adetoroamos:
free her! or u don invest ur life savings in her?

Nothing like that, but you know when your already making future plans with someone in mind.

Yes introduction

No, nothing like that and I have asked her that if anything is the problem that she should let me know

Meet her like three years ago, but we started dating almost 2years now. What i liked about her is that she is easy going, understanding and her stress free nature. She got transferred to another state, of which i wasn't so comfortable with but not anyone's fault and everything was normal initially.
But from December last year i started noticing the distance behaviour and i don't care attitude. Tried to know what the problem was and she was like nothing, that everything is fine. But it kept getting worse, like i will ask her how her day was and she will be like nothing to talk about. And i will be the one fill up my whole day events, she usually contributes oh in the discussion.
We had a quarrel earlier this year as a result of how i was feeling about her recent behaviour of which am at fault how i went about it. Like telling her am no longer interested because i asked when am i seeing her and she was like "i don't know" two to three times that i asked her. Which I apologised and begged her for like two weeks, duo so kind of her, she came two weeks after the quarrel.
But the I don't care behaviour has being getting worse, she hardly calls these days. I do all the calling, mind u i told her i will be seeing her peeps by September and she mine before then. And when she talks these days eh, the boldness with "the i no send behaviour".
For example i asked her recently when am seeing her again (i.e either me visiting her or she visiting me) she said she doesn't know and that i should stop asking her. So the next day when i called her i asked her "shey if there is any problem that she will let me know?" She said "may be".
That answer got me worried and suspicious but still in order to avoid another quarrel I sent her text instead asking her if she seeing someone else, so that it won't look as if am accusing her of cheating. I asked her if anybody is asking for her hand in marriage? She avoided the question initially but I insisted and she was like yes but she told the person that she is dating someone else (me). Asked her where the person is? Same State she is in ..... didn't know what else to do but to switched off my phone.
This gat me thinking about the whole nothing is happening every time i ask her how her day was and the i don't care attitude every time. And if i never asked she wouldn't have said anything, and what else might have happened that she's not telling me. I won't lie to guys, i love her but the only mistake i don't want to make in my life is the spend the rest of my life in regrets. Because i use to tell my friends that you only have from 18years to 28years (10years) to live as a single guy, but from 30years till death, you will spend with your partner. So making the mistake spending it with the wrong person is not an option. Which was why i liked her easy going and stress free nature.