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bidexdo:
Not only disturb your peace, they will also chop your food, steal your Money

Your mate dey build house for his inlaw

Don't marry oh

The house that I have been building before I met her.

I have carried her from her work place to her house three times.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
You are either lying or you framed this nonsense up or you are exagerrating..

What will I gain if I frame it up?

I met this lady last week in her work place. She works as a nurse. I collected her number and we have been chatting and went out together. My current challenge with her is that I have a site which I plan completing it this year as well as marry this year. I have not told her and I don't plan telling her. But my challenge with her is that my site is not far from her parents house. Any time I want to go to my site, I will have to pass through her parents house.

She's the first born, if I decide to marry her, won't her siblings be disturbing our peace because of the proximity of my site to their house

I'm bewildered

boxer022:
From what I just read, I cannot say that you have any anger issues or bad attitude. She was not sincere with you from the beginning of your relationship with her. She must have been double dating and I am sure she met that other guy before you. The signs were all there to show you that she was not really interested in the relationship. She was just pretending so as to get things from you which I believed she succeeded in getting. How can a lady who claims she loves you and wants to spend time with you as you if you are to end your relationship with her? You do not need to bother yourself much over this as I can comfortably say that she has moved on. You on your own have to also move on with your life, forgetting about her. She was looking for an excuse to end the relationship and she hinged it on bad attitude and anger issues. Does she even know what anger issues mean?

I don't think she knows what anger issues mean... I never once shouted at her nor beat her... All what I did was to care for her.

Clinghton:
There's competition going on in her life, let her be than getting married and spending the rest of your marriage begging her to love you.

I align with your submission

MikeofKd:
Sometimes women think They re doing men a favour by just talking to them ,some are so full of themselves they b acting like d only woman in the world .

My advice is dump her and move on ,don't be under pressure to settle down and even if people are putting u under pressure understand that's when d marriage starts having faults these people won't b there so be wise in your dealings, don't let anybody rush you.

And one thing I know very well about love is that you can't find it ,it finds you ,so Don't chase women for marriages just go with the flow and trust me you would know d one for you when she comes .for now continue to build your business and also work on ur growth as an individual .GL

Thanks

Karleb:
I swear down, I dey gbadun you gan ni.

Begging for love is a no no, not just for men but also for women. It's better to be to be single than beg for love from anyone.

Just ask for the love, if them give am, follow along. If them no give the love, meet another person.

Unless you are extremely ugly and miserable, you should never ever beg for love. Not even from friends or families.

Ugly ke, me that several people has complimented to be handsome... Even the first time I was going to see her at the hospital, immediately I stepped out, I was complimented by one okada man.

Jmarjr:
u have no choice than to move on, if u press 2 hard she will take u 4 a fool

Thanks, I just penned a page farewell message to her on WhatsApp.

Thanks for everybody that contributed, I really appreciate.

22o62021:
She suggested the breakup and moved on faster without any emotional attachment and your here crying like a baby

If you marry her and your marriage last pass 2 years make I bend

She will still suggest divorce and move on

Hmmmmmm

NohurryInLife:
Bro, I know as you dey feel, but the truthful truth be say, that babe get wetin she dey hide or better still "her face still dey outside & she never know wetin she want". If I may ask bro, how old she be ??

Na that beauty be her problem. You know say plenty guys go dey disturb her now, so for her mind, she be real MVP & she fit dey play all of una together.

Bro, try dey komot her matter from your mind small small. I know say e no easy though, but wetin you wan follow God and fate drag ??

She's 26 years old

Figger:
it's when you want to settle down u'd discover that women are scarce.

You're right... The pressure of go and marry is seriously killing me. I never thought I could stood so low. When I first noticed the red flag, I thought since we just started, the way we talk everytime that make the relationship to look as if we have been dating for long.

If it's money she knows I am financial bouyance, physically attractive, studied a very good course.. course that her grandfather used to acquire lot of properties in different part of south west.

She even knows that I am doing far better than my friends that I have introduced to her.

I just don't know her problem

2special:
You're spending your resources, time and energy on her and you're still begging her after catching her red handed... difficult to belief this your story... just raise your right hand up...raise the hand a bit higher and place it on your head and start praying to God to deliver you from all forms of foolish behaviours....

It's actually true, I posted it here to read different opinions

andrewbaba44:
You don’t have a bad attitude

She looks like a player ,I don’t know why you have to beg to be in a relationship and you are a matured guy for crying out loud

Be smart and move on and stop acting like a SIMPle man

I begged her because some of my friends said since I didn't catch another man on top her and she's a beautiful lady, guys will be disturbing her. They also listen to the voice note and concluded she loves me.

But my issue is why will she cheat on me... Money, I give her, she doesn't ask before I give her. Sex, I do try my best, she once said she likes my sex life.

I don't even what she wants again...

frozen70:
These ladies or women that should abroad loves their freedom and the men over there, don't check them the way our men does here

If you are interested in her because she was introduced to you by someone you love and respect and because she lives and study abroad, go on and endure whatever that comes out

But if you really know that, the word love is the real reason for dating her, you must be ready to tolerate her attitude, because she no send you

Though I respect the person that introduced her to me but don't like the country where she studied, I intentionally left that part so you won't have bad impression about her because of the honest advice I want from you guys.

Jmarjr:
I have had experience like this exactly, and it turned out she was cheating on me.
@op leave d lady and face front its obvious she is cheating on you because in the begining she neva loved you!

Thanks, but it's not easy

There is this lady I met about two months ago, she doesn't live in the state I resides but her grandma is from my town. She was introduced to me by her aunt. I am very close with the aunt but more closer with the aunt's mother. We got along very fast through WhatsApp call because there is no dull moment between us.

I have gone to visit her in her aunt's place and she has come to see me and stayed for some days where I live. She was accepted by everybody close to me, in fact she was given money by everyone of them.

I'm a professional, age 32, within two years I started on my own, I have my own car, and a house but remaining finishing touches. A lot of people have been disturbing me to settle down, which I seriously want to settle but things are not just working out.

Being boss of my own I decided to travel two weeks ago to see my lady with the hope of knowing her better, we agreed to stay in my friend's house. She studied abroad and she's currently doing her IT. She normally stays with her friend from Monday till Wednesday or Thursday depending on her schedule and she will go back to her aunt. When I told her I will be coming over to spend two weeks with her, she was very happy, and also worried because I will be leaving my work.

We both agreed that the first week, her aunt won't know, and the second week, we shall inform her aunt about my presence because I will be attending a wedding of my friend in that state and she will follow me.

We both enjoyed each other presence, but one thing I have observed about her even before I left my town, there might be sometime like 2 hours, she could be incommunicado, if I asked her, she will give one excuse or the other.

When we started our relationship, I had asked her whether she's in any relationship, she said no but some guys are disturbing her which she has said she cannot date them.

I observed something about her while we were together, she normally delete all her chats with people, she deleted all the pictures we snapped together, we both saved our numbers with lovely names, she will change mine anytime she leaves my presence, I noticed that about three times before confronting her. She apologized and I told her to use my name if she's not comfortable with it again but will also change her number to her name since she's the person that suggested we save each other's name with lovely names. She said she will use the lovely name.

Just last week, we were together, when a number called her different from the people she has been saying have been disturbing her, that number has called her once while she was beside me, she didn't pick the number then. Immediately I saw the name, I told her to pick the phone and put it on speaker, she picked and told the person she will call back later. Immediately, I showed facial anger, immediately she said should we end the relationship and I said if she likes. She left my friend's place. Note she normally pick people's calls and put it on speaker particularly those who are disturbing her.

That very night, she sent voice note thanking me for everything I have done for her including money.

The following day I went to her work place, she attended to me very well and told me to go to my friend's place, that she will come over to see me there by 5pm. I waited but didn't see her.

I narrated the incident to some of my friends, they advice I see her the following day before leaving for the wedding, I got to her work place, I was told she's not on duty. I made effort to located where she stays because I have not gone there before. I was lucky to get there but was told by her friend that she left the house than usual. Her friend called because she wasn't picking my calls. She lambasted me on phone. Later that night I called the friend who told me she didn't come home that night.

I was forced to inform the aunt about the misunderstanding who doesn't want to inter fare in the matter.

I later begged her, she said it's over between us that she cannot live with someone that have bad attitude or anger issues.

My question have I really shown any bad attitude or anger issue?

How do you know they're wicked?

iamtardey:
Is pito not a serious something?

What's pito?

ejire042:
I really don't know if I should post this here.
But there is no harm in trying
I have likewise created a thread for it
I am not a scammer. I am totally legit.
I will delete this if I realise you are not interested.

I have a very sure business right now that I'm privy of. It's not complicared. No magomago.

I sell cars(you can check my profile)

There is a friend I know. We are in the same church. They bring cars from Canada with goods. I help in selling the cars.

There are three cars that have been parked for over a year right in their compound.
Due to long parking, rust has developed in the some.

They want to sell off.
I am in charge

The price is a giveaway.

after repairs one might be making close to 3 million on the three cars. and I'm just trying to be modest in my sale.

if you think you want to know more. kindly reply.

Or else just say no. so I can delete this post.

I'm not interested in that sir, thanks for the offer

STEVOMAX:
Investing such money shouldn't be on a Quick Rich Scheme else you might end up regretting your actions. there are various businesses you can invest in, but your personality, expected turnover and expected duration of returns is dependent on what to go into...
Meanwhile, here are a few ideas you can consider...

i. You can invest in a tech start-up and be entitle to equity - Nigeria tech space is Evolving ! I and my team is currently on one of such,, to be launched soon... and currently looking for investors...

ii. Open an I.T gadgets sales & repair centre or an IT Institute in a less develop areas.. hire technicians and sales rep accountant to handle all documentations.

iii. Despite POS being rampant, its still a way of making a quick money from your investment... you can mount POS centres in different strategic locations.

iv. LOANS - for quick returns, you can get an loan app, structured in a way that you won't run lost, possibly a fix duration loan with a fixed amount for salary earners . . . with auto debit feature...

v. Alot of people are watching video content these days, you can open a youtube channel, and hire a digital marketing to bombard everywhere with your content

vi. FOOD - You can open fancy fast food kiosk at different locations ...

vii. Commodity supplies, like Food Items, Building Materials or Agro-allied

viii. Better still, buy or lease agric lands and go into farming i.e maize farming, plaintain/banana or food processing!

Thanks, I really appreciate your contribution but all the suggestions will affect my practice of law

iamtardey:
Pito

This is a serious matter.

Please help a brother by suggesting investment I could invest #3M im