OgaTheTop2:
Well done my guy. Harris Walz is the way to go. Me no vote o... I don't want jury wahala

lol in my state as long as you have a drivers license you can be called for jury service. I have been called once lol

when will Nigeria get to this level? No Election violence, no stealing of ballot papers. Total voting process took me 2mins

God Bless America

Here! No APC or PDP Thugs anywhere lol

The bus came early today. I decided to take the bus instead

Kobojunkie:
Is this not illegal? Aren't these signs at the polling boots that warm against taking pictures or something?

nope. Perfectly legal big dawg

I’m about to leave work right now. My polling unit is 10mins walk from my house. I plan to Uber to my polling unit, Vote and walk home.
BTW Uber is offering 50% off all trip today to encourage people to go vote.

Hey Guys,
I am going to be sharing pictures of my experience as a first time American Voter.
Sit back and relax

Lorayne:
Perhaps the baby is not yours that's why she insists on aborting it?

very possible

Double0h7:


You feared her fertility and now she’s planning on further stressing her reproductive health. Karma because this pregnancy could be a test from God and terminating it could lead to years of suffering and searching for the fruits of the womb. It could also all be okay but that’s a gamble you guys have to take.

I am not in any gamble with her! I told her I will mobilize my family to go see her parents in 3 weeks afterwards we do a courthouse wedding. She is big on having a big ceremony, I told her we can do that after she gives birth. I even told her to come up with any suggestion that doesn’t involve abortion but she is adamant on taking it out. I have decided to waste her time for a couple of years before I kick her out if she goes ahead with the abortion

Therock5555:
The fact that she still wants to remove the pregnancy despite knowing that her ability to give birth is on a low chance, I'll suggest you give her a concrete sit-down, clearly tell her to either quickly run the court wedding and settle down or remove the pregnancy and end the relationship.


Trust me, if she insists on removing the pregnancy, just know that lady wasn't meant for you.

Jejely carry your wahala and waka.

Haven't you suffered yourself untop that lady enough? Na you kill Jesus?

I am thinking of wasting her time before I kick her off if she proceeds with the Ab*ortn

Double0h7:
Your fears have multiplied, and the gates of karma and stress have been opened. It’s your choice

What do you mean?

superCleanworks:


if you push further on this, you will regret and regret and regret it.
She sat down for days and came to this conclusion and stamped it even Before she opened her mouth to tell you she will terminate the pregnancy. Let her be and watch what happens. Run far If she goes through with the abortion.

Let your money never be involved in that abortion and at this point, IT IS BEST YOU START RECORDING ALL YOUR CONVERSATIONS because she will come back and blame you for everything.

noted

austine4real:
Logs no be you get the belle oo

lol possible 😆

@Mod

Remember this thread?
https://www.nairaland.com/8130045/pcos-should-tell-parents-it
So I have an update about this issue! Long story short, she is pregnant but she wants to take it out! She said she isn’t ready for any pregnancy right now. Even when I told her I want to go see her family then we can do a courthouse wedding afterwards, she is very adamant on removing the pregnancy. She said she isn’t ready to be pregnant and she wants to be legally Married and pregnant through the right process.
I am thinking of breaking up with her if she goes through with her plan!
NB: I have also not involved my family in this matter

JessicaRabbit:


I just have one question: do you believe your lady's reproductive health defines her worth as a potential partner?

As for sharing this information with your parents, I'd personally advise against it, at least not without her consent. Her health history is her personal information, and you have to respect that.

I really appreciate your comment, however I don’t like how you are somewhat trying to relegate the importance of being able to reproduce in a marriage. It’s so funny how y’all female folks try to turn the narrative to favor your gender. I am definitely 💯 100 percent sure if the tables were turn, and God forbid I was in a place I am unable to perform my obligations as a potential husband, y’all will advise your gender to exit the relationship. So please spare me that!
I have read every comment regarding this post and I kind of know my next line of action

Akwamkpuruamu:
Guy a lady with one ovary and conception no de easy. It takes God's special grace and miracle. I have a close relation passing thru this and ain't funny at all

she has one ovary too?

Thanks guys for the contribution. I really appreciate

GorillaApp:

How old is she?

27

DonEd:
Or better still, get her pregnant while u guys are still dating.

That's if it's ur fear

I’m seriously thinking of this as well. I don’t want to be caught in any complexities

@mod can you move this to front page please

eazzzy1:
What would you be telling your parents for? To help you decide if you are making the right decision or to alert them of the probability of never having kids?

It’s your decision to make, not your parents. However, if you think you aren’t doing the right thing and you need someone to talk you out of it, then talking to people who have your best interest at heart is a good idea.

so would you advise I speak to them about it to know what they think?

Jamahyel:
What is your fear?

That something may go wrong in the future

There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?

Claviman:
Don't rush to change your password. Nobody hacked you!

lol Thank God. I was trying to change mine

Amotolongbo:
It should be 60

1 + 5(1) = 6

2 + 6(2) = 14

3 + 7(3) = 24

5 + 11(5) = 60

Defending nonsense lol 😂

Kobojunkie:
The God of Israel who swore His only inheritance in the land of men are those born from the loins of Jacob -- Israel --- told you, a Nigerian, this? You ex was indeed wise for escaping the fraud was is you.

Juding from the way you started your response, I think there is no point dragging anything with you. Anybody that lives as if there is no supreme being that directs the affairs of Men is a lost soul. May you never be in a position where you can no longer provide for your family. Have a nice day

Kobojunkie:
Explaining the obvious which is that headship in marriage only applies when you bear full financial burden makes her a wise woman.

what do you mean by that? God has made the man the head of the wife. Read your bible there wasn’t any conditions attached to it. Ppl like you are men that will come here on Nairaland to complain when their wives start maltreating them because they can no longer provide due to a significant live eventt.

Kobojunkie:
Your ex was a wise gal!

what do you mean by that?

Posts like these are the reasons why I broke up with my Ex. Zero financial accountability. The werey even made a statement one time saying that if I want her to be supporting in Paying the bills, I have to be ready to share my “Headship” as the Head if the family. Lol
Dear mean, never be too lazy to dump a lady that isn’t meeting up. Any lady that isn’t investing in the relationship should be kicked out! Period

Juliearth:






Now, I can agree with you....but not completely (lol). Having a few bad experiences with Nigerian women should not be a yardstick for you drawing such conclusions.
You also, didn't notice that the paradigm has long shifted and Nigerian women are likewise, keying into the patriarchal role of providence? Have you not seen or heard of cases where women keep the family afloat? The world we live in has evolved so some of these archaic beliefs should be jettisoned. What I'm expecting to here is how women become boastful and arrogant when they start bringing "bread" to the table. Note that, that is spurious.

I totally agree with you on this, I shouldn’t use the experience of a few people as a yardstick to draw conclusion but like the saying goes “You learn from other people’s experiences”.