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Hmmmmm money problem everywhere u go like MTN

PROTEST... I JUST DEY WAIT...

GIVE ME EYE GLASSES MAKE I TAKE FIND MY SCHOOL...MY SCHOOL IS MISSING.... ABEG MAKE UNA HELP MEEEEEEE

AM STILL WAITING FOR MY MOTHER INLAW TO COMMENT 1ST...AM STILL WAITING FOR HER TO FINISH COOKING...

ME TOO TO JOIN FOR MY LODGE...2BABA CARRY

ME TOO GO JOIN...

MAY THEIR SOULS R.I.P

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Not my business... if u like trek....na u sabi...

Toks2008:
Lol!

This is exactly why many ladies will always have issues in their marriage cos they will always want to see a reason to go against that simple instruction concerning unconditional submission to the husband.

Did you read that part where I wrote that different adjectives were used in place of submission like reverence and some interpretations actually used fear....

Ephesians 5:33

But every husband must love his wife as he loves himself and let the wife'see that she fear her husband.

Why do you think God specifically juxtapose the man as your lord?

trust me, any lady who believes she has a reason to disrespect or not be 100% submissive to her hubby has already failed the litmus test of marriage and it's better she remains single.

When you choose to say no to your hubby you must say it in awe of him.

This is not about being realistic but it is the blueprint for marital tranquility. You miss it you miss out.

You are just a freelance writer , u don't study the Bible , you just read it. please stop searching but study the bible

Berbierklaus:
[b]Grandpa no one asked you for your life history,so please relax and take to corrections.

if You were my husband/boyfriend,I would have told You to "shutup and listen" I said "Relax" coz You are my grandpa

Now to the argument You both are having,Everyone has an opinion,trust me I have come to understand You and your writeups,(You are only been realistic while most of us are striving to be idealistic).The challenge is finding a balance because all these rules and regulations for marriages and relationships are unique to every relationship,some men don't take NO,no matter how submissive the wife is(been realistic,I'm sure You will agree with me) and some men are in awe or their wives and a very agressive NO will do the trick(I'm been realistic),so the problem I have with most of your rightups is that "they are not a standard for relationships,coz every relationship is unique" but from your tone of words,You type like that's all that should be done because it is in the "BIBLE" forgetting that even Jesus said in "MARK 2:27" The sabbath(law) was made for man not man for the sabbath(law),
meaning most of this bible injunctions can be used uniquely not universally. (I hope You know what happened in that verse and why he made that statement?).


secondly,I want to say I agree with your rightup once again,although it is a little bit flawed "to me". Any idiot can see the emphasis You made on "WIVES SUBMISSION" I think its good but I also think it would have been appropriate if You emphasized as much on the "HUSBAND's LOVE". (I think this is where most relationship experts get it wrong).

Now lets use the scripture You qouted as an example,did You realise that Ephesians 5:33 has two parts(part A and B)
Did You realise that part A was talking to the husband?
Ephesians 5:33
However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself
Did You realise that the bible spoke to the husband first? That tells You that Submission is "EARNED" so its flawed for You to say "THE BIBLE SAID THAT THE WIFE MUST BE SUBMISSIVE TO HER HUSBAND NO MATTER WHAT"







because grandpa,the bible has put an unspoken condition in that verse,(You can't respect/submit to your abusive father,You "FEAR" him,likewise if You say wives should be submissive unconditionally,You are only telling her to "FEAR" him,that is not submission according to the bible)

Part B
[color=#000055]Ephesians 5:33
Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord[/color]

Every man that loves his wife,automatically has earned her respect and submission,it is a known fact,and a man that doesn't love his wife(cheating on her "glaringly" abuse her,doesn't do his roles as a husband etc) will be "FEARED" not respected/submitted to).

So grandpa,all this tunranchi is what the bible is preaching(Idealistic) not what our pastors are interpreting the bible to, not what You have interpreted the bible to,which is sadly the (realistic) point of what we have in the world today because our religious leaders have knowingly or unknowingly led some men astray by repeatedly preaching and emphasizing on "SUBMISSION" while skimming through "LOVE".

The kingdom of God is a hot race,I fear for most people,as I have come to a stage in my salvation where,I read and ask the holy spirit to interpret and explain what this really means to me,instead of listening to one marriage counsel/counsellor and corrupting my heavenly journey .

I hope You will settle down and read my epistle,and may the holy spirit help You to realise the truth.[/b]

Tears flowing from my eyes. once again u have humbled me. Great, I will contact u. we have. much to talk about

Even the brain of our leaders are still under recession that is why they can not think very well...

No matter how fast u run, GOD will still b the one to choose the winner. Nigeria has come to stay whether you like it or not. Even if 1dollar=1000naira the children of GOD will still survive but the only thing I will tell my leaders is that any wrong policy u make today, if you do not suffer from it direct/indirect, somebody from your generation must suffer from it... thanks

Am still thinking of what to call this... is it part of change or change it self....hmmmm

Despite everything in d battle field they still remember their God like king David....meaning Victory is theirs.... may GOD protect you all...

Hmmmm.... in this BUHARI's regime... i just dey luuuuuuk u dey laugh...

DAVIDO... DAVDO...D A V I D Am sure the O that ends ur name is the Major problem u are facing...

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the lady I luv in d industry...

Always looking for FaMe & Popularity.... despite the waist has lost its elasticity....

Thank God I have graduated from the SCHOOL.... but what about those that are still there who happens to be my friends? may God have mercy on them.

After reading this episode of 2nd chance for NIGERIA, I have come to a conclusion that there is still hope for this country & that NIGERIA will be a country that the WORLD at large will emulate some day & very soon... please my fellow NIGERIANS do not give up. ONE NIGERIA ONE NATION... I love my COUNTRY .

Am waiting 4 d day my President will break fasting with the poor and the needy... may Alla be praised...

Is there still hope for this country? plz make una tell me.

Hausas have taken over every position finally...

what is the way 4ward my pipo?

its she married? if not I don't want to c her face here until she is married.... enough of this thrash that she puts on nairaland all the time...