₦airaland Forum

Ritzybeauty:
So out of all the reasonable things you can say or think of, this is what you came up with.. Smh.. Hope this your disgusting thoughts about women leads you to where you ought to be... Your mentality is really depressing and degrading for a human being

They're saying their observation madam, getting annoyed doesn't solve or change their perspective.
If you think otherwise, meet them with a cogent point to disclaim that idea.

Besides, stretch mark(s) isn't a sign of "used" or whatever He meant. It's got nothing to do with bleaching and Co.

Beedude:
Hmmmm.
Sunday Igboho should have continued as an Agbero boss in Modakeke before causing trouble and running to Ibadan to become a political dog. By now he would have reached the level of Mc Oluomo instead of sitting in Benin prison

You wey reach oluomo level what have you achieved in life?
Where are your properties?
You've got a Gwagon?
Your child emerged as best student in a foreign land?
You have any importance to your tribe?

Werey

BuyAndSellStuff:
These guys are faking their deaths & disappearing with people's money.

A man with billions of dollars can change his identity with surgery, relocate to a remote part of the world and live in absolute peace forever.

Very sharp guy.

Haaa, o fonu

StacyO:
Please read through.

I'm actually in my early twenties, not that I'm too old for marriage anyway. One of my top clients who I'm trying to polish out a business with, went ahead to arrange a mini impromptu by fire by force relationship for me and his brother.

Like bethrothing someone to someone else without their full consent.

It was a men's arrangement cause, I was surprised how they all came to that agreement.

I tried breaking up with him the first time and he told his brothers about it. Guilt almost finished me cause, I was blamed for the excuse I brought up. His uncle who is in charge of the contract brought us back together again.

The main issue now is that I want to break up with the guy once and for all but, I don't want to hurt him and I still have to save the contract at hand.

The guy is very much attached to me already and I won't fake it, I'm equally beginning to feel butterflies in my stomach.

I want to go about it in a very simple way. So that at the end, we all go our separate ways happy.

Any idea is highly welcomed. Serious and mature minds please.

Thank you.


Modified:: I told him my own part of the story and my reasons of not wanting to be in a relationship with him.
I'm not ready for any relationship now and I dont like him. Most importantly, I dont want to chop his money while deceiving him.

He is still not accepting reality but, I'm sure with time, he'll move on.

PS: His uncle isn't aware of this yet and I begged him not to tell anyone.

Find a lady you'll pay to seduce him, while they're in the act, walk in and catch them, that way He won't be able to call His brother to help out.

[quote author=MeghaneMorgane post=98998847]Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. ]

Thanks.[/don't know what it would cost you to show that you love him too, playing hard to get is the beginning of your marital problem cos you'll condition your mind to think that you're always to be chased. Love is risk, being alive is riskier, people are prospering and moving on with life you're here looking for a way to bottle your feelings.

Girl9999:
I created this account to hide my identity. I'm in a very emotional condition at the moment. I've been crying since morning. I've not left my house, not even for church. I've lost the will to live, all because of what happened yesterday evening.

I've been dating this guy for two months. I thought he was a great guy. He was always nice to me, smart and hard-working. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 in University and it was to someone that just wanted to have sex with me. He lied about loving me. All he wanted was sex and when he had his way he abandoned me and dated another girl in my department. Since then I've had a fear of relationships, most importantly of sex. I vowed to only have sex with someone I was going to marry; someone I was certain loved me.

When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was the one. We vibed well and we were both in the same field of work. Everything seemed to click. I opened up to him about my experience and my decision to have sex only when I was ready. He agreed and said he was going to respect my wishes.

Yesterday he visited me at my apartment. This wasn't the first time he was visiting me. We paid each other visits all the time. This time he brought a bottle of wine with him. I prepared food, we both eat and he served us some wine. The last thing I remember is taking few sips and then everything else is blurry.

Next thing I am waking up by 8am this morning with a severe headache, cramped legs and a sore feeling around my vagina. There was something that looked like dried semen on my left thigh and some around my breast. I could also perceive the scent of his perfume on my body. He raped me. The man that claimed to love me raped me. I haven't spoken to anyone since morning, all I've been doing is crying. My phone has been on silent all day.

I want to report him to the police but first I want to look at his face and ask why he would do this to me. I already planned on having sex with him soon. Why couldn't he wait? I want to involve my parents and his parents as well but I don't want this news to spread and take a hit on my reputation. I'm confused about what to do.

Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.

I'm deeply sorry about your predicament. Know fully well that this is not your fault as those vile comments are insinuating. You are a virtuous lady and you've just had a life changing experience. Reporting to an agency that can take up your case is the best way to go about this. They will provide the support both financially and morally and see to it that the guy is prosecuted.

Regarding the suicidal thoughts, I understand perfectly how you feel right now. Getting immersed in work and tasks that wont allow your mind to dwell on this is the perfect way to go about. You can't stay alone at this period. Please find places you can go.

Ciscogod:
Why do I feel if this guy is from East , he would have been arrested ?

Well, United we should all stand against the enemy of our people

Because your governors are traitors, kissing Buhari's ass every fucking second.

rontolo:
This theft thrives only because Nigerians are docile and mumu. So glad I don’t live in that shithole! Would have ran these thieves to the ground!!

As if you weren't there at a point, where you are are there not thieves there? Running mouth like a village mechanical water tap.

Badadvisor:
Borno is the best state to serve in Nigeria

Till Hisbab officers enter your room and fish you out as a fornicator.