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KAMASUTRA COLLECTION ONE

If I were to I say my vows, I knew I was marrying the wrong man: One woman's confession about the most devastating mistake of her life Walking down the aisle, I distinctly remember thinking to myself: ‘I don’t have to do this for ever if it gets too bad. Starter marriages are acceptable these days — almost fashionable. There won’t be too much of a scandal.’What a terrible thought for a young woman in a N150000 lace dress to be having as she would walk towards her fiancé, standing at the altar. But it was genuinely a state of confusion, I thought, am I marrying for love or convenience? I knew my marriage wouldn't be 'till death do us part' as if I said those
I knew my marriage wouldn't be 'till death do us part' as if I said those vows.

To think, it had started so promisingly.


My name is Kate brown, we are two in my family. I grew up in Lagos, my parents where both successful in their discipline as I lacked nothing growing up. I went to the best school in town, wore the best clothes and lived in a comfortable home. We were happy as a family. One day I was in school when my uncle came to pick me and my sister, I was surprised as he never came to pick us before closing time. On getting home I met a lot of people in our house, the first thing that popped into my mind was the fact that they had gathered to wish my dad a safe trip abroad. I came into the parlor and found my dad sitting on the sofa with his head down, I wondered and I was asked to sit down, a man that was sitting next to my dad was telling him to tell us. My dad began and he said “you know its GOD “that gives life and it’s GOD that takes life”. From that instant he said that, I knew my mum had died. I remembered waking up with water on my face and I realized that I had passed out. My world had come to an end for my joy has been taken away .years went by ,I got admission into the university to study law.my first year was exciting and I got to the second year, during our mid-semester break my dad feel ill. We were at the hospital for 5month, my dad gave in .my world came crashing once again. I had no certificate, no trade, no job and no investment .My calamity started when my father’s brother sold the house without out knowledge .My only sister and I were out in this wicked world alone.my childhood friend had paid for a room and parlor for us to stay. I tried to get my life back but it wasn’t easy. One day on my way to the market I met a man who offered me a ride home, I had no choice as I had only N500 with me, I thought that by taking this ride it would afford me the opportunity to use the money for food tomorrow. He dropped me off and collected my number. Two days later he called, that was how it all begun. He really loved me and spoilt me.The relationship led to a proposal. But there was a problem. I did not love him. But I thought of accepting, for the fact that I had no choice.my rent had expired, I had no money. Here was a golden opportunity for me, pls should I take his offer and enter a loveless marriage or continue to suffer.

A good afternoon my beautiful people, today I heard a story that I can’t help but share with you guys.

When a woman sees that her lover is fatigued by constant congress, without having his desire satisfied, she should, with his permission, lay him down upon his back, and give him assistance by acting his part. She may also do this to satisfy the curiosity of her lover, or her own desire of novelty.
There are two ways of doing this, the first is when during congress she turns round, and gets on the top of her lover, in such a manner as to continue the congress, without obstructing the pleasure of it; and the other is when she acts the man's part from the beginning.


At such a time, with flowers in her hair hanging loose, and her smiles broken by hard breathings, she should press upon her lover's bosom with her own breasts, and lowering her head frequently, should do in return the same actions which he used to do before, returning his blows and chaffing him, should say, "I was laid down by you, and fatigued with hard congress, I shall now therefore lay you down in return." She should then again manifest her own bashfulness, her fatigue, and her desire of stopping the congress. In this way she should do the work of a man, which we shall presently relate.
Whatever is done by a man for giving pleasure to a woman is called the work of a man, and is as follows:

The acts to be done by the man are:
Moving forward
Friction or churning
Piercing
Rubbing
Pressing
Giving a blow
The blow of a boar
The blow of a bull
The sporting of a sparrow
When the organs are brought together properly and directly it is called 'moving the organ forward'.
When the lingam is held with the hand, and turned all round in the yoni, it is called 'churning'.
When the yoni is lowered, and the upper part of it is struck with the lingam, it is called 'piercing'.
When the same thing is done on the lower part of the yoni, it is called 'rubbing'.
When the yoni is pressed by the lingam for a long time, it is called 'pressing'.
When the lingam is removed to some distance from the yoni, and then forcibly strikes it, it is called 'giving a blow'.
When only one part of the yoni is rubbed with the lingam, it is called the 'blow of a boar'.
When both sides of the yoni are rubbed in this way, it is called the 'blow of a bull'.
When the lingam is in the yoni, and moved up and down frequently, and without being taken out, it is called the 'sporting of a sparrow'. This takes place at the end of congress.
When a woman acts the part of a man, she has the following things to do in addition to the nine given above:
The pair of tongs
The top
The swing
When the woman holds the lingam in her yoni, draws it in, presses it, and keeps it thus in her for a long time, it is called the 'pair of tongs'.
When, while engaged in congress, she turns round like a wheel, it is called the 'top'. This is learnt by practice only.
When, on such an occasion, the man lifts up the middle part of his body, and the woman turns round her middle part, it is called the 'swing'.
When the woman is tired, she should place her forehead on that of her lover, and should thus take rest without disturbing the union of the organs, and when the woman has rested herself the man should turn round and begin the congress again.
There are also some verses on the subject as follows:
'Though a woman is reserved, and keeps her feelings concealed; yet when she gets on the top of a man, she then shows all her love and desire. A man should gather from the actions of the woman of what disposition she is, and in what way she likes to be enjoyed. A woman during her monthly courses, a woman who has been lately confined, and a fat woman should not be made to act the part of a man.'
Such passionate actions and amorous gesticulations or movements, which arise on the spur of the moment, and during sexual intercourse, cannot be defined, and are as irregular as dreams.
A horse having once attained the fifth degree of motion goes on with blind speed, regardless of pits, ditches, and posts in his way; and in the same manner a loving pair become blind with passion in the heat of congress, and go on with great impetuosity, paying not the least regard to excess.
For this reason one who is well acquainted with the science of love (Kamasutra), and knowing his own strength, as also the tenderness, impetuosity, and strength of the young women, should act accordingly. The various modes of enjoyment are not for all times or for all persons, but they should only be used at the proper time. And in the proper countries and places.

The acts to be done by the man are:

Gossiping is a Common Habit Amongst Women, It’s like a Disease in the Heart of a Woman, It Has Its Addictive Effect and If not Controlled It Can Lead One into Series of Problems, The Question Now Is Why Do Women Gossip?



1. TO FEEL AMONG



Some Women Gossip So They Can Fit In With Other Women. In Many Ways, It's A Way of Showing That You Have Trust in the Woman You're Confiding In, Because You're Sort Of Sharing a Secret.



2. AN INHERITED TRAIT



Gossip Can Be A Learned Trait. Think About It: Every TV Show Or Movie You See Where There Are Women Friends, They Gossip About Someone. We Heard Our Moms Do It With Her Friends, We Heard Our Friends' Moms Do It, We Heard The Older Kids Do It.


So Sometimes Gossip Isn't Coming From A Mean Or Nasty Place, Although It Can Still Hurt Others If You Aren't Careful. And Sometimes, Hard As It Is To Actually Admit, Gossip May Be Necessary.



3. VALIDATION



Sometimes, Gossip Acts As A Validation For Your Feelings. It Can Prove Your Point Of View Somehow, because you’re Able to Discuss Someone Who Rubs You the Wrong Way, Or Whom You Feel Has Done You Dirty in Some Way. You're Not Necessarily Gossip to Be Mean, But Again, To Get Perspective, To Be Soothed and Told That It’s Okay to Be Hurt by What Someone Did.


4. PROCESSING EXPERIENCES

One Of The Reasons A Woman May Gossip Is Because It Helps Her Process Her Own Experiences. For Instance, A Woman May Gossip With Her Girlfriend And Not Feel Like She Is Gossiping At All. Rather, She Might Just Be Trying To Dissect And Understand Her Own Experience. She might need perspective on a matter and, if it involves someone else, it can simply be construed as gossiping.

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