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Lala247:
So your here

Teebashy:
can u redefine ur point

Lala247:
It was d guys who spoilt it lol

Teebashy:
Need your advice....
A friend of mine has been dating a guy for the past 3yrs and out of nowhere her ex came back begging her to come back to him and he told her that if she can't be his girlfriend they can still be friends, she accept his offer but unknown to her the luv for her ex started growing. she did not want to leave the guy she is dating presently and she also want to be with her ex
Plz what can she do

ronald4lif:
Word brother!

safarigirl:
I can go to hell abi? Ode! See, better go and ask Abpatrick and Beenkumar on how to act when you're Mr. Nairaland instead of posting as if the burukutu has not digested from your system.

Lemme just assume your uncouth roomie got hhold of your phone

damseyl:
There are probably many women who wouldn’t agree that asking a guy out is acceptable because they prefer traditional gender roles. However, many others would say that it is completely okay. Some people say that women should use their charms and femininity to make a guy ask them out but not do or say that directly. Although it might seem a bit intimidating to ask a guy out, it shows that you are taking control and boys really like girls who know
what they want and are not afraid to show it

Many women have approached their boyfriends first and now they have successful relationships. There’s no need to wait for ages for a guy to ask you out
when you are completely positive that he likes you. Don’t be afraid to make the first step.

Therefore, here are some ways you can ask a guy out with no embarrassment:

Invite Him on a Group Date
If you have some mutual friends this will be more than easy. You’ll both be very comfortable and you won’t feel any pressure. However, if you don’t have any mutual friends, it might be a bit intimidating for him to go out with a bunch of people he doesn’t know, but advantage is that you don’t directly ask him out, but rather ask him to hang out with you and your friends which is a lot easier.

Invite Him to the Movies
Tell him that there’s a good movie in the cinema that you would like to see and ask him to go with you. This might seem like a direct way to ask a guy out but it
helps you ask him out without really asking the direct question

Slip Him a Note
If he’s a guy you met in a restaurant, bar or someone you’re working with this is a good way to avoid embarrassment and eye to eye contact. You can write something and slip it to him. You’ll know whether he’s interested or not right away, probably by his reaction, and hopefully he’ll respond
affirmatively.

Keep it Simple and Be Confident
Don’t think too much about what you are going to say and how you are going to say it, keep the things simple and be straight forward because guys might
misinterpret your indirect ways for asking them out.

emusmith:
In a relationship heading towards marriage with 6 months left?
Over just a little misunderstanding and immaturity?

Hian! I refuse this thinking pattern!

cherryice:
lmao!!

cherryice:
I speak nothing but the truth

Lala247:
Nice chting guys lol gotta sleep before i turn into a frog .


Op we love u

cherryice:
I dont want him to know am telling people that I fucck him

Lala247:
Ban forrr

cherryice:

Not possible, am fuccking Se.un

Lala247:
Close ur mouth lol u knw im right

Lala247:
Its not us


Its theses guys

Lala247:
No just bcuz its dat size dont mean u knw wt to do with it

cherryice:
love you too

Lala247:
Lol wetin u wan take dat wan do

cherryice:
its okay.. never mind b

sirhot:
yes, ene and junior. Don't take the risk of including me

juniormusa:
Haha exactly

Lala247:
Lol u mean boring, he would drain d girl with dat boring position

cherryice:
Lala247, we need to create a thread to tutor these boys

Lala247:
He says he want a wife withh back, but he only does missionary

cherryice:
hahah never mind, you not relaxed lol

Lala247:
What is d point lol if u wont get to hit it from d back