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Romance / Re: Why You Should Have Sex In The Morning by Estherbelsblog: 5:23pm On Jan 17, 2018
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Agadsman:
So in essence, what you are insinuating is that couples live healthier and happy lives than bachelors and spinsters?
Romance / Re: Never Can I Believe My Babe Can Make Such Demand /request by Estherbelsblog: 10:49am On Jan 16, 2018
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AceDomino:
If you won't give her anal, someone else will.
FYI, give Anal unto whom Anal is due
Romance / Re: How Many Date Is Too Much To Have Before You Finally Get Married? by Estherbelsblog: 10:41am On Jan 16, 2018
Romance / Re: Nigerian Cries Out Over Christmas List Given To Him By His Girlfriend by Estherbelsblog: 11:26am On Dec 15, 2017
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see what he went to carry, and he doesn't have money.. angry angry

He should have looked for the lowest material to buy for t his tailor to do a perfect fiiting but guy man say na lie he must follow slay queen now yawa don burst o boy dey cry cry cry
Romance / Re: Nigerian Cries Out Over Christmas List Given To Him By His Girlfriend by Estherbelsblog: 11:20am On Dec 15, 2017

Romance / Re: Nigerian Cries Out Over Christmas List Given To Him By His Girlfriend by Estherbelsblog: 11:20am On Dec 15, 2017

Romance / Nigerian Cries Out Over Christmas List Given To Him By His Girlfriend by Estherbelsblog: 11:19am On Dec 15, 2017
A Nigerian guy on Facebook has taken to the platform to reveal what his girlfriend is demanding from him as gifts for Christmas.

And according to the list his girlfriend sent to him, she compiled it in a way that is going to be cheaper for him.

Here are the items she demanded in the list

Shoes – 30,000
Hand bags – 20,000
Human hair weave-on – 35,000
Foundation powder – 15,000
Hand watch – 20,000
Hand purse – 5,000

Total – 125,000

More:

https://estherbelsblog..com.ng/2017/12/nigerian-cries-out-over-christmas-list.html

Celebrities / “liars, We Have Paid Kiss Daniel Over 120million Naira.”—g-worldwide Fires Back by Estherbelsblog: 11:09am On Dec 15, 2017
The contract saga between award-winning singer, Kiss Daniel and his former record label, G-worldwide is not nearly over.

Recall, it was reported how Kiss Daniel earned 30k monthly salary for a long time and how he legally terminated his contract a few months back.

In case you missed it, the label stated that the singer is in breach of contract and is evading court papers, his legal team, L&A Associates then released an exhaustive statement detailing Daniel’s dealings with the label, the unfair treatment of their client and more.

G-Worldwide Entertainment Ltd had dragged Kiss Daniel to court for “taking steps to appoint a new manager, solicit for bookings, and has continued to negotiate and enter performance agreements in respect of the songs from the album “New Era,” and “Evolution” which is set to be released soon.”
In the statement released by Kiss Daniel’s lawyers, they said he only terminated the contract as he was permitted to do under the contract.

The contract was drafted by G-Worldwide, the lawyers wrote, and they inserted a termination clause in the contract, which Kiss Daniel activated.

Now, LIB has revealed in new investigation into the on-going saga between Nigerian pop star, Kiss Daniel and his former label, G-Worldwide as the label finally opened to react to recent reports from the singer’s camp.

Below is a detailed reaction from the Emperor Geezy led G-Worldwide records on the Kiss Daniel issue as reported by LIB;

There has been a lot of misinformation in the media as to the background of Kiss Daniel’s wrongful exit from G-Worldwide Entertainment; firstly the management of G-Worldwide Entertainment wishes to state it had never been its intention to seek legal redress, nor join issues with an artist who we fear is being given bad legal advice. However, we feel it is important that we set the records straight for the benefit of the general public and others who are interested in knowing the truth.

We would like to reiterate that our organization’s sole mission is to scout, develop and promote artists till the point where both partners become profitable and the artiste can then decide to continue their creative journey as they deem fit. Contrary to widespread insinuations (and though we love a good joke) we are not a slave camp and we have no time whatsoever held any of the talents on our roster against their will.

The issue of restrictions on collaboration by our artists is one which has been well flogged and one we will address immediately – our management policy is unique in that we look for innovative ways to position our artists to build and own their sound and brands before seeking to collaborate with artists from other labels.

To make this work, we train and develop our artists in a way that ensures that their first albums are well composed and delivered in a way that gives them the platform to sell their art as strong individual brands. This strategy is not without its results as is evident from Kiss Daniel’s debut album “New Era” receiving many positive reviews and landing the 8th place on the Billboard’s World Album Chart within a week of release.

The Nigerian music industry is very competitive, and as such, it is pertinent that players in the market develop unique strategies to break in and remain relevant.

The New Era album of Kiss Daniel therefore only contained collaborative efforts with his label mate Sugarboy. However, on the soon to be released album ‘Evolution’ by Kiss Daniel, we have worked with other talents such as Phyno and Olamide. Sugarboy has also collaborated with Y-Cee on a song due to be released in January 2018.

There have also been issues raised that the company has not made available its books of accounts to Kiss Daniel, leading to him filing an action at the Lagos State High Court seeking an order granting him access to the books of the company.

Whilst our lawyers have filed the necessary papers to strike out the suit, it is pertinent that we briefly note that at no time have we denied the artiste or his lawyers access to our books. With the facts we have, it is our belief that the suit is a ploy to misdirect the public away from his untimely and unlawful exit from the company.

The label has records of email correspondence with Kiss Daniel where he and his representatives at different times requested for books of the company and same were supplied to them.

All these have been placed before the court in response to the suit filed by the artist at the Lagos State High Court. Until now neither he nor his representatives have responded to papers filed challenging the competence of that suit. Sadly too, even though Kiss complained about access, in another breath he has admitted the audits held by his accountants and the label’s accountant.

Apart from the above, there have been rumours that Kiss Daniel has been on a monthly stipend of NGN 50,000 (Another great joke if we ever heard one). It is a known fact that such amounts will be insufficient to find and retain a decent apartment in Lagos nor cater for the lifestyle of any Nigerian celebrity.

Kiss Daniel, contrary to that rumour, has received substantial allowances over the last two and half years. In 2013, he was offered a 360 deal, and the terms of the initial contract have been reviewed twice in his favour, whilst the company has had to bankroll obligations relating to advertising, promotions, music production, videos, trips, wardrobe etc. at different times.

Indeed, the company has been quite flexible with our remuneration policies with the belief that he will be able to build a solid financial base for himself. For the avoidance of doubt the following are some details of how the label catered for his financial needs as well as his personal welfare:

1. Contrary to rumours making the rounds that Kiss Daniel was only on NGN 30,000 salary since he joined the label up until after the release of the Woju and Laye singles, this is nothing but falsehood. Before the release of those singles in 2014, Kiss Daniel was being paid a monthly allowance of NGN 30,000 to cover basic personal costs whilst he was still in his father’s house in Kuto, Abeokuta, he was also given a medical allowance of NGN 150,000 and other unrecorded stipends whilst no revenue was being generated by him. This remained the norm while the label invested heavily in recording sessions, productions, transportation, and other costs associated with developing him as an artist.

2. Loans of up to NGN 550,000 were given to him within 2 weeks of his signing onto the label for him to get a car for his mom to start a Taxi business. There are documents to back this. In addition following his request for financial support for his dad’s burial, G-Worldwide released the sum of NGN 200,000 to him which was exactly what Kiss Daniel requested for. As recent as October 2017, he again requested for a loan to run his account in order to acquire a house for himself under a mortgage, to this end the company released NGN 13,000,000 (Thirteen Million Naira) to him though the company was not obligated under the contract to do so.

3. As per the contract between Kiss Daniel and G-Worldwide, the label was meant to recoup its investment before any royalty-sharing was to commence; the only provision available for the artiste was allowances and loans which would be at the discretion of the label. In June 2015 following his return from his UK tour, the company amended the contract and immediately began the payment of royalties as agreed and from that time till the wrongful termination of his contract. G-Worldwide has paid Kiss Daniel the sum of NGN 117,233,318 (One Hundred and Seventeen Million, Two Hundred Thirty-Three Thousand and Three Hundred and Eighteen Naira) as royalties from performances alone, he has also received money from other incomes to the sum of NGN 3,296,826.40 (Three Million, Two Hundred and Ninety Six Thousand Eight Hundred and Twenty Six Naira and forty kobo) for the financial record of 2016 as opposed to the false allegations made by him and his lawyers (The company’s books of account support this) As it stands, Kiss Daniel owes G-Worldwide Entertainment quite a large sum of money for the financial year due to end in 2018.

4. Following the signing of the contract in 2013, Kiss Daniel moved into an apartment furnished by the label in April 2014 in Lekki Lagos and only moved out in October 2015. Despite the terrible picture painted by Kiss Daniel to the media, the label actually during that period undertook the payment of all the bills in the said apartment, including waste, power, service charges, feeding, etc.

5. We have also noted the falsehood that at the time of his father’s demise, the label barred him from attending the burial. Let it be on record that immediately the news of his father’s demise filtered in, Emperor Geezy, CEO of the label authorized that his own personal car is used to convey Kiss Daniel to Abeokuta to attend and be a part of his father’s burial. The label CEO’s brother even accompanied him on this trip, as well as one of the label’s staff. Interestingly on arriving at a hotel in Abeokuta which had been fully paid for by the label, he refused to attend his own father’s burial on the grounds that he believed that his family are fetish and were responsible for his father’s death.

6. In response to the claim that Kiss Daniel was barred from supporting other artists, especially those who supported him and the label at the New Era album launch, we would like to put it on record that at no time has the label barred him from performing at events where friends in the industry have asked for his support. We understand the importance of collaborative efforts in a fledgling industry such as ours. Kiss Daniel, however, has made it a habit to turn up at events late or not at all, always blaming the label for his truancy.

Clear examples include his failure to appear at the Reekado Banks album listening party at Hard Rock Café and the recent 2Baba Buckwyld ‘n’ Breathless Concert on 22nd of October, 2017 at Eko Hotel. He did this even when 2Baba had provided two separate accommodations for him and his manager Louiza Williams at Eko Hotels, and the label had covered other logistics costs. He stood up 2Baba and manager after claiming he was on his way from 6pm till 1am the next day. He repeated the same show of shame at the Chronicles of Ushebebe and Soundcity’s 2016 MVP Awards. His excuse always being that the label has restricted him from supporting other talents in the industry. His favourite saying:

“You know I’m signed to a label na, I’m not my own boss yet”. One should wonder why his manager would be at these venues to liaise with the event organizers before his arrival if he wasn’t approved by the label to be at those events. His usual play was to ask the manager if money is involved and once she says “no we are going to support” he will either not take his calls once she’s around his house for takeoff, or switch off his phones and later complain that he was not feeling too well or had an urgent meeting at Abeokuta.

Last year, many people wondered how we managed to pull off such a massive concert for his New Era album launch with no support from any organization. That event which included the lease of the prestigious Eko Hotels with over 20 superstars was one of the most expensive projects the company ever embarked upon.

https://estherbelsblog..com.ng/2017/12/liars-we-have-paid-kiss-daniel-over.html

Politics / Re: PDP Begins Search For Candidate Ahead Of 2019 Election by Estherbelsblog: 5:17pm On Dec 14, 2017
Romance / Re: Advice by Estherbelsblog: 5:12pm On Dec 14, 2017
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Romance / Re: Do You Know Your Penis Size Matters In Bed, Find Out How Before Bae Leaves? by Estherbelsblog: 5:10pm On Dec 14, 2017
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Politics / PDP Begins Search For Candidate Ahead Of 2019 Election by Estherbelsblog: 5:09pm On Dec 14, 2017
Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) chiefs are to raise a search panel for a credible presidential candidate, a source said yesterday.

A senior party official, who pleaded not to be named, said the party had decided to scout for a “sellable” candidate who can match President Muhammadu Buhari, who is believed to be interested in a second term.

“We have made mistakes in the past. We violated zoning and we paid dearly for it. We are considering going for a presidential candidate, who will withstand the predictable propaganda of the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC)-led government.

We want to get it right. If we want to win, we must get a better candidate; a candidate that is better than what the APC will offer because Nigerians will compare and contrast,” the source said.

According to the source, who pleaded not to be named, the party may be looking beyond the array of likely presidential aspirants who have started consultations and mobilisation of supporters, ahead of next year’s primary, The Nation reports.

https://estherbelsblog..com.ng/2017/12/pdp-begins-search-for-candidate-a

Romance / Re: Why You Should Have Sex In The Morning by Estherbelsblog: 4:55pm On Dec 14, 2017
Romance / Do You Know Your Penis Size Matters In Bed, Find Out How Before Bae Leaves? by Estherbelsblog: 4:34pm On Dec 14, 2017
According to Stephanie Pappas, Live science contributor, contrary to the reassuring catchphrase "size doesn't matter," penis size may matter in bed — but only for some women, and for certain types of orgasms.

A new study finds that women who have frequent vaginal orgasms are more likely than other women to say they climax more easily with men with larger joysticks.

Women who tend to prefer penile-vaginal intercourse over other types of sex also say the same, researchers reported online Sept. 24 in The Journal of Sexual Medicine.

"Male anxiety about penis size may not reflect internalized, culturally arbitrary masculine stereotypes, but an accurate appreciation that size matters to many women — just as men feel legitimate anxiety when they enter the mating market about their intelligence, personality traits, sense of humor, social status, height, wealth, and other traits known to be favored by women across cultures," study researcher Stuart Brody, a psychologist at the University of the West of Scotland, told LiveScience.

But other researchers were less convinced.

"There's such variability in preference," said Barry Komisaruk, who researches female sexual response at Rutgers University. Women who orgasm through vaginal stimulation may indeed prefer longer joysticks, Komisaruk told LiveScience, but not everyone prefers to orgasm that way.

"There are so many different factors," said Komisaruk, who was not involved in Brody's study. "Once it gets to the kind of specifics that they're talking about, I get wary."
The female orgasm

Both penis size and female orgasm are hot-button topics. There is still scientific debate about whether vaginal and clitoral orgasms are different phenomena. Different nerves carry signals from the vagina and from the clitoris, Komisaruk said, and stimulation of each activates different brain regions. But some researchers argue that vaginal stimulation is simply activating a different, internal, section of the clitoris. Women report different sensations from vaginal and clitoral orgasms, Komisaruk said, but which one women prefer largely comes down to personal preference.

In some cases, female orgasm is even more complex. For example, Beverly Whipple, professor emerita at Rutgers University and one of the discoverers of the G spot, a sensitive area felt through the front wall of the vagina, has found that women with complete spinal cord injuries can sometimes experience orgasm, even though the nerves that carry sensation up the spinal cord from the pelvis have been severed.

It's likely that the sensory vagus nerve, which runs in the abdomen but bypasses the spinal cord, is recruited to carry signals to the brain in these cases, Whipple told LiveScience.
Other research has found that abdominal exercises induce orgasm in some women, resulting in pleasurable spasms at the gym.

Brody holds a different view, pointing to studies finding that the ability to orgasm with vaginal stimulation alone is correlated with better psychological functioning, better relationship quality and greater sexual satisfaction.

"Earlier research with a large representative sample also found that women who are made aware in their youth that the vagina is a source of women's orgasm are more likely to develop the capacity for vaginal orgasm.

Therefore, those who deny these findings (and insist on maintaining the politically correct party line) are not doing women a favor, but might be injuring women's health and sexual potential," Brody wrote in an email to LiveScience.
Does size matter?

In the new study, Brody and his colleagues asked 323 women, mostly Scottish university students, to recall past sexual encounters. They were asked about their recent sexual behaviors as well as how important penile-vaginal intercourse and other sex acts were to them. They were also asked whether penis length influenced their ability to orgasm with vaginal stimulation.

Continue reading

https://estherbelsblog..com.ng/2017/12/do-you-know-your-penis-size-matters-in.html

Romance / Re: Why You Should Have Sex In The Morning by Estherbelsblog: 4:32pm On Dec 14, 2017
Amarabae:
Sex in the morning is exciting because the whole nerves are relaxed after sleep.
But it may not be suitable for early morning work goers.
Sex at night can be tiring due to tiredness.
All the same, it depends on the both partner on when its convenient for them



Exactly
Romance / Re: Why You Should Have Sex In The Morning by Estherbelsblog: 8:35am On Dec 14, 2017
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Romance / Re: Why You Should Have Sex In The Morning by Estherbelsblog: 8:18am On Dec 14, 2017

Romance / Why You Should Have Sex In The Morning by Estherbelsblog: 8:18am On Dec 14, 2017
For most of us, the sound of the alarm clock blaring in our ears first thing in the morning is definitely not a happy sound.

But instead of hitting that snooze button and sinking back into meaningless slumber, why not make use of that rude awakening to spruce up your sex life! Begin your day with some brilliant lovemaking. After all, morning sex is not only good for your love life, it is also beneficial health-wise. So surprise your partner by trying out the following tips and heighten the pleasures of that early morning rendezvous.

This may not seem too relevant at the time, but always remember to relieve yourself of bodily fluids before you head to bed the night before. Nothing kills the mood more than trying to hold back the urge to visit the bathroom, while you are about to do it!
- Don't forget to brush your teeth the night before. Also, consider keeping some dissolvable mints (NOT chewing gum) at your bedside to pop, when you wake up. Bad breath can ruin any sexual experience.

- Try initiating sex in a different way, instead of opting for the same old predictable routine. Give your man a sexy 'wake-up call'. To do this, play some soft romantic music, and as soon as you both are awake and aroused, quietly slip out of your clothes. He'll definitely get the hint.

- Keep condoms in an arm's length of the bed, for you never know what the early morning cuddling may lead to. You definitely don't want to scavenge the room searching for them.

- Morning sex is refreshingly primal because it is difficult to hide your physical flaws, thanks to the view daylight offers. So let go of your inhibitions and draw back the shades; enjoy sex with a visual thrill!

- You could experiment with positions too. Since you both will be groggy, try a position like spooning that requires little effort.

- Your sexcapade need not be restricted to the bedroom. Take a hot-water shower together. You can rub aromatic body gel on each other's bodies, so that the scent arouses both of you.

- After your lovemaking session, you can make your man feel special by getting him his favorite breakfast in bed.

- If you are running late but still don't want to miss out on spending time with your partner, indulge in a quickie. Mornings are the perfect time, because you will probably be in a rush, and the heart-pounding adrenaline of hurried sex will intensify the entire experience. Also, quickies don't necessarily have to end in intercourse. A hot-and-heavy makeout session, before you dash out of the door for work, will go a long way towards igniting your passion.

Why morning sex is good for you...

- People who begin their day with sex are healthier and happier than those who simply opt for a cup of tea and breakfast before heading out of the door. No points for guessing the reason!

- Having sex in the morning releases the feel-good chemical oxytocin, which makes couples feel bonded all day long.
- Apart from the fact that regular morning sex makes you feel upbeat for the rest of the day, it also helps in building a stronger immune system.
- Believe it or not, it makes you less susceptible to catching a cold or flu and can also improve the quality of your hair, skin, and nails.

- Having morning sex three times a week lessens the risk of a heart attack or stroke. What are you waiting for?


https://estherbelsblog..com.ng/2017/12/why-you-should-have-sex-in-morning.html

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Celebrities / Re: Charly Boy Swears For Pastors, Politicians With Private Jets by Estherbelsblog: 6:14pm On Dec 13, 2017
Let God be the Judge
Foreign Affairs / Wawu! Kenyan Lawmaker Buys Gift Worth N52m For Her Husband by Estherbelsblog: 6:13pm On Dec 13, 2017
A House of Representatives member has set the social media agog after she shared a photo of Christmas gift that she bought for her husband.

In a Facebook post, Kawira Mwangaza shared a photo of the top of the range car a Prado she bought for her husband, Murega Baichu, a musician. The Kenyan lawmaker said her husband supported her during her toughest battles, hence the gift, which is valued at Ksh 15 million (N52,252,950.00).

According to punch, She also promised to use her salary to help over 1,000 disadvantaged families in Meru county.


In the post, she wrote, “To the special brave man who has fought the toughest battles to see me happy, please, Murega Baichu, humbly appreciate my gift for Christmas.

“As you drive this car, remember to thank God; and always remind me to serve my people and to keep my pledge to lift lives.

“This Christmas, God has blessed me to bless others, especially the disadvantaged. In this case, from my own earnings, I will bless over 1,000 families within Meru county and show them mother’s love.”

Her husband, Baichu, who was overwhelmed by the gift, replied, “Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his wife.
“I love you, honey. I’m so excited. Wooow! I humbly accept it. ”


https://estherbelsblog..com.ng/2017/12/kenyan-lawmaker-buys-gift-worth-n52m.html

Politics / Re: Aisha Buhari Spotted Inside Keke (Photos) by Estherbelsblog: 5:15pm On Dec 13, 2017
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Celebrities / Re: Charly Boy Swears For Pastors, Politicians With Private Jets by Estherbelsblog: 5:08pm On Dec 13, 2017
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Travel / Re: Peace Mass Bus Somersaults In Abakiliki, Ebonyi (Photos) by Estherbelsblog: 5:07pm On Dec 13, 2017
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Celebrities / Charly Boy Swears For Pastors, Politicians With Private Jets by Estherbelsblog: 5:06pm On Dec 13, 2017
Charly Boy Swears For Pastors, Politicians With Private Jets

Area Fada is upset and he is swearing. The entertainer made a collage of other countries’ functioning airlines i.e, South Africa, Ghana and Ethiopia, and placed that of Nigerian Airwaves, which is dead anyway with them.

He then went further to leave a hot curse for Pastors and Politicians who own private jets. What Charly boy wrote and the collage all after the cut. Charly don vex!!!

"What a shame, Nigeria don’t even have a national air carrier yet there are over 100 private jets owned by con men/pastors called men of God and thieves called Leaders/politicians. May the revolution consume the bastards."


https://estherbelsblog..com.ng/2017/12/charly-boy-swears-for-pastors.htm

Celebrities / Re: Rare Throwback Photo Of Olamide Baddo by Estherbelsblog: 4:48pm On Dec 13, 2017
The young shall grow
Sports / FIFA Fines Nigeria, Cancels Winning Match by Estherbelsblog: 4:45pm On Dec 13, 2017
FIFA on Tuesday clamped down the Nigeria Football Federation with a whoopy 6,000 Swiss Francs (about N2,177,280) fine and also cancelled Super Eagles 3-0 victory in a Russia 2018 World Cup qualifying match against Algeria.

The World football governing body through its disciplinary committee in a statement on Tuesday said Nigeria fielded Shehu Abdullahi who was ineligible for the 10 November 2017 qualifier against Algeria.

FIFA explained that Abdullahi Shehu failed to serve the automatic one-match suspension imposed on him as a result of receiving a caution in two separate matches of the same competition.
However, FIFA said this sanction bears no impact on the final result of the preliminary competition for the 2018 World Cup since Nigeria had already qualified (and Algeria eliminated) before the match took place.

The statement reads, “The sanction relates to the player Abdullahi Shehu failing to serve the automatic one-match suspension imposed on him as a result of receiving a caution in two separate matches of the same competition.

This sanction bears no impact on the final result of the preliminary competition for the FIFA World Cup since Nigeria had already qualified (and Algeria eliminated) before the match took place.”

Due to the sanction, Nigeria’s points in the group stage dropped from 14 to 11, while Algeria gets five points.


https://estherbelsblog..com.ng/2017/12/fifa-fines-nigeria-cancels-winning-match.html

Celebrities / “I Hated Myself And Was Constantly Suicidal Yet I Made People Laugh” – Lepacious by Estherbelsblog: 4:30pm On Dec 13, 2017
“I hated myself and was constantly suicidal yet I made people laugh” – Lepacious Bose Writes On Her Weight Loss (Photo)

Nigerian Comedian Lepacious Bose has taken to social media to celebrate 5 years of her weight loss journey with an inspiring post. According to her, the devil stole 25 years of her life due to weight and hypothyroidism and she suffered in silence because no one understood.

She disclosed that her work as a comedian did little to help her situation, although she successfully made people laugh while performing on stage but most times, she drove home in tears and sorrow.


She then added that she hated herself and was constantly suicidal yet made people laugh.

She wrote:

“So I notice I have never gotten into the WCW thing lol…. I finally decided to crush on ME today.
Don’t get me wrong I am absolutely in love with myself, I love to take pictures and talk about my weight loss experience but that took over 25 years of my life.
The devil stole 25 years of my life due to weight and hypothyroidism. I suffered in silence because no one understood my issues, I didn’t even understand myself.
I hated myself and was constantly suicidal yet I made people laugh (what an irony). I cracked jokes about my weight because it was the only way I knew to look like I didn’t care. Yet I cared!!! Countless times I would have a great performance but drive home in tears, it was a crazy, roller coaster feeling. It was not just the weight it was much more but I could not explain it. I was scared. I would be on stage and have a brain fog and forget a joke right in the middle of delivery, just go blank, and have to come up with stuff on the spur of the moment to cover for the lapse, I started to dread performing. Trust me I have gotten into my car before and took me about 10mins to remember exactly where I was going, I just sat there, tears of frustration rolling down. (One day I will write it all in a book). It’s hard enough to loose weight but to loose weight while having hypothyroidism is almost like fighting demons, I just wanted to sleep and not wake up, why won’t God be kind and do that for me? I could not sleep unless I was heavily sedated with sleeping pills and could not boot in the morning without a strong cup of coffee…. Am still trying to loose about 20kg, it’s getting harder lol… It’s getting more difficult to say no to things I used to love lol…. It’s been almost 5 years on this crazy but amazing journey, 5 years of pain, tears, frustration, laughter, joy and triumph…. 5years of wanting so badly to Bing on a bowl of ice cream or a bag of malteasers but not giving in. 5 years of dreaming of chease cake lol…. I might dream for a long time. 5 years and a lifetime to go, because I AM WORTH FIGHTING FOR.
MY NAME IS LEPACIOUS BOSE AND I AM A THYROID WARRIOR, A SURVIVOR. #stilltoolegittoquit”

https://estherbelsblog..com.ng/2017/12/i-hated-myself-and-was-constantly.html

Celebrities / “the Things God Has Taught Me In Recent Times” – Adesua Wellington Writes by Estherbelsblog: 11:39am On Dec 12, 2017
Newlywed Nollywood Actress, Adesua Etomi-Wellington, yesterday shared 20 things she has learnt from God in recent times.

The beautiful actress who slayed with her husband to the grand premiere of The Wedding Party 2, shared them on her Twitter page, outlining her points in numerical fashion while backing them up with scriptural references in some instances.

Read her tweets below:

The things God has taught me in recent times…

1) You’re better off being the unique person he created you to be.
2) To get to the next level, you have to show him that you can handle the level that you’re at and you also have to do something substantial with what you’ve been given. Touch lives…change lives…impact lives.
3) The world doesn’t have to know the good you do. What he sees you do in secret, he rewards publicly.
4) New level, new devil. “For a great door and effectual is opened unto me, and there are many adversaries.”(1 Corinthians 16:9 KJV)
5) A closed mouth is a closed destiny. Prayer is the key.
6) Be anxious for nothing. ‘Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God’.
7) In a world where there is so much to think about…he says ‘Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things’.
cool Diamonds need the fire. You need the opposition…to build Godly character and to grow.
9) When God chooses to announce you, he’ll do it his way…not yours. And some of his ways may suck but he sees the bigger picture.
10) He really does give his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers.
11) Most importantly…Jeremiah 29:11 ‘For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future’.
12) Be watchful. Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour.
13) I have seen something else under the sun: The race is not to the swift or the battle to the strong, nor does food come to the wise or wealth to the brilliant or favor to the learned; but TIME AND CHANCE happen to them all.
14) Be the light. ‘The light shines in the darkness and the darkness hasn’t overcome it’. John 1:5
15) If you follow Christ, you have a higher calling. It also means you have to take the high road EVERY SINGLE TIME. ’Set a guard over my mouth, LORD; keep watch over the door of my lips’.
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Crime / 23-year-old Kenyan Student Killed By Her Babydaddy For Cheating With Another Man by Estherbelsblog: 10:47am On Dec 12, 2017
23-year-old third year university student identified as Valerie Apondi, was on Saturday murdered by her boyfriend who accused her of being unfaithful, The Star reports.

The incident took place in the wee hours of the morning in a guest house in Bondo town. Apondi, who was pursuing a Bachelor’s Degree in Logistics and Supply Chain Management at the Jaramogi Oginga Odinga University of Science and Technology, was found dead in a pool of blood in the room they had booked.

The caretaker of the guest house said the two booked the room on Friday at around 8pm. The suspect, Collins Oluoch Ogweno, 25, a nurse at Nightingale Hospital in Kisumu is said to have killed Apondi with a machete.

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Crime / Stepdad Forced Girl To Eat Cat Food & Drink Detergent,and Her Mother Didn’t Mind by Estherbelsblog: 10:33am On Dec 12, 2017
A woman in Gwinnett County Georgia , got a new husband and allowed the man to do whatever he wanted to her 13 year-old-child.

Rimmon Lewis, 32, is accused of beating, starving and causing mental pain and extensive physical pain to a 13-year-old girl, who is now in state custody.

Lewis along with the child’s mother, Angela Strothers, 33, were arrested in April and released on bond. After looking into the case, prosecutors added more charges and indicted the couple in late November.

A prosecutor called the indictment of the mother and step-father “one of the most severe cases of child abuse” she’s seen in a long time.

Court records accuse Lewis of being the main culprit. He’s accused of “repeatedly locking the girl in a laundry room for hours on end and forcing her to, among other things, complete “standards” that included standing “barefoot on food cans while writing ‘I will respect my father,’ 1,000 times, on pieces of paper”.

This happened almost on a daily basis,” said prosecutor Tracie Cason.

Cason says the teenager was beaten and starved as well. “There were times she was only allowed to eat cat food, and there were times she wasn’t allowed to eat at all, until the defendant decided she could eat,” Cason said.

Investigators say the girl was locked in a laundry room for extended periods of time … so long that she urinated and defecated on herself.

The indictment also says Lewis abused the girl “by telling the child to stop stuttering” and “pushing his thumbs into the mouth of (victim) with such force as to split the corners of her mouth and with such severity to leave scarring to both corners of her mouth.”

The 13-year-old would also be forced to squat against a door with her head under the doorknob, and if she moved before Lewis allowed her to, he would beat her with a wooden table leg, authorities say.

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Crime / Re: Instagram Slayqueen Lying About Her Look Told To Kill Herself Over No Makeup Pic by Estherbelsblog: 10:27am On Dec 12, 2017

Crime / Instagram Slayqueen Lying About Her Look Told To Kill Herself Over No Makeup Pic by Estherbelsblog: 10:26am On Dec 12, 2017
Victoria Katei, 19, who has 52,000 followers on Instagram, shared the two photographs last week after someone else posted one of her make-up free selfies online.

Katei, who is also a chemistry student and lives in Houston, Texas, reposted it along with one of her signature made-up looks to address the trolls. 'Accounts have been posting pictures of me with make-up versus no make-up telling me I'm a catfish and that I'm hideous.

People in the comments telling me to kill myself because I'm lying about my looks. Telling me that no one will love me because I'm so ugly and have to cover my "real face,"' she said.

Katei hit back at claims from trolls that she was trying to 'catfish' her followers by posing as someone she was not, saying: 'I love the way I look in makeup and out of makeup.
I don't wear makeup to hide or to "catfish" people because I don't give a shit what any guy or girl has to say about what I look.

'Makeup is a passion of mine and this is the platform I choose to express that and if you don't feel like that feel free to unfollow because I'm never going to apologize for being me.' Trolls feasted on the two photographs and some reposted it again.

One Instagram user who shared the contrasting images wrote alongside it: 'This is what make-up can do. Scary,' along with a vomiting emoji.

'This the reason I got trust issues...for now on y’all females first date gonna be with me at a pool so I can see the real you,' they added.

Another said: 'Make-up is one thing. This b**** created a mask.' Has a guy ever gotten mad when he saw you without it?' asked another.

In earlier posts, the woman was accused of trying to lighten her skin with pale foundation.
Critics claimed it did not match her natural skin color and admonished her for it.
Katei addressed those insults too and insisted the change in appearance was down to lighting.
She also added green contact lenses.

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