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Great leaders connect with people on an emotional level every time they speak. Their words inspire others to achieve more than they ever thought possible.


Great communicators are intentional about it, and there are 10 secrets they rely on to deliver a powerful message. Put these secrets to work in your communication and watch your influence soar.

1. They Know Their Audience
Great communicators don’t worry about sounding important, showing off their expertise, or boosting their own egos. Instead, they think about what people need to hear, and how they can deliver this message so that people will be able to hear it. This doesn’t mean that leaders tell people what they want to hear. Quite the opposite­—they tell people what’s important for them to know, even if it’s bad news.



2. They Are Experts In Body Language
Great communicators are constantly tracking people’s reactions to their message. They are quick to pick up on cues like facial expressions and body language because they know this is the only feedback many people will give them. Great communicators use this expertise to tailor their message on the fly and adjust their communication style as needed.



3. They Are Honest
The best leaders know that for communication to be effective it has to be real. They can’t have people parsing every word trying to separate fact from spin. When great communicators can’t share certain information, they come right out and say it because makeshift, half-truth answers breed distrust and anxiety. In good times and bad, honesty builds trust.



4. They Are Authentic
Great communicators don’t try to be someone they’re not just because they’ve stepped behind a podium. There’s a reason Mark Zuckerberg presented Facebook to investors in a hoodie and jeans. Great leaders know that when they stay true to who they are, people gravitate to their message. They also know the opposite happens when leaders put on an act.



5. They Speak With Authority
Great communicators don’t try to cover their backs by being ambiguous, wishy-washy, or unassertive. Instead, they stick their necks out and speak very directly about how things are and how they need to be.



6. They Speak To Groups As Individuals
Leaders rarely have the luxury of speaking to one person at a time. Whether it’s a huddle around a conference table or an overflowing auditorium, great leaders know how to work the room and make every single person feel as if he or she is being spoken to directly.



7. They Have Ears (And They Use Them)
Great leaders know that communication is a two-way street and what they hear is often more important than what they say. When someone else is speaking, great communicators aren’t thinking ahead and planning what they’ll say next. Instead, they’re actively listening, fully focused on understanding the other person’s perspective.



8. They Use Phrases Like “It’s My Fault,” “I Was Wrong,” and “I’m Sorry”
When great leaders make a mistake, they admit it right away. They don’t wait for someone else to find and point out their blunder. They model accountability for their words and actions, even when they could have easily “gotten away” with the mistake. And they do it matter-of-factly, without drama or false humility.



9. They Solicit Feedback
The best communicators never assume that the message people heard is the exact same one they intended to deliver. They check in to verify that their message was understood correctly, and, if it was not, they don’t blame the audience. Instead, they change things up and try again.



10. They’re Proactive
Leaders with the best communication skills don’t waste time playing catch-up. They’re quick to head off the rumor mill by sharing bad news in a timely manner. They also give clear, concise goals and directions so people don’t waste their time heading in the wrong direction.

Bringing It All Together
Great communicators stand out from the crowd. They’re honest. They’re authentic. They listen. They excel in communication because they value it, and that’s the critical first step to becoming a great leader.

What other strategies make for great communication? Please share your thoughts on leadership and communication in the comments section below, as I learn just as much from you as you do from me.

Source:https://www.newsvilla.com.ng

We’ve all heard “oh, there are plenty of fish in the sea” when it comes to dating. But, when was the last time you walked into someone’s house to find hundreds of tiny minnows proudly hung along their mantle?

No. You want the catch. You want the one you couldn’t possibly let go. The one you’d do anything to reel in.

So, how do you know you’ve found a keeper? Here are 10 signs to look out for.



1. She doesn’t look for attention.

The women who don’t look for attention, are precisely the women we should be giving our attention to. Girls who are always looking for compliments or to be noticed, are often insecure and looking to overcompensate. What’s more – is that they’re likely more concerned about their own happiness, than they would be about yours.

Women who are content with their own self confidence and don’t look elsewhere for validation, shine from within and will add to your life. The last thing you need is to be a placeholder for a girl who is just seeking something anyone else can give her. This doesn’t provide any sort of foundation for a solid relationship.

2. She can hold a conversation.

Believe me – I know how important physical attraction is to a relationship. But, believe me when I say that I also know that it’s not the most important thing, when you’re talking long term.

A woman who truly keeps your attention, makes you excited to see her, or just talk to her – every day – is one worth holding onto. An intelligent, well-spoken, witty, funny woman with killer looks, granted is hard to come by – but, who are you to settle for less than you deserve? Nobody, that’s who.

3. She is comfortable in any situation.

Let’s face it, when you’re dating somebody, you’re not alone with them all the time. It’s important to be able to live a full life with them by your side. This means family events, outings with friends, double dates, movie nights on the couch…Not to mention, the activities brought forth by similar interests – which you both should have!

I’ve always used the rule of thumb that if you truly like a girl and feel comfortable bringing her to any social event and leaving her alone if you need to go talk to someone or grab a drink – then she gets major bonus points.

4. She doesn’t start petty arguments.

In a healthy relationship, two people should be able to work out their differences via mature conversation and discussion. This does not mean bringing up nonsensical past issues or dwelling on small events that they’ve been emotionally harboring, waiting for the right time to unleash.

A mature woman won’t throw the past in your face or use it as ammunition against you, especially if she has already forgiven you for your mistakes.

5. She encourages you.

Even the best accomplishments in life seem to lose their luster when there is nobody to share them with. Your significant other should be one of, if not THE first, people you want to tell exciting news to.

Does your girl get excited about things in your life, even if she doesn’t have personal interest in them? Does she stand behind you, and encourage you to chase your goals and dreams? If so, you have found a teammate worth holding onto.

6. She’s your sunshine on a gloomy day (and every day).Do you wake up every morning excited to talk to her? Or to kiss her on the forehead if you’re there together? Does seeing her name pop up on your phone during a rough day make you forget about all of your worries? Does being with her take you into your own world where nothing else matters?

If you said yes to any of the above, hold onto her, man.

7. She puts in effort for you.

I am all about giving in relationships. Personally, I love to give and do things for my girlfriend. Seeing her happy makes me happy – and I believe if two people both feel that way in a relationship, it will be a success.

Her putting in effort doesn’t have to be much. It can be something as simple as keeping her hair or nails done to look good for you. It’s no secret that sometimes the romance wears off of longer term relationships, but you shouldn’t let it – and neither should she.

If a woman continues to do what she knows attracted you in the first place, even after she got you a long time ago, it shows she cares about keeping you around.

8. You can laugh together.

Seriously, how big is this one? Simple, but so important. Life can get you down. Work, bills, obligations – your relationship shouldn’t be something on that list. Your girlfriend should also be your best friend who you can do anything with, and have fun doing it.

If they drag you down, it’s time for a change.

9. You can cry together.

Not everything is sunshine and rainbows. Times get tough, things get hard, and we all need a support system.

Is she there for you when you need her? Are you there for her? If your support is not reciprocated by her, then you need to find someone who understands the importance of your feelings, too.

10. You have similar views for the future.

I know man, the future is way off. It’s a scary place, but it’s still there. If you’re in a solid, committed relationship, it’s important to understand where both of you see yourselves, and the relationship – going.

Does she want a ring within a year? A baby? Dude…are you ready for that? If you’re not – what makes you think that she will forget all about it and that your relationship will coast through time without it being an issue?

Compromise is key. The future of your life cannot be dictated by someone else, but it can be affected by them – and working together to find what makes you both happy in the long run, is key.

Also Read " 9 Good Reasons Why You Should Feel Happy Right Now"

Read more here:https://www.newsvilla.com.ng/2018/07/07/9-good-reasons-feel-happy-right-now/


Source:https://www.newsvilla.com.ng

Great leaders connect with people on an emotional level every time they speak. Their words inspire others to achieve more than they ever thought possible.


Great communicators are intentional about it, and there are 10 secrets they rely on to deliver a powerful message. Put these secrets to work in your communication and watch your influence soar.

1. They Know Their Audience
Great communicators don’t worry about sounding important, showing off their expertise, or boosting their own egos. Instead, they think about what people need to hear, and how they can deliver this message so that people will be able to hear it. This doesn’t mean that leaders tell people what they want to hear. Quite the opposite­—they tell people what’s important for them to know, even if it’s bad news.



2. They Are Experts In Body Language
Great communicators are constantly tracking people’s reactions to their message. They are quick to pick up on cues like facial expressions and body language because they know this is the only feedback many people will give them. Great communicators use this expertise to tailor their message on the fly and adjust their communication style as needed.



3. They Are Honest
The best leaders know that for communication to be effective it has to be real. They can’t have people parsing every word trying to separate fact from spin. When great communicators can’t share certain information, they come right out and say it because makeshift, half-truth answers breed distrust and anxiety. In good times and bad, honesty builds trust.



4. They Are Authentic
Great communicators don’t try to be someone they’re not just because they’ve stepped behind a podium. There’s a reason Mark Zuckerberg presented Facebook to investors in a hoodie and jeans. Great leaders know that when they stay true to who they are, people gravitate to their message. They also know the opposite happens when leaders put on an act.



5. They Speak With Authority
Great communicators don’t try to cover their backs by being ambiguous, wishy-washy, or unassertive. Instead, they stick their necks out and speak very directly about how things are and how they need to be.



6. They Speak To Groups As Individuals
Leaders rarely have the luxury of speaking to one person at a time. Whether it’s a huddle around a conference table or an overflowing auditorium, great leaders know how to work the room and make every single person feel as if he or she is being spoken to directly.



7. They Have Ears (And They Use Them)
Great leaders know that communication is a two-way street and what they hear is often more important than what they say. When someone else is speaking, great communicators aren’t thinking ahead and planning what they’ll say next. Instead, they’re actively listening, fully focused on understanding the other person’s perspective.



8. They Use Phrases Like “It’s My Fault,” “I Was Wrong,” and “I’m Sorry”
When great leaders make a mistake, they admit it right away. They don’t wait for someone else to find and point out their blunder. They model accountability for their words and actions, even when they could have easily “gotten away” with the mistake. And they do it matter-of-factly, without drama or false humility.



9. They Solicit Feedback
The best communicators never assume that the message people heard is the exact same one they intended to deliver. They check in to verify that their message was understood correctly, and, if it was not, they don’t blame the audience. Instead, they change things up and try again.



10. They’re Proactive
Leaders with the best communication skills don’t waste time playing catch-up. They’re quick to head off the rumor mill by sharing bad news in a timely manner. They also give clear, concise goals and directions so people don’t waste their time heading in the wrong direction.

Bringing It All Together
Great communicators stand out from the crowd. They’re honest. They’re authentic. They listen. They excel in communication because they value it, and that’s the critical first step to becoming a great leader.

What other strategies make for great communication? Please share your thoughts on leadership and communication in the comments section below, as I learn just as much from you as you do from me.

Source:https://www.newsvilla.com.ng

Most of us tie the knot with the best intentions — so why are 40 to 50 percent of all marriages still ending in divorce?

A few months ago, we learned that fewer college-educated couples who marry later in life are getting divorced. Hooray, we thought, finally some good news about marriage. But the fact remains: Nearly half of all unions in the United States continue to end in divorce. Despite the many unique life experiences and personalities that various couples bring to the table, relationship experts are able to narrow down seven reasons most couples decide to call it quits. Rather than reading these with sad eyes, couples can learn from others’ mistakes and put in the work now — in order to avoid a sad split later on.

1. They harbor resentment
We all make mistakes in our lives and in relationships. Most of them (and some might argue all of them) are forgivable as long as the person at fault is willing to accept blame and repair it. But that doesn’t mean his/her partner is always able to move past a problem — and the resentment that lingers is what can ultimately destroy a marriage. “If you’re feeling resentful of anything — that’s a definite warning,” said Dr. Tina Tessina (Dr. Romance), a licensed psychotherapist who has been practicing for 30 years and is the author of 13 books about relationships. “Resentment is like rust that can eat away at the foundations of the relationship. You need to talk about it, get it resolved. Arguments that won’t go away and keep repeating are also signs of trouble.”

2. They forget they are a team
When you get married, you make an agreement to fly your plane with the best co-pilot around. But during tough times, some of us feel like we’ve been stranded on an island. Even worse: Our Lord of the Rings instincts kick in and we treat our spouse like a mortal enemy instead of a valuable member of our team. “The most dominant element that leads to divorce is that the couple doesn’t work as a team, a partnership,” Tessina said. “Just loving each other isn’t going to automatically make the marriage work. Living life together is complex, with work, home, financial and family responsibilities to juggle. If you don’t find a way to work smoothly together, it becomes insupportable.”


3. They argue about money but fail to solve financial problems
Some couples would have near perfect relationships — if they could only figure out how to talk about their finances, a conversation that continues to make many people nervous. “To talk about money, use your business skills,” Tessina said. “It’s just math — take the emotion out of it, and talk as you would in a business meeting.”

4. They are dissatisfied with their own lives
No one can give you a fulfilling life unless you have the ability to find your own happiness — absent of someone else. “Don’t expect your partner to make you happy — that’s your job,” Tessina said. “You can help each other, but you can’t do it for each other; so figure out what you need, then talk to your partner about how to get it.”

5. They turn away from each other when things get bad
Remember when you first started dating and you considered each other partners in crime? Heaven help the person who criticized your significant other — he or she was going to hear from you. Instead of protecting our partners, some of us resort to turning on them when the going gets rough. “I see a cycle with couples who end in divorce. They get caught up in ways of relating to each other that are common, and accepted in our society,” said dating, sex and relationship expert Wendy Newman, author of 121 First Dates. “When things don’t go perfectly, or someone takes a misstep, there’s blaming, shaming, and being in trouble. For example, ‘I’m in the dog house’ is a common phrase in our culture.”

Newman says that when we turn on each other instead of toward each other, there’s a breakdown in both communication and trust — from there, it’s a downward spiral. “When trust is broken, each partner knows it’s unsafe to share things — important things that can’t be talked about in the relationship,” she said. “When this happens, intimacy is lost. When intimacy is lost safety and adoration evaporate, and it’s a downward spiral; one where one person is trying to not get into trouble, while the other ends up taking over and doing everything. The imbalance grows to the breaking point.”

More: Throwing caution to the wind after divorce can be a great thing

6. Women feel unappreciated and unimportant
Dating and relationship coach Christine Baumgartner, founder of The Perfect Catch, says feeling unappreciated and unimportant is the one leading cause of divorce — but that’s it’s important to note that women and men have very different reasons for feeling this way. “Women feel unappreciated and unimportant because they feel taken for granted and overwhelmed,” Baumgartner said. “They give and give and give to everyone else in their life and this leaves them very sad and depleted. They feel they have to do everything themselves because no one will do it if they don’t.”

She continues, “I have found the most common reason this happens is they can’t or won’t ask for help. They expect everyone around them to read their minds and just know what they need and want them to do for them. They get to the place where they ‘had it’ and finally get a divorce. What is interesting is many of these women, once they’re divorced, finally start doing nice things for themselves and delegating responsibilities and then they say, ‘Why would I want to get married again just to give up myself and take care of another person?’ And they don’t understand that these choices are theirs to make.”

7. Men feel unappreciated and unaccepted
Men want to provide safety and security for their family and believe by working hard and earning money they will be appreciated and loved, Baumgartner said. But the challenges start when they’re working late or traveling a lot and their spouse starts to feel neglected. “The man thinks he’s doing enough and the women doesn’t tell him she needs more and instead starts telling him all the things he’s not doing well,” she said.

“And he finally gets to the same ‘I’ve had it point.’ And what often happens for men when they’re divorced is that they find a woman who either thinks a lot of what they’re already doing is great or knows how to tell him ‘nicely’ what she needs and wants and he feels successful providing for her and she says thank you.” Baumgartner says this often happens with a younger woman.

Also Read- " 8 Signs She’s Lost Interest In You"

Read Here- https://www.newsvilla.com.ng/2018/07/04/8-signs-shes-lost-interest/

Source:https://www.newsvilla.com.ng

Most of us tie the knot with the best intentions — so why are 40 to 50 percent of all marriages still ending in divorce?

A few months ago, we learned that fewer college-educated couples who marry later in life are getting divorced. Hooray, we thought, finally some good news about marriage. But the fact remains: Nearly half of all unions in the United States continue to end in divorce. Despite the many unique life experiences and personalities that various couples bring to the table, relationship experts are able to narrow down seven reasons most couples decide to call it quits. Rather than reading these with sad eyes, couples can learn from others’ mistakes and put in the work now — in order to avoid a sad split later on.

1. They harbor resentment
We all make mistakes in our lives and in relationships. Most of them (and some might argue all of them) are forgivable as long as the person at fault is willing to accept blame and repair it. But that doesn’t mean his/her partner is always able to move past a problem — and the resentment that lingers is what can ultimately destroy a marriage. “If you’re feeling resentful of anything — that’s a definite warning,” said Dr. Tina Tessina (Dr. Romance), a licensed psychotherapist who has been practicing for 30 years and is the author of 13 books about relationships. “Resentment is like rust that can eat away at the foundations of the relationship. You need to talk about it, get it resolved. Arguments that won’t go away and keep repeating are also signs of trouble.”



2. They forget they are a team
When you get married, you make an agreement to fly your plane with the best co-pilot around. But during tough times, some of us feel like we’ve been stranded on an island. Even worse: Our Lord of the Rings instincts kick in and we treat our spouse like a mortal enemy instead of a valuable member of our team. “The most dominant element that leads to divorce is that the couple doesn’t work as a team, a partnership,” Tessina said. “Just loving each other isn’t going to automatically make the marriage work. Living life together is complex, with work, home, financial and family responsibilities to juggle. If you don’t find a way to work smoothly together, it becomes insupportable.”

More: Social media is causing 1 out of every 7 divorces




3. They argue about money but fail to solve financial problems
Some couples would have near perfect relationships — if they could only figure out how to talk about their finances, a conversation that continues to make many people nervous. “To talk about money, use your business skills,” Tessina said. “It’s just math — take the emotion out of it, and talk as you would in a business meeting.”



4. They are dissatisfied with their own lives
No one can give you a fulfilling life unless you have the ability to find your own happiness — absent of someone else. “Don’t expect your partner to make you happy — that’s your job,” Tessina said. “You can help each other, but you can’t do it for each other; so figure out what you need, then talk to your partner about how to get it.”



5. They turn away from each other when things get bad
Remember when you first started dating and you considered each other partners in crime? Heaven help the person who criticized your significant other — he or she was going to hear from you. Instead of protecting our partners, some of us resort to turning on them when the going gets rough. “I see a cycle with couples who end in divorce. They get caught up in ways of relating to each other that are common, and accepted in our society,” said dating, sex and relationship expert Wendy Newman, author of 121 First Dates. “When things don’t go perfectly, or someone takes a misstep, there’s blaming, shaming, and being in trouble. For example, ‘I’m in the dog house’ is a common phrase in our culture.”

Newman says that when we turn on each other instead of toward each other, there’s a breakdown in both communication and trust — from there, it’s a downward spiral. “When trust is broken, each partner knows it’s unsafe to share things — important things that can’t be talked about in the relationship,” she said. “When this happens, intimacy is lost. When intimacy is lost safety and adoration evaporate, and it’s a downward spiral; one where one person is trying to not get into trouble, while the other ends up taking over and doing everything. The imbalance grows to the breaking point.”

More: Throwing caution to the wind after divorce can be a great thing



6. Women feel unappreciated and unimportant
Dating and relationship coach Christine Baumgartner, founder of The Perfect Catch, says feeling unappreciated and unimportant is the one leading cause of divorce — but that’s it’s important to note that women and men have very different reasons for feeling this way. “Women feel unappreciated and unimportant because they feel taken for granted and overwhelmed,” Baumgartner said. “They give and give and give to everyone else in their life and this leaves them very sad and depleted. They feel they have to do everything themselves because no one will do it if they don’t.”

She continues, “I have found the most common reason this happens is they can’t or won’t ask for help. They expect everyone around them to read their minds and just know what they need and want them to do for them. They get to the place where they ‘had it’ and finally get a divorce. What is interesting is many of these women, once they’re divorced, finally start doing nice things for themselves and delegating responsibilities and then they say, ‘Why would I want to get married again just to give up myself and take care of another person?’ And they don’t understand that these choices are theirs to make.”



7. Men feel unappreciated and unaccepted
Men want to provide safety and security for their family and believe by working hard and earning money they will be appreciated and loved, Baumgartner said. But the challenges start when they’re working late or traveling a lot and their spouse starts to feel neglected. “The man thinks he’s doing enough and the women doesn’t tell him she needs more and instead starts telling him all the things he’s not doing well,” she said.

“And he finally gets to the same ‘I’ve had it point.’ And what often happens for men when they’re divorced is that they find a woman who either thinks a lot of what they’re already doing is great or knows how to tell him ‘nicely’ what she needs and wants and he feels successful providing for her and she says thank you.” Baumgartner says this often happens with a younger woman.

Also Read- " 8 Signs She’s Lost Interest In You"

Read Here- https://www.newsvilla.com.ng/2018/07/04/8-signs-shes-lost-interest/

Source:https://www.newsvilla.com.ng

Most of us tie the knot with the best intentions — so why are 40 to 50 percent of all marriages still ending in divorce?

A few months ago, we learned that fewer college-educated couples who marry later in life are getting divorced. Hooray, we thought, finally some good news about marriage. But the fact remains: Nearly half of all unions in the United States continue to end in divorce. Despite the many unique life experiences and personalities that various couples bring to the table, relationship experts are able to narrow down seven reasons most couples decide to call it quits. Rather than reading these with sad eyes, couples can learn from others’ mistakes and put in the work now — in order to avoid a sad split later on.

1. They harbor resentment
We all make mistakes in our lives and in relationships. Most of them (and some might argue all of them) are forgivable as long as the person at fault is willing to accept blame and repair it. But that doesn’t mean his/her partner is always able to move past a problem — and the resentment that lingers is what can ultimately destroy a marriage. “If you’re feeling resentful of anything — that’s a definite warning,” said Dr. Tina Tessina (Dr. Romance), a licensed psychotherapist who has been practicing for 30 years and is the author of 13 books about relationships. “Resentment is like rust that can eat away at the foundations of the relationship. You need to talk about it, get it resolved. Arguments that won’t go away and keep repeating are also signs of trouble.”



2. They forget they are a team
When you get married, you make an agreement to fly your plane with the best co-pilot around. But during tough times, some of us feel like we’ve been stranded on an island. Even worse: Our Lord of the Rings instincts kick in and we treat our spouse like a mortal enemy instead of a valuable member of our team. “The most dominant element that leads to divorce is that the couple doesn’t work as a team, a partnership,” Tessina said. “Just loving each other isn’t going to automatically make the marriage work. Living life together is complex, with work, home, financial and family responsibilities to juggle. If you don’t find a way to work smoothly together, it becomes insupportable.”

More: Social media is causing 1 out of every 7 divorces




3. They argue about money but fail to solve financial problems
Some couples would have near perfect relationships — if they could only figure out how to talk about their finances, a conversation that continues to make many people nervous. “To talk about money, use your business skills,” Tessina said. “It’s just math — take the emotion out of it, and talk as you would in a business meeting.”



4. They are dissatisfied with their own lives
No one can give you a fulfilling life unless you have the ability to find your own happiness — absent of someone else. “Don’t expect your partner to make you happy — that’s your job,” Tessina said. “You can help each other, but you can’t do it for each other; so figure out what you need, then talk to your partner about how to get it.”



5. They turn away from each other when things get bad
Remember when you first started dating and you considered each other partners in crime? Heaven help the person who criticized your significant other — he or she was going to hear from you. Instead of protecting our partners, some of us resort to turning on them when the going gets rough. “I see a cycle with couples who end in divorce. They get caught up in ways of relating to each other that are common, and accepted in our society,” said dating, sex and relationship expert Wendy Newman, author of 121 First Dates. “When things don’t go perfectly, or someone takes a misstep, there’s blaming, shaming, and being in trouble. For example, ‘I’m in the dog house’ is a common phrase in our culture.”

Newman says that when we turn on each other instead of toward each other, there’s a breakdown in both communication and trust — from there, it’s a downward spiral. “When trust is broken, each partner knows it’s unsafe to share things — important things that can’t be talked about in the relationship,” she said. “When this happens, intimacy is lost. When intimacy is lost safety and adoration evaporate, and it’s a downward spiral; one where one person is trying to not get into trouble, while the other ends up taking over and doing everything. The imbalance grows to the breaking point.”

More: Throwing caution to the wind after divorce can be a great thing



6. Women feel unappreciated and unimportant
Dating and relationship coach Christine Baumgartner, founder of The Perfect Catch, says feeling unappreciated and unimportant is the one leading cause of divorce — but that’s it’s important to note that women and men have very different reasons for feeling this way. “Women feel unappreciated and unimportant because they feel taken for granted and overwhelmed,” Baumgartner said. “They give and give and give to everyone else in their life and this leaves them very sad and depleted. They feel they have to do everything themselves because no one will do it if they don’t.”

She continues, “I have found the most common reason this happens is they can’t or won’t ask for help. They expect everyone around them to read their minds and just know what they need and want them to do for them. They get to the place where they ‘had it’ and finally get a divorce. What is interesting is many of these women, once they’re divorced, finally start doing nice things for themselves and delegating responsibilities and then they say, ‘Why would I want to get married again just to give up myself and take care of another person?’ And they don’t understand that these choices are theirs to make.”



7. Men feel unappreciated and unaccepted
Men want to provide safety and security for their family and believe by working hard and earning money they will be appreciated and loved, Baumgartner said. But the challenges start when they’re working late or traveling a lot and their spouse starts to feel neglected. “The man thinks he’s doing enough and the women doesn’t tell him she needs more and instead starts telling him all the things he’s not doing well,” she said.

“And he finally gets to the same ‘I’ve had it point.’ And what often happens for men when they’re divorced is that they find a woman who either thinks a lot of what they’re already doing is great or knows how to tell him ‘nicely’ what she needs and wants and he feels successful providing for her and she says thank you.” Baumgartner says this often happens with a younger woman.

Also Read- " 8 Signs She’s Lost Interest In You"

Read Here- https://www.newsvilla.com.ng/2018/07/04/8-signs-shes-lost-interest/

Source:https://www.newsvilla.com.ng

Also Read- " 6 Thing Men Do When They Are In Love "

Read Here- https://www.newsvilla.com.ng/2018/07/04/6-thing-men-love/

Do you want to know whether She really loves you? There are so many telltale signs that will indicate your girlfriend really cares about you, but here are the top ten sure signs to check whether your relationship will stand the test of time.

1. SHE Looks Into Your Eyes When You Talk
This sign is all about the body language. If she looks into your eyes when you talk, you know she is paying full attention to you. Obviously, this is not always practical for every conversation, especially if you are driving somewhere. However, whenever you really want to have a heart to heart discussion, she gives you her full attention, by turning her body towards you, and watching the expression on your face. This is a sign she wants to know what you are really thinking.


Be careful about this after the seven year itch. She may be checking for things to tell her lawyer.


2. SHE Wants To Know About You
If your girlfriend asks about your past, your dreams, your desires (not just sexual), your wants, your needs, how you feel inspired, what you love, or anything about you that relates to your thoughts intimately as an individual, you can be very sure that she wants what is best for you. This is a very good indication she loves you.

THIS woman REALLY loves you. Hold on to her. But if one day she decides to leave: let her go. Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all! Alfred, Lord Tennyson


3. SHE Gives You Cuddles and Caresses
While touch is more important to some people than others, casual touches that are not necessarily sexual in nature are definitely signs she is letting you know that she loves you. If she wants to hold your hand when you walk anywhere together, you can be sure she is saying with her body language that she wants to be with you.

Alas! This too will pass!


4. SHE Can Comfort You When You Have a Bad Day
This is one of the most important indicators of a relationship that will stand the test of time. If you feel you can automatically turn to her when ‘times are tuff’, and she is able to give you comfort and help you to feel better, not worse, you have a gal who really loves you. If she gets uncomfortable when you are upset, or doesn’t know what will comfort you, she is not really putting you first in the relationship. If she at least tries to comfort you, there is hope for the future.

True! True!


5. SHE Gives You the Best Presents
Presents do not have to be expensive to be heartfelt. A present can be as simple as an email, a homemade card, or a wildflower picked from the roadside. The essence of this sign is that whenever she does give you a present, whether it is for a special event such as a birthday, or if it is just an off the cuff small gift, it is a gift that means something to you personally. She shows she cares about you by the depth of thought that goes into what you will like and she delights in giving you gifts that you just love.

Gotta take time to appreciate those!

6. SHE Makes You Feel Special
Giving you compliments about how beautiful you look is one way she will make you feel special. It may just be that simple phone call, an email, or even a formal love letter. Whatever she does, she wants to give you pleasure and to build you up as a person. She wants to make you feel like you are the most wonderful man in the world.

Wow!


7. SHE Wants You to Meet Her Friends and Wants to Meet Yours
Meeting friends is about wanting to be a part of each other’s lives. If she wants to meet your friends, and spends time getting to know the people who are important in your life, she really does love you. If she enjoys being with your friends, and makes you feel comfortable and a part of the group when you are with her friends, you can be sure she wants to be in your life for a long time.

Wow!

8. SHE Makes You Laugh and Enjoy Life
You actually look forward to spending time with her, because you know you will have fun. Being able to laugh together and have fun is part of every good relationship. If she cannot share the joy of life with you easily, she won’t be able to cope with the hard times that will inevitably come your way too. Even in the difficult times, she somehow can make you smile, through your tears. This is because she loves you and wants you to be happy. She gets a joy from seeing the excitement and pleasure in your expression, so she works to make you laugh.

Pinch me: I must be dreaming!

9. SHE Loves Spending Time with You
She treats you as her best friend. She can be quite happy spending time with just the two of you, and doesn’t have to have a million other people around all the time. She makes excuses to see you, and just thoroughly enjoys being around you. She tells you her own thoughts, dreams, and is able to share ideas with you comfortably. She also turns to you when she is sad, or needs comfort too.

Where can I find her? Don’t tell me that this too shall pass.


10. SHE Says She Loves You after the 7th year, and means it.
Okay, it can be very easy to say those three words “I love you”, but if she says it when you are not expecting it, or if she says it first, she wants to tell you that she really cares about you. If she only says I love you when she wants to be physically intimate with you, or if you always say it first, and she only says it in reply, because that is what you expect, she may not really care deeply. She may not even need to say the words, because she knows you know how she feels about you, but just has to say it anyway.

If you see evidence of these ten signs in your relationship, and you know the signs are done without purpose or gain, your relationship is built on the foundation of true love. You can be sure of your relationship when she truly wants to please you, and honestly shows that she enjoys being with you in many ways.

Sigh

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Drones are the great inventions and innovative devices used to get more fun and enjoyment. Many people use drones to capture phones, aerial videos or enjoy flying. It is good news for drone users that there are many ways available to make money by using drones. If you want to know the simple and affordable ways to earn money with drones, you can read this post. The following passages share lots of possibilities to earn money by using your drones. It is essential to own a drone for making money, so you can opt for the best drones under 200. These are affordable devices that help you to earn cash by simply flying your drones.

1.Sell your aerial footage and photos
Selling your aerial videos and pictures is a common and simple way to earn cash with drones. It is essential to know that drone photography is a profitable business that gets more fame among many people. If you desire to follow this method, you should have the drone system boasting of high-quality camera that is capable to capture high-quality and crystal clear photos or videos from more heights. If you want to take ultra-quality videos and pictures, you can opt for drones designed especially for indoor and outdoor purposes.

You have two different options to make money. The first method is to discover unique and beautiful places like popular landmarks or tourist attractions. Making aerial footage or taking pictures by an order is a second option for making money.It is always helpful to find the right places for selling the products. It includes amusement parks, city squares, gold courses or beach resorts. You can also advertise your videos and pictures online. If you are interested in YouTube, you can simply launch a YouTube channel where you can publish the drone footage. It not only brings you more money but also allows you to get many subscribers.


2.Aerial wedding photography and videography
Photography and videography play the most significant role in almost every wedding, so they become a very profitable and highly preferred business choice. The competition level is very high in wedding photography, so you need to provide exceptional services to beat the competition. There are many ways available to take photos, but drones make photography and videography unique from others. The best thing about drone photography is that it brings you a fantastic chance to take photos and videos from a stunning view. Here are few tips to run this business profitably as follow:

It is always essential to fly the drone very closely with a venue. You can try to avoid flying your drone over guests directly because it may hurt anyone accidentally.
Prefer an excellent wedding venue in a stunning destination where you can easily profit from the beautiful scenery
Discover a stunning perspective for shooting footage or taking phones when flying your drone.
Provide both aerial pictures and videos at the same ceremony
You can avoid recording in the dark where the images are blurred
Hence, you can work hard to become unique from other photographers. To get the benefits, you can buy a drone with a high-resolution and high-quality camera.


3. Inspect jobs
Now, there are lots of utility companies are using airplanes and helicopters for inspecting electrical lines, pumping stations, remote substations and other for years. It is not safe for pilots and also expensive. Due to this, they opt for drones. The drones are compact aerial devices which are boasting of video transmitters and powerful cameras for doing these kinds of dangerous jobs safely.

The great thing about drones is that they can easily and quickly reach the gas or water outlets. Additionally, it makes better video footage. If you want to make money, you can do different inspect tasks for various utility companies.


4.Disaster relief
The drones are smart devices that bring public safety authorities high-quality video footage services in regions difficult hit by various natural disasters. It includes earthquakes, tornadoes, hurricanes, and flooding. Apart from that, the unmanned drones are also used by humanitarian services and NGOs to deliver the medicine, water and food safety.


5.Feature Filmmaking
Now, many filmmakers are looking for the best drone service providers to get perfect camera shot. If you want to make money, so you can offer aerial cinematography services to the filmmakers.


6.News footage
At present, drones are hugely used by citizens and journalists to report important news. There is a time in that drones are used for providing and documenting video footage quickly from the regions of accidents, disaster, civil upheaval, war, and conflict. It is significant to know that celebrity photographers also use the drones.



7.Precision agriculture
Drones are also used in agriculture because they will reduce the required time for walking the agricultural fields. Most of the drones are equipped with quality cameras. They have the capability to capture particular wavelengths of the infrared video. It helps people to know the health of their crops easily.


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Has your girlfriend suddenly started acting differently around you? Have you been trying to understand her actions but just can’t seem to figure them out? Well, the reason she’s been acting differently may be because she is losing interest in you.

If you see that your girlfriend exhibits any of the following warning signs, you have reason to be concerned.

1. She puts her girlfriends ahead of you
All women are entitled to a girl’s night out here and there with their girlfriends, but if spending time with their girlfriends has begun to take priority over you and she consistently leaves you at home to gallivant in nightclubs, she is definitely losing interest in you.

2. She avoids public affection with you
If your girlfriend has allowed you to kiss her or hold her hand in public in the past and suddenly begins rejecting your advances or moves away from you without an obvious reason, you have reason to worry about her interest level in the relationship.

3. She’s lost interest in sex (with you)
If she has suddenly become bored by your performance in bed and you’re rarely hitting the sheets anymore, she may be wishing for someone else to rub her the right way.

4. She starts fights with you
If she has all of a sudden noticeably lowered her tolerance level for your little mistakes, constantly picks fights and turns every little thing into an argument or a disagreement, chances are her interest level has lowered and she is probably unhappy about the way your relationship is going.

5. She shows interest in other guys
If you notice your girlfriend openly checking out other guys and flirting with other men while you’re right there beside her, it could be her way of sending you a subtle message that she’s shopping around for another man.

6. She’s put distance between you
A woman who is in a happy relationship always makes time for her partner. So if all of a sudden you don’t see your girlfriend for a week or more and when she does answer your calls, she is busy and is always in a rush to get off the phone with you, something is definitely wrong. Take this as hint that she wants time apart to explore what it feels like to be away from you.

7. She’s no longer affectionate toward you
If she just sits there and does nothing when you attempt to touch her and caress her or you’re always the one who initiates the hand holding or hugs first, a breakup may be impending.

8. She begins saying “I” instead of “we”
If you feel like your girlfriend hardly talks, doesn’t contribute much to the conversations you have your and she starts to use “I” instead of “we” when talking about the future, this means that she does not see a future with you in it anymore

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Tech jobs are exploding – as well as the pay that goes with them. In fact, technology can really advance your carrier in ways we never thought possible. Now is the time to begin positioning yourself for a career in this field as the salaries seem to increase monthly. But what are the best emerging tech jobs; the ones set to pay the most in 2019? There is a wide variety, and we’ve listed the best below.

1. Big Data Auditor

Next generation audits are almost upon us, and they require people with the ability to utilize algorithms, insights and even A.I. learning to dig through data and separate the useful from the useless.

2. Emotional Intelligence Designer

If you’ve been watching Westworld you already have a grasp on this career; it requires the ability to create machine code that mimics human emotions. Once A.I. becomes better-versed in the ability to communicate like a human (both understanding and reacting), it will become even more all-encompassing.

3. Behavior Analytics

A specialist who knows what consumers will want is going to be worth their weight in gold. The ability to combine data analytics with both cognitive computing and machine learning are the gurus of tomorrow; people who can gain insights into the behavior of consumers to intelligently guess in what direction markets are going before they get there will be invaluable. And a great behavior analyst can apply themselves to other fields too, including cybersecurity.
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Chris Bennett (center) CEO and co-founder of Central.ly, discusses a business plan with Brett Welch, CEO of Switchcam, at the internet startup incubator space 500 Startups in Mountain View, California, Tuesday, November 15, 2011. |
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4. Smart Sensor Engineer

As life and technology become more and more intertwined, smart sensors will become more and more ubiquitous. How else will we bridge the world between the physical and digital?

5. Space Habitat Developer

As Elon Musk and Richard Branson look to the moon, Mars, and even further to one day visit and colonize, the people who develop and create brand new living environments that can withstand the pressures of alien environments are going to be in high demand. Technology has already changed the way we travel; it’s going to change where we travel too.


6. AR/VR Designer

Steve Brown, a technology futurist and CEO is laying his bets on augmented reality/virtual reality (AR/VR). This job doesn’t just need object designers, a great UX designer, or someone who can develop AR interfaces would be just as lucrative and necessary.

7. 3D Printing

As 3D printing settles in – and it doesn’t appear to be going anywhere anytime soon – the world will change accordingly. From human organs to consumer products, 3D printing will rewrite the planet around us and as such, exciting and lucrative new opportunities will arise for those who work in this field.

The futurist Thomas Frey has a lot to say about what’s coming next. He thinks there are fourteen key skills that will be required as we step into tomorrow. They are:

Transitionists– Those who can aid in making transitions.
Expansionists– Being able to adapt alongside a growing environment.
Maximizers– Someone who can maximize not just processes, but also situations and opportunities.
Optimizers– The ability to change up variables and optimize a performance.
Inflectionists– The ability to discover the critical inflection points in a system.
Dismantlers– Someone who can scale things back when an industry meets its inevitable end.
Feedback Loopers– Someone who can create amazing feedback loops.
Backlashers– Those people who can handle and respond to the ever-present backlash that new tech brings.
Last Milers– The ability to create solutions to help tech that’s reaching its end goal as it winds down.
Contexualists– What’s the operational context for each new technology? The contextualist is behind figuring that out and ensuring everyone knows.
Ethicists– As technology grows, the ethics surrounding it will be pushed and pulled. A good ethicist will be worth their weight in gold.
Philosophers– The person who guides the company with the best philosophy will help take home the gold.
Theorists– All new products, services, and industries begins with a theory. Will it be yours?
Legacists– Those who are passionate about leaving a legacy.

But, of course, any and all of these jobs will need both an education and a great resume. There are a variety of schools around the world that focus on these different elements. And as for resumes, you’re going to want something eye-catching, exciting and contemporary – something in a new resume format.

Of course, there are jobs like mobile app developer, database administrator, software engineers and video game designer that aren’t as hot in terms of how new they are but still pay well within the tech industry. In fact, two of the fastest growing jobs that will require tech are in solar energy and wind energy.

Areas that are projected to see the biggest declines so you’ll want to avoid them include:

Farmers, Ranchers, and Other Agricultural Managers
Postal Service Mail Sorters, Processors, and Processing Machine Operators
Sewing Machine Operators
Postal Service Mail Carriers
Switchboard Operators, Including Answering Service
Postal Service Clerks
Cooks, Fast Food
Miscellaneous Agricultural Workers
Data Entry Keyers
Word Processors and Typists

There are a wide variety of emerging tech jobs that are going to pay incredibly well in the years to come. Wherever you decide to apply, make sure you’ve got a great resume that shows you off in the finest way possible and put your best foot forward!




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How to deal with a break up and smile!

Your will power and your determination is the only thing that matters when it comes to moving on after a break up. Nothing else will help you, not your friends and not a string of flings. Hold your ground, convince yourself that you’re ready to move on and get away from the pain. And use these steps to move on and deal with a break up.

#1 Don’t write letters. There’s always a constant itch to get in touch with an ex. When you feel down, when you listen to a romantic song, or even when you’re drunk. But hold that thought. Never try to get in touch with an ex unless you’re just bumping into them accidentally. It’ll weaken your resolve to get over your ex.

If you find yourself writing a long email to your ex, write it if you must but don’t send it. Hold on to that draft copy overnight. When you wake up in the morning, you’d realize that it was just a weak moment and you don’t really want to send the email anymore. By waiting a while, you’d be able to feel stronger about your own resolve. The same rule can be applied to phone calls and texts too.

If an uncontrollable urge to call or text your ex overwhelms you, don’t stop yourself. Instead, just convince yourself that you’ll call the next morning if you still feel like it. Each time you put away a phone call or an email, you’d feel more confident about getting over your ex and moving on.

#2 Deal with the addiction. Exes are an addiction, just like any other serious life threatening addiction in the world. And the worst part here, is that you can’t really cut down a little bit at a time. You have no choice but to go cold turkey and avoid all contact. It will hurt and you will feel terrible, but you’ll feel better a week later, and even better another week later.

Treat your ex like a bad addiction, and learn to deal with the break up. It’ll help you when you start to see your ex as something that’s bad for your life.

#3 The evil selfish ex. [/b]Let’s face it, if your boyfriend or girlfriend dumps you, they’re evil *at least in your head*. If your ex gets rude or yells at you when you try to talk to them, or if they ignore you, or if they look at you with spite and disgust each time you walk up to them, you have every right to believe that they’re evil, selfish little devils. But you know what, you can’t blame them for it.

Your ex doesn’t like you anymore, they despise you. Of course, they could be nicer and try to be more understanding. But you can’t expect every ex to hold you by the hand and help you find the way out. A few exes prefer tripping you and kicking you where it hurts. Hate them for it. But deal with it. And get over it.

[b]#4 Replay your relationship. While you sitting alone and staring at a wall or an empty glass of wine, replay the relationship in your head. Pick the mistakes and the flaws in the relationship, and try to see where things started falling apart.

But remember to pick the mistakes, not the pieces of the relationship. The love affair is over. What you need here is to try and figure out where you went wrong, and where your partner hurt you. Were you trying too hard to please, insecure, clingy, or were you just too busy with your own life? And about your ex, try to pick their flaws too, so you don’t fall for another person with the same flaws again.

#5 Don’t force yourself. For the first week or so, don’t bother trying to convince yourself that you’re over your ex. Just let life take its course. Do your best to get over your ex by keeping yourself occupied, but don’t force your mind to forget your ex. You may be successful in bottling the thoughts, but they’ll always come back now and then in surges that will hurt you more.

#6 Stay miserable. Allow yourself to feel miserable and hurt. But time yourself and keep an eye on the calendar. Give yourself about three weeks to get over your ex. Mark the date on your calendar with a big red marker.

Think about your ex for those three weeks, but constantly remind yourself that at the end of these three weeks, you’ll wake up the next morning and completely overcome the sadness you’re feeling. Keeping a date marked on the calendar can psychologically prepare you to get over your ex. And at times, your wound may heal even before those three weeks!

#7 Fantasize the high road revenge. There are two types of fantasies you can think about after a break up, the I-wish-we-could-get-back fantasy, and the I’ll-get-even-with-you fantasy. Don’t try anything below the belt like spreading naked photos or cheap comebacks like that, it’s not fair and you’ll never forgive yourself for years if you even have the slightest semblance of a conscience.

Take the higher road. Convince yourself that you’ll put your focus and energy into other positive things, so that one fine day, many years from now, you’d do something spectacular with your life. And fantasize scenarios where you’d run into your ex. It’s not fair, but it helps for the moment. And odds are you may forget all about this a few years later. Don’t know what I mean? Go watch Cee Lo’s F*ck you on youtube. Fantasizing about success and exes makes the dreams of success so much sweeter!

#8 Laugh like a crazy person. For the first few weeks, don’t convince yourself you’re happier. Just wallow in your self pity and depression. But once you wake up one day and feel better, a few weeks later, laugh! Feel the happiness well within you. Realize how good you feel. It takes a while, but you’ll feel it when you’re ready. Listen to happy songs, watch funny movies, and laugh out loud. When you’re ready to move on from your sad state, your mind will be more than happy to help you have a nice time.

#9 Curiosity and the no contact rule. The no contact rule is really important. You can use all the other steps and follow it to the tee, but if you screw up here, you’ll be back on square one in no time. Have you ever looked for your ex’s facebook page sometime *just to see what they’re doing*?

The first time you take a peek at your ex’s page, you won’t think too much about it. But as time goes by, you’d end up visiting their page more and more often, until you realize you’re addicted to the idea of wanting to know more about you ex. There’s no escaping your ex once you get wrapped up in the curiosity of knowing more. Avoid it. Don’t stay in contact, and don’t go looking for information either.

#10 Get better and sexier. Have a life, go on out there and enjoy yourself. Sitting by yourself in the corner of the room will never make you feel better. Date others or at least meet a few interesting dating potentials that catch your fancy. Remember, you’ll have a very difficult time moving on if you find out that your ex is dating someone new, especially if you aren’t getting flirty with someone else already.

Work out and get fit. You’ll look better, and the endorphins released in your body will make you feel more upbeat and look sexier.

A heartbreak isn’t the end of the world. Sometimes, as hard as you try to prevent it, break ups are inevitable. What you do next and how you pull yourself together to deal with the break up makes all the difference between a person who experiences a break up, and a broken lover who gives up on a chance to have a happy life again.

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Searching for a business to start with N100,000 in Nigeria? Search no more. Read this post from beginning to the end to find any preferable business.

“People who succeed have momentum. The more they succeed, the more they want to succeed, and the more they find a way to succeed. Similarly, when someone is failing, the tendency is to get on a downward spiral that can even become a self-fulfilling prophecy.” — Tony Robbins

Below is a list of compiled businesses you can start with one hundred thousand naira (N100,000) in Nigeria.

1. Bedsheet/Beddings Production.

Visit Lagos Island, or Oshodi where they sell bulk materials, pick good designs of your choice, there are guys who will sew it for you are just within the same Market. You can start with less than 100k and diligently grow your money.



2. Shirt Production:

There are tailors in Lagos Island or better learn the skill it will save you all the heartbreaks imaginable. Taiwo Street in Lagos Island is where you should be. Materials ranging from 700 – 1k per yard, sew for 1500/2k, Sell for 5-7k.



3. Boxers:

Schedule a trip to Aba Market, The cost of production of boxers, you can get one for as low as N300, all you need is to package it in 3s, and market these babies properly beg your friend on twitter for RTs, we buy 3s pack boxers for 1500-2500 sell yours for 1200 and gradually grow.



4. E-Payments and POS Business:

You can a get POS machine from your Bank, and activate online banking: If you live in a place where banks aren’t much you can handle e-payments for people and make your small change. I paid someone N200 to withdraw 10k in Ikorodu. ATM queue was crazy.



5. Mobile and Electronic Accessories:

Mobile and electronic Accessories such as Pouches, Chargers, USB cables, HDMI cables, earphones and more, can be sourced on Alibaba, Ali Express, Deal Extreme, etc. The more you buy the lower the price. And they are light so shipping won’t be a burden. Sell on here or Jumia and co.



6. Popcorn:

We all know this popular product! We buy it every time. Only require bags of corn – Mile 12 Branded Nylon Sugar, Salt & Butter. The beauty of this is when properly made, its aroma will attract customers. Manual sealing machine -7/9k Popcorn Machine is 65k on Jumia as at the time of filing this report. Popcorn can be served anywhere. It costs less than N40 to make a pack of popcorn.



7. Branding – Sales and Customizing

Football team supporters always want to show how much they’re rooting for a team.



8. Snail Farming:

Snail farming in Nigeria is even more popular, due to its relatively cheap cost of startup and If you market your products well, your business will thrive. This is a business you can start from your backyard. Best in mind, snails take almost a year to mature so Patience is the key!



9. Fairly Used Goods

Fairly used goods such as Jeans, Tops, t-shirts, shoes etc. They can be sourced at Badagry, even Cotonou. 100k can’t get you a bale but you can select and mix them. Wash then and pack neatly. Marketing is all it takes, you’ll sell and see your money multiply.



10. Cleaning Services:

Some people find it hard to clean their apartments ‘cos they’re busy from Monday to Friday and Saturday they have engagement and on Sunday all they wanna do is rest. Your tools won’t cost you up to 30k and you can clean 6 apartments a weekend.

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Let’s be honest, it is hard to take when you see the woman you really love in the hands of another man.

I read a mail by a Naijaloaidite last week who contemplated suicide because he caught his girlfriend having sex with his best friend.

Some relationships are not meant to be and if you end up getting hurt as a man, it is your fault because you failed to observe certain things.

I Will Help You With 5 Warning Signs Your Babe Is Interested In Another Man:

She Doesn’t Pick Your Call


This is the easiest sign to know your girlfriend is no longer interested in you. She will always come up with excuses as to why she missed your call.

Worse, she won’t even reply your missed call. Some girls will even give their best friend the phone to answer for them.

Unfortunately, not many guys will notice a red flag in this and continue acting like a dummy!



She Agrees & Doesn’t Argue With You


When a girl no longer picks up fights with you and agrees with everything you say, it is a sign the feelings are fading away.

See, women like men that give them something to think about; the typical bad boy gang, the hot headed guy.

If she is not stressed about anything you do, brother she is bothered about someone else.



She Is Less Interested In Sex


So you and your girlfriend used to have regular s*x and suddenly she is no longer interested, well below are 3 reasons why:

A) She was never enjoying your sex life and was only faking it. Yes women are capable of doing that 100%!

B) Another guy is giving her the real deal!

C) Read A & B slowly again!



She Is Always Hiding Her Phone


While i feel guys shouldn’t always check their girlfriend’s phone for privacy reasons, but if you both say “I Love You” and actually mean, there is absolutely nothing wrong in a man checking his girlfriend’s phone.

So when she is always refusing, bros your girlfriend IS HIDING SOMETHING THAT WILL HURT YOU.



She Compares You With Other Guys


Wow this sign is obvious and for a guy it is very painful.

When your girlfriend is always talking and comparing you with other rich or taller or more handsome guys, that girl is not the woman you should have.

The right lady will never want to exchange you for anything, she loves you for who you are, the man that you are, the man inside.

A word is enough for the wise 

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24 hours after fire outbreak ravaged 100 lock-up shops in Akure, the Ondo State capital, two siblings were roasted to death by another mysterious fire that gutted their home located at Edo Lodge in the metropolis.

The siblings, two-year-old ltunu and four-year-old Damilare Omolere, were left in the care of their 11-year-old elder sister, while their parents went out. While their father, Bode, traveled out of the state, their mother, Blessing, was equally not at home on the sad day.

The eldest child equally left the toddlers alone in the house only to return later to find the house engulfed in flames. Sources said the fire may have been caused by a candle that was left on the table by their sister before she left the house.

Similarly, the President of the Association of Office Documents and Computers, Elizabeth Aina, 52, whose shop was among the 100 lock-up shops gutted by fire last week has died of heart attack four days after the incident.

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The husband, Jacob Aina who confirmed the death of the mother of his five, adding that she owned two of the shops razed by the fire.

Senegal lost 0 – 1 to Colombia in their last group game at the World Cup.

Senegal becomes the fifth and last African country to exit at the group stage.



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When getting to know someone new you don’t want to come across as intrusive or aloof. Instead remain calm with these funny get to know you questions.
Meeting new people can be nerve-racking for us all, especially for introverts or those with social anxiety. You don’t want to ask too many questions and seem intrusive, but you also want to seem interested. In order to find that perfect balance and ensure you both have a great time including some funny get to know you questions into the conversation is key.

How do you ask funny get to know you questions?

Keep things light. When you are first getting to know someone you usually want to avoid anything too deep.

If you don’t want to just blurt out a question, share a funny story that is related to the question so that there is a more natural flow to the questions to come.

Avoid anything controversial 

Being funny doesn’t mean you have to push limits. There is such a thing as family friendly comedy, so unless you somehow know this person’s sense of humor, try to avoid any funny questions about politics, religion, etc.

When you first get to know someone a distasteful joke can not only be a red flag, but also a major or even immediate turn off. So keep it clean.

20 funny get to know you questions that work like a charm

These funny questions range from embarrassing to informative and even just ways to start a fuller conversation. So pick and choose as you please and not only will your confidence improve, but whoever you’re getting to know will leave knowing just how funny you are.

Asking funny get to know you questions is the perfect way to break the ice with anyone new. So keep on reading and take some notes.

#1 What is your most embarrassing moment? This is a go-to and a classic for a reason. No one’s answer will ever be the same.

Plus, this lets you know how seriously this person takes themselves and if they can laugh at their formerly embarrassing moments.

#2 Do you have any weird talents or skills? This is always an interesting one. For example, I can lick my elbow and it is supposed to be impossible. That is something people always find super intriguing.

But expect for them to ask the same question back, so if you aren’t prepared to walk on your hands or pop your shoulder out of its socket in the middle of a restaurant you can skip this one.

#3 What was your favorite childhood TV show? This always starts a fun and nostalgic conversation. You can reminisce on childhood and discuss how your sense of humor has changed, or if you would still watch that show today.

#4 What was your favorite Halloween costume as a kid? If you have a photo of yours on your phone that is a plus. Everyone loves to hear the answer to this question.

Not everyone stuck with a witch or a ghost, so seeing what this person loved so much that they wanted to dress up as it is pretty darn interesting. Mine was a pumpkin princess… don’t ask.

#5 What was your worst fashion or style faux pas? Again you get to make fun of yourselves and each other. Talking about that mohawk you had, those frosted tips, or feathered hair is always enjoyable.

Plus, it gets you the perfect segue for a compliment… “Well, you sure did grow up nicely.”

#6 What is the most cringe-inducing pick up line you have ever heard? Personally I love these. I mean not to actually be picked up with, but hearing such unbelievably bad or corny pick up lines is hilarious.

Plus, knowing that someone actually thought it would work makes it impossible not to laugh.

#7 What products have you purchased from an infomercial? Infomercials are infamous for some really insane products. Some are meant for people who can’t make eggs, others for people who don’t own a blanket or robe, and some are just totally useless.

Finding out what this person was intrigued enough to order will let you know a lot about them. And if the product was a bust as they usually are, this funny question can lead to a good story.

#8 If you could merge animals together which two would you choose and why? This can be a little weird to ask, but if you are both animal lovers it would be so interesting to hear their answer and their explanation behind it.

#9 What is the best dad joke you know? This is a funny and lighthearted, even corny topic. Everyone loves a good dad joke. I mean, how could you not?

#10 Which animal do you think would be the funniest if it could talk? This is great. Yes, we would all love our dogs or cats to be able to talk back to us, but hearing what a whale, ostrich, or giraffe has to say would be quite interesting. 



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True love is the true definition of a perfect romance. But it’s not easy to find. Do you see these 12 signs of true love in your own relationship? By Elizabeth Arthur

True love isn’t felt in a heartbeat or in a second glance.

True love takes time to take shape.

And contrary to popular belief, love at first sight isn’t really love at all.

In fact, love at first sight is nothing but an infatuation.

It’s a strong surge of romantic and sexual emotions that overwhelm you.

Before you wonder what true love is all about and what the signs of true love really are, you need to understand that it’s very important to take things slow in a relationship if you want to ensure its success.

When you first start dating someone or fall for someone at first sight, what you experience isn’t love.

As much as you feel like you’re head over heels in love, you really aren’t.

You’re just experiencing the first stage of love, a small part in the stages of love known as the infatuation stage.

What is true love then?

True love, ironically, can’t be defined.

It’s the kind of love many of us chase after, but few truly find or realize it until it’s too late. So what is true love really?

True love is the kind of love and affection you have for someone that isn’t bound by the laws of human behavior. Human behavior is simple to understand. When someone hurts you, you get angry with them. When someone gets lucky or gets a better job, you get jealous of them. And when someone shatters your ego or humiliates you, you want your revenge. This is human behavior, because these traits are engrained within us.

But when you experience true love with someone, your primal instincts and behavior change only towards this person. True love transcends typical human behavior. It makes you a better human being towards a special someone.

When does one experience true love?

True love takes time to bloom. What you experience in the first year or so of a relationship is infatuation and sexual attraction.

As the bursts of infatuation start to fade with the first few arguments and the first few misunderstandings, that’s when love starts to enter the picture. And this is where most couples start to drift away emotionally, or even end up breaking up because of incompatibilities.

If you’re in a relationship where both of you truly understand each other and feel compatible with each other, and most importantly, love each other, chances are, you’re experiencing true love already.

Experiencing true love in your life

Is true love a once in a lifetime experience? Not really. You can experience them many times over, and with many people at the same time. You can experience true love with your spouse or your lover, your children and any other person you’re attached to in your life.

But true love too, can fade with time. For most of us, our first love is the first time we would have experienced the purest form of true love. We aren’t afraid to let this special someone into our heart and we aren’t afraid to experience heartbreak because we still don’t know what heartbreak feels like. We’re fearless in love and we love passionately with all our heart.

But when the first romance dies, the true love we had for our first partner too eventually fades, even if it takes years and several new relationships to overcome. And as we enter more relationships, most of us split into two groups. One that believes in true romantic love and the other group that convinces itself that true love doesn’t exist. The kind of relationships you’ve had in your lifetime can play a big part in your understanding of, and expectations from, true love.

And if you’re wondering whether true love and romantic love are the same, it really isn’t, even though we almost always associate true love with romantic love. True love is love in its purest form, while romantic love needs sexual attraction to stay alive.

True love can’t be forced

True love has to be experienced naturally and wholeheartedly. You can’t fake true love no matter how hard you try. If a couple fails to pass the test of compatibility in their infatuation stage, it’s pretty hard for both of them to ever experience true love.

On the other hand, if both partners can understand each other and relate to each other, they’ll start to love each other’s company and start to become inseparable. And eventually, this bond will turn into a pure and selfless love that we call true love.

The 12 signs of true love in a perfect romance

True love may be hard to define, but the signs to read true love can be clearly seen in every perfect loving relationship.

If you’re in a relationship and want to know if you’re experiencing the purest form of love, use these 12 signs of true love to find out for yourself.

#1 Give and take in love. You give to the relationship wholeheartedly, without any desire or expectations of getting something back in return from your partner to justify your actions.

#2 Pure happiness. Just watching this special person smile or laugh out loud fills you with intense happiness, even if you’re suffering or having a hard day.

#3 Pain and anger. You get terribly hurt when your lover upsets you, but their actions never anger you. You may get annoyed or frustrated now and then momentarily, but you just can’t stay mad at them for long because staying mad or giving them the silent treatment hurts you more.

#4 Sacrifices. You make sacrifices for their happiness or wellbeing, even if they may never realize it.

#5 The right effort. You go to great lengths and make an effort to improve the relationship, and play a conscious part in trying to please your partner and make them feel loved and special.

#6 You can’t ever hurt them. When you’re truly in love with someone, you can’t even imagine hurting them, emotionally or physically. Payback is a strong human instinct, but true love makes you completely selfless.

#7 You keep your promises. When you make a promise to them, you stick to your word even if this person will never find out if you broke their promise. When you experience true love, your moral conscience becomes very strong when it comes to this one special person.

#8 We. In a perfect relationship, it’s good to have your own space to grow as individuals. But at the same time, if you truly love your partner, you’d see them as a part of your life. When you think of your future, you can’t help but see them by your side.

#9 You share their burden. And you do that even if you don’t really have to. You can’t bear to see this special someone suffering. If they’re dealing with some issue, you’re always willing to offer them a helping hand even when you have your own difficulties to look into.

#10 Pride and jealousy. You beam with pride when they achieve something, even if it’s the same thing you failed at. You may get jealous of a friend who outdid you, but when you love someone, jealousy never enters the picture.

#11 Suffering. You’d be willing to suffer, just to see them happy.

#12 Their perspective. Everything you do, you keep your lover in mind and think from their perspective, be it about planning a surprise party or hanging out with your own friends after work. You don’t ever want to hurt your lover, so you always think from their point of view before making any decision that involves them in any way.


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Getting an international scholarship is a dream for many students across the globe, and as Naijaloaded is the biggest youth platform we’ve got in Nigeria’s web space, we’ve collected for every student on this website interested in knowing about international scholarships.

Even though some won’t need it, we figure many would be curious. As we can see many search for stuffs like “undergraduates scholarships in Nigeria 2018”

So follow us below.

It would be difficult to choose just one international scholarship for Nigerian students, we are going to tell you about five scholarships from different countries for undergraduates That way, you will have knowledge of all these opportunities.

Melbourne International Undergraduate Scholarships (Australia)
You can become one of the 50 lucky students to get a full or partial scholarship to study at the University of Melbourne.

The beauty of this particular scholarship is that you do not have to apply to it. It is awarded to excellent students who have been given an unconditional offer for admission. Learn more about this scholarship here.



Japanese Government Scholarships (Japan)
Get a scholarship to study Social Sciences and Humanities or Natural Sciences at a Japanese university of your choice with the help of this programme for international students. Find out more about it by following this link.



University of the People Online Tuition Free Degrees (Online)
Get a chance to study at the first American-accredited tuition-free online university. While you do not have to pay anything for tuition, you are required to pay exam fees, for which you can get a scholarship. To see a full list of available options, click here.



Scholarships from the University of Westminster (UK)
The school’s Vice-Chancellor’s Scholarships and Full International Scholarships allow students from developing countries to fully fund their education at the university (including the flight to and from the UK, living expenses and accommodation).

The deadline for these programmes is May 31, 2018. For more information on the scholarships from this university, click here.



Humber International Entrance Scholarships (Canada)
You can study at the Toronto’s Humber College with a full or partial scholarship.

You must apply before May 19, 2018 to begin studying in September 2018, or before September 28, 2018 to begin studying in January 2019. To learn more about the scholarship, click here.




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When you get married, your s*x life can change drastically. But how often do married couples have sex? Here’s how to tell if you’re having enough.
People aren’t kidding when they say marriages changes things in the bedroom. But it might not be in the way you think. The reason your sex life lags a little when you’re married is simply because you’ve been together a while. So how often do married couples have sex, anyway?

It really depends on the couple. Some people let that sex rut come into their lives without doing anything about it and only have sex once a week – if that. Others, however, decided to take action and do something about their sex lives and for that reason, they have sex a lot more.

An active and healthy sex life is crucial to a happy marriage

Without being close and intimate in the bedroom, you won’t be out of the bedroom. You’ve heard it time and time again, yet it still holds as much truth and value as it did the first time you heard it. And that’s simply because it’s super important.

Couples bond through sex. Yes, you can bond outside of the bedroom but when you have an active sex life, you’re more likely to be comfortable. And when you’re extremely comfortable with your partner, you’re far more like to communicate better. We all know how important that is for a healthy relationship. [Read: Why is sex important in a relationship?]

How often do married couples have sex?

If you’ve been wondering this question as you prepare for marriage or are feeling like your sex life is a little slow, we can help set things straight. Here’s how to know if you’re getting enough attention between the sheets.

#1 You’re happy with the amount of sex you’re getting. Are you good with the sex you’re getting so far? It’s fine to be satisfied even if you’re only having sex a couple times a week, too. The main thing to think about is if you’re happy with the frequency.

If you are, you could just be here looking for some validation after a friend made a comment. No matter what, if you’re happy with the sex and your partner is as well, you’re definitely having enough. Even if your friend brags about having more, it doesn’t matter if you’re pleased.





#2 You don’t feel the need to masturbate often. Obviously, there will be that urge sometimes and that’s perfectly normal. The problem arises if you’re masturbating frequently because you’re just not getting enough in the bedroom.

So if you don’t really feel the need to do it very often at all, then you’re probably being perfectly satisfied in bed. One way to know if you’re not getting enough is if you’re masturbating more than you’re having sex.



#3 You’d rather have sex than masturbate, anyway. This is a major sign your sex life is in perfect working order. In fact, it’s extremely healthy if you’d rather wait to have sex with your partner than masturbate when you’re feeling Hot.

This not only shows that your sex life is going well, but it also signifies your attraction and desire to be intimate with your partner rather than just do it yourself. This means your relationship is also in great shape.



#4 You’re both initiating sex just as much. If you’re always the person to initiate sex, it’s easy to feel like your significant other isn’t really into it. However, if you’re both initiating it equally, then you know the desire to be intimate with one another is mutual.

This is a huge sign you’re definitely having enough sex. Otherwise, you’d be doing all the work or they would. So long as things are equal, your sex life is just fine.





#5 You don’t have a low sex drive. Low sex drives are often a result of lack of sex, as strange as that sounds. Sex is kind of addicting in that way. The more you have it, the more you want it.

So if you’re not having enough, your sex drive will naturally be lower if you’re also not masturbating. It could feel like you haven’t wanted sex in a really long time. On the flip side, if you’re having sex but still feeling Hot often, it means you’re getting plenty.



#6 You’re not fantasizing about someone else. This can often happen when couples aren’t having enough sex. You’ll start to fantasize about getting laid and it’s usually with someone else since your spouse isn’t doing the job.

So if that’s not a problem and the only person you really think about having sex with is your significant other, then you’re probably getting enough sex. Obviously, it’s okay to fantasize about someone else every now and then. If it’s the main thing you think about, however, it’s an issue.





#7 You’re trying new things regularly. If you really want to know if your sex life is healthy, no matter how often you have sex, all you really have to do is look at what you’re doing in bed. Are you doing the same thing over and over again? Or are you trying new stuff?

If you’re actively trying new things pretty frequently, then you have a much healthier sex life than many other married couples. As long as you don’t feel bored and you’re satisfied in bed, your sex life is great.





#8 You make time for it even if you’re busy. Basically, prioritizing sex means you’re having more than enough. Even if you’re both super busy with work and life, making time to get intimate is a huge deal that shows you’re definitely taking sex seriously. And that means you’re having enough.





#9 Your non-sex life is just as great. Believe it or not, how you feel about your partner outside of the bedroom says a lot about how they pleasure you between the sheets. If you’re really happy and things are going well, you’re probably having enough sex.

When you’re not, you’ll grow annoyed and even start picking fights for no reason. Therefore, a healthy relationship outside of the bedroom is indicative of a healthy sex life, too.



#10 You talk about sex regularly. This is a lot more important than you think. Couple who never discuss sex usually don’t have enough of it or aren’t having the sex they really want. If you’re flirting a lot and talking about how great the sex was, you’re both definitely satisfied.

So long as you can openly discuss sex and how it’s going, you’ll continue to have a healthy, satisfactory sex life. The more you talk about it the better it’ll get, too.

So how often do married couples have sex? As much as they need to in order to both be happy and satisfied. That is, if they’re happy. Sex can vary from couple to couple but as long as you know when you’re having enough, you’re fine.





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It’s not every woman you came across fits to get married to, some might look good physically but bad inside while there is the other way round.

Here are the 10 types of women you shouldn’t consider marrying;

1. The Chatterbox

This is the woman who never shuts up, barely stopping to breathe. Seemingly only concerned about what is going on in her life, she always has to make a comment about everything and dominates conversations.

2. The Desperate Chick

This type of woman will seem fantastic at first, until she starts talking about your wedding location, how many kids she wants and the name of your future dog–right after the first date! When a woman advances WAY faster than normal,watch out.

She NEEDS a man so bad that she’s willing to put anybody in that slot, even the homeless guy on the corner.

3. The Overly-Critical Woman

Anything you do for this type of woman is simply not good enough. Nothing seems to work unless it is done according to her standards.

Anything that is said by anyone will be quickly taken out of context to become some sort of insult or some reason to wage war against the world.

This type of woman has plenty of emotional baggage and will make you an angry and bitter person as there will be nothing but misery with her.

4. The High Maintenance Chick

If this type of woman breaks a nail, she expects you to drop everything you’re doing to drive her to the salon immediately. Her daddy always told her she was a princess and she expects to be treated like one at all times.

She has expensive taste and expects you to shower her with only the best things and take her out to posh places on a regular basis. If you don’t have a lot of money and a penchant for luxury, don’t even bother.

5. The Clingy Girl

This woman is a nuisance who can’t go anywhere or do anything without the company of her man. She’ll adopt your interests, calls 20 times a day and fly off the handle anytime she’s not around to monitor your behavior.

This type of woman will smother any chance of you missing her by insisting that you spend every waking moment with her, refusing to let you go out with the boys or spend any significant amount of time with anyone else.

6. The Bimbo

This type of woman can’t obtain a GED but has managed to secure a PhD in the science of the bedroom.

This is an intellectually challenged woman who looks great but, in all honesty, shouldn’t open her mouth.

Her skills are unquestionably only rooted in the physical realm and unless you’re just after one-night stands, you do not want to bring a stupid girl home to meet Mom and Dad.

The majority of girls you see on the streets.

7. The Club Girl

Club girls are nothing more than fantasy women who have been practically living in bars and clubs since they hit the legal drinking age.

They have beautiful faces with full lips, big doe eyes, great legs, and all the curves you could ever ask for.

The problem in dating these women is that they love to wear clothes that show off their great assets not just to you, but to every Tom, man-hood and Harry on the street.

A woman like this may be carefree and wild; however, once you take a closer look, you’ll realize that her entire life is a party and most nights will end with her puking in your car. Or waking up hungover, in some guy’s bed in the morning.

8. The Gold Digger

The Gold-Digger will compliment you on your expensive watch, ask you what kind of car you drive, what you do for a living, where you live and so on.

Like the high maintenance woman, the Gold Digger is basically looking for a sugar daddy, she’ll size you up within the first five minutes and drop you just as quickly if your cash flow runs out and you can’t take her shopping anymore.

These types of women will just suck your wallet dry and leave you emasculated.
Fortunately, you can usually see this type coming from a mile away. She wants to write out the names of all her designer items and post it on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook.

9. The Club Girl

Club girls are nothing more than fantasy women who have been practically living in bars and clubs since they hit the legal drinking age.

They have beautiful faces with full lips, big doe eyes, great legs, and all the curves you could ever ask for.

The problem in dating these women is that they love to wear clothes that show off their great assets not just to you, but to every Tom, man-hood and Harry on the street.

A woman like this may be carefree and wild; however, once you take a closer look, you’ll realize that her entire life is a party and most nights will end with her puking in your car. Or waking up hungover, in some guy’s bed in the morning.

10. The Feminist

This type of woman can never be pleased by a man and she believes that men are the cause of all the pains and suffering of society.

It is her strong belief that women are much more intelligent than men and are capable of doing things “the right way”.

You don’t want to waste any time with this type of woman because anything that you do will always be negative to her.



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Learning how to make up with your girlfriend the right way can take some time. Navigating those rough waters is a lot easier with some help, though.
So you got in a fight. Big deal. It happens to every couple out there and it’s not the end of the world – or the relationship. It just means you have differing thoughts and opinions about something. If you don’t make an effort to figure out how to make up with your girlfriend, issues can arise.

But that’s not always as easy as it sounds. When couples argue, tension is on the rise and rational thinking doesn’t always find a place. Being able to make up after a fight and get back to a loving place can take time to learn.

Relationships are all about the give and take

This applies to almost every area of your relationship. You can’t just be with someone and expect them to always give in to your requests and opinions. In order to make it work and remain healthy, there has to be some level of give and take.

Otherwise, one person will just resent the other. The more you take, the less the other person is going to want to give you. This creates friction and enough of that, and your relationship will burn down into a pit of charred misery.

How to make up with your girlfriend and keep your relationship healthy

If you truly want a happy relationship, then your goal should be a HEALTHY relationship. And that means knowing how to make up with your girlfriend in a way that not only keeps her happy, but in a way that also provides a learning opportunity for you as a couple. Here’s how to nail that down.

#1 Take a breather. You’re no good to her if you’re heated and still angry. People do dumb things out of anger and you never want to do something you might regret simply because you’re in a fight.

So go take a break. Calm yourself down and then return to her when the two of you can actually talk things out. Being able to step away can also help you see things more clearly and help you think rationally about the situation.

#2 Discuss the argument. And when I say, “discuss,” I mean actually sit down and talk about it like adults. No yelling. No slamming doors. You have to be able to talk about it in normal tones or else you won’t be able to make up with your girlfriend. So calm down enough to get to this level and then go to her.

#3 Put your own thoughts aside while you listen. Let her explain herself. Just like you want to get your own thoughts out, so does she. She deserves the opportunity to tell you why she feels a certain way. So put your own thoughts aside as she does this so you’re not constantly putting her down even in your mind.

#4 Acknowledge your part in the argument. Two people are always at fault for one reason or another. If you always claim innocence, you’ll never be able to make up with her. Acknowledge what you did and even apologize for it in order to make up with your girlfriend.

#5 Apologize for anything harmful you did. And even what you said. There are things you may have did or said in the heat of the moment that’ll make it harder for you two to get back to a peaceful state. Apologize for the things you did wrong and just own up to them. It’ll help you get back on her good side.

#6 Try to understand where she’s coming from. It’s easy to be selfish in arguments. You have something to say and you’ll be damned if it won’t be heard. But you have to take a step back and think about things the way she’s explaining them. Understand why she feels the way she does and it’ll help you solve the issue at hand.


#7 Put yourself in her shoes. Take the previous tip a step further and actually put yourself in her shoes. You may not be able to understand what she’s talking about from the way you’re looking at things.

Think about how you’d feel if you were her. Think about how things would look if you were in her position. This is a great way to see how your actions can be completely construed given how they’re seen.

#8 Talk about what’s really bothering you. Most arguments are a result of a much larger issue. It’s like you hit a wall and can’t hold anything back anymore. So although you may have left the toilet seat up again, your girl could be upset for bigger reasons.

You have to talk about the things that are really upsetting the both of you. This might not be something you can do right away but it is beneficial to work on communication in your relationship as a whole. It’ll help you figure out how to make up with your girlfriend a lot easier.

#9 Initiate some physical contact. After feelings have simmered and you’re actually talking, go ahead and make some physical contact. Hold her hand or place your hand on the small of her back. You can even hug her. Just don’t do this while tension still runs high.

#10 Do something nice for her. Getting her flowers as a replacement for, “I’m sorry” is never a good idea. That being said, if your argument is over but there are still hurt feelings, do it. Get her something you know she’ll love as a means of showing her just how much you want to make things right.

#11 Show her you’re sorry. It’s not always enough to just say so. Your actions have to change – but so do hers. It really depends on what your arguments were about. But if you’re looking to know how to make up with your girlfriend, you may have been in the wrong here. Show her a difference and she’ll forgive you.

#12 Give her some time to simmer down. You can’t just keep running at her with apologies and stuff she doesn’t want to hear. You have to give her time to relax and get to a place where she can discuss things. If you don’t, she might just be too irritated to accept any form of apology.

The worst thing you can do is let your arguments and fights go on without trying to make them better. These tips will help you figure out how to make up with your girlfriend and actually improve your relationship.



source:https://www.newsvilla.com.ng/2018/03/29/12-ways-make-girlfriend-show-truly-care/

Relationships today are largely done over Whatsapp and chat and it’s pretty darn convenient too. However, no amount of emoticons can ever be a substitute for the real deal. Which is why, there are some things you do not want to be telling a guy over text, just to prevent complications or in some cases, because it’s the decent thing to do. Here are ten such texts that you must never send to a guy
1. “We need to talk.”
If you send these words to a man, then you might as well have sent him a text saying “It’s over”, because that’s what he is most likely to be thinking. Even if he doesn’t think that this is what you meant by it, “We need to talk” sounds urgent and official. It sounds like, whatever the topic of the conversation is going to be, it’s certainly not going to be pleasant.


2.”My period is late.”
Do NOT send the “I’m late…” text. This is not a text message conversation! Having a late period is a big deal and you do not want to have this discussion over SMS.



3.”Do you really love me?”
You really shouldn’t ever send a text like this, because this does sound clingy and desperate. Guys do like their space sometimes and they hate the thought of being pushed into saying things. If he loves you, he’ll tell you when he’s ready, and he probably won’t do it by text.


4.”It’s over.”
Breaking up with someone via a text is one of the big no-nos of texting etiquette. If he’s not expecting it, then hearing the news is going to be bad enough, without it coming in the form of a cold and blunt text.

5.”What have you been up to?”



This text is going to reek of two possible things. Either you are desperate to see him again or you don’t trust him! “How was your day?”, would be a far better way to find out what he’s been doing recently and it won’t have him thinking that you are checking up on him.



6. “I see you.”
Do.not.be.creepy! Even if you spot your crush from across the mall, do not ever send an “I see you” text! It is too weird.



7. “Are you ignoring me?”
If he’s been ignoring you, he’s not going to respond. And you’re not doing yourself a favour by asking if he’s ignoring you because he’s still not going to respond. Just let it be



8. “I love you.” (for the first time)

Don’t you dare break out the L word for the first time in a text! Love deserves a face to face conversation.



9. Screenshots of past conversations
Sending him a screenshot of a past conversation may seem like a good idea to prove your point at that time. But if they’ve already been resolved, then you’re only raking up unnecessary issues and adding fuel to the fire.

10. Sarcastic messages
Sarcasm isn’t easily understood even when the recipient is sitting in front of you. To expect a guy to understand it over text where he can’t make out if you are joking or serious is a little over the top. It’s a situation ripe for misunderstanding.





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source:https://www.newsvilla.com.ng/2018/02/24/10-things-never-say-guy-text/

Following the sad death of Dbanj’s son, the Nigerian police in Lagos state has reacted to the sad news.




The Nigeria Police on Monday reacted to the sad death of Dbanj’s son, Daniel who reportedly died by drowning.

It said the Afrobeats star, Oladapo Olabanji, popularly known as D’banj is expected to make a formal report on the circumstances that led to the death of his son.



Mr Edgal Imohimi, the Lagos State Commissioner of Police, said that the family should report the incident to the police after the period of mourning.





Here is the police statement:

PRESS RELEASE: THE SUDDEN DEATH OF LITTLE DANIEL

The Commissioner of Police, Lagos State, CP Edgal Imohimi, on behalf of officers and men of Lagos State Police Command, wishes to commiserate with the family of Mr and Mrs Oladapo Daniel Oyebanjo a.k.a D’BANJ on the death of their one year old son, Daniel(Jnr) Oyebanjo whose sad event took place yesterday 24/06/2018, at the Ikoyi-Lagos residence of the family.

The CP wants the family to know that at this period of their grief, the entire Command shares in their pain.

Although a delegation from the Command, led by the Divisional Police Officer, Ikoyi Division, CSP Mustapha N’Abba, who were at the Ikoyi home of the Oyebanjos on a condolence visit did not meet anyone at home, it is expected that when the mourning period is over, the family will formally report the circumstances that led to the unfortunate death of little Daniel to the police. May his soul rest in peace. Amen.

CSP Chike Oti
Police Public Relations Officer Lagos
Lagos State Police Command.
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Source;https://www.newsvilla.com.ng/2018/06/26/dbanj-and-wife-to-explain-sons-death-police/

The United States has reacted to the recent spate of killings in Plateau state. PoliticsNGR has been furnished with a statement from the US Consulate in Nigeria.


They condemned the attack and revealed that they join President Buhari to condole with the victims of the attack.

The letter read:-

The United States condemns in the strongest possible terms the killing of civilians and destruction of property in Nigeria’s Middle Belt region over the weekend.

We are concerned by the recent increase in armed violence against civilians and call on all political and community leaders to lend their voices to peace and to work together to find lasting solutions to these rural conflicts.




We join President Buhari and others in sending our deepest condolences to the affected communities, and in the desire to see the perpetrators brought to justice and to prevent further violence.

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Source: https://www.newsvilla.com.ng/2018/06/26/breaking-news-us-government-reacts-to-plateau-killings-reveals-what-they-will-do-with-buhari/