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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by esegiftbebor: 2:14pm On Apr 26, 2019
GoodFaith:

You can't completely prevent risk
What we do is to manage risk --Your word "options are they more economical"
Smoke alarm----change batteries
fire extinguisher---- it must be check yearly--know how to use it
kitchen steel door
pop or decking-- cost of decking don't make sense but work
Make sure people don't left stuff on the burner that is not being used
I had a case tenant had oil on one burner and was going to turn on other burner
Guess what happened?
she mistakenly turn on the burner with the oil YES
Thank God she had renter insurance and my insurance
I made good
Thanks
Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by esegiftbebor: 2:12pm On Apr 26, 2019
diordaves:


Please roof your house. Decking a kitchen will not prevent fire from spreading if you don't have a fire door leading to the rest of the house. So to me kitchen decking can be done without.

Please note, that during fire incidents, it's not the fire perse that kills, it's the smoke which consumes available oxygen and the heat. So do POP and install smoke/fire alarm close to the kitchen door.

Don't do PVC. The difference in cost is not much.

Thank you for the advice
Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by esegiftbebor: 8:24am On Apr 26, 2019
bixton:


I'm sure you understand the principle behind the sprinkler system.
What I'm proposing does not need electricity for it to function or be operational.
Everything needed is within our environment.
You only need a Mechanical Engineer or plumber or anyone who is creative to figure it out.
Knowledge is applied not copy and paste .
Well, I'm not an engineer...
What should be done in this case....? I want to roof the house and another cost for decking is been raised! If I roof the bungalow without the kitchen decking, is it safe? Is kitchen decking a must to prevent fire? d other options are they more economical? As My original budget didn't carry decking...
Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by esegiftbebor: 8:12am On Apr 26, 2019
GoodFaith:

Agreed my brother
One of my word common sense
other return on investment
other environment electricity 24/7
Thank you very much for your response
Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by esegiftbebor: 6:04am On Apr 25, 2019
Hello,
Please, in building a bungalow, is it necessary to deck the kitchen with concrete and iron rods before roofing? If it is, was d benefits? Because this is additional cost for me and my mum and d engineer are insisting on it. Please I need advice to save cost
Education / Re: 2018/2019 Uniben PostGraduate Admission Discussions thread by esegiftbebor: 6:25pm On Feb 13, 2019
Ok, I HV done my online clearance now.

How much is tuition and when will lecture begin?

My Dept is Public Administration (PT)
Education / Re: 2018/2019 Uniben PostGraduate Admission Discussions thread by esegiftbebor: 12:28pm On Jan 31, 2019
Please add me to the whatsapp group 08173773921
Education / Re: 2018/2019 Uniben PostGraduate Admission Discussions thread by esegiftbebor: 12:21pm On Jan 31, 2019
Good day, please I applied for Masters in public Administration. I don't know if I have been offered admission.
How do I confirm my admission status?
I have been trying hard to check to no avail...
I need help
Nairaland / General / New Marriage About Crumbling by esegiftbebor: 12:52pm On Aug 29, 2018
Hello everyone,
Did is a very depressing story happening now, pls ur contributions would or might be taken seriously..... Probably it might help. Please contribute wisely, God bless u as u give ur candit advice.

A man of about age 36 met a lady of about 31 years @a certain public location, d man ask d lady out, dey exchange contact. @dia first outing, d man told d lady his story of how his supposed ex-wife packed all of his belongings upto spoons thrice after dia dispute over flimsy marital issues. At d 1st & 2nd instance d man would beg her n return her back, they will HV to buy new sets of electronics and households bx d she would HV sold them or dash dem out. Finally, d supposed ex wife said d marriage is not of God and DAT she cannot stay in d ax with d man, she packed out everything again, left dia abode community and located a distance place to reside (she even worked her transfer from via abode community). Although d man does not have a Job but he earns a very meagre sum from assisting d supposed ex-wife Sister's husband (like 25k monthly), while d supposed ex wife is a government school teacher. D both of dem are graduates and dey HV lived like DAT together for 4years until last year February wen she packed out for d 3rd time.

The man was fed up, he went to ask d family of d supposed ex wife for divorce n return of bride's price, d family gave him no consolation but chase him out.

In July last year he met d new lady told her d story and ask to marry her, d lady accepted. They told d lady's parent d issues. Questions were asked, but d man never thought his ex-wife would bring up issues again, so he constantly reassure his new in-laws n proposed bride DAT dere will be no problems.

They got married in December last year and dey were happy, trying to restructure dia lives n activate plans for dia future when d ex-wife brought a law suit against d man and his new wife, making claims of up to 7million in march (exactly 3months after dia marriage). As it is d man does not HV d financial enablement to make case with her, d ex wife has also gone ahead to sue d pastors DAT conducted d marriage and d lady's father, for allowing d marriage and she is making claims.

Now d new wife's family wants her to leave d man's ax and come back home. They are saying d man shd go settle with his ex wife dia divorce matters. D family of d new wife are insisting dia daughter leaves d ax now. But d man does not have father & mother to speak for him (extended families too of d man are not sincerely concern about him)

My question is...... What should the new wife do?

Already the new wife parents are making moves to withdraw the issue from court but they are insisting dia daughter leaves d man, claiming DAT d man is not a true xtain or he shd cm to dia church. Whereas, d lady knows DAT d man is a xtain but d problems of life HV made him backslide a little.
Note dat, d man does not smoke, drink or womanize...... He has bad temper dou & he just don't HV a Job yet but d guy dey hustle small small.

Please make ur contributions......
D lady (new wife) is really confuse
Family / Re: Marriage Breakup by esegiftbebor: 12:39pm On Aug 29, 2018
This really curious
She can't even say it out to any one
Please your contributions are valued, help save someone from depression and help her make the right decision.
Right now she is in a Fix Dilemma.... Her family / the man/ doing d right thing.

Once again ur contributions are valued
Thanks
Family / Re: Marriage Breakup by esegiftbebor: 12:33pm On Aug 29, 2018
CMaritalAffairs:
We understand that she made a huge mistake (DAT is ignorance for us) and she should be blamed and even the rest of her family members, the man & his family inclusive, even the church and the pastors involved. But leaving the man after 7months of just wedded, don't u think is embarrassing? She does not HV a personal issue with the man, if she leaves and d man handle d case alone of dia joint mistake, will that be right? She is age 31, is it possible and easy for her to fix or get another relationship leading to marriage soon?
We understand Nigerian families- how long can dey abode her b4 dey will start attacking her emotionally? What about society/her work place, will they tolerate such? Bx she cannot be telling everybody d reason for leaving her just married home?
Main while, her parents are making effort to appease d ex wife and settle d issue out of court, if she desert her new home, won't it affect her in the future even in this marriage?
Family / Marriage Breakup by esegiftbebor: 11:06am On Aug 29, 2018
Hello everyone,
Did is a very depressing story happening now, pls ur contributions would or might be taken seriously..... Probably it might help. Please contribute wisely, God bless u as u give ur candit advice.

A man of about age 36 met a lady of about 31 years @a certain public location, d man ask d lady out, dey exchange contact. @dia first outing, d man told d lady his story of how his supposed ex-wife packed all of his belongings upto spoons thrice after dia dispute over flimsy marital issues. At d 1st & 2nd instance d man would beg her n return her back, they will HV to buy new sets of electronics and households bx d she would HV sold them or dash dem out. Finally, d supposed ex wife said d marriage is not of God and DAT she cannot stay in d ax with d man, she packed out everything again, left dia abode community and located a distance place to reside (she even worked her transfer from via abode community). Although d man does not have a Job but he earns a very meagre sum from assisting d supposed ex-wife Sister's husband (like 25k monthly), while d supposed ex wife is a government school teacher. D both of dem are graduates and dey HV lived like DAT together for 4years until last year February wen she packed out for d 3rd time.

The man was fed up, he went to ask d family of d supposed ex wife for divorce n return of bride's price, d family gave him no consolation but chase him out.

In July last year he met d new lady told her d story and ask to marry her, d lady accepted. They told d lady's parent d issues. Questions were asked, but d man never thought his ex-wife would bring up issues again, so he constantly reassure his new in-laws n proposed bride DAT dere will be no problems.

They got married in December last year and dey were happy, trying to restructure dia lives n activate plans for dia future when d ex-wife brought a law suit against d man and his new wife, making claims of up to 7million in march (exactly 3months after dia marriage). As it is d man does not HV d financial enablement to make case with her, d ex wife has also gone ahead to sue d pastors DAT conducted d marriage and d lady's father, for allowing d marriage and she is making claims.

Now d new wife's family wants her to leave d man's ax and come back home. They are saying d man shd go settle with his ex wife dia divorce matters. D family of d new wife are insisting dia daughter leaves d ax now. But d man does not have father & mother to speak for him (extended families too of d man are not sincerely concern about him)

My question is...... What should the new wife do?

Already the new wife parents are making moves to withdraw the issue from court but they are insisting dia daughter leaves d man, claiming DAT d man is not a true xtain or he shd cm to dia church. Whereas, d lady knows DAT d man is a xtain but d problems of life HV made him backslide a little.
Note dat, d man does not smoke, drink or womanize...... He has bad temper dou & he just don't HV a Job yet but d guy dey hustle small small.

Please make ur contributions......
D lady (new wife) is really confuse
Health / Re: Please, Which Fertility Drug Is Suitable For Me? by esegiftbebor: 12:15pm On May 31, 2018
Thank u
Health / Re: Please, Which Fertility Drug Is Suitable For Me? by esegiftbebor: 7:26pm On May 17, 2018
Tnk u
Health / Re: Please, Which Fertility Drug Is Suitable For Me? by esegiftbebor: 9:07am On May 17, 2018
Aiit, tnx all
Health / Please, Which Fertility Drug Is Suitable For Me? by esegiftbebor: 2:36pm On May 16, 2018
Please, which fertility drug is suitable for me? I'm newly married about 4months (married as a virgin dou) I was expecting to conceive almost immediately. I just want something to increase my chances, I'm getting worried!

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