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Celebrities / Re: A Photo Of Afro Candy Back At 2007 by Enigmaticicon(m): 10:00am On Dec 29, 2013
shinechinedu: She's always been a bitch!! But at least she was more sexy then, age has shown her pepper
Funny
Romance / Re: Are they kissing or Just displaying ignorance? [PHOTO] Lol... by Enigmaticicon(m): 9:53am On Dec 29, 2013
gluv01:

*Punches him and recoils*
Lol..
Are ladies violent?
Romance / Re: Are they kissing or Just displaying ignorance? [PHOTO] Lol... by Enigmaticicon(m): 9:49am On Dec 29, 2013
Ghadafy:

I called you an unprintable name because you wrote "ignorance Nigerians" and I will never apologize for that.
No one is above mistakes..I've admitted that already..
I'm not seeking for apology if you may know..
Just think things through before calling people names..I don't see why someone as grown as you are derives pleasure from that..
Romance / Re: Are they kissing or Just displaying ignorance? [PHOTO] Lol... by Enigmaticicon(m): 9:13am On Dec 29, 2013
psky:


But how do you know they are Nigerian?

I did a reverse image search on them and got no results from a Nigeria site, the only I got was from a South African site.

Please let it not be that you are doing this out of malice towards Nigeria. Again I will ask you, how do you know they are Nigerian?
I wouldn't lie to myself..I said that out of carelessness but he's got no right to call me a maniac..I've changed it and learnt to be precise..
But he shouldn't go about calling people names.
Romance / Re: Are they kissing or Just displaying ignorance? [PHOTO] Lol... by Enigmaticicon(m): 8:08am On Dec 29, 2013
Ghadafy: How do you know they are Nigerians? You are a Bonafide maniac.
I was told to ignore insults cos it would take me nowhere..
Romance / Re: Are they kissing or Just displaying ignorance? [PHOTO] Lol... by Enigmaticicon(m): 7:45am On Dec 29, 2013
gluv01:

Eeeewww...*cringes*
*Draws her back* You must watch till duh end..
Romance / Re: Are they kissing or Just displaying ignorance? [PHOTO] Lol... by Enigmaticicon(m): 7:41am On Dec 29, 2013
Rityben: Hehehe
Add and compare this new mode of kissing to your collection..
Believe me you, it'll get popular before next year runs out..Lol
Romance / Re: Are they kissing or Just displaying ignorance? [PHOTO] Lol... by Enigmaticicon(m): 7:35am On Dec 29, 2013
talibanazuka: I wonder who was snapping the pics...?
Lolzzz...
Their teacher..
Romance / Re: Are they kissing or Just displaying ignorance? [PHOTO] Lol... by Enigmaticicon(m): 7:33am On Dec 29, 2013
Jerrick: Stark illiterates!!!! This is called aggressive kissing! Very soon, they'll stop kissing and start fighting! angry
Lma0!! That's more like it..
It shows clearly that its their first time of kissing..
Romance / Re: Are they kissing or Just displaying ignorance? [PHOTO] Lol... by Enigmaticicon(m): 7:32am On Dec 29, 2013
gluv01: It's called "wet kiss", meaning every single piece of the mouth and it's corners have to be wet cheesy
I call it SALIVA kiss..Where the first person to rub the other person's face with just enough Saliva wins the KISSING COMPETITION..
Don't get it twisted..I'm as ignorant as them when it comes to kissing..
Celebrities / A Photo Of Afro Candy Back At 2007 by Enigmaticicon(m): 6:42am On Dec 29, 2013
Any observed differences?
Sexy but she's no different from a tramp as at then..
JUSTSAYING#

Romance / Re: Are they kissing or Just displaying ignorance? [PHOTO] Lol... by Enigmaticicon(m): 6:30am On Dec 29, 2013
Triple gross..They need kissing lessons..
Romance / Re: Are they kissing or Just displaying ignorance? [PHOTO] Lol... by Enigmaticicon(m): 6:30am On Dec 29, 2013
grin lipsrsealed
Romance / Re: Are they kissing or Just displaying ignorance? [PHOTO] Lol... by Enigmaticicon(m): 6:27am On Dec 29, 2013
kingpin0308: Ask them
I asked them but they gave me a vague reply..
Romance / Are they kissing or Just displaying ignorance? [PHOTO] Lol... by Enigmaticicon(m): 12:39am On Dec 29, 2013
One word for these ignorant Humans...Are they biting each other or forcing theirselves to it?
Lol..

Romance / Re: Does your PASTOR affects your relationship with his sayings? by Enigmaticicon(m): 5:49pm On Dec 28, 2013
-Mr Cork-:
..no offense but I hate that mother f****** like $hit..how can say it's a sin to deceive women?

...how is a plaYa suppose to survive?...where is the love?
angry
Lol..Love only existed in duh past
Romance / Re: Does your PASTOR affects your relationship with his sayings? by Enigmaticicon(m): 10:53am On Dec 28, 2013
ymb6374:
The last advise I will yield to from anybody not even a pastor is negative words about my relationship. It destroys relationship faster than you think and. I don't take me reationship saga to other people for advise because dey might end up giving you the wrong one. Spouse should learn how to handle things themselvies rather than bringing external bodies.
#Relieved#
+1

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Romance / Re: Does your PASTOR affects your relationship with his sayings? by Enigmaticicon(m): 10:40am On Dec 28, 2013
Snoggy: Why would I trust something that I'm not sure of.

I'd rather pray to God than ask a pastor to do it for me.

I can't trust a pastor!
Thats more like it..Um..You an atheist? Justasking#
Romance / Re: Does your PASTOR affects your relationship with his sayings? by Enigmaticicon(m): 10:37am On Dec 28, 2013
bb6xt: NEITHER!!!

Disclaimer: I no read ya post, e too long.
Lol..Then it shows you prefer living alone..
Romance / Re: Does your PASTOR affects your relationship with his sayings? by Enigmaticicon(m): 10:32am On Dec 28, 2013
ymb6374: It depends on the person. I would say my partner because she is my other. Self
Consistency matters a lot you know..What if your pastor Comes in when you're not in good terms with her? Of course at this time you're prone to accepting advices from anyone who's matured enough most especially when its your pastor..Believe me you, if you're not strong, you'd succumb to his sayings.
Romance / Does your PASTOR affects your relationship with his sayings? by Enigmaticicon(m): 10:22am On Dec 28, 2013
Its clear that nowadays, almost every thing we do, reflects our Pastor's sayings..
Pastors, with their sayings control our relationships..
Take for instance, A pastor sees a vision which entails how you will never find happiness with your SPOUSE..Many person's of our current time would take this saying carefully and thus, might end up with a divorce..
Pastors don't only sometimes help the fate of relationships but Destroys them..
This is done with their prophecies..
Now, many people listen to their religious heads more than their spouses..
The questions is
DO YOU TRUST YOUR PASTOR'S JUDGEMENTS MORE THAN YOUR SPOUSE'S?
IF YOU WERE ASKED TO QUIT A RELATIONSHIP BY YOUR PASTOR, WOULD YOU DO IT?
These are obviously the Situations which take place in our society currently..
I'm not trying to say Pastors are deceivers but would you sacrifice your relationship for the words of your PASTORS?
There's more to this than it seems..But note:
Not all clergymen are REAL..Be cautious about who you make your Religious head and watch your relationship with your Pastor..
In all You can work things out with your spouse sometimes..
Hope this not only helps you but creates an impression in you..
Thanks
Romance / Re: 30 Questions To Help If You Have Doubts About Your Relationship by Enigmaticicon(m): 9:37am On Dec 28, 2013
21. Do you feel your relationship is a true partnership?
22. When was your last romantic outing?
23. Does it bother you if your partner has friends of the opposite sex, and why?
24. Do you accept each other’s belief systems?
25. When was the last time you talked about your future together, and were you on the same page?
26. Do you feel as if you can communicate without saying a word?
27. What is your happiest memory of your time together? Your worst? Are there more happy memories than unhappy ones?

28. What is a relationship deal breaker for you, and have you overlooked one in this relationship?
29. How do you feel about the last, in-depth conversation you and your partner had?
30. Do you show your love for each other often, and if not, why?
If you are seeking clarity about your relationship, the best source of insight is from within.
You just need to be unafraid to ask for the answers you seek. Then trust those answers and yourself.

Wishing you much love and success!
Romance / Re: 30 Questions To Help If You Have Doubts About Your Relationship by Enigmaticicon(m): 9:29am On Dec 28, 2013
15. Is there a secret you are keeping that if your partner knew,you feel you would lose them?
16. Do you feel that your partner accepts you?
17. When did you realize you had fallen in love, and how do you feel when you think about it?
18.Have you seen each other at your best and worst?
19. Would you ever consider having an affair? Why? Why not?
20. Are you excited about your future together?
21. Do you feel your relationship is a true partnership?
Romance / Re: 30 Questions To Help If You Have Doubts About Your Relationship by Enigmaticicon(m): 9:18am On Dec 28, 2013
1. Do you completely trust each other?
2. Do you believe in soul mates, and if so, do you believe you are each other’s?
3. When was the last time you said, “I love you? ”If it’s been a while, why?
4. Are you satisfied with the intimacy you share?
5. How often do you laugh together?
6. Do you feel you have made personal sacrifices for your relationship, and have they been reciprocated?
7. When you think of your partner, do you smile?8. Do you feel threatened when others find your partner attractive, and why?
9. Do you believe your partner is your biggest advocate?
10. How do you feel about your partner’s views on finances?
11. Do you enjoy spending time with your partner’s relatives? Friends?
12. Do either of you dredge up resentments in arguments, and why have you struggled to let them go?
13. How do you feel when your partner arrives home after being away?
14. Is your partner your best friend?
Romance / 30 Questions To Help If You Have Doubts About Your Relationship by Enigmaticicon(m): 9:07am On Dec 28, 2013
“Your mind will answer most questions if you learn to relax and wait for the answer.”
One of the best life lessons I learned was from my beloved grandmother. She taught me to never be afraid to ask questions.
She would often look at me with her warm, almond-colored eyes and say, “The best way to learn,to gain clarity isto ask questions. Never take anything at face value.”
Even as an adult today, the truth of her wisdom continues to prove itself.
The beauty of constant questioning is that it is often the fastest path to enlightenment. It leads you to search for answers. It encourages you to be more proactive in your life.If you are having doubts about a relationship, please let me assure you the answers you seek are within you.You just may be allowing fear to muffle your inner voice.
The following are 30 questions that can help you achieve more clarity about your relationship—what’s working, what’s not, and why. Please keep in mind there are no wrong or right answers, just insightful ones:
Romance / Re: 10 Big Problems In A Relationship And How To Fix It by Enigmaticicon(m): 7:40pm On Dec 19, 2013
#6 Ka ching!Anyone in a relationship for long enough will know just how important money or the lack of it really is. If your friendsearn a lot more than you or your partner, it’ll end up frustrating both of you. And on the other hand, if both of you earn a lot more than your friends, there’ll be a lot of loveand happiness in your lives.It’s a stupid fact of life. But our own happiness is extremely dependent on the way others perceive us. If you’re having difficulties in your relationship because of money, perhaps it’s time to change your friends and see the difference.
#7 Change in priorities.You may be in a relationship, but that doesn’t change who you are. And that’s where the problem starts. As individuals, we evolve and change all the time. You’re not the person you were last year, and you won’t be the person you are now next year.And just like you, your partner too is changing constantly. And every now and then, you and your partner may experience changes that will pull both of you apart fromeach other. And soon enough, both of you may have nothing in common. Spend enough time with each other and try to evolve together in a similar direction. Talk about your beliefs and your interests with each other and it’ll help both of you grow together along the same path.
#8 Time.Do both of you have enough time to spend with each other? These days, time is a luxury that most lovers can’t afford. When you start spending too much time away from each other, it’s only a matter of time before one of you starts asking the big question, “Do I need my partner in my life anymore?”Don’t drift away so far that both of you don’t need to be with each other anymore. Find ways to indulge in exciting hobbies or spend evenings going out on little coffee or ice cream dates. They make for great conversations and it’ll bring both of you closer too.
#9 Space and individual growth.Now this is contradictory to the earlier problem in relationships. But it’s still something to watch out for. Too much of a good thing can turn out to be bad too. When you’rein a relationship, spending time with each other is very important. But at the same time, spending time away from each other is crucial too.By spending too much time together, you’d subconsciously feel isolated from the rest of the world. And when that happens, you’d crave for any attention from other interesting people just to feel betterabout yourself and your ability to communicate. And you know what could happen when that happens, right?
#10 Are you still in love?This is the biggest problem in a relationship, and one that’s hardest to overcome.Falling in love is easy. Staying in love isn’t. Love is a delicate balance between dependency and passion. How much do you need your partner? How much do you love and want your partner?




When the sexual excitement and the enthusiasm fade away, what do you have to hold both of you together? A relationship should never be based on sex alone. It needs compatibility and understanding, and it definitely needs dependability. Staying in loveforever is not easy, but with a little effort, it can give meaning to your life.

Problems in a relationship can come and go. But if you ever come face to face with these 10 big problems in romance, don’t overlook it. It could cost you the relationship itself.We’re trying hard to create better relationships in the world.But we can’t do it without YOU!Did this feature help you better yourself or your relationship?You can change someone else’s life too!

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Romance / Re: 10 Big Problems In A Relationship And How To Fix It by Enigmaticicon(m): 7:34pm On Dec 19, 2013
#1 Lack of communication.At the start of the relationship, conversations are exciting and fun. Both of you spend a lot of time getting to know each other. But as time goes by, lovers forget to ask the same questions again.We’re all changing all the time, in our preferences and the way we look at life. Don’t assume you know everything about each other or your romance will start to stagnate,or one of you will start to confide insome other person who seems more understanding.
#2 Trust.Do you really trust your partner? There are two kinds of trust in a relationship. Firstly, do you trust your partner enough to feel comfortable with them going out for dinner with someone else? If you don’t, perhaps, you’re insecure or your relationship is stilltoo fragile.And secondly, do you trust your partner’s decisions? Do you think your partner is capable of making important decisions for the both of you? If you can’t trust your partner with life altering decisions, it’s obvious that you don’t respect your partner or their opinions. And that’snever a good sign in a long term relationship.
#3 Jealousy and insecurity.Insecurecouples are forever locked in a cycle of jealously and anger. When you feel jealous about the attention your lover’s getting or their recent promotion, you’re not helping thembecome a better individual. It’s like a parent who’s angry with their child because the child is having “too much fun”.You need to learn to have faith in each other and in the relationship. Instead of letting negativity build inside the relationship, learn to enjoy each other’s successes. After all, your partner is your better half, and any accomplishments of theirs are your accomplishments too, isn’tit?
#4 Incompatibility in love.Love at first sight and infatuation can last several months. And it does a good job of masking any differences in a relationship. As perfect as two people may be, sometimes, they may just not be perfect for each other.If you find yourself dating someonewith whom you have nothing in common, you need to decide on thenext step. Try to find common interests that both of you like, or walk your own paths instead of living in frustrations.
#5 Loss of sex drive.This isn’t rocket science. Over time, both of you are bound to lose the sexual urge of the first few months or years of a relationship. While both of you may have a hard time keeping your hands off each other to begin with, now sex may start to feel like a chore.This is a very common problem in relationships, and yet, it’s one of the easy ones to solve. Always look for new ways to recreate the sexualhigh of the first few times, and before you know it, both of you maygo at it all over again like frisky bunnies.
Romance / 10 Big Problems In A Relationship And How To Fix It by Enigmaticicon(m): 7:16pm On Dec 19, 2013
Remember this, you can’t stop problems from cropping up in a relationship no matter how perfect the relationship is. What you can doinstead, is eliminate the frustration as soon as you notice them.
Religion / Re: The TRUTH About "Mysterious" Healing Pool In Nachi, Enugu State by Enigmaticicon(m): 11:23am On Dec 19, 2013
fpeter: first and foremost!
I didn't complete the story..Less viewing
Romance / Re: 2go- Promotes Homosexuality In Nigeria [fact].. Watch Your Kids Closely.. by Enigmaticicon(m): 11:41am On Dec 18, 2013
Matildachinyere: noooo!! nobody wants to bring up a lesbian child in Africa, but be ready to give her out for marriage wen she is thirteen years of age #it is legalised # grin
Seriously? OMG!! Once i hammer, i go swerve..This is madness..
I don't think i can follow such a rule..
Romance / Re: 2go- Promotes Homosexuality In Nigeria [fact].. Watch Your Kids Closely.. by Enigmaticicon(m): 11:32am On Dec 18, 2013
MarvellousGod: the Almighty and ever living God will never allow this come to past..
Romance / Re: 2go- Promotes Homosexuality In Nigeria [fact].. Watch Your Kids Closely.. by Enigmaticicon(m): 11:31am On Dec 18, 2013
MarvellousGod: the Almighty and ever living God will never allow this come to past..
Things change you know..Its appalling though but people prefer its existence..E.g
Tacit#

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