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10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by EntertainingYou: 3:30pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
We’ve all heard “oh, there are plenty of fish in the sea” when it comes to dating. But, when was the last time you walked into someone’s house to find hundreds of tiny minnows proudly hung along their mantle? No. You want the catch. You want the one you couldn’t possibly let go. The one you’d do anything to reel in. So, how do you know you’ve found a keeper? Here are 10 signs to look out for. 1. She doesn’t look for attention. The women who don’t look for attention, are precisely the women we should be giving our attention to. Girls who are always looking for compliments or to be noticed, are often insecure and looking to overcompensate. What’s more – is that they’re likely more concerned about their own happiness, than they would be about yours. Women who are content with their own self confidence and don’t look elsewhere for validation, shine from within and will add to your life. The last thing you need is to be a placeholder for a girl who is just seeking something anyone else can give her. This doesn’t provide any sort of foundation for a solid relationship. 2. She can hold a conversation. Believe me – I know how important physical attraction is to a relationship. But, believe me when I say that I also know that it’s not the most important thing, when you’re talking long term. A woman who truly keeps your attention, makes you excited to see her, or just talk to her – every day – is one worth holding onto. An intelligent, well-spoken, witty, funny woman with killer looks, granted is hard to come by – but, who are you to settle for less than you deserve? Nobody, that’s who. 3. She is comfortable in any situation. Let’s face it, when you’re dating somebody, you’re not alone with them all the time. It’s important to be able to live a full life with them by your side. This means family events, outings with friends, double dates, movie nights on the couch…Not to mention, the activities brought forth by similar interests – which you both should have! I’ve always used the rule of thumb that if you truly like a girl and feel comfortable bringing her to any social event and leaving her alone if you need to go talk to someone or grab a drink – then she gets major bonus points. 4. She doesn’t start petty arguments. In a healthy relationship, two people should be able to work out their differences via mature conversation and discussion. This does not mean bringing up nonsensical past issues or dwelling on small events that they’ve been emotionally harboring, waiting for the right time to unleash. A mature woman won’t throw the past in your face or use it as ammunition against you, especially if she has already forgiven you for your mistakes. 5. She encourages you. Even the best accomplishments in life seem to lose their luster when there is nobody to share them with. Your significant other should be one of, if not THE first, people you want to tell exciting news to. Does your girl get excited about things in your life, even if she doesn’t have personal interest in them? Does she stand behind you, and encourage you to chase your goals and dreams? If so, you have found a teammate worth holding onto. 6. She’s your sunshine on a gloomy day (and every day).Do you wake up every morning excited to talk to her? Or to kiss her on the forehead if you’re there together? Does seeing her name pop up on your phone during a rough day make you forget about all of your worries? Does being with her take you into your own world where nothing else matters? If you said yes to any of the above, hold onto her, man. 7. She puts in effort for you. I am all about giving in relationships. Personally, I love to give and do things for my girlfriend. Seeing her happy makes me happy – and I believe if two people both feel that way in a relationship, it will be a success. Her putting in effort doesn’t have to be much. It can be something as simple as keeping her hair or nails done to look good for you. It’s no secret that sometimes the romance wears off of longer term relationships, but you shouldn’t let it – and neither should she. If a woman continues to do what she knows attracted you in the first place, even after she got you a long time ago, it shows she cares about keeping you around. 8. You can laugh together. Seriously, how big is this one? Simple, but so important. Life can get you down. Work, bills, obligations – your relationship shouldn’t be something on that list. Your girlfriend should also be your best friend who you can do anything with, and have fun doing it. If they drag you down, it’s time for a change. 9. You can cry together. Not everything is sunshine and rainbows. Times get tough, things get hard, and we all need a support system. Is she there for you when you need her? Are you there for her? If your support is not reciprocated by her, then you need to find someone who understands the importance of your feelings, too. 10. You have similar views for the future. I know man, the future is way off. It’s a scary place, but it’s still there. If you’re in a solid, committed relationship, it’s important to understand where both of you see yourselves, and the relationship – going. Does she want a ring within a year? A baby? Dude…are you ready for that? If you’re not – what makes you think that she will forget all about it and that your relationship will coast through time without it being an issue? Compromise is key. The future of your life cannot be dictated by someone else, but it can be affected by them – and working together to find what makes you both happy in the long run, is key. Also Read " 9 Good Reasons Why You Should Feel Happy Right Now" Read more here:https://www.newsvilla.com.ng/2018/07/07/9-good-reasons-feel-happy-right-now/ Source:https://www.newsvilla.com.ng 47 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by pocohantas(f): 3:33pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
Which keeper? De Gea, Akinfeev abi Courtois? ![]() 141 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by Nobody: 3:52pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
pocohantas:De Gea should never be a a wife material.. Someone that would fall for 6 men from 7 advances is that one worth keeping as a wife? 187 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by soberdrunk(m): 10:48pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
How do we know she is a Striker? ![]() 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by Dupalmer: 10:48pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
Op you try but the truth is that some ladies are specialists in pretentious display. A lady can do all these and still be a gory wh0re. you have not seen a PhD holder in Pretex. Fear this people 48 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by Bossontop(m): 10:48pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
GutsOverFear:Dman bro na my man u keeper u cast lyk dis??......chaiii!!! U ryt tho d guy no try at all 15 Likes
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Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by IMASTEX: 10:48pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
With all these qualities she wouldn't only be a keeper but a super woman also. Nice tips. Meanwhile to those men who cum quick even before madam could position properly. And to those men who can't reload on time for a second round. Or you can't have a hard attention. Stop enduring the shame. Do something before madam give you a RED CARD https://www.nairaland.com/4076075/staying-strong-hard-long-lasting |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by MANNABBQGRILLS: 10:48pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
Our Bae(s) are good keepers....... They keep the home and office really good..... While some bae(s) for some other guys are keepers too.......they keep the 'balls' out and safe! ![]() ![]() ![]() Your choice!! ![]() 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by Nobody: 10:49pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
Mtcheewwwwwwwww... You better come and list 10ways to keep your head high in this jagajaga country... Keeper ko 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
Dupalmer: 1 Like |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by ZombieTAMER: 10:51pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
GutsOverFear: You are right though But I think courtios will make a great keeper considering what I have seen lately 1 Like |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by kiddoiLL(m): 10:51pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
Country hard country hard country hard na im I dey hear upandan, country hard country hard nd yet na how to identify type if woman u dey talk bout 21 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by ZombieTAMER: 10:51pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
yettymuse: Am guessing you're a hot striker |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by pawshjai(f): 10:51pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
yettymuse:Lmao...true ooo..we need dis list more..Aye mi oo 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by GrammarNazi1(m): 10:52pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
ZombieTAMER:...I'm... 9 Likes |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by ZombieTAMER: 10:53pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
post=69177308: No keeper will let you near am I tell u |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:53pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
Too much relationship advice. Do this. Do that. Scratch here. Don't scratch there. Be a riff raff. Don't be a riff raff. Bleep him. Don't Bleep him. Be a saint. Don't be a saint. I'm just so tired. I'm frustrated right now. Can't we go our normal lives without having to follow this set of rules? Can't we? I'm not in the mood for this. Cc: Lalasticlala 11 Likes |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by ZombieTAMER: 10:53pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
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Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by milemimi93(m): 10:54pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
EntertainingYou: Woman a keeper? Women don't keep anything other than secrets.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by kiddoiLL(m): 10:55pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:I swear it's annoying and tiring, everybody now gives relationship advice and tips.. I just taya fr dz country 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by Nobody: 10:56pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
![]() Keeper as in ? Buffon ? or Vincent Enyama ? 1 Like |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by Emperormartin(m): 10:57pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
GutsOverFear:Bahdass...lol... 1 Like |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by Katier00(f): 10:58pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
pocohantas:keeper of the underworld |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by MANNABBQGRILLS: 10:58pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
You are still being ignored this guy. Na as for you o. Na by force Mr Zombiewhatever?! 85% of your posts are about quoting us upandan!!! Well, keep ttth........ 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by Rityonyi(f): 10:59pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
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Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by GrammarNazi1(m): 10:59pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:...Too much relationship advice... ...this set... |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by Nobody: 10:59pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
Nice post. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by Olalan(m): 10:59pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
Nice points OP. |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by LazyNairalander(m): 11:00pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
OP you know she's a keeper if her surname is DE GEA. check my SIGNATURE 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by Switup: 11:01pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
life's good.... eat, drink, whistle ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 10 Ways To Know Your Woman Is A Keeper by Nobody: 11:03pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
pocohantas:the one that you are ![]() |
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