JayIlych:

I HATE to derail my own thread, but
If you like karate I'll teach you mathematics..
Monika lobolobo.. .


I don't know what you mean by talented, but that up there is total balderdash

missvera:
Being a woman doesn't stop me from saying the truth sir. It doesn't mean I'm hating. Binta knows they were not into any serious relationship and still allowed him to have unprotected sex with her. Why didn't she ask for condom? Why did she has to open her legs for him when she knows she could get pregnant to a celebrity that was only after the moment they were on bed? Even if she got carried away, there are emergency contraceptive pills.
If it were to be just a random guy she had unprotected sex with knowing fully that they were not dating, would she have allowed herself to get pregnant?
Koko oro mi ni wipe: Ladies should stop being baby mamas either to celebrities or non celebrities . They will only end up suffering the children from having the total father's love they deserve.

Came:
Na true she talk ooooo. No matter wat your child is your child, and needs care, if you refuse to show your child some love, you are not worthy to celebrate Father's Day ooooo.

JayIlych:


Nah. I justfeel tired of Nigerian songs, from the lyrically dead Tekno to this olosho Yemi. T first i loved Johnny and Na Gode. But she seems to be getting desperate

2016EXAMrunz:
Lol timaya jusst want to Bleep ni oh

2016EXAMrunz:
Lol timaya jusst want to Bleep ni oh

2016EXAMrunz:
Lol timaya jusst want to Bleep ni oh

nbright:
which picture?

nbright:
Apc and lais

buchibrand:
If you have good virtues, well cultured and you are God fearing you will always attract the right man. Let any man that comes your way know who you really are...

The master key to your question is:

DENY HIM OF SEX.

If a man comes to you for sex (which you may not know initially) accept him, be open to him, respect him, treat him as if he's gonna be your husband tomorrow, BUT don't allow him into your "honey pot"....

For you to keep him for sometime so that he will be able to see other good sides of you, don't say "I can't offer you sex" just act as if you're gonna offer it to him soon.
A lady used it on me and it worked...

http://www.successbookz.biz/2016/05/how-to-turn-sexseeker-to-true-lover.html

marklele:
Try to be like a sister to him and show him more care and he will trully fall in love with you and cant do without you.

cr80vity:
don't even try to impress him...if u force or manipulate him to love you, you might not last together

humilitypays:
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The only sure way to do that is by showing him u have other good things to offer him aside sex.

Sex is never the problem...ladies make mistake thinking because a guy had sex with them was the major reason the guy left them, but that's not true. If it's true, plenty happily married ladies today will be single.

Now, what to do is this: when u meet a guy, don't be carried away by his material possession. For instance, if he has a car, don't be too freaky about his car...do like you aren't seeing his car.

And most importantly, don't make it a priority to accept hello and hi from guys that own a car only. Stop choosing the guy to date based on if he has a car or not...most guys that own a car in Nigeria have a serious relationship or marriage with a girl they met while they were trekking, so they see every other girl that's not that their old time girlfriend as a typical Nigerian girl desperate to reap where she didn't sow....and guys hate it...so they just use their car and money to entice girls for temporary fun.

Some of these guys can endure for too long and even play along with your hard-to-get until they lay you on their bed and off they go...so playing hard to get won't solve the problem.

Just don't be greedy, don't be selfish, don't have high expectation from guys...expect less or nothing from a guy....just go for a guy u want his company.

Don't look down on guys who don't come to u with car or some flashy way....don't underrate that James in your area, that John u met in the bus or on the way...just because he is trekking or in the bus with u...he might be the one while u are waiting for the right guy to come in a Range Rover...whereas the guys driving Range Rover already have a lover and sees u as easy girl to get and sleep with temporary.

Lastly, always ask yourself: what do I have to give to this guy I want to date aside sex? If u don't have any other good thing to offer to a guy except sex, then no guy will stay with u for long....

If u meet a guy, stop recommending he take u to shoprite, chicken republic, etc....instead, try and make him not to spend or even reject his spending. once a guy starts to spend on u on first meeting, he won't like u much....so stop accepting money from any guy u meet and wanna date....stop portraying that u are poor, broke and needy...instead let him know u wanna go places on your own...make him know u are career or business-minded not just by talking but by doing.

Bring up viable business ideas when with him, talk about what u are doing to make money on your own, get a better job....make him see u as an asset and not as a liability.

Once a guy sees u as a liability, he will start to dislike you, and once he starts feeling that u are a liability always in need of money, help and favor, he will start planning his exit and once he have sex with u, he will flee.

So sex is not the problem...but what do u have to offer him after sex Many men are married to ladies they had sex with even on their first date...so playing hard to get and prolonging sex till eternity won't make most reasonable guys value u or keep u...it will even chase most reasonable men of our time away. be a value, an asset and not a liability, that's the solution‎

gevans:
I am sure that op is already liking one of them, that is y she is asking this question. Let me share my story with u, there is one girl in my school I love so much, I love her because of one particular quality that she posses, though she is very beautiful but not because of her Beauty or sex, I respect her n always affirm my love for her, she found out that I was serious n..... So, op just b d kind of woman every man will like to settle down with n u will find d right one. Using trick may fail u, let them go since u already know their mission except they prove otherwise.

DeeTus:
How could him fall in love with you when all you want from him is money?

chigoizie7:



Nice one bros,


But, if na tòto carry me come ur side, bros if I must look elsewhere, I must 1st of all do that thing wey carry me come in d 1st place.

torqque7:


Works like magic where?lol you'll be surprised..look, too much hard to get makes him device ways of paying you back for the stress you put him through..

As for waiting for six months before getting intimate?you are just a joker..I'll only consider it if I am certain you are a Virgin,but if you are not then its either it happens or you get kicked out,simple as that,any guy that agrees to your terms I can assure you,he is getting his grove on with some other girl.

My advice choose guys wisely and carefully, date responsible men not boys who sag and party every night,and don't date young guys especially those you know don't have plans of settling down in at most 3years.

Basically you MUST be decent to a level because you cannot be trying to get a reasonable responsible correct man when you have been known as the towns cum bucket. He will only chop his share of the national cake in between your legs. Be wise.

Festivalofholi:
U can prove to him dat u have other value/worth besides ur pusssy. Let him know he has other things he can benefit frm u beside sex. Also try to show him ur an independent lady and u dont need his money.

modestdude:
Have you thought about those positive things men say ladies rarely and hardly do for their guys in relationship?

if you like a guy who merely wants to sleep with you, show him that you want this friendship not to be founded on sex...go out of your way to offer him a friendly gift and he will rewire his brain and think with it, rather than with his D*ick. Afterward keep denying him until he starts respecting your wish

tosyne2much:
There's no general way to know every guy only wants to have sex... You're only able to know if a guy shows too much desperation for it

mineANDurs:
Play hard to get and wait like 6months b4 getting intimate with him(if u want to), it works like magic.
They will disagree but its true.

ShayGirl:
Being aware of ur values as a lady will never make u wanna force anyone to love u..Just be yourself bae and d right one who wouldn't toy around with ur feelings will come knocking.

falconey:
it is our world and game, no sex with us no goodies we have to offer including love.