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Gajagojo:
Why will I talk about my mother and brother?
Is your head correct?

I said it already. You come from a dysfunctional home and expect every home to be like yours.

You're not worth my time, so get off!
I'll ignore you henceforth. The mistake I made was to dignify someone like you with a mention followed by responses. Your insults upon insults show you have a fundamental problem.

Gajagojo:
You are talking nonsense.
Based on a on sided story

At my age I know there are two sides to every story
I not one to jump on an emotional band wagon because I want to be liked

In the Bible Peter told Jesus he will never deny
Jesus told he he will deny three times before morning
That is how most humans are
Hypocrites talking nonsense so they will look like good people

Talk is cheap

Reality is even a mother will have to stop breastfeeding one day it cannot last for ever
A brother does not love more than a mother

Talk about your brother and mother please.

I'm an elderly man too. Not a kid. We don't do that in my family.

Gajagojo:
You cannot judge me
Calling my position callous is stupid

You can be insulting me for all I care. It shows the type of family you actually came out from.

The position is callous because ordinary human feelings would not allow you watch a human being near you go hungry while you feed. And when that individual is your blood brother, it's wickedness.

I'll rather send him back to the village than feed myself while I watch him starve.

Gajagojo:
I asked questions not once but repeatedly
Scroll up

You are the one assuming with poor comprehension of English

Asking questions and taking such callous positions is counterproductive. If you've simply asked questions without taking those positions I wouldn't mention you.

I mentioned you on the basis of your position and not on the basis of your questions.

Gajagojo:
No I am Not thinking anything

My position is I don't know

Whilst yours is that you know

There was a conversation and the brother should have told him before he came


We don't have that information so we ask not assume to the left or the right

No, that's not the case.

If you don't know, you'll have asked questions rather than make the points you made.

This is 2023. With the proliferation of phones with calling and chatting capabilities, the probably of him landing suddenly in his brothers house without prior notice is 1 out of 99. Infact, all the family members would be aware he was traveling to meet his brother in the city. The mum and father including himself would have acquainted the said elder brother for some time before he finally took off. Except the family is dysfunctional, this s the norm. It should be a family thing. This is how it is in every healthy family. That's why the OP has such expectations. Otherwise, he wouldn't have expected such from his brother.

The way you replied made me think that you saw things from that angle because that's how your family is. I may be wrong actually.

Gajagojo:
No I am not assuming. I do not have facts and so so ask questions
You need to open a dictionary
You expressed an opinion about what we don't know
You said he should have told him before he left the village
That is an assumption. We don't know how they started living together


That is what they test in reading and comprehension in JAMB and WAEC

Balderdash!

You failed woefully if this were to be an examination.

You respond according to what you find in the narrative and not according to what you think.

You're thinking that he 'probably' landed suddenly, and that's your lame excuse for your position.

It's absolutely unacceptable to arrive at such conclusions. All things being equal, we hold the view that the OP arrived in his brothers house following due process except he states otherwise. If the elder brother had informed him earlier that he wouldn't be responsible for his feeding, the OP wouldn't have seen any need to complain.

Gajagojo:
How do you know the circumstances of his departure from village?
Did OP tell us whether he just got on a bus and arrived one day with his bag


You are making an irrational argument based on assumptions

Can't you see you're assuming too? Did he actually tell you he landed in his brothers house suddenly? I think you're saying this as a lame excuse to win an argument rather than being theoretically correct.

It is rational to judge on the basis of 'all things being equal' except the narrator states otherwise.

Gajagojo:
You are preaching
Talk is very cheap
Reality is very different for most Nigerians in the trenches
I hate hypocrisy
Pretending as if it is not this Nigeria we all know

Why did he allow him leave the village you ask? Where did you read that the brother invited him?

He is sharing his house with him
That is not callous

He should be grateful for that
What if he does not accommodate him?
Is that unheard of?

It's simple.

If you know you can't feed him, tel him before he left the village. Don't starve him. It's wrong. Let him know that he has to prepare for his own feeding. That's my point. Abandoning him to his fate without prior notice is wickedness. That's my point.

erniok:
Don't mind that guy. He might be in the western world where it is all man for himself or might come from a family that holds similar notion. Where I come from, it is one for all, all for one. No man must be left behind.

I love the bolded. I don't think being in a foreign country influences such viewpoints. My thought is that he comes from a dysfunctional family and thinks such settings as his are normal.

Gajagojo:
You are talking your own

You did what you did I because you can
If you don't have the means so because you are first born you should become an armed robber?

Nigeria is very hard that is why most girls are prostitutes in their father's homes
When there is money there is no problem but we are seeing people sell their own children in Nigeria because of poverty

It is like you don't understand how had things are for some people.

When things are hard that person you are helping will become a witch,you will see them chasing you in your dream and some pastors will back it up . Parents will call their own children witch
What have we not seen as a result of poverty

No matter how hard things may be. As long as a brother has little, he must share.

This brother of his isn't lazy. He's learning a trade and still planning admissions. That's the stage the guy is right now in his life. His elder brother is supposed to offer support. We're all in a family for support. A family is useless without it.

That elder brother in this picture is callous. If you're not ready to support your brother why did you allow him to leave the village to stay with you? Did he actually tell you he wasn't feeding in the village? Why starve your younger brother? That's very callous of him. He didn't even sit the guy down to tell him what he's capable of contributing and what he wouldn't be contributing. Just pure wickedness of watching him starve without any brotherly kindness. I can't even to do that to a total stranger.

MS247:
This kind of entitlement mentality is very very wrong

You actually don't know what it means to be an elder brother. That's an irresponsible elder brother up there. I'm a firstborn, and i know what I've done for my younger siblings in this world. It's not a matter of entitlement mentality. Blood is thicker than water. In a healthy family, the strong supports the weak until they're all strong. Well, it all depends on the type of family you came out from.

[quote author=MindHacker9009 post=125969884][/quote]I never expected more from you. I already studied you and knew your intellectual capacity. You didn't dissapoiint. Kudos.

[quote author=MindHacker9009 post=125968843][/quote]Can you see what you've done to yourself?

Ride on. We'll soon know who's the big fool between you and I.

I can't believe that a fully grown human being would respond by copy pasting all the jargons you posted above. What concerns chatgpt about court cases? Chai!!

[quote author=MindHacker9009 post=125967184][/quote]Chatgpt is telling you true history. You don't need the Holy Spirit to learn the truth about historical events. Do you?

Isn't it foolish of you to hold an opinion based on a YouTube video you watched which was created by a nonentity who doesn't know what he was saying? Are the historical archives of chatgpt not more accurate than that of an ignorant YouTuber?

Keep deceiving yourself. You've chosen your path and we can see where it's leading.

Silencing the naysayers.