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nairamaniac:
So advocating for calm and tactical approach towards extended parties of an offender makes one an idiot?

nairamaniac:
My father is my wardmate in the hospital.

My father is Bloody Simp.

Why didn't just quote me instead rather than patronising someone else?

Naa me you want take get fans for here.

My father is Bloody coward.

Just realized you even quoted me.

That Makes my father worse than a coward and simp sef.

mariahAngel:
Why wouldn't she remind her mum to go beat up her offender, when she was deeply offended, beyond what her innocent mind could bear?
Are you saying that she could be lying?
Do you know the number of children that have been molested, but are too afraid to speak up?
That little girl was brave to speak up, and they mustn't allow that bravery to be in vain.

nairamaniac:
This is a faceless forum.
Iv been in more sensitive positions. Others have also been in similar or worse situations. But considered but sides of the equation.
Yes, it's not always easy to handle things calmly/tactfully when found in that situation.
But you don't throw an entire family(family you are related to via marriage) under the bus becos a child from that family was accused of committing a crime against your own child.

Do you remember the scandal that trended land year.
What's that stand up comedians name again?
The woman that had an adopted daughter and the daughter reported a family friend (like and uncle) to them that the uncle molested her at a younger age.

How did the actress go about it?

Didn't she set the uncle up on live camera? And the whole thing was revealed?

There are a million ways to go about things.

I have a policy in life. Any method you cannot apply for anyone, do not apply it on selected few.
You get my drift?
This is what I mean;

Let's take it for instance that in this case, the suspect was Aliko Dangote, and the woman was pursuing a billion naira contract from him.
Would she&her husband have been soooo rash in her reactions?
Or would have threaded more tactfully?


She would likely have threaded more tactfully knowing A FALSE ACCUSATION or A MISTAKE would blow up many other positive things stood to gain from a progressive/harmonious relationship with THE ALIKO DANGOTE.
She would have equated the Value of her relationship to HER IN-LAWS(all things being equal) to over A BILLION NAIRA.
This is me in real life every fvcking day.
Even though I have one of the most rugged sides u can ever think of.


MORAL to this is to be calm&respectful to those related to an issue even in the face of adversity.

creolehunt:
I still suck on my whoring mother's ovulation juice. It's salty. My father is a useless gaylord, i am a gay dwarf.

Daddyemma:
Concerning my frd thst has gotten his permit, i say congratulation.
U see time don go now, i will tae time to tell u evething by tmorrow. They are just simple documents. But rem to tell ud when u get ur visa oo.
I wan go sleep now.
Congrats once again

opera1:
This same thing actually happened to my rich uncle [married] he sponsored his girlfriend to UK and the lady later refused to pick my uncle's calls, uncle later find out that she's having affair with someone else over there.

necz:
My brother.........Just ignore him.

He's just a kid; Looking for children to play with

iamadonis2:
My dear EngrJamJam,

I, like everyone else here, have seen your comments. It is imperative that we remind ourselves of some solid facts,

1. Stop already with the entitlement mentality! You are not Polish by birth. You are a Nigerian hoping to be given a chance to benefit from a system that the people of poland built from the ground up. TWICE! It is solely their prerogative to deny or accept your visa application. It is not your right.

2. All of us here are hopefuls. While we may not know the best practices for getting a Polish visa we are merely here to try our luck out. What we do may lead to acceptance or rejection. It is hope we are riding on. Have you been on the Germany student visa thread?! Rejection isn't synonymous with Polish visa alone, Sir.

3. You would do well to remember that this is a public forum. Anyone can visit this thread. You think it is beyond the VO to visit Nairaland and see comments like yours? You know your true intentions and I know mine. It will do you good to tune down your motivation. Be sure to consider that your words may well rub off on how everyone else here is perceived.

Polish visa is not your birthright.

Cmade1:
The caution is what we have to give in Germany every year . 10.250€ . And besides education in Germany is very difficult. I am not that brilliant in English. It is not in German language that I will pass . And if I need to go to Germany I need to take a 1 year German class which I cannot wait

necz:
I don't have time for crackheads.

Like I said you can keep wallowing in your shallow thinking until you figure out where am chatting from.

They keep denying people like you because; You all don't listen to the truth.

Goodluck with your visa rejections and lastly sorry I'm a student just like everyone here. So keep on listening to your agents

necz:
You can keep on wallowing in your shallow thinking.

I have no reason to lie fam. Because you were denied VISA for not submitting the needed documents to the Embassy doesn't mean others won't. Don't come here and scare people with complete documents.

YourVILAGEpeple:
If you have seen anywhere someone talked about how Poland is Generally.......
What he wore to the interview..... The particular order he presented his documents.....
How friendly or unfriendly the people of Poland are...
The good side and bad sides of the country....
What people should expect when the come to Poland and other little stuffs you can't find online unless it's from A confirmed source in poland....

Please... highlight them for me.....

There is no need to act like you know everything when you are just trying to display what I don't know..... Abeg

YourVILAGEpeple:
I have gone through this thread from page 1-53... I must commend the Initiator or convener on his wisdom to do this...
I also commend people who have contributed positively to the growth of this thread.....

Some doubting Thomases are trying their best to scatter the group shaaa....

I know that almost 70% of NIGERIANS do not follow instructions and are lazy to research ... That's why the visa Denial is too much.... If we can pay attention to so little things and package the documents well.... We will smile....Oyibo no dey like Rubbish ... And that's why people who are always getting this visa Seem to be informed, they must have done and extensive research and that is why they were given the approval.

So.. I have few questions to ask... And I sincerely need straight to the point answers please...

0... Someone who got visa should please tell us comprehensively how the arrange the documents... They documents used....
- Type of Clothes wore to the embassy (For the interview)


1... Why haven't anyone said the exact salary they were offered in. Poland...

2.... Why haven't any of the guys that travelled been able to show us pictures on how Poland is and there experiences there.... Just like a Guy in the IRELAND and Dubai thread does..... (This will motivate people alot and it's gonna motivate me too.. cos I am making plans of leaving this shit hole... )

3... People who have gone to Poland should please tell us the best type of jobs to scout for ... Because I know some kind of jobs can be bad and energy saping.

4.... What cities are best to reside in...

5... What is the cost of leaving in poland... Can one save at least 60% of his salary in poland.

If these questions can be answered...... I know people like me will be motivated not to believe that evil is following Poland visa approval...