS and I confirmed this because I see people trooping in Mass every month ending for HIV drugs... Most of them, even as young as age 5... I had always love women and like to taste different cultures, but when I heard stories also of corpers who came there and contracted the virus, I knew this wasn't about just playing safe but abstaining..

But you know konji now, for months I stayed without touching women, worse of it all was they never posted any of our female corpers there and I couldn't even think of having affair with their indigene even with condom...

That was when this whole shit started, I download clips, watch at m leisure and then try and see how it goes by servicing myself.. I wasn't used to it, tried it the first time.. had erection ofcourse but didn't ejaculate, i get ashamed of the act but then i keep going back, till It because a habit...

But there was a problem....

Typing....
Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by dequeenishere: 11:29am On Apr 15, 2020
Pls tell the story quick, someone is waiting undecided[color=#770077][/color]
Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by emperorsversion(m): 11:34am On Apr 15, 2020
There is a popular saying that it takes 3 weeks to form a habit when you repeatedly keep doing something... Trust me for masturbation a week and you already in it... I started doing it frequently, I don't sleep at night.. I download porn clips and service myself all night.. it became a real addiction that I couldn't stay a night without engaging myself, something I do 5 times daily... This lasted all through my service years also when I passed out from service...

Now I've passed out from service, I am now open to the real world and I'm to return back to my sweet home in Benin City, Edo state... I've got babes I left waiting for me... Funny thing was I couldn't still stop it... Infact I had started preferring masturbation than the actual sex. My first sex after service was unlike me, I struggled to have an erection, couldn't last more than one round , I was having lasting pains all through out my body..

I was now having problems Concentrating, loss of weight, I became very light, my sperm was watery, had breathing problems, stubborn headache, i was generally now weak... Guys masturbation drains you comoletely... Completely... Do not be deceived when you hear people say masturbation makes you good... Haven't you heard about the popular saying by a boxer that sex weakens the leg, masturbation weakens more and drains all hour energy and stamina.... Me that use to last rounds before abs maiƱtain erection even after sex for rounds was struggling in the first 2 minutes no to cum...

My life was really messed, still I couldn't stop...

This also affected my relationship with girls, There are two things masturbation does to guys;

1. Makes you see all girls as sex objects, you just can't think of anything but sex... "Wow she got a good ass, I shouldn't masturbate over that, she reminds me of my favourite porn stars"

2. It makes you have low self esteem with women, you are now at the mercy of sex alone and so you act and behave foolishly because of sex... It ruins everything

I had gone through all of these for years...

Came out for deliverance, pastors laid hands on me, stopped watching porn but a week time I go back, seen the devasted side effects of it, that it can affect ones fertility.. I get touched when reading this, vow never to return, still I did

How did I overcome



Typing.....

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Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by Chosen1984(m): 11:40am On Apr 15, 2020
Masturbation is A Destiny Destroyer and Crippler!

It Destroys and Cripplesone Physically, Spiritually and all round!!
Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by NJPot(m): 11:58am On Apr 15, 2020
Everything is bad when done in excess. Masturbation done moderately is better than fornication, adultery, rape and constant Lustful thoughts. If you want to condemn sin, condemn all sins. Don't speak against Masturbation while promoting fornication. Both you and the pastors casting away the spirit of Masturbation while leaving the spirit of fornication are all mad.

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Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by emperorsversion(m): 12:01pm On Apr 15, 2020
can you really masturbate moderately.....?
Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by NJPot(m): 12:07pm On Apr 15, 2020
emperorsversion:
can you really masturbate moderately.....?

Ofcourse. Everything is about self control.

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Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by Jashub: 12:07pm On Apr 15, 2020
NJPot:
Everything is bad when done in excess. Masturbation done moderately is better than fornication, adultery, rape and constant Lustful thoughts. If you want to condemn sin, condemn all sins. Don't speak against Masturbation while promoting fornication. Both you and the pastors casting away the spirit of Masturbation while leaving the spirit of fornication are all mad.
Are you in support of masturbation?

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Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by PureGoldh(m): 12:13pm On Apr 15, 2020
@OP Thank God for ur life
Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by NJPot(m): 12:17pm On Apr 15, 2020
Jashub:
Are you supporting masturbation?

Yes instead of fornication, gay sex, adultery, child abuse and rape. If you want to stop Masturbation, don't use the 5 sins I mentioned earlier as replacement. The best thing is to marry and be faithful to your wife. But if are not married, masturbate if you can't control your sexual urge.

Masturbation can save you from Stds, HIV, abortion, heartbreaks, divorce, prison, harm and death.

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Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by Rabbitcartel: 12:21pm On Apr 15, 2020
NJPot:
Everything is bad when done in excess. Masturbation done moderately is better than fornication, adultery, rape and constant Lustful thoughts. If you want to condemn sin, condemn all sins. Don't speak against Masturbation while promoting fornication. Both you and the pastors casting away the spirit of Masturbation while leaving the spirit of fornication are all mad.

Are u impotent ni?? Almost all sexually matured men struggle with maaturbation at one point in time, u have to be a woman or a man without a functioning joystick to make such a statement as u did.. u better keep quiet n let op save someones life.. Theres nothing good about maaturbation, forget science ideology,

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Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by Jashub: 12:28pm On Apr 15, 2020
NJPot:


Yes instead of fornication, gay sex, adultery, child abuse and rape. If you want to stop Masturbation, don't use the 5 sins I mentioned earlier as replacement. The best thing is to marry and be faithful to your wife. But if are not married, masturbate if you can't control your sexual urge.

Masturbation can save you from Stds, HIV, abortion, heartbreaks, divorce, prison, harm and death.
Sir masturbation is sin (even though it is not written in the scriptures). And to substitute one sin for another is ungodly
Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by Dollywood(m): 12:28pm On Apr 15, 2020
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Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by NJPot(m): 12:29pm On Apr 15, 2020
Rabbitcartel:


Are u impotent ni?? Almost all sexually matured men struggle with maaturbation at one point in our lives, u have to be a woman or a man without a functioning joystick to make such a statement as u did.. I struggled with maaturbation for almost 4 years as well, it was a nairalander's experience that saved me n helped me regain my confidence as well,, u better keep quiet n let op save someone elses life.. Theres nothing good about maaturbation, forget science ideology, it's very easy to become an addict n its the worse to quit,

Even having sex for more than 2 rounds is not good to the body. The Op just have to be moderate in the act. I can not advice anyone to fornicate. Masturbate instead of fornication. Unless you are not afraid of the possible consequences. If you want to be religious then stop all sins and not condemn Masturbation while allowing fornication or other sexual sins.

Mind you, I am married and faithful to my wife and he is not complaining.

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Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by Rabbitcartel: 12:34pm On Apr 15, 2020
NJPot:


Even having sex for more than 2 rounds is not good to the body. The Op just have to be moderate in the act. I can not advice anyone to fornicate. Masturbate instead of fornication. Unless you are not afraid of the possible consequences. If you want to be religious then stop all sins and not condemn Masturbation while allowing fornication or other sexual sins.

Mind you, I am married and faithful to my wife and he is not complaining.

Continue.. I like ur kind of people..
Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by NJPot(m): 12:35pm On Apr 15, 2020
Jashub:
Sir masturbation is sin (even though it is not written in the scriptures). And to substitute one sin for another is ungodly

I am not saying that it is not a sin or that it is a sin. What I mean is that if you want to stop Masturbation, also stop fornication and all sins. If you want to be holy, avoid all sins. Not battling to replace masturbation with fornication. I don't know why people find it difficult to understand my simple explanations.

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Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by Rabbitcartel: 12:36pm On Apr 15, 2020
If u bliv masturbation is a lesser sin than fornication or even rape, I wonder what u claim to be ur religion
Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by NJPot(m): 12:37pm On Apr 15, 2020
Rabbitcartel:
If u bliv masturbation is a lesser sin than fornication or even rape, I wonder what u claim to be ur religion

Ok stop Masturbation. Begin to rape and fornicate. I think you are OK with this.

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Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by Jashub: 12:38pm On Apr 15, 2020
NJPot:


[b]I am not saying that it is not a sin or that it is a sin. What I mean is that if you want to stop Masturbation, also stop fornication and all sins. If you want to be holy, avoid all sins. Not battling to replace masturbation with fornication. I don't know why people find it difficult to understand my simple explanations.
Please tell us where you are : is masturbation a sin or not a sin? This is a yes or no answer.
Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by NJPot(m): 12:43pm On Apr 15, 2020
Jashub:
Please tell us where you are : is masturbation a sin or not a sin? This is a yes or no answer.

The OP is not trying to stop Masturbation because it was a sin or not. He want to go back to his fornication. So I adviced him to continue with masturbation in a moderate way instead of going back to fornication. But if he actually wants to be holy, he should quit both masturbation and all sins. QED.

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Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by Rabbitcartel: 12:54pm On Apr 15, 2020
NJPot:


I am not saying that it is not a sin or that it is a sin. What I mean is that if you want to stop Masturbation, also stop fornication and all sins. If you want to be holy, avoid all sins. Not battling to replace masturbation with fornication. I don't know why people find it difficult to understand my simple explanations.

I had to go back to see what op posted, there was no point where he talked about commiting a sin.. na u carry religion enter simple matter.. someone is talking about physical n mental health, n u started talking sin.. bross u don't have to hit rock bottom first before you realise ur drowning ooh..

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Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by Jashub: 12:56pm On Apr 15, 2020
NJPot:


The OP is not trying to stop Masturbation because it was a sin or not. He want to go back to his fornication. So I adviced him to continue with masturbation in a moderate way instead of going back to fornication. But if he actually wants to be holy, he should quit both masturbation and all sins. QED.
Let us forget about the OP and focus on your statement. Now answer the question : is Masturbation a sin or not?
Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by Rabbitcartel: 12:56pm On Apr 15, 2020
NJPot:


Ok stop Masturbation. Begin to rape and fornicate. I think you are OK with this.

So u say any unmarried guy that doesn't masturbate is a rapist?? Now I understand I dey follow lost cause argue..

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Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by Rabbitcartel: 1:01pm On Apr 15, 2020
Jashub:
Let us forget about the OP and focus on your statement. Now answer the question : is Masturbation a sin or not?
Lolol, is there any need?? D guy pick masturbation over sex.. only Gays go see Pussy talk say na dem hand go relieve them.. obviously theres no need... Op ride on..
Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by NJPot(m): 1:02pm On Apr 15, 2020
Jashub:
Let us forget about the OP and focus on your statement. Now answer the question : is Masturbation a sin or not?

To be holy, you should quit masturbation and all sins. When you go for lab test and doctor tells you to go get your semen, tell him that it is a sin.

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Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by Jashub: 1:07pm On Apr 15, 2020
NJPot:


To be holy, you should quit masturbation and all sins. When you go for lab test and doctor tells you to go get your semen, tell him that it is a sin.
Oga I can see you are one of those people loves to twist biblical righteousness just to suit a certain social acceptance. May God help you.
Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by Jashub: 1:07pm On Apr 15, 2020
Rabbitcartel:

Lolol, is there any need?? D guy pick masturbation over sex.. only Gays go see Pussy talk say na dem hand go relieve them.. obviously theres no need... Op ride on..
You are right. I seriously regretted asking the guy the question in the first place.
Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by NJPot(m): 1:07pm On Apr 15, 2020
Rabbitcartel:

Lolol, is there any need?? D guy pick masturbation over sex.. only Gays go see Pussy talk say na dem hand go relieve them.. obviously theres no need... Op ride on..

Continue with your whatever sexual act you like. The truth is that masturbation is safer than any other sexual act. The OP chose it instead of fornication because he don't want to come back from NYSC with HIV. That worked for him.

You that is a real man can keep deceiving yourself. When you develop white tongue and rashes with palpitations you can open your own tread in Nairaland to ask us the name of the disease you are suffering from.

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