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Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Omonigeriarere: 11:19am On May 19, 2016
post=45736532:
Hi everyone. So, in this age that almost every guy that comes to you is thinking of how to sleep with you, my question is how can you make or how can a guy who just wants to sleep with you, fall in love with you? Please mature responses only. Thank you

How I wish we can meet online or offline: reading/listening to suggestions here will confuse you more. Introvert like me can give you manly perception/suggestions/recommendations without a fear of rejection from you in person.

Seun, my friend during NYSC was in the same shoe but now in London with her spouse after following my suggestions.

Please take note, I am not a Pastor nor a trained Counselor, but one of my inner traits is ability to view things objectively, offer constructive solutions after hearing from party/parties involved.
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Nobody: 11:28am On May 19, 2016
Babe just contact me n I wii shw u hw...dassal
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by chivic(m): 11:28am On May 19, 2016
post=45739522:
Hmm, I hope it isn't the same with every guy




It's not my dear,there are a lot of reasonable and sensible guys out there that are more interested in your person,character and values and are decipline enough to have self Control. Ladies should know that having sex with a man does not increase your worth but can only reduce it.Forget the after-sex- word he tells you.
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by HARDDON: 11:53am On May 19, 2016
post=45736532:
Hi everyone. So, in this age that almost every guy that comes to you is thinking of how to sleep with you, my question is how can you make or how can a guy who just wants to sleep with you, fall in love with you? Please mature responses only. Thank you


Question should rather be; how can You make a lady who wants to use u as an ATM, fa so deeply in Love?

Well , answer is on my signature ! Click the link

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Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by MarieSucre(f): 12:35pm On May 19, 2016
xtervaganza:
a girl once made me wait


When I finally had it, I kpanshed her without mercy and moved on
Wow. You're really not a nice person.
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by cr80vity(m): 1:12pm On May 19, 2016
don't even try to impress him...if u force or manipulate him to love you, you might not last together
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by estellinas(f): 1:28pm On May 19, 2016
humilitypays:

The only sure way to do that is by showing him u have other good things to offer him aside sex.

Sex is never the problem...ladies make mistake thinking because a guy had sex with them was the major reason the guy left them, but that's not true. If it's true, plenty happily married ladies today will be single.

Now, what to do is this: when u meet a guy, don't be carried away by his material possession. For instance, if he has a car, don't be too freaky about his car...do like you aren't seeing his car.

And most importantly, don't make it a priority to accept hello and hi from guys that own a car only. Stop choosing the guy to date based on if he has a car or not...most guys that own a car in Nigeria have a serious relationship or marriage with a girl they met while they were trekking, so they see every other girl that's not that their old time girlfriend as a typical Nigerian girl desperate to reap where she didn't sow....and guys hate it...so they just use their car and money to entice girls for temporary fun.

Some of these guys can endure for too long and even play along with your hard-to-get until they lay you on their bed and off they go...so playing hard to get won't solve the problem.

Just don't be greedy, don't be selfish, don't have high expectation from guys...expect less or nothing from a guy....just go for a guy u want his company.

Don't look down on guys who don't come to u with car or some flashy way....don't underrate that James in your area, that John u met in the bus or on the way...just because he is trekking or in the bus with u...he might be the one while u are waiting for the right guy to come in a Range Rover...whereas the guys driving Range Rover already have a lover and sees u as easy girl to get and sleep with temporary.

Lastly, always ask yourself: what do I have to give to this guy I want to date aside sex? If u don't have any other good thing to offer to a guy except sex, then no guy will stay with u for long....

If u meet a guy, stop recommending he take u to shoprite, chicken republic, etc....instead, try and make him not to spend or even reject his spending. once a guy starts to spend on u on first meeting, he won't like u much....so stop accepting money from any guy u meet and wanna date....stop portraying that u are poor, broke and needy...instead let him know u wanna go places on your own...make him know u are career or business-minded not just by talking but by doing.

Bring up viable business ideas when with him, talk about what u are doing to make money on your own, get a better job....make him see u as an asset and not as a liability.

Once a guy sees u as a liability, he will start to dislike you, and once he starts feeling that u are a liability always in need of money, help and favor, he will start planning his exit and once he have sex with u, he will flee.

So sex is not the problem...but what do u have to offer him after sex Many men are married to ladies they had sex with even on their first date...so playing hard to get and prolonging sex till eternity won't make most reasonable guys value u or keep u...it will even chase most reasonable men of our time away. be a value, an asset and not a liability, that's the solution‎
Wow, thank you so much, I find your advice very useful

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Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by estellinas(f): 1:31pm On May 19, 2016
cr80vity:
don't even try to impress him...if u force or manipulate him to love you, you might not last together
Yeah, true
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by estellinas(f): 1:33pm On May 19, 2016
Wow, thank you all for your powerful advices. It means Nigerians are not bad afterall... GOD Bless you
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by xtervaganza(m): 1:38pm On May 19, 2016
MarieSucre:


Wow. You're really not a nice person.
she isn't either .



We both played a game.


Ni hard feelings

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Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by robosky02(m): 1:46pm On May 19, 2016
where are the crush(es) lol cheesy
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by rosieluv(f): 1:54pm On May 19, 2016
post=45739667:
Thank you sister, that's why I don't even accept to go to any of their houses. Imagine they meet you today, next tomorrow, they're saying, 'come to my house '. One of them even insulted me for refusing to come.
its nt advisable to evn visit a guy u jxt met in his hauz
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by paule: 2:02pm On May 19, 2016
torqque7:


You are welcome, decency pays,yes some guys like crazy girls but very few guys,and if you watch their married life closely, you'll realise one of them is truly not happy,and they start cheating.

But the real men that know what they want will value a decent woman and cherish her even more than himself. Being loose and randy as a lady just gets you noticed and wanted for a steamy rump session and that's all, n[b]o man wants to introduce his wife to his friends and then find out they all have had sex with her in the past[/b]..tufiakwa

Guy, you make much sense, so true. I agree with you! Decency sure pays on the long run & no man wants to introduce his wife to his friends and then find out they all have had sex with her in the past!

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Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by EOOJ(m): 3:17pm On May 19, 2016
post=45739667:
Thank you sister, that's why I don't even accept to go to any of their houses. Imagine they meet you today, next tomorrow, they're saying, 'come to my house '. One of them even insulted me for refusing to come.
dats y i dont boda inviting ladies2 my house cos virtualy most ladies hav same mentality
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by DharmyYinks: 4:11pm On May 19, 2016
SweetieConstie:
DharmyYinks! I see you viewing...grin

Gotcha! cheesy
Lolz.. where have u been??
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by tosinhtml: 4:35pm On May 19, 2016
mineANDurs:
Play hard to get and wait like 6months b4 getting intimate with him(if u want to), it works like magic.
They will disagree but its true.


Modified...
Stop calling for my head guys.
It is a well known "fact" that u guys tag any girl u find it easy to sleep with "a hoe".
U guys wants easy sex but disregard d girl after it.

Serious minded men will love and wive u if u "do not" give them easy sex.


Not to attack you on this, but being hard to get doesn't make you more Valuable to people like me.

You know why?

Answer: Your value to mr A , isn't the same value to mr B. It may take mr A one week to bleep you and you may still be playing hard to get for mr B, just because mr B is not your type or isn't Cute enough or simply doesn't posses the features you admire.

There is nothing like hard to get, when you see a guy you like, He can bleep you in 1 week and there is nothing you can do, because he has everything you want in a guy.

So the solution is , Don't chase after Ladies or Guys that are out of your league, you can't make them love you.
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Adex097: 4:36pm On May 19, 2016
Evalily:
Nice one

Same applies to ladies too,

Real Ladies don't ever fall in love except you want your emotions burnt and ruined forever

We only find someone who make us happy wink cheesy cool
wink

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Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by bqlekan(m): 8:21pm On May 19, 2016
damola44:

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Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by damola44(m): 8:25pm On May 19, 2016
bqlekan:


Lol,, thanks man... That night thing aint my thing... God bless
No p
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by MarieSucre(f): 8:38pm On May 19, 2016
xtervaganza:
she isn't either .



We both played a game.


Ni hard feelings

You played a game. You weren't forced to hang around her. Her body is not the only body in town. The only other conclusion is that you're a very vindictive person.
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by divineuk(m): 9:09pm On May 19, 2016
You can never make him love you if he don't, so wait for your Mr Right.
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by marklele(m): 9:28pm On May 19, 2016
Try to be like a sister to him and show him more care and he will trully fall in love with you and cant do without you.
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by buchibrand(m): 9:35pm On May 19, 2016
If you have good virtues, well cultured and you are God fearing you will always attract the right man. Let any man that comes your way know who you really are...

The master key to your question is:

Deny him of Sex.

If a man comes to you for sex (which you may not know initially) accept him, be open to him, respect him, treat him as if he's gonna be your husband tomorrow, BUT don't allow him into your "honey pot"....

For you to keep him for sometime so that he will be able to see other good sides of you, don't say "I can't offer you sex" just act as if you're gonna offer it to him soon.
A lady used it on me and it worked...

http://www.successbookz.biz/2016/05/how-to-turn-sexseeker-to-true-lover.html
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by xtervaganza(m): 11:00pm On May 19, 2016
MarieSucre:


You played a game. You weren't forced to hang around her. Her body is not the only body in town. The only other conclusion is that you're a very vindictive person.
here we go again with the usual Victim attitude.



Life itself is a game. From your job, office, family, partner and everything. It depends on how well you play your games.



Anyways, I don't think you'll understand me( I'm a vindictive person you know grin )
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by buchibrand(m): 7:29am On May 20, 2016
If you have good virtues, well cultured and you are God fearing you will always attract the right man. Let any man that comes your way know who you really are...

The master key to your question is:

DENY HIM OF SEX.

If a man comes to you for sex (which you may not know initially) accept him, be open to him, respect him, treat him as if he's gonna be your husband tomorrow, BUT don't allow him into your "honey pot"....

For you to keep him for sometime so that he will be able to see other good sides of you, don't say "I can't offer you sex" just act as if you're gonna offer it to him soon.
A lady used it on me and it worked...

http://www.successbookz.biz/2016/05/how-to-turn-sexseeker-to-true-lover.html
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by estellinas(f): 9:14am On May 20, 2016
marklele:
Try to be like a sister to him and show him more care and he will trully fall in love with you and cant do without you.
Okay I will, thank you so much
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by estellinas(f): 9:22am On May 20, 2016
buchibrand:
If you have good virtues, well cultured and you are God fearing you will always attract the right man. Let any man that comes your way know who you really are...

The master key to your question is:

DENY HIM OF SEX.

If a man comes to you for sex (which you may not know initially) accept him, be open to him, respect him, treat him as if he's gonna be your husband tomorrow, BUT don't allow him into your "honey pot"....

For you to keep him for sometime so that he will be able to see other good sides of you, don't say "I can't offer you sex" just act as if you're gonna offer it to him soon.
A lady used it on me and it worked...

http://www.successbookz.biz/2016/05/how-to-turn-sexseeker-to-true-lover.html
Thank you, tried commenting on your blog, it didn't work
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by everydayperson: 11:10am On May 20, 2016
post=45792935:
Thank you, tried commenting on your blog, it didn't work

stay there and be messcaforming.. just visit alhaji in oshodi for your sure-banker kobnomi and all your issues will be resolved.. no amount of blooging skills will make a man fall in love with you.. ask Linda Ikeji
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by humilitypays(m): 11:38am On May 20, 2016
SleemBadGuy:




Ive got to admit this..But U ma Nigga is one of the rare guys on nairaland whoz medulla overflows with raw intellect Psychological intelligence and enviable Wisdom..Looking at the way u explained and outlined this piece shows hw mentally healthy and socially enlightened U are..Im proud of U. If u reside in Lagos I dnt min meeting up with U out of my busy schedule nd have a good chat with great brains like U.

Ur IQ is really onpoint. U can Buzz me on 09053662**2


NB: LADIES..trust me this is the most Golden Advice U will ever get relative to this topic any day anytime.



#Easy.
See as u just made my head swell so big like puff-puffgrin and u are lucky I am not a girl because if I were a girl and u praise me like this eh, na straight to your house o cheesy

Thanks so much bro, presently I am outta Lagos, but Lag is my base, thanks for the kind words, I really appreciatesmiley
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by humilitypays(m): 11:40am On May 20, 2016
post=45768906:
Wow, thank you so much, I find your advice very useful
You are welcome. If u can apply that, no guy will take u for granted, wish u the bestsmiley
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by MarieSucre(f): 1:00pm On May 20, 2016
xtervaganza:
here we go again with the usual Victim attitude.



Life itself is a game. From your job, office, family, partner and everything. It depends on how well you play your games.



Anyways, I don't think you'll understand me( I'm a vindictive person you know grin )

Life doesn't play games. People do. Its just like saying guns kill people. Thats bullshitt. No one forces anyone to play any game.

A persons actions does not determine my own here. I can choose to walk away and be the a better person. You really don't have the moral ground to stand on here.

Funny things is, she might have just been cautious coz the previous guy did something similar when she rushed into bed too quickly. You just reinforced her conviction.
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Nobody: 1:26pm On May 20, 2016
ShayGirl:
Being aware of ur values as a lady will never make u wanna force anyone to love u..Just be yourself bae and d right one who wouldn't toy around with ur feelings will come knocking.
not in dis Generation

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