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RomanceRe: The One Attitude That Is Killing Your Relationship With Opposite Partner by expert101(op): 11:28pm On Jan 19, 2015
[size=16pt]Convey your problem to another person[/size]

I have a problem with pornography and I want to quit.” When a porn user first says words like these out loud to another person, he takes a
significant first step in climbing out of the porn trap. As we’ve seen in previous chapters, most relationships with porn thrive on isolation,
secrecy,and denial. By talking openly and honestly with another person about your problem you automatically weaken your connection to porn.
RomanceRe: The One Attitude That Is Killing Your Relationship With Opposite Partner by expert101(op): 11:27pm On Jan 19, 2015
Quit it now, Don't wait to quit Tomorrow

Have you decided to quit Porn? Then quit it right now. Dont keep it for some tomorrow that will never come. Your last porn watching is over, its past. Start now. Right now.

Build a Porn free environment

Delete your porn collection now, from your DVD collection, flashdrive, memory cards, laptop, phones and ipad etc.Burn or throw away those magazines and DVDs. Dont keep a single porn clip in your system.Clean it all.If you have personal favorite delete them first!!

Stop counting days

By counting the number of days you have stopped watching, defeats the purpose of staying away from porn. Actually this is another away of thinking about porn. Subconsciously you will take it as a pain And one day you might say "i had enough", and you will find yourself
using porn again.

Kill the Porn trigger

[b]Many people stop watching porn for months and all of a sudden they
start it again. To kill trigger you have learn to stay away from the cliff edge rather than seeing how close you can get to it without falling.
Stop doing things which you have done before watching porn
Triggers differ from individual to individual. For example, seeing an R-rated movie with an intense sex scene might trigger some former users into thoughts about wanting to access porn, while the same sex scene.The trigger could be something as simple as driving by a beer advertisement on a billboard with busty women on it.”

Stop negative self talk excuses

Some people find that they can assume more responsibility for quitting porn simply by changing their mental “self-talk.When they notice they are telling themselves things like, .
"My will power is weak or I dont have will power"
“I have to use porn,”
“I have no control over watching porn”
Quickly counter the thoughts with more positive statements

Correct your sexual habits

you may have developed sexual habits and patterns that work with porn but don’t work in real intimate relationships.
Sexual attitudes and behaviours don’t miraculously transform once you’ve stopped using porn. You’ll need to make an active effort to discover new ways to define sex, change the images you associate with sex, and learn new approaches to self-pleasuring and sex with a partner. Examining and shifting your attitudes and behaviours about sex is time well spent,

Find Ways to Conserve and Strengthen Willpower
A big part of kicking the porn habit is resisting those impulses to watch porn when you encounter one of your behavioural cues. That takes willpower.
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RomanceThe One Attitude That Is Killing Your Relationship With Opposite Partner by expert101(op):
The one attitude and action that is hazardous to your relationship with people in 2015 is P.o.r.n addiction. Viewing indecency sites is as addictive as cocaine and can keep you coming back for more without you knowing that you are an addict. Internet porn is like a drug addiciton. The access to endless variety of porn causes your to constantly search for the “perfect” scene.

This leads to massive overstimulation of the brain, the overstimulation causes a dopamine (dope) release into the brain (your fix). After you have an orgasm it’s like coming down off a drug. After all that excitement, that endless stimuli for the brain, your body just shuts off and you turn into a lazy piece of shit. How many time have you been about to do something, decided to just have a “quick one”, and by the end 30 minutes later had no motivation to do anything.

Alright, let’s get into the nitty gritty of how to actually quit using porn for good. The tips and suggestions below are based on my research into cognitive psychology over the years as well as from reported experiences of men who have quit using porn.
Quitting porn sites requires discipline, courage and faith. Follow these techniques to free yourself from porn forever. Are you the type that download p.orn movies from free sites to watch on your phone, PC, Ipad and office computer etc. This message is for you! In 2015 you will seek liberation and total freedom from nudity and p.ornography as that is the latest bondage of the devil on our people in Nigeria. You can overcome it. Read On!....
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CelebritiesRe: What Is Wrong With This Picture Of Banky W & A Bald-Headed Lady? by expert101(m): 11:11pm On Jan 18, 2015
[b]Tired of watching P.O.R.N and you want to quit? There is help and SOLUTION for you.

If you are a Indecency addict, you need help. Don’t suffer in silence and blame anyone for your failures. Just like sick people visit the doctor for test and diagnosis so will I diagonise the root cause of your problem. Everything is possible if you believe in your heart. First, you must acknowledge the addiction exists. Many who are caught in the trap of addiction will adamantly deny the problem. He who conceals his transgressions will n[/b]ot prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will find compassion. - Proverbs 28:13- For more information on how to stay librated.

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CelebritiesRe: How A Zenith Bank Security Man Saved Patoranking From Pooing On Himself by expert101(m): 11:10pm On Jan 18, 2015
[size=18pt]Tired of watching P.O.R.N and you want to quit? There is help and SOLUTION for you.

If you are a Indecency addict, you need help. Don’t suffer in silence and blame anyone for your failures. Just like sick people visit the doctor for test and diagnosis so will I diagonise the root cause of your problem. Everything is possible if you believe in your heart. First, you must acknowledge the addiction exists. Many who are caught in the trap of addiction will adamantly deny the problem. He who conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will find compassion. - Proverbs 28:13- For more information on how to stay librated.[/size]

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PoliticsRe: GEJ's Visit To Maiduguri Was Hallmark Of Deceit - Oby Ezekwesili by expert101(m): 11:00pm On Jan 18, 2015
GEJ the clueless president. Playing politics with innocent Nigerians
Tired of watching P.O.R.N and you want to quit? There is help and SOLUTION for you.

If you are a Indecency addict, you need help. Don’t suffer in silence and blame anyone for your failures. Just like sick people visit the doctor for test and diagnosis so will I diagonise the root cause of your problem. Everything is possible if you believe in your heart. First, you must acknowledge the addiction exists. Many who are caught in the trap of addiction will adamantly deny the problem. He who conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will find compassion. - Proverbs 28:13- For more information on how to stay librated.


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PoliticsRe: Graphic Photos Of 143 Boko Haram Fighters Killed By Cameroonian Army by expert101(m): 11:00pm On Jan 18, 2015
[size=18pt]Tired of watching P.O.R.N and you want to quit? There is help and SOLUTION for you.

If you are a Indecency addict, you need help. Don’t suffer in silence and blame anyone for your failures. Just like sick people visit the doctor for test and diagnosis so will I diagonise the root cause of your problem. Everything is possible if you believe in your heart. First, you must acknowledge the addiction exists. Many who are caught in the trap of addiction will adamantly deny the problem. He who conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will find compassion. - Proverbs 28:13- For more information on how to stay librated.[/size]
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PoliticsRe: BREAKING NEWS: Jonathan Lowers Petrol Price By 10 Naira. by expert101(m): 10:53pm On Jan 18, 2015
Jona is a looser already!

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PoliticsRe: APC & PDP Thugs Clash In Zamfara (Very Graphic Photos) by expert101(m): 10:51pm On Jan 18, 2015
Vioence doesn't pay! Obey the law and rest your fellow citizens! One Man, One Vote.

Tired of watching P.O.R.N and you want to quit? There is help and SOLUTION for you.

If you are a Indecency addict, you need help. Don’t suffer in silence and blame anyone for your failures. Just like sick people visit the doctor for test and diagnosis so will I diagonise the root cause of your problem. Everything is possible if you believe in your heart. First, you must acknowledge the addiction exists. Many who are caught in the trap of addiction will adamantly deny the problem. He who conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will find compassion. - Proverbs 28:13- For more information on how to stay librated.


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PoliticsRe: How Sani Abacha Died…AL Mustapha. NOT BY APPLE by expert101(m): 10:50pm On Jan 18, 2015
Tired of watching P.O.R.N and you want to quit? There is help and SOLUTION for you.

[size=18pt]If you are a Indecency addict, you need help. Don’t suffer in silence and blame anyone for your failures. Just like sick people visit the doctor for test and diagnosis so will I diagonise the root cause of your problem. Everything is possible if you believe in your heart. First, you must acknowledge the addiction exists. Many who are caught in the trap of addiction will adamantly deny the problem. He who conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will find compassion. - Proverbs 28:13- For more information on how to stay librated.

click on the link to learn more...
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PoliticsRe: Timetable And Schedule Of Activities For General Elections 2015 - Nigeria by expert101(m): 10:48pm On Jan 18, 2015
Tired of watching P.O.R.N and you want to quit? There is help and SOLUTION for you.

[size=18pt]If you are a Indecency addict, you need help. Don’t suffer in silence and blame anyone for your failures. Just like sick people visit the doctor for test and diagnosis so will I diagonise the root cause of your problem. Everything is possible if you believe in your heart. First, you must acknowledge the addiction exists. Many who are caught in the trap of addiction will adamantly deny the problem. He who conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will find compassion. - Proverbs 28:13- For more information on how to stay librated.

http://quitpornreport.com/blueprint/[/size]

PoliticsRe: FG Reduces Price Of Petrol To 87 Naira Per Litre by expert101(m): 10:46pm On Jan 18, 2015
Tired of watching P.O.R.N and you want to quit? There is help and SOLUTION for you.

[size=18pt]If you are a PORN addict, you need help. Don’t suffer in silence and blame anyone for your failures. Just like sick people visit the doctor for test and diagnosis so will I diagonise the root cause of your problem. Everything is possible if you believe in your heart. First, you must acknowledge the addiction exists. Many who are caught in the trap of addiction will adamantly deny the problem. He who conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will find compassion. - Proverbs 28:13- For more information on how to stay librated.[/size]

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CelebritiesRe: Photo Of Muna Obiekwe On A Dialysis Machine, Prior To His Death by expert101(m): 10:43pm On Jan 18, 2015
RIP To a great actor! Nollywood actors should learn to live responsibly cos everyman will die oneday.
SportsRe: Opininon:open Letter To Louis Van Gaal by expert101(m): 10:12pm On Jan 18, 2015
Man United needs to spend money now to replace some weak defensive and mid field payers!
FamilyRe: Dealing With Addiction by expert101(m): 9:32pm On Jan 17, 2015
Excessive porn viewing steals time away from actual real-life and potentially productive projects. The more porn you view, the more you want to view and the more extreme it needs to be to give you the same 'buzz'.
How porn addiction lies to you. Like any addictive behaviour, porn ultimately never delivers what it seems to promise. First there's the feeling of building expectation before you start viewing. At first there is excitement but then, bit by bit, you start to feel hollow as the 'pornographic gorge' gathers pace.

And, as with all binges, you start to feel overloaded, bloated with images. When you do finally stop, you feel worse than you did to start with as you experience the post-binge comedown.

Some Signs You Are A P.orn Addict

You are unable to stop using porn or the behaviors associated with porn, despite attempts to do so.
Become angry, hostile or irritable if you are asked to stop using porn.
You keep all or part of your porn use secret from loved ones.
You feel as though you live a double or secret life because of your porn use.
You continue to view porn despite negative consequences, such as broken relationships or job loss.
You have lost track of large chunks of time because you've been absorbed in porn use.
FamilyRe: Dealing With Addiction by expert101(m): 9:23pm On Jan 17, 2015
Sex addicts have sex without regard to potential consequences. A sex addict often uses sex as a quick fix to relieve anxiety, loneliness, pain or other forms of stress, and this cycle has to last over six months before it can be diagnosed. According to the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, there are approximately 12 million sex addicts in the United States and about 2 million sex addicts including child molesters in Nigeria. Fortunately, just like other addictions, there are various ways of dealing with sex addiction.

For years, people have grappled with the problem of how to treat sexual addicts. Currently, there are different forms of treatments available, but most of them include psychosocial and pharmacotherapy techniques. Psychosocial treatment involves group therapy, where addicts attend group sessions where they get support and fellowship. Outpatient and inpatient treatment programs tend to focus on identification of the behavioral triggers. This helps patients in learning how to make better choices, to cope with their addiction and generally to break their habits.

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AutosRe: Liberty jeep 2005 model American Spec @N1.5m by expert101(m): 12:07am On Jan 15, 2015
Lovely jeep...location plz and last price?
PoliticsRe: APC Mega Rally In Lagos Today (Pictures) by expert101(m): 7:59pm On Jan 14, 2015
Buhari all the way! Please sweep Jona snail and his wife out.
Car TalkRe: Golf 4 Vs Primera P11-144 by expert101(m): 10:09pm On Dec 25, 2014
Drgreatone:
Thanks @Autobay, tdi means diesel I guess? @Lomomike, siena, gazzuzz, cityng etc i await ur valued contribution. Also current or past Golf 4 and primera owners, pls what's ur experience so far
TDI have petrol engine. Golf 4 is a sweet car to drive but very problematic and unreliable. Each time I travel on Benin -Ore way, I see many of them that have broken done on highway.
Car TalkRe: Golf 4 Vs Primera P11-144 by expert101(m): 10:01pm On Dec 25, 2014
Advice that your friend to run from the Golf as it is problematic and unreliable. Even though the primera is not the best in its category but when well maintained will serve you for a long while.
AutosRe: Honda Accord 2007 #1.3 Yes Toks SOLD !!! by expert101(m): 11:11pm On Dec 07, 2014
clean ride!
Car TalkRe: Honda Pilot / Acuda MDX / Toyota Highlander / Lexus RX Dilemna by expert101(m): 11:01pm On Dec 07, 2014
Acura MDX is the worst! High rate of transmission failures.

Most people don't change their transmission fluid on time or don't even bother to replace/check the level. It is important to note that if you use the wrong fluid it could damage your gear. Information is key!
Car TalkRe: Are Manual Cars Still Needed In Naija? by expert101(m): 10:56pm On Dec 07, 2014
Manual still remains the best. Good to drive and cheap to maintain. Most people talking don't even know how to maintain automatic vehicle neither have they changed their transmission oil.
AutosRe: Toyota Hiace 2010 by expert101(m): 8:37am On Nov 28, 2014
Location of the car?
AutosRe: Toyota Hiace 2010 by expert101(m): 8:32am On Nov 28, 2014
1.2 million cash if everything is working perfectly
AutosRe: Tokunbo 2005 Toyota Camry 1m Last Price............ by expert101(m): 8:31am On Nov 28, 2014
XLE for N1Miliion na scam ooo. Its either its a stolen car or the poster is out to dupe innocent people

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