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Ladies you were just standing on the road and this guy walks up to you.... Cute guy. nice muscles, nice smile, nice clothes and cologne (perfume)...

and this conversation happens

Guy: Hey I dont mean to interrupt
Girl: Oh
Guy: I just think you are beautiful
Girl: Thank you
Guy: Whats you name…
Girl: Gloria
Guy: I was thinking maybe I could take you out for dinner..
Girl: Oh
Guy: If you have a man… I don’t mean to intrude…
Girl: …………………

would you say yes to him (if you don't have a man)

cc: mynd44

Never cheated and she never has

cruzita:
forever

Haha.. You have not met a real man that's why you said forever

Sex is a very important aspect of relationships.... for ladies and men... But as they say Men just need a place... So ladies how many dates before you allow him to have sex with you...

And I noticed that no lady uses the 90 days no sex rule that a dating coach invented



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Zceesneh:
the one that impressed u took alcohol before the football match, i don't forget to take gulder before banging a girl

I pity for those girls that have been banged by a drunk

Shinkava.... What you should be sharing is what position you used and what skills you used...

Most of the guys replying have never had what you had and are trying to make themselves feel alright by making you feel bad...

You didn't share your girlfriend's name or address or your address which means you respect privacy...

But remember HIV

firstking01:
This exactly why most girls dnt reply your pms, and some have vowed never to have anything to do with any nairaland guy cos of things like this...@least i have a relationship with some em girls here offline, i can guarantee you that some of em are good and well mannered...my bae last night on phone was bitter with me, when i try to know why she's been sounding all strict and unwanting she said i'd do kiss and tell, i told her it's a lie, we were @the verge of breaking up before i calm her down...you'd hardly see a girl come here to write an expository essay on her sexcapades with her boyfriend, guys pls stop this illicit act...i 've created a topic like this before, guys learn to respect you girlfriend's privacy...girls hate this act...they are no prostitutes...cherish her and give her the impression that you love her and not jusf the sex shd gives you.

You are taking it too far... Sharing his experience and tell us how he felt is not to be seen that he is insulting his gf in any way... firstking01 I believe you should go and solve your relationship problems and leave the joy this guy is feeling here... It is not easy to make a lady cum through penetrative sex and this guy just did it and he feels like a boss for his woman....

So understand his feelings before you share you sad stories ...

Thank you

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I was going through Naijaloaded today and there was a post asking guys how they woo a lady....

The comments from guys was pitiful and I came to understand what our ladies were suffering in the hands of their wooers.....

Now seriously... Wooing a lady is like cooking indomie.... You don't need pick up lines or funny jokes intact... Just be yourself ( I don't mean staring at her breasts kind of yourself)....

Have these three things you got to have in mind... whenever approaching her..

Your appearance
Body Language
Voice...

Appearance which is neat, smell nice and all crap

Body Langauge which how you are looking at her... how you are walking...

Voice: Normally bass voice is kinda cool... it shows masculinity and all that... But if you have a less bass voice.. You should learn to tone it.. so that it sound cools

Now here is an example of a conversation.... After you add those three things above plus this conversation You have her phone number

Note: Don't expect it to work every time

Me: Hey I dont mean to interrupt
She: Oh
Me: I just think you are beautiful
She: Thank you
Me: Whats you name…
She: Gloria
Me: I was thinking maybe I could take you out for dinner..
She: Oh
Me: If you have a man… I don’t mean to intrude…
She: …………………

What do you think She will reply me..

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It totally depends on the relationship the man and his wife has at the moment and where they are seeing themselves in ten years to come....

The man should understand that he is not going to be a stay at home dad forever as he is developing his own business. (Now that makes the money from the wife useful... As he can use it as capital) ...

Before the man jumps into conclusion on the advise of his friends... He should first understand his wife... Is she a cultured and respectful woman.... Is she easily moved by money, anger or other emotions...v

And then the man should also understand himself.... Would he be able to live knowing that his wife is the breadwinner... Would his ego/pride allow him to survive on that....

Once all these questions are answered by the man himself..... I believe this problem can be solved...

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It totally depends on the relationship the man and his wife has at the moment and where they are seeing themselves in ten years to come....

The man should understand that he is not going to be a stay at home dad forever as he is developing his own business. (Now that makes the money from the wife useful... As he can use it as capital) ...

Before the man jumps into conclusion on the advise of his friends... He should first understand his wife... Is she a cultured and respectful woman.... Is she easily moved by money, anger or other emotions...v

And then the man should also understand himself.... Would he be able to live knowing that his wife is the breadwinner... Would his ego/pride allow him to survive on that....

Once all these questions are answered by the man himself..... I believe this problem can be solved...

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Hiroto:
so u just want to read comments?

You mean if she is bored and says hi.... Its simple...

I reply her and go straight into the conversation if I am interested....

If not.... I say How are you and look south

Hiroto:
Conversation

Thanks

whats a convo

Wow........ seems that you haven't learned any lesson from him....

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There have been cases in which some people killed themselves or did some form of abominable act, due to the fact that their love was not returned, or they were betrayed, this has shown us how emotions can lead us to do tragic things if not controlled or suppressed.

Unlike early morning erections which are hardly controllable, sexual Urges are infact controllable as addictive, men are known to be wild and sexually uncontrollable, while women are known to be reserved (which may be due to culture, or social morals, as in fact women desire sex just as women do).

The key to controlling your sexual urge or teaching someone to control his/her sexual urge lies in 6 process we are going to discuss today...

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This article is based on research and personal experience of the writer, as humans become more social and more free to express themselves, it's advisable to keep somethings in check so we won't go over the line.

1. Acceptance
The first step to control your sexual urges is to accept that there is no shame in feeling this way. Most societal norms deem these urges as moral depravity and force us to bury these feelings, instead of accepting it as a part of life. We are born to believe that sex is sin and sexual urges are an abomination (disgusting). These urges are nothing but physical needs which only seek fulfillment, in some way or the other. Instinctually, man cannot abort sexual thoughts. With this acceptance and a strong desire to curb it, you can keep your feelings in control.

2. Triggers

The next step to controlling your sexual feelings is to know what sets them off. Admittedly, man is surrounded by sexual innuendoes and signs so obvious, that they are almost a part of our daily lives. When one is sexually satisfied, these signs tend to pass by unnoticed, but in the face of sexual starvation, these signs end up titillating more than appeasing. Identifying these triggers will help keep the mind alert enough to steer clear of them.

3. Will Power

When it is considered that with enough will power, one can move a mountain, controlling sexual urges on the same plane should ideally be anyone’s cup of tea. While it is impossible to obliterate sexual thoughts completely, curbing the intensity to a bare minimum will help you get through the day without distractions. A mental reminder, can serve as ample inspiration to help you power through the day without being tempted.

4. Transmutation

Translating your sexual urges to creative outputs will not only take your mind off them, but will help you make something new. At the end of the day, an urge is nothing but a feeling that enforces a lack of the desired object. Thus it is easy to manipulate with an equally engaging creative thought. Read a book, write poetry, paint or make pots. The end product of your misplaced creativity will provide equal satisfaction.

5. Exercise

Focusing your energy on something that consumes most of it and also helps you feel good, is a certain winner. Wake up early and go for a jog, or make swimming thrice a week a habit. You can also hit the gym every morning before work. Whatever be the means, allow your body to get the much-required exercise to keep your mind more in control.

6. Seek Help

If nothing seems to get your mind off sex, this might be the start of a potential problem. If you are in a relationship, try to talk to your partner about these unmet needs. Maybe with regular intercourse, these urges will successfully be siphoned off. If not, then consult your doctor for psychological counselling to find a way out of these extensive urges. Obsessive thinking can be relieved with medication and therapy.

Now I want you to understand that controlling your sexual desires doesn't mean you should delete sex from your life, good sex life is a very basic human need. Understanding and putting this to use will keep those unwanted erections in check...

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Old Habits die hard.... She must be is just getting used to life without real sex (that's if she has not been cheating).....
Now have a nice conversation with her. and the question you should ask her is if she finds it hard controlling her sexual urges...

Ask this question with love and like someone willing to help
Now I what you should do is do research with her on how to control sexual urges (you can read it here http://www.newsphases.com/2016/07/can-i-control-my-sexual-urges.html)....

Now first I want you to understand what the problem with her really is..... If it is that she is trying to stay off sex... then what you should do is what I said.... (if you choose to)...

Don't see it as eww (she decided to deprive you of sex and she chose to enjoy herself)......
Be a lover and a friend....

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What about people that don''t believe in God... Or those who are church goers....

This post is awesome.... But if you are trying to reach every nook and cranny of people in Nigeria .... Then you should broaden it..

Compared to what goes on in their lives that is a simple lie.....

One thing you Nigerian men and women fail to do is to check the health status of this so called boyfriend or girlfriend before going to bed with him/her....

Some of you are afraid that she will say you don't trust her and give you the sermon of trust in a relationship, while the ladies are afraid the man will say you are accusing him and insulting his pride

One thing you should understand is that if you die or contract any form of anomaly from him/her... That so called lover will go for the next vagina or penis around...

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marshborn:
Nairalanders please i need advice, all my relationships don't last because I can't get the initial "like" I had for the person to turn into love (in other words I find it hard to get emotionally attached to anyone).
My last relationship lasted just 2 months before we parted ways, because I always find an excuse to run away from the relationships. Not because I planned to use and dump her, but because I wasn't feeling any emotional attachment to her anymore.

I see my friends having long and productive relationship and it hurts me that I can't do the same, I even wonder how I am going to get married one day.
Please advice me, I think I have a problem.

*NB: I am in my mid- twenties.

Its simply... You are not dating the right person and you are a good looking guy from what I checked in your profile

Now I think you are one of those guys who walk up to a beautiful lady and woo her and start dating her... You walk up to her because her smile is beautiful, her face is gorgeous, her ass, breasts, clothes, scent and all is just magnificent....

Now I don't expect this relationship to last, because it is not based on inward appearance.... Now Imagine you meeting a girl and she is so hardworking, she has a face that lightens up people whenever she is around... Her presence brings a moment of happiness.. Her voice is angelic... Her words promote positivity and achievement.... Her self esteem/confidence is admirable

First you will wonder who is she? Your curiosity makes you to go in to learn more... The more you learn the more interested you become... when you are with her you will get the feeling of that happiness people feel around her....

With time you are in love (with the right person) and then you are on you way to woo her ....

So Mr. Good Looks Do you think you can fall in Love?

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PeachyP:
You've said it all

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