The Igbo guys coming for your hands in marriage don't measure up because they are not rich cos I don't see any reason why you should love a Yoruba Muslim divorcee. Wow! Money look what you made women do.
Anyway, goodluck marrying him.



Thanks for reply dear, i once knew an Igbo man whom i traveled to see from Ph to Sokoto since he was my cousin brother's friend and he declared interest in marring me. he was not rich but i dont mind. After the first visit,he wants me to come again cos he was wishing that i would be pregnant before marriage,i told him NO that cos he was supposed to come home a week and a half before then and its risky . He agreed but never told me when he came back and got married same day he was supposed to come see my parents and even called me same day. U see MONEY cannot buy happiness at all . And the man in question isn't wealthy but he is way better than Any igbo man i have ever associated with. Thanks anyways.

Hi guys,i am really confused on what to do. I am in love with a much older man ,who is divorced ,a muslem and a yoruba man. I am an igbo lady and a christian. I have known this man for two years now and the current job i have now was due to his help. I never envisage that i will ever date a man not from my tribe nor from my religious belief. But i fell in love with this man and he wanted to marry me. The problem now is that non of my family members agreed to the marriage. Some said he is not of the same tribe as me,while others said a muslem is a no no. My mother particularly said she will never giver her blessings.The man suggested we go see my mum maybe when he speaks with her she might change her mind but i am afraid my mum will not welcome him. I have other suitors from my tribe but non of them has ever measured up to this man in many ways. We are thinking of going to court to register the marriage and continue with our lives but i can not summon the courage to break my mums heart. I love him a lot but am left to choose between my love and my family. plz a candid advice will be appreciated.