Where in Asaba are you? I want to see the doors

Where in asa

Honestly Asaba is fast becoming the hub of Yahoo boys....

Maryam1234:
Don't commit your resources without thorough investigation,if possible advertise your Market down and have willing buyer's on ground before purchasing.Good luck in your quest for financial Independence.I normally tease people to list how many Billionaires that are Civil Servants,non.

Thanks Maryam...You mind sharing connections of successful farmers with me?

Mickeyj:
I would advice you go into agro commodity trading since your capital is huge. If you have a company or business registered. You can get contract of supplying goods to companies. You can source for this products in the north and then move them down to the companies.

Sent you a DM....want to learn about this....Yea I have already registered an Agro company with the CAC... Thanks

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Location?

Exoticfarmer:
There are a few factors to be considered. The more lucrative an agricultural business is, the greater the skill required.
In a nutshell make your choice based on these:
» Your Knowlege and experience; This will reduce the risk of monetary loss.
» Availability & cost of raw-materials.
» Demand
It may be safer to start from a small scale if you are unsure of your experience.

Okay... thanks for this input... I'm someone who's ever ready to learn...are you into any agro biz? Would you mind teaching me?

Maryam1234:
Agro-business is profitable indeed, it's the new gold-mine for those into it.I pray you get good advice needed for this new venture Sir, Nairalanders are wonderful people.I know nothing about Fishery hence, I would have pend my signature.

Thanks

Good morning guys, Please I need a sincere advice...I want to venture into agriculture. From the look of things, Agro business seems quite profitable in Southern Nigeria and I want to go into it...I am thinking of either Poultry or fish farming. Don't know which is more profitable... I'll also appreciate more agro business suggestions as a friend was telling me to go into snail farming.

Note;
I can give 2 hours daily to this business, I have acquired a 100*50 ft Land, Location;South-South, Budget= 10M... Please I don't want scammers in this thread... Thanks ...

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Mariangeles:


It is not as easy as it seems.
Just wait a bit more.

Okay o...

GloriousGbola:
It's the Buhariflation. If you can afford it go and buy two years worth of diapers right now.

Molfix is the most economical last time I checked. You may want to do same with baby food but check the expiration dates first.

There is nothing you can do about your baby's sleep cycle. Prepare for a year or more of this.

You can also consider cbeebies type baby videos down the line.

To this day teletubbies are great and safe for holding babies attention.

It is safer for the baby to sleep in a crib than in the bed with you and madam.

Zero your mind to no knacking for the next 9 to 12 months.

2 years diapers ke? God pass Buhari and his inflation...Lol

Mariangeles:


Little comrade sef know why.

He could get very slippery, so leave it to experienced. Abeg o!

Really? But I have watched the bath process so many times and I think it's something I can do...

cococandy:
Trusted family is highly Underrated.

Someone you can have peace of mind when you leave your kids with. It’s definitely something to treasure.

OP should be taking them shopping, money, spa treatment

baby124:
You can also get close family Nanny recommendations. This is a nanny that will come and go home. Especially when your mother is there because husband mothers, most of the time their shakara is too much. Like their son is baby Jesus . So your mum will watch the nanny.

My mum is quite far away and she's a civil servant...she never retire...

baby124:

When you have kids you realize the importance of TRUSTED family members! .

OP by now you should be going to interview Crèches to see which is most suitable for your son. Also consider bringing in RESPONSIBLE and TRUSTED family members. Since her mom is going, you can bring your mom to help out. You try your best to rotate to the other once one gets tired and runs away. You try to settle them small for their work because it’s not easy taking care of these tiny humans. Even you now will appreciate their Crèche carers.

Thanks very much for this...But with the stories I'm hearing about crèche, I'm afraid it will be difficult for me to allow my son there... We're still looking at other options...Wifey had a previous side hustle...She might resign and concentrate on it since it gives her more time...we are still looking at some other options though...

cococandy:

I can’t imagine that it would be easy.
If you guys get a live-in nanny and god forbid something goes wrong, everyone will blame her for bringing someone to come and live with her.
But if she decides not to go back to work, they’ll also say she’s a lazy leech.
You could consider crèche for infants so that at the end of the work day you or her can go pick the baby up.

I’ll tell you what worked for us. At my job I only have to work 3 days to count as full time with all benefits. So I chose to work weekends and my husband worked weekdays. So he took care of the kids during the weekend and I took care of them during the week. When we needed time off, we tried to make it happen at the same time so that we can have a few weeks off work at the same time. Otherwise we wouldn’t have made it.

See if it’s possible for you to come to an arrangement like that. If not, maybe a different family member from your side or hers can come over. Good luck.

Wow... thanks cococandy...

TypicallyBrunt:


E no easy fa
Congratulations too.
Hope you have learnt how to prepare the formula and change pampers?

Yes o...I can change diaper and feed him...I want to learn how to bath him but Comrade no gree...

cococandy:
Is your wife planning to go to work after the usual 3 months maternity leave? You also have to factor that into the care of the child. Because your wife will work all day and come back to stay awake all night again. It can drive the weak insane.
Also your MIL is a human too, when that stage comes, don’t leave it all to her. The three of you should band together and make it work. Na so life be.

Congratulations

MIL that will go in a month's time? I really don't know how we are going to cope when her Mat leave is over... and she doesn't want a live in nanny...

GboyegaD:


Learn to sleep after waking up. Since your MIL is around, let the baby sleep in her room provided your wife have extracted enough breast milk for the night and that way, you are not exposed to the noise.

Thanks

TypicallyBrunt:
You still have it easier OP
At least you started with one, in our case we're learning on the job with 2 (six weeks old today).
To say I'm stressed is an understatement.
Don't even want to imagine how I'll survive these next few months living like this like I'm literally taking it day by day.

Lol...God is your strength and muscle o... Congratulations

Karleb:
Aside from their cute faces and soft bodies, little children are problem.

From crying all night, they will become so active that they might turn you into mad person and they can't even help themselves with the littlest task not even feeding.

Na so you go dey shout command up and down. Abeg children get wahala especially boys.

Hathor5:


I'm happy for you.

Fatigue is something all parents complain about at the beginning but you and wifey can and should make it easier for yourselves by taking turns. It's important you do because it's not something that will get better within a week or two. It takes months till babies sleep for more than three hours without waking up. And you really need to be fit so that you do not fall asleep while driving. Talk to your wife and ask her if she would be ok with the solution I suggested here or maybe you find a different and better solution. Either way, I hope you guys will manage the situation and fatigue in a way that you can enjoy parenthood.

Thanks

[quote author=Nigga44 post=111124640] Congrats

It won't be easy man. When I had my first baby, I didn't have a sound sleep for atleast the next 4 months. Reason being that, we were all alone (me and wife) and I always had to chip in the little I could whenever the baby was crying cos of hunger/stomach ache

It's not gonna be easy for you......but that's the joy of fatherhood. Even up till now, with two kids, I still wake up like 3 times before dawn everyday just to check up on them.[/quote

Wow... That's great

Hathor5:
It takes a while for newborn babies to adjust to the day and night rhythm but even if you're lucky and your baby adjusts as early as around 6 weeks, you or your wife will still need to feed the baby every 2-3 hours. There is nothing you can do about it. You and the mother need to support each other now more than ever. Maybe you can sleep in a different room every few days and on free days have your wife take naps so that you two compensate somehow. Fatigue is part of the deal but there are different degrees to it. You don't have to feel like a sleepwalking zombie all the time.

Lol... thank you... it's not easy though...the stress of Lagos alone is enough headache for me...I drive about an hour to work and another one hour back coupled with the crazy traffic only to come back and not sleep well...But I'm proud to be a father nonetheless...I love my boy so much and I'll always be there for him and wifey

Mercychen:
Don't send them to anywhere. Those peaple you're sending them to are not woods. They also deserve a peaceful sleep.

If you take them there, how will know the joy of fatherhood? You need to experience fatherhood so you can appreciate your wife ( and women in general) better.

Like your MIL rightly said, it's only for a little time. That stage will soon pass as the baby gets older and everything will get back to normal. For now, learn to endure and manage the situation. It's your baby

Congratulations..

Thanks

Whois:
I will repeat the same thing someone above suggested, sleep in a different room since your MIL is there to assist your wife and new born and please insist on exclusive breastfeeding, she MUST give breast milk maximum of 3hrs intervals, and tell her to have eyes contact with the baby so the baby can quickly become sharp to the new environment so the cries will reduce. Check the chat I uploaded about babies from 0 to 12 months. The knowledge I learnt from youtube as a New dad like you is what I summarized to you. We'll survive.

Thanks so much for the chat... it's very insightful...

Thanks to everyone I really appreciate your inputs...God bless you all...@jennyclay, mariangeles, NoToPile, baby124, Gift96, zubimete, ibechris

Ifyjos:
Its normal ooo jux be calming down.

Okay Ma'am...

Esthered:


I think you should sleep in the settee in the parlour. You would be far from the cries to an extent but you must ensure that that you check up on them when you wake up to use the restroom or find it difficult to fall asleep after waking up and lending a helping hand where necessary.
My son still wakes up at night to feed but it used to be like 3 times before daybreak till 7 weeks but it has reduced to once or twice. Just be patient.

Thank you very much...