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Mistyice:
Meeting a lady for the first time and telling her you love her or want to marry her without even getting to know her first. Why?


This is very common among naija guys,ladies can you relate to this: you will be walking on your own jejely and one bloke from no where will stop you and start saying rubbish,telling you he loves you and asking you to be his girlfriend or even marry him. He doesnt know if you're married,in a relationship.....he doesnt even know your second name!



I've heard of love at first sight,but i also believe in sense,so if you meet a lady and like her shouldnt the appropriate thing be getting to know her first?

If you're a guy and you're guilty of this,please stop oh.

Actually, if I were a lady and this happened to me I would be very happy, It would help me differentiate from the Spineless men out there and the Real Men,

One thing I know about these men who walk up to a lady, is that they don't even think the girl will accept them, if she does it's a miracle to them... They may be those shy ones trying to boost confidence or those ones looking for a vagina to suck....

Still, they shouldn't be a problem as the more they expose their unworthy traits the easier it is for a lady to differentiate........

Now to the Men

If a lady walks up to you while you are walking on the road and says "I love you, please can you take me to your house and Bleep me"

First you will think she is psycho, if she acts serious then you will think she might be a cheap prostitute... In anyways you do not have high regard of her just because of those words she just blurted out

That is how ladies/women see it when you walk up to her and tell her you love her or want to marry her without even getting to know her first..

Simple

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One things you should know about breakups...

Now I don't want you to ever buy that laptop because you are thinking she will come back to you or trying to use it as a way to win her back (Because some girls are very crafty and she is trying to use the means possible to get a laptop, she may not care about you anymore and the only reason she is calling is just to clear her financial problem and be among those big girls carrying laptops about)...

Now I want you to buy her a laptop, because you finances allow it, buy it because you want to (and not because you want to please her) buy it because you can................

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There are so many ways to see love and the most childish view comes for some ladies...

Where they see love as a fun mix of romance, sex, fun and respect..... They minus responsibility and truly based trust, punctuality and transparency... Then when they are getting over 25 or when they get their heart broken too many times.... They fall back to (responsibility and truly based trust, punctuality and transparency)........

Love is not so complicated... But ladies with their childish views make it so

a runny nose might be an allergic reaction sometimes...

Firstly Since you are saying that you get it mostly when you lie down to sleep, it may be that your bed (or room) is so dusty or it smells in a way that triggers this reaction....

Secondly It may be due to cold, (you don't have to be shivering first before you know you have a cold, as it may be mild) meaning you don't have to buy drugs You just read this here how to clear your nose...
http://www.newsphases.com/2016/02/blocked-nose-how-to-clear-it-up-without.html

If that doesn't work then, aboniki or robb will suffice, remember what I said firstly, (because that may be the reason why those drugs did not work)

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