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Another way recover from porn addiction
Destroy all physical porn (DVDs, magazines), memory cards filled with adult movies in your collection etc. Install an Internet porn blocker and put it on the strictest settings. Put in a password that you don't have memorized, write it down and put it in a difficult place to retrieve. You are saved by God’s grace.

"Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning."

You can quit porn today. Take a step now

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The National Security Adviser, Col. Sambo Dasuki (retd.), says the Federal Government is planning to introduce a law that will ban and block all porn websites in the country. He stated this at the closing ceremony of a three-day workshop on use of social media organised for Islamic preachers, Imams and youths in Kaduna on Sunday.

The News Agency of Nigeria reports that the workshop, which was organised by the national body of Izalatil Bid’a Wa’iqamatis Sunna, aimed at correcting anomalies in the use of social media.

Dasuki, who was represented by the Minister of Special Duties, Alhaji Kabiru Turaki, said, “Government is planning to ban and block websites that inculcate negative attitudes in our children but we need a law to support such move.

“Because without a law, people can go to court and claim infringement on their rights.”

While urging preachers to avoid the use of unguarded utterances against leaders, Dasuki said preachers were not politicians but they must play politics.

In his remarks, Governor Muktar Yero of Kaduna State stressed the need for credible people to join politics in order to contribute their quota toward sanitising the system.

He cautioned people against using social media negatively to blackmail others.

Yero called on Muslims to be united and intensify efforts on prayers towards a violent-free elections.

The National Chairman of the Islamic organisation, Sheikh Abdullahi Bala-Lau, appealed to the Federal Government to do everything within its power to avoid bloodshed, especially in the North-East of the country.

He urged leaders in the country to ensure equity, justice and fair play in leading Nigerian citizens, irrespective of their religious affiliation.

Bala-Lau advised politicians not to use the workshop venue to send provocative messages to their rivals.

milychocs:
Why they want to steal peoples' joy is beyond me!
Porn, yes, porn and football are two big things that keep unemployed and disenchanted Nigerian young men (and women) happy and occupied


Why steal this joy? Why?
FG should ban and stop politicians from amassing allowances instead!

If I could, I would stone the FG now, big time!

Are you well at all? Do you know what harm porn does to young people? It RUINS AND DESTROYS YOUR LIFE. GO GET SOMETHING DOING.

How to recover from porn addiction
Step 6. Study the Word of God concerning sexual purity. Therefore putting aside all filthiness and all that remains of wickedness, in humility receive the Word implanted, which is able to save your souls. – James 1:21

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Another sin Christan must avoid is watching too much P.ornography movies. Alot of young teens are into this that it has affected them psychologically, mentally, and spiritually that they can't concentrate on their studies again

Excessive sexual sin and unclothedness is one of the marks of our Western culture and much of the world today. Everything is sensual. Everything must be sexy. We live in a sex-crazed world, and unclothedness jumps out at us from everywhere. It is becoming more and more difficult for men and women to keep themselves in a state of moral purity. Sexual sin and neglecting the laws of purity in the body of Christ is one of the elements that can potentially bring weakness, sickness, and even premature death to many in the Church. It is one forgotten aspect of not discerning the Lord’s body (1 Cor. 11:29-31).
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Step 5. You must recognize that “will power” is not the answer. At a weak moment, your “will” may fail you. By admitting that you are in need of God’s help, you open access to His supernatural intervention in your life. You must yield your will to God’s will. That’s when He can begin a new work in your life.
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Examine your conscience

“I am the Lord your God. You shall not have strange gods before Me.” (Ex 20:2,3)

Have I really loved God above all things or have I put other things — work, money, drugs, p.orn, m.asturbation,TV, fame, pleasure, other people — ahead of Him?
Have I made time for God each day in prayer?
Have I denied my faith in God or endangered it by practices of the occult or through reading or programs that are opposed to faith and morals?
Am I whole-hearted in accepting and following God’s teaching or do I only pick and choose the convenient parts of His message? Have I tried to learn and understand my faith better?
Have I denied my faith before others? Have I been willing to affirm, defend and practice my faith in public and not just in private?
Did I despair of or presume on God’s mercy?
Make out time to pray. it is a weapon against the devil.

Short Prayer To Help you After confessing the Sins Of P.ornography etc

O My dearest God, I am sorry for my sins with all my heart. In choosing to do wrong and failing to do good, I have sinned against you by watching nudity and engaging in order shameful acts, whom I should love above all things. I firmly intend, with the help of your grace, to do penance, to sin no more and to avoid whatever leads me to sin. Our Savior, Jesus Christ, suffered and died for us. In His Name, O Lord, have mercy Amen.

Step 4. Make yourself accountable to a spiritual authority, perhaps a pastor or mature believer.

Everybody needs a “safe” person to share their struggles with. Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, so that you may be healed. The effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much. - James 5:16

To make an examination of conscience:

Begin with a prayer asking for God’s help.

Review your life with the help of some questions, which are based on the 10 Commandments (see below).

Tell God how truly sorry you are for your sins.

Make a firm resolution not to sin again.

Remain Blessed!

Step 3. You must not blame others

– “If my wife/husband were just more affectionate.” … “If women/men were not so seductive.” Adam blamed Eve and she blamed the serpent. Instead, you must begin to take responsibility for your actions.

Step 2. You must recognize that what you are doing is wrong.

Addicts find a way to justify their problem in their mind. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world. - I John 2:16

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We are going to cover steps to recover from P.o.r.n addiction

How to recover from p.orn addiction
Step 1. First, you must acknowledge the addiction exists. Many who are caught in the trap of addiction will adamantly deny the problem. He who conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will find compassion. - Proverbs 28:13

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nicechic:
There's this general belief that the chances of a lady getting n marrying a man after graduation is lean.
I have often heard people telling me " babe try nd get a serious man before u graduate o" When I try to know why I must get a man before leaving school, the usual reply is " most men are scared of working class ladies" . I for one wanna graduate nd get a nice job before thinking of settling down but I get often worried by those lines above as I am still single nd about to graduate from the university.
So, my question is: Has anyone here heard such?
Is it true that eligible bachelors prefer undergraduates to working class ladies?
If true, then why? Mature contributions pls.....nairaland kiddies pls swerve

PM...and i will call you. I want to you!

Yedo:
Great write up but I don't agree with where you said "learn new approaches to self-pleasuring and sex with a partner" because in as much as watching indecency is a sin against GOD as u have said, so also is sex with a mere partner that is not your spouse.

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You have a point. I don't subscribe to p.orn neither will i support masturbation.

Yedo:
Great write up but I don't agree with where you said "learn new approaches to self-pleasuring and sex with a partner" because in as much as watching indecency is a sin against GOD as u have said, so also is sex with a mere partner that is not your spouse.

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You have a point. I don't subcribe to p.orn neither will i support masturbation.

If you are a PORN addict, you need help. Don’t suffer in silence and blame anyone for your failures. Just like sick people visit the doctor for test and diagnosis so will I diagnose the root cause of your problem. Everything is possible if you believe in your heart.

HERE ARE SOME INTERESTING STATISTICS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT P.O.R.N

58% of free adult websites comes from outside the United States.
Over 75% of our young teens and married men/women are watching p.o.r.n on their personal phones
1 in 5 mobile searches are for p.ornography
2 out of every child molestation and rape is usually caused by excessive use of p.orn
24% of smart phone owners admit to having p.orn on their mobile handsets.
Every second $3,075.64 is being spent on p.ornography.
9 out of 10 boys and 6 out 10girls are exposed to pornography before the age of 18.
20% of men admit to watching p.orn online at work.
50% of Christian men and 20% of all Christian women say they are addicted to p.orn.

This attitude often destroys relationship with your partner as the more you use it, the more you will crave for it.

Good job. KEEP IT UP!

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Thanks for reading so far to this stage. You are all blessed and by the grace of God you will overcome p.orn and mastur.bation in 2015. I will find more time to write on this so that many could get the useful information they need to quit por.n.

Studies show that terms relating to porn are by far the most commonly searched-for terms in the internet search engines. Every day, literally millions of people do searches related to the porn industry. The powerful imagery of internet pornography is highly addictive. Many men (and women) have been caught in the snare of internet porn and find themselves helplessly addicted to its visual stimulation. This results in uncontrollable lust, an inability to experience true sexual intimacy in marriage, and often intense feelings of guilt and despair. Pornography is the #1 cause of masturbation, sexual assault, and sexual deviancy. Most importantly, pornography is offensive to God, and is therefore a sin that must be confessed, repented of, and overcome.

Also Quitting porn requires a support system that takes care of you after you go through steps 1 and 2 above, providing guidance during the process of adjusting back into society. This is where “rebooting” or abstaining from porn, masturbating or orgasm for a certain amount of time becomes useful.

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If you are a PORN addict, you need help. Don’t suffer in silence and blame anyone for your failures. Just like sick people visit the doctor for test and diagnosis so will I diagonise the root cause of your problem. Everything is possible if you believe in your heart. First, you must acknowledge the addiction exists. Many who are caught in the trap of addiction will adamantly deny the problem. He who conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will find compassion. - Proverbs 28:13- For more information on how to stay librated. 10. It’s cliche, but you must approach your addiction one day at a time. Look for little victories and rejoice in the progress you’re making. Recovery is a cinch by the inch, but a trial by the mile. Remember a journey of a thousand miles starts with a step.

OmoAlata1:
I will say it again, there is no such thing as p.orn addiction nor sex addiction. if you believe you have any of these addiction, you don't. You have other issues that need to be treated and it is manifesting itself through sex. First uncover the real reason(s) why have these addiction then seek proper professional treatment for it. then your addiction will be solved. In my opinion p.orn and sex addiction is just an excuse cos people will automatically feel sorry for you.

That is a big life from the pit of hell. I know how how many young teens in Nigeria that have called me to counsel them. Moreso addiction is the topic of discussion on inspiration FM Lagos-20/1/2015. So you are deceiving yourself.

Am glad it was well read and enjoyed...To be continued soon!