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POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 1:06pm On Feb 17, 2015
This thread is especially for all those whom have had to undergo the pain of a break up or perhaps divorce AND those whose current serious relationship is dwindling at the edge of a cliff .

<<<I pray this article helps>>>


Probably, you're now casting rocks at him or her but I tell you, if you look keenly, you are responsible in a way.

Almost every one is in a relationship: Platonic, Love or Marriage. Break up or Divorce as it were is an ANTI-RELATIONSHIP virus. It's always sticking its ugly nose at both of you- for separation. The ball, however is in your court. smileycool

How Do I Prevent Break Up Situations In My Relationship?


1. Be The Bigger Person.

Stop being irresponsible. There is a misunderstanding? Be the first to say, I'm sorry. It won't hurt a fly.
Do you know that by doing so he or she respects you more? Why? You just did what she's been too proud to do. I practised this once on a girl and the result was amazing and immediate. Try it today. Don't try to defend your actions anymore. smiley


2. If He Doesn't Call You, Call Him.


Two wrongs can't make a right.
Folks are always expecting the other to call first. If she doesn't call, so you won't? I'm not referring to just casual and sexual relationship. In a serious relationship, who calls most shows who love most. Call him, you're not breaking "protocols", hun. If you love him, show it. If he's a jerk or a kid, he'll freak out and run.



3. If All Of A Sudden He Stops Calling, Don't Push It. Cut Him Some Slack


Sometimes, she has got her wedding all planned out in her mind with him in it of course. She loves him dearly and that causes her to expect soooo much. He stops calling and caring as before, she starts suspecting. She aggravates over the phone. She yells at him, "Why are you not picking my calls?". Probably, it's work stress and family stuff. Give him a little space, meanwhile text him occasionally. Patience is the word. Protect your Reputation, Morals, Dignity and Chastity cool This is the period where some impatient girls deem it necessary to "trap" him through sex or pregnancy. How foolish! SMH!



4. Don't Plan To Retaliate


If she bursts your balloon by not laughing at your jokes, don't try to retaliate. It is uncalled for. If she gives the attitude by not replying your question, don't retaliate. It's hard? That's the way to keep the relationship strong and going. smiley



5. Forgive Ahead.

Decision not to sleep with grudges in your heart even while you're single is one of the most important decisions you will ever make.

Nothing separates like an unforgiving attitude. You just refuse to forgive him/ her. Perfect You! See where it has got you?



6. Being Hasty To Conclude


You hear something said against him and the next thing you're calling and yelling. How immature! How would you feel if later you discover it wasn't him. You feel like a... child.



7. Always Speak Up!



Not speaking may lead to regrets tomorrow. Misinformation might have led to your breaking up... because you didn't speak!

This is where quiet and dull girls are not good enough. You should know when to speak and when to be still joor!

You speak with Discretion, Respect and Maturity.

Discretion: Use wise words.

Respect: Use magic words. wink

Maturity: Know when to say what.



ASSIGNMENT: If you love him or her, Pick up the phone and call her or him. Break the damn silence! Do something about the way you disregard him or her, even in the public.

Go, Go make it work! ( Voice of Janet Jackson in Why Did I Get Married?) wink

Have a nice day. smiley

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Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by immortalvoices(m): 1:08pm On Feb 17, 2015
I dey bank...make I pay in first my oga I go con comment

....I'm back...

Oga emusmith, if after applying all the listed above and the relationship is declining faster than van gaal's manchester united tactics and mid- field...erm what next bikozienu?!?

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Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 1:10pm On Feb 17, 2015
Thank goodness! let me go and read now.
No 5 is so on point, it works like magic.
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by LadyX(f): 1:10pm On Feb 17, 2015
I was here
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by SOLMICHAEL(m): 1:12pm On Feb 17, 2015
Forgive Ahead.
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by neutrotoba(m): 1:16pm On Feb 17, 2015
SUMMARY: Upgrade from being Human






*the comment above doesn't mean am in support of the op, incase yhu are planning to quote me or u already have, it's sarcasm.. yhu might wanna search dat up coz ya'all dnt seem to get any joke dz days.... una no wan sabi pass GEJ
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 1:19pm On Feb 17, 2015
immortalvoices:
I dey bank...make I pay in first my oga I go con comment

smiley
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by englishmart(m): 1:21pm On Feb 17, 2015
just break UP if you must.

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Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 1:23pm On Feb 17, 2015
englishmart:
just break UP if you must.
Amakwanu'm ihe nke a sef angry grin grin grin grin grin
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 1:24pm On Feb 17, 2015
neutrotoba:
SUMMARY: Upgrade from being Human

To? smiley
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by mirexxx(f): 1:29pm On Feb 17, 2015
cry tried all the tips and it didn't work cry



#kidding# wink
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 1:31pm On Feb 17, 2015
This thread confirms you are a baby, and that you haven't been in a relationship.

Now listen.

In life, not everything happens as planned. What will be will be. If a man or woman is fed up of a relationship, they are fed up. They may only remain out of pity. If you like, make these points 20, a girl that has fallen in love with someone else will break up with you. Personal happiness comes before anyone else, yes, even whoever it is that you are in a relationship with. If I'm not happy in a relationship, you cannot be happy. If a lady is not happy and is tired of a relationship, give her all the money in the world, tell her everything you want to, she will leave.

Life is not a one way street where you think these _stupid points can correct everything or anything. The key to relationships is doing all you can, while accepting that in life, plans can change and you have to adjust and move on. . . Only kids use the words "magic words". Magic words simply do not exist. What works for one person doesn't work for the other.

When a person decides they no longer need you in their life, let them be. If it was meant to be, it'll be.

Getting tired of these dumbass lists.

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Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by neutrotoba(m): 1:34pm On Feb 17, 2015
emusmith:


To? smiley
I don't knw, buh dz things are not easy for human beings... most of us know what is right, we don't need to read tips, buh we still find pple breaking up everyday. Its jez d flesh, and Ego. If i've been calling everyday and she never returns my calls, my ego will kick in one day, tho my brain knows it's bad to retaliate..

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Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 1:45pm On Feb 17, 2015
SOLMICHAEL:
Forgive Ahead.

Yea.

I learnt something some time ago: If you expect to be disappointed, you will never be disappointed. smiley.

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Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 1:47pm On Feb 17, 2015
woooow!!!!! wat a lovely post smiley

*picks up phone to call mirexxx

@op, sir emusmith, pls help mirexxx and i so we can reconcile

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Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 1:47pm On Feb 17, 2015
Blackett:
This thread confirms you are a baby, and that you haven't been in a relationship.

Now listen.

In life, not everything happens as planned. What will be will be. If a man or woman is fed up of a relationship, they are fed up. They may only remain out of pity. If you like, make these points 20, a girl that has fallen in love with someone else will break up with you. Personal happiness comes before anyone else, yes, even whoever it is that you are in a relationship with. If I'm not happy in a relationship, you cannot be happy. If a lady is not happy and is tired of a relationship, give her all the money in the world, tell her everything you want to, she will leave.

Life is not a one way street where you think these _stupid points can correct everything or anything. The key to relationships is doing all you can, while accepting that in life, plans can change and you have to adjust and move on. . . Only kids use the words "magic words". Magic words simply do not exist. What works for one person doesn't work for the other.

When a person decides they no longer need you in their life, let them be. If it was meant to be, it'll be.

Getting tired of these dumbass lists.

OK

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Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 1:50pm On Feb 17, 2015
neutrotoba:
I don't knw, buh dz things are not easy for human beings... most of us know what is right, we don't need to read tips, buh we still find pple breaking up everyday. Its jez d flesh, and Ego. If i've been calling everyday and she never returns my calls, my ego will kick in one day, tho my brain knows it's bad to retaliate..

What you mean by the flesh and ego?

# serious look #
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 1:50pm On Feb 17, 2015
mirexxx:
cry

Why the face? smiley
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by BreezyRita(f): 1:51pm On Feb 17, 2015
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 1:52pm On Feb 17, 2015
englishmart:
just break UP if you must.

" Curbing "
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by englishmart(m): 1:56pm On Feb 17, 2015
emusmith:


" Curbing "
ok then, just curb it if you can grin
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 1:59pm On Feb 17, 2015
NB: This thread is by no means referring to Friendship With Benefits ( FWB ).

Don't comment from that angle.

I'm referring to relationship with marriage in view.
Is that how you breakup easily? Well, it can be curbed by some changes in your character, which I offer you.

If it doesn't go well with you, ignore cheesy

Ignore abeg. The weather is hot already..

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Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Enegod(m): 1:59pm On Feb 17, 2015
Break up if it's not working..undecided
The grass might not be greener on the
other side... undecided
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 2:01pm On Feb 17, 2015
englishmart:
ok then, just curb it if you can grin

Honestly, it can be curbed. Many people like pointing fingers...the beginning of their problems- Irresponsibility! SMH!
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by pryd(m): 2:02pm On Feb 17, 2015
Be honest with the destination of your relationship. tongue
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 2:03pm On Feb 17, 2015
zick19:
woooow!!!!! wat a lovely post smiley

*picks up phone to call mirexxx

@op, sir emusmith, pls help mirexxx and i so we can reconcile

Is she saying the same thing? If she is, I'll gladly offer any lil assistance required, bro grin
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by neutrotoba(m): 2:04pm On Feb 17, 2015
emusmith:


What you mean by the flesh and ego?

# serious look #



Flesh: an expression dat means being human... yhu don't expect me to tell yhu wot Ego means do yhu? *really serious look*
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by mirexxx(f): 2:04pm On Feb 17, 2015
zick19:
woooow!!!!! wat a lovely post smiley

*picks up phone to call mirexxx

@op, sir emusmith, pls help mirexxx and i so we can reconcile
lols u mad sha smiley

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Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 2:05pm On Feb 17, 2015
Enegod:
Break up if it's not working..undecided
The grass might not be greener on the
other side... undecided

In a relationship heading towards marriage with 6 months left?
Over just a little misunderstanding and immaturity?

Hian! I refuse this thinking pattern!
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 2:07pm On Feb 17, 2015
neutrotoba:
Flesh: an expression dat means being human... yhu don't expect me to tell yhu wot Ego means do yhu? *really serious look*

Meaning:

Flesh: Cheating on her.

Ego: Too proud to apologize.


What kind of man is that? That's even a boy...undecided
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 2:10pm On Feb 17, 2015
mirexxx:
lols u mad sha smiley
@emusmith, can u see her reply i swear if itz not bcoz of u, i would av broken bottle on her head oooo.... jez help me talk to her b4 i do d unexpected
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by neutrotoba(m): 2:10pm On Feb 17, 2015
emusmith:


Meaning:

Flesh: Cheating on her.

Ego: Too proud to apologize.


What kind of man is that? That's even a boy...undecided
when u grow up, bcome a pastor, yhu av d talent of twisting pples words to suit ur purpose... Datz if u eva grow up tho

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