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Education / Update On Federal Scholarship Board Application 2023 by ezechidera(m): 5:25pm On Apr 06, 2023
HELLO, I APPLIED FOR THE FEDERAL SCHOLARSHIP BOARD DECEMEBER OF LAST YEAR, 2022. HAS ANYBODY THAT APPLIED GOTTEN FEEDBACK?
WHAT DO I DO TO CHECK IF I WAS GIVEN THE SCHOLARSHIP?

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Programming / Re: Discover How To Be A Blockchain Developer & Blockchain Engineer by ezechidera(m): 11:51am On Nov 03, 2021
Blesschemical:
what i mean is the personal access to the Software Development Using Blockchain technology link from codeacademy
I am not sure. Mine did not expire after I had paid for my training. You should contact their customer support.
Programming / Re: Discover How To Be A Blockchain Developer & Blockchain Engineer by ezechidera(m): 11:57pm On Nov 02, 2021
Blesschemical:
Please does the link expire?
what do you mean
Programming / Re: Discover How To Be A Blockchain Developer & Blockchain Engineer by ezechidera(m): 7:29pm On Nov 01, 2021
spartan117:
Nice one @ezechidera. If I may ask what path did you take in becoming a Blockchain developer?
I'm looking to switch from MERN stack to Blockchain next year and I'm thinking of signing up for Dapp university Blockchain course next month.

There is no Nigerian Based Academy that does it best yet. Use Code Academy - These tutors are not Nigerian. The tutors are from MIT and Pearson.
Programming / Re: Discover How To Be A Blockchain Developer & Blockchain Engineer by ezechidera(m): 1:03pm On Oct 30, 2021
I am a Blockchain remote Developer. I do not have the time to sit down and Teach anyone.
But, This is where I started, I got access to all the 100+ videos and materials I use today.
You can start from there. Progress steadily - Good luck guys
https://www.codeacademy.ga/

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Programming / Re: Discover How To Be A Blockchain Developer & Blockchain Engineer by ezechidera(m): 11:33am On Oct 19, 2021
You guys should read this post well. I used the word UPGRADE. I did not say DUMP whatever things that is working for you. Please do not miss quote me.

Please bear with me. I will answer all your questions one at at time

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Science/Technology / Discover How To Be A Blockchain Developer & Blockchain Engineer by ezechidera(m): 4:23pm On Oct 18, 2021
You may be a Software developer that can code in Java, Python, Go, C#, etc. You may even have experience in using Frameworks and Apis to provide solutions.

But guess what? There is a major shift in the tech space. The industry is changing at a rapid rate. With the sudden boom of Blockchain & Cryptocurrency, there is a huge demand for the development of Blockchain applications, Not just outside Africa, but in Nigeria.

Venture capital investors and Angel investors are on the lookout for startups that rely on blockchain in developing their business solutions. That is why Bitmama, the only blockchain-backed startup in Nigeria closed a funding of $350k.

The highest-paid software developers are the blockchain Engineers and Developers.
The least blockchain developer, that is junior developers earn $96,000 per year. imagine what a senior developer earns.

Nigeria is known for cheap labour, that is why most remote tech companies from the USA, UK, Germany, etc outsource their work to software developers at a cheaper rate.

I am a Blockchain developer working for a remote tech company in the USA. I am paid $8,000 per month as a senior developer.
Not only that, I do free-lance that earns me $20k, some go as high as $50k.

In Lagos currently, Some of my colleague that works in Bitmama earns as little as N200k per month

The Demand is High. There are few developers in this space.

Even if you are already a developer, You can find yourself a good tutor and gradually upgrade. So that in less than 6 months, you should be able to start a project effectively.

There is huge Money to be Made in Tech especially if you work for Remote Tech Companies all from your house.

Have a Good day.

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Programming / Discover How To Be A Blockchain Developer & Blockchain Engineer by ezechidera(m): 10:43am On Oct 18, 2021
You may be a Software developer that can code in Java, Python, Go, C#, etc. You may even have experience in using Frameworks and Apis to provide solutions.

But guess what? There is a major shift in the tech space. The industry is changing at a rapid rate. With the sudden boom of Blockchain & Cryptocurrency, there is a huge demand for the development of Blockchain applications, Not just outside Africa, but in Nigeria.

Venture capital investors and Angel investors are on the lookout for startups that rely on blockchain in developing their business solutions. That is why Bitmama, the only blockchain-backed startup in Nigeria closed a funding of $350k.

The highest-paid software developers are the blockchain Engineers and Developers.
The least blockchain developer, that is junior developers earn $96,000 per year. imagine what a senior developer earns.

Nigeria is known for cheap labour, that is why most remote tech companies from the USA, UK, Germany, etc outsource their work to software developers at a cheaper rate.

I am a Blockchain developer working for a remote tech company in the USA. I am paid $8,000 per month as a senior developer.
Not only that, I do free-lance that earns me $20k, some go as high as $50k.

In Lagos currently, Some of my colleague that works in Bitmama earns as little as N200k per month

The Demand is High. There are few developers in this space.

Even if you are already a developer, You can find yourself a good tutor and gradually upgrade. So that in less than 6 months, you should be able to start a project effectively.

There is huge Money to be Made in Tech especially if you work for Remote Tech Companies all from your house.

Have a Good day.

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Health / Re: PROTECT YOURSELF. 80% Of Women Die From Vaginal Injury. These are the Causes by ezechidera(m): 10:09pm On Oct 15, 2021
ahnie:
I experience this during the birth of my son.multiple inner tears.the nurses just cleaned my boy up, transferred us to another bed with white bedding.

I knew I was dying because I had lost lots of blood.it was my neighbor that raised alarm and Drew the attention of the nurse.

I was given 3 injections on my lap and stuffed down there with enuf sanitary pads.

Things women goes through just to birth a child.

Sorry for hearing this. Hope you are good now?
Romance / Re: What Happens When You Use Money To Attract Women? by ezechidera(m): 8:20pm On Oct 15, 2021
Romance / As A Nigerian Woman, People Do Not Take You Seriously. This Is Your Solution by ezechidera(m): 8:16pm On Oct 15, 2021
Hello, I'm Ezeh Prince, and this is an Ad.

It is an Ad specifically for women who want to be self-independent and financial independent.
By Financial independence, I do not mean learning to be a make-up artist, fashion designer, caterer, civil servant, or event planner .
What I mean by financial independence is having kings answer to you whenever you find yourself. What I mean by financial independence is having not to suck up to a man just because he can provide for your needs. What I mean by financial independence is not marrying a man because he can provide for your kids and family. What I mean by financial independence is feeding and raising your kids, giving them the best even if your husband is financially capable. What I mean by financial dependent is commanding respect wherever you find yourself.

If you fall under this category, This will help you.

In this Ads, I am going to do two(2) things. I will share three(3) secrets with you that will help you get to that level of wealth you think is impossible for women to reach. And shockingly, I am going to try to sell you something.

Let's make good with the first promise to help you attain self-independence and financial independence.

I grew up in a family where all the affluence and wealth I enjoyed when growing up as a child was provided by a woman, My mother. Although my father was financially capable of paying our expensive school fees and taking us on vacations overseas, He made us know that my mother had pleaded several times to allow her to cater to our needs. Of course, as a Nigerian man, in the 90s, it was a shameful thing that a woman was the provider of the home when the man was around.

Having given it a second thought, He agreed to her request. He was surprised to see the level of provision and finance my mother pulled off. He was also astonished that she was obedient and respectful to all his rules in the home despite all that. "Ahụtụbeghị m ụdị nwanyị a mbụ," in English means, He hasn't seen a woman like this since he was born. This made the respect my father had towards my mother skyrocket above 100%. Until now, He still boasts about his wife to his peers any chance he gets.

Being the closest to my mom, I learned three(3) secrets that she keeps hammering to my two little sisters ever since they entered JSS1. As of this writing, my sister, the Ada, is currently the Co-Founder of NITE, a power energy startup in China. She is 21 and recently finished her bachelor's degree.

I will do this quickly. Here is Secret No 1

"The Power of Service." You may think this equals serving others, but No, it is far from it. My mother will always tell her girls, "See, as a woman, you must, and I repeat, you must be aware of what you are good at and what you are meant to do. That is what you are in service of."
In other words, she is not making a point of selflessness. She's talking about self-discovery. The question I would like you to ask yourself is, "How can I be Used?." This translates to what are the unique talents I have to offer? What am I specifically meant to be doing?
Believe in the why behind whatever it is you do. You have to believe you are doing something meaningful.
You must find your unique talents and invest your whole self "IN SERVICE" in your goals.
You must prioritize self-care. If you put yourself last and burn out, you won't have anything left for others, let alone the goals you strive to achieve. You must do this. If you do not get this done, no motivational advice you read on social media will help you.

Secret 2. Be the Leader and Not the Follower.
A leader innovates. A leader keeps trying out different solutions to a problem until she finds the perfect solution. A leader never stops learning. A Leader knows that once she stops learning new ways to better people's lives, she will faze out into being a follower. A Leader never stops reading. The truth is Nigerian Women read more than men. That is why in terms of education, they tend to scale faster and in huge numbers than men. A leader knows when to give honor to whom honor is due. A leader knows that every word that leaves her mouth must be structured carefully. A Leader knows how to handle any individual she comes across, no matter the temperament. A leader knows her strength and her weakness.

Secret 3. The Ability and the Discipline to keep learning and apply that knowledge will keep you equal with Kings. Learning here does not mean reading biology or chemistry or Mat101 or Law212 or Home Economics or reading excellent educative social media posts crafted by a content creator.

Learning means deliberately sitting down with a book or ebook with the sole purpose of filling your knowledge gap with that which you think you know. My mother said, "A lot of my peers and a lot of women think they know it all. That is why they try to show a man that they know it. They get offended if the man doesn't see that and pushes them aside. " Now listen to this. If you truly understand something, you will start implementing it in your life. If you sometimes forget it or it skips your mind, Sorry, you simply don't know it. Instead, you delude yourself into thinking you know it since you have an idea of it.

That is why, If you think you know how to make money. It means you should be sitting on nothing less than N5million in cash or an asset. If you don't have that, sorry, you do not know how to make money.

Also, If you think you know how to save money, it means you should have saved at least 40% of the money that has entered your hand this year 2021; if you keep giving genuine and good excuses about your everyday expenses as the reason you have not saved that much, Sorry you do not know how to save.

Also, If you think you know how to confidently and respectfully talk to any caliber of man, it means you should have gotten at least one of them to be an investor to the company you are building without having to open your legs. If You have not done this or have tried and kept saying men are scum, You do not know how to convert a man seeking sex to respect you enough to be an Investor of your company.

Also, suppose you think you know how to respectfully approach a highly skilled gentleman and make him work for you. In that case, it means your company should be filled with many experienced and professionals intellectuals, which will skyrocket your company's progress. If you have not done this or have an idea of how to do it, sorry, you do not know how to make highly skilled intellectual work for you.

This is why you start by learning from this book: "How to Turn Yourself into a Live Breathing Cash Machine."

In this book, you will discover the following life-changing secrets.
1. How to see opportunities in everything and everywhere you find yourself. Any woman who can see opportunities where people do not see it will use that opportunity to turn herself into a millionaire.
2. How to gradually avoid friends that do not add value to the life you are trying to build.
3. How to draw the line between the friends that add to your personal and financial growth. And the friends that are there to have fun with you when you need it.
4. How to effectively manage your children's and Husband's needs 24/7, to have enough time to solve your company's problems.
5. How to convert any man looking to have sex with you to the man opening his cheque book to become an investor at your company.
6. How to differentiate between an online business that will return suitable investments and an online business that is a scam.
7. How to spend your money looking highly fashionable and, at the same time, a symbol every woman looks up to.
8. Saving your time from thinking of new ways to collect money from your husband to maintain yourself and your children's needs.
9. How to avoid enslaving yourself in a job that takes your time 7 am -8 pm.
10. How to avoid whining in regret when adversities come. Or when your strategy does not go the way you planned it.
11. How to save yourself the time of moving from one guy to another with the excuse of finding love with a wealthy guy.
12. How to build wealth from nothing, even as a young girl in school
13. How to avoid being pushed into the wrong marriage just because the guy is rich and can provide for you and your kids
14. Saving you the stress of moving from one office to another looking for an N50k job
15. How to respectfully command the respect of boys when you pay for their drinks and foods during an outing
16. How to avoid selling yourself short, especially when men brag about being the money makers
17. Solving Peoples problems and they will beg you to take their money.
18. How to avoid the beatings of your boyfriend or husband just because he is the provider of the family.
19. How to remove the inferiority complex your kids have among their peers by providing them with the stuff to boost their morale.
20. How to avoid living in regrets and feeling sorry for yourself for not having wealthy parents
21. How to remove the insecurity your husband or boyfriend might feel because you are the family's breadwinner.
22. How to comfortably command respect by speaking among your peers.
23. How to use your money to employ a healthy nutritionist to prescribe the kind of food to keep your body healthy.
24. The ability to create a healthy time for sex with your partner at the time of your choosing.

The book is well packed, and that is the reason it is an expensive book of N18000. But do not panic. Akin Alabi, The CEO of the multi-billion company, Naira Bet, is currently running a promo for this book for N5000. The promo is ongoing and will end on the 31st of October.

I 100% guarantee you will love this book and the bonuses that comes with it. If you are not satisfied after learning the juice from this book, Your money of N5000 will be refunded back to you, and you still keep the book. Just chat me on WhatsApp with the phrase, "I NEED A REFUND," and you will get it back.

How's that for fair?

Go ahead and check out the book. https://mailchi.mp/a98de74e7821/how-to-turn-yourself-into-a-live-breathing-cash-machine
If you think you still need to know more about this book before you decide to purchase it, I am always available to help you in whatever way I can. [url]+2349033810404[/url]
Career / How to Gain A Positively Unfair Advantage in Business and in Life as a Lady by ezechidera(m): 8:46pm On Oct 13, 2021
Hello, I'm Ezeh Prince, and this is an Ad.

It is an Ad specifically for women who want to be self-independent and financial independent.
By Financial independence, I do not mean learning to be a make-up artist, fashion designer, caterer, civil servant, or event planner .
What I mean by financial independence is having kings answer to you whenever you find yourself. What I mean by financial independence is having not to suck up to a man just because he can provide for your needs. What I mean by financial independence is not marrying a man because he can provide for your kids and family. What I mean by financial independence is feeding and raising your kids, giving them the best even if your husband is financially capable. What I mean by financial dependent is commanding respect wherever you find yourself.

If you fall under this category, This will help you.

In this Ads, I am going to do two(2) things. I will share three(3) secrets with you that will help you get to that level of wealth you think is impossible for women to reach. And shockingly, I am going to try to sell you something.

Let's make good with the first promise to help you attain self-independence and financial independence.

I grew up in a family where all the affluence and wealth I enjoyed when growing up as a child was provided by a woman, My mother. Although my father was financially capable of paying our expensive school fees and taking us on vacations overseas, He made us know that my mother had pleaded several times to allow her to cater to our needs. Of course, as a Nigerian man, in the 90s, it was a shameful thing that a woman was the provider of the home when the man was around.

Having given it a second thought, He agreed to her request. He was surprised to see the level of provision and finance my mother pulled off. He was also astonished that she was obedient and respectful to all his rules in the home despite all that. "Ahụtụbeghị m ụdị nwanyị a mbụ," in English means, He hasn't seen a woman like this since he was born. This made the respect my father had towards my mother skyrocket above 100%. Until now, He still boasts about his wife to his peers any chance he gets.

Being the closest to my mom, I learned three(3) secrets that she keeps hammering to my two little sisters ever since they entered JSS1. As of this writing, my sister, the Ada, is currently the Co-Founder of NITE, a power energy startup in China. She is 21 and recently finished her bachelor's degree.

I will do this quickly. Here is Secret No 1

"The Power of Service." You may think this equals serving others, but No, it is far from it. My mother will always tell her girls, "See, as a woman, you must, and I repeat, you must be aware of what you are good at and what you are meant to do. That is what you are in service of."
In other words, she is not making a point of selflessness. She's talking about self-discovery. The question I would like you to ask yourself is, "How can I be Used?." This translates to what are the unique talents I have to offer? What am I specifically meant to be doing?
Believe in the why behind whatever it is you do. You have to believe you are doing something meaningful.
You must find your unique talents and invest your whole self "IN SERVICE" in your goals.
You must prioritize self-care. If you put yourself last and burn out, you won't have anything left for others, let alone the goals you strive to achieve. You must do this. If you do not get this done, no motivational advice you read on social media will help you.

Secret 2. Be the Leader and Not the Follower.
A leader innovates. A leader keeps trying out different solutions to a problem until she finds the perfect solution. A leader never stops learning. A Leader knows that once she stops learning new ways to better people's lives, she will faze out into being a follower. A Leader never stops reading. The truth is Nigerian Women read more than men. That is why in terms of education, they tend to scale faster and in huge numbers than men. A leader knows when to give honor to whom honor is due. A leader knows that every word that leaves her mouth must be structured carefully. A Leader knows how to handle any individual she comes across, no matter the temperament. A leader knows her strength and her weakness.

Secret 3. The Ability and the Discipline to keep learning and apply that knowledge will keep you equal with Kings. Learning here does not mean reading biology or chemistry or Mat101 or Law212 or Home Economics or reading excellent educative social media posts crafted by a content creator.

Learning means deliberately sitting down with a book or ebook with the sole purpose of filling your knowledge gap with that which you think you know. My mother said, "A lot of my peers and a lot of women think they know it all. That is why they try to show a man that they know it. They get offended if the man doesn't see that and pushes them aside. " Now listen to this. If you truly understand something, you will start implementing it in your life. If you sometimes forget it or it skips your mind, Sorry, you simply don't know it. Instead, you delude yourself into thinking you know it since you have an idea of it.

That is why, If you think you know how to make money. It means you should be sitting on nothing less than N5million in cash or an asset. If you don't have that, sorry, you do not know how to make money.

Also, If you think you know how to save money, it means you should have saved at least 40% of the money that has entered your hand this year 2021; if you keep giving genuine and good excuses about your everyday expenses as the reason you have not saved that much, Sorry you do not know how to save.

Also, If you think you know how to confidently and respectfully talk to any caliber of man, it means you should have gotten at least one of them to be an investor to the company you are building without having to open your legs. If You have not done this or have tried and kept saying men are scum, You do not know how to convert a man seeking sex to respect you enough to be an Investor of your company.

Also, suppose you think you know how to respectfully approach a highly skilled gentleman and make him work for you. In that case, it means your company should be filled with many experienced and professionals intellectuals, which will skyrocket your company's progress. If you have not done this or have an idea of how to do it, sorry, you do not know how to make highly skilled intellectual work for you.

This is why you start by learning from this book: "How to Turn Yourself into a Live Breathing Cash Machine."

In this book, you will discover the following life-changing secrets.
1. How to see opportunities in everything and everywhere you find yourself. Any woman who can see opportunities where people do not see it will use that opportunity to turn herself into a millionaire.
2. How to gradually avoid friends that do not add value to the life you are trying to build.
3. How to draw the line between the friends that add to your personal and financial growth. And the friends that are there to have fun with you when you need it.
4. How to effectively manage your children's and Husband's needs 24/7, to have enough time to solve your company's problems.
5. How to convert any man looking to have sex with you to the man opening his cheque book to become an investor at your company.
6. How to differentiate between an online business that will return suitable investments and an online business that is a scam.
7. How to spend your money looking highly fashionable and, at the same time, a symbol every woman looks up to.
8. Saving your time from thinking of new ways to collect money from your husband to maintain yourself and your children's needs.
9. How to avoid enslaving yourself in a job that takes your time 7 am -8 pm.
10. How to avoid whining in regret when adversities come. Or when your strategy does not go the way you planned it.
11. How to save yourself the time of moving from one guy to another with the excuse of finding love with a wealthy guy.
12. How to build wealth from nothing, even as a young girl in school
13. How to avoid being pushed into the wrong marriage just because the guy is rich and can provide for you and your kids
14. Saving you the stress of moving from one office to another looking for an N50k job
15. How to respectfully command the respect of boys when you pay for their drinks and foods during an outing
16. How to avoid selling yourself short, especially when men brag about being the money makers
17. Solving Peoples problems and they will beg you to take their money.
18. How to avoid the beatings of your boyfriend or husband just because he is the provider of the family.
19. How to remove the inferiority complex your kids have among their peers by providing them with the stuff to boost their morale.
20. How to avoid living in regrets and feeling sorry for yourself for not having wealthy parents
21. How to remove the insecurity your husband or boyfriend might feel because you are the family's breadwinner.
22. How to comfortably command respect by speaking among your peers.
23. How to use your money to employ a healthy nutritionist to prescribe the kind of food to keep your body healthy.
24. The ability to create a healthy time for sex with your partner at the time of your choosing.

The book is well packed, and that is the reason it is an expensive book of N18000. But do not panic. Akin Alabi, The CEO of the multi-billion company, Naira Bet, is currently running a promo for this book for N5000. The promo is ongoing and will end on the 31st of October.

I 100% guarantee you will love this book and the bonuses that comes with it. If you are not satisfied after learning the juice from this book, Your money of N5000 will be refunded back to you, and you still keep the book. Just chat me on WhatsApp with the phrase, "I NEED A REFUND," and you will get it back.

How's that for fair?

Go ahead and check out the book. https://mailchi.mp/a98de74e7821/how-to-turn-yourself-into-a-live-breathing-cash-machine
If you think you still need to know more about this book before you decide to purchase it, I am always available to help you in whatever way I can. [url]+2349033810404[/url]
Health / Re: PROTECT YOURSELF. 80% Of Women Die From Vaginal Injury. These are the Causes by ezechidera(m): 5:00pm On Oct 13, 2021
mysticx:
Wow. I need this. My wife is 2 months pregnant. Thank you
Thank you.
Romance / Re: What Happens When You Use Money To Attract Women? by ezechidera(m): 3:07pm On Oct 13, 2021
funshint:
So how do u deal with women that once they smell that you're rich, the next is recharge card?
This is where you apply wisdom.
Health / Re: PROTECT YOURSELF. 80% Of Women Die From Vaginal Injury. These are the Causes by ezechidera(m): 7:08pm On Oct 10, 2021
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Health / PROTECT YOURSELF. 80% Of Women Die From Vaginal Injury. These are the Causes by ezechidera(m): 12:44pm On Oct 10, 2021
Do you know that 80% of women die from Vaginal Injury during Child Labour? This is a 2021, Post Covid Research. I was surprised when I saw there is a sudden increase in the number of deaths. Areas like Ajegunle, Iyana-Ipaja, Ajah, Maza Maza, etc has surged in the number of deaths caused by this act. There is also a massive increase in Kaduna, Borno, Maiduguri, etc.

As a Scholar of my Alma mater, Covenant University, and a Researcher for AdtGlobal, a multinational company, situated at 4th Ave & 403 Cl
Banana Island 106104, Lagos.
We have been working on a lot of projects and I was shocked when I encountered this discovery made by one of the Doctors of AdtGlobal, Dr. Nma.



Women should be very careful. This calls for serious alarm. Mind what you eat during pregnancy. It has been shown to be one of the major contributing factors. But there is a lot. In fact, for some of these factors, women do them every day as a normal routine.


This is a free copy of the research guide .. https://mailchi.mp/35f933bb3b7a/free-research-guide-vaginal-injury
PREVENT VAGINAL TEARS BEFORE IT COSTS YOU THE JOY OF MOTHERHOOD.
Romance / Re: What Happens When You Use Money To Attract Women? by ezechidera(m): 12:23pm On Oct 10, 2021
flyinnizam:
truth is different from false accusation...no one is painting women evil, it's just facts

I understand your point. Thank you
Romance / Re: What Happens When You Use Money To Attract Women? by ezechidera(m): 11:53am On Oct 07, 2021
chatinent:
Nice piece.

Thank you. Stay tuned for my next post
Romance / What Happens When You Use Money To Attract Women? by ezechidera(m): 11:57pm On Oct 05, 2021
Money has been a symbol of status and power for thousands of years. And for thousands of years, women have desired wealthy men.
It makes sense…money makes the world go ‘round.

A man with money provides stability and a better standard of living. He can support children. He can offer new experiences.
We, as men, know this. It’s why so many of us work hard, dress to impress, and buy possessions that display our financial status. We want to position ourselves as high-value mates over other men.

However, some guys take this too far. They shower women they just met with absurd amounts of money. They pay for fancy dinners, lavish gifts, and high-end vacations.

The thing is, overspending doesn’t always get you the outcome you desire. It can be a viable option when you’re looking for a short-term hookup or a one-night stand…but when you’re looking for a more substantial connection, using money to attract women only sabotages your chances.
I’m here to argue that money buys you attention, not affection.

It will influence less than you think

As I said, women value money…but the value of money is relative.
Money matters much more when it directly impacts your survival. It carries a lot of weight when it’s the difference between having food and shelter or starving and being homeless. It matters less when it will just buy you a newer smartphone or designer clothes.
While there’s still tremendous poverty in the world, global living standards have increased significantly.
The influence of money is also dictated by scarcity.

Not only do more people have a stronger financial foundation, but for young, attractive women — money isn’t that hard to come by.
Women have their own successful careers and independence. Some have also been financially supported by their family. And it’s easy for beautiful women to get men from bars or online dating to spoil them.
The point is, throwing money at women isn’t going to be enough to make them stay with you.

You send an unattractive message

But even if your money doesn’t buy a woman’s loyalty, what’s the harm? Isn’t it just another tool at your disposal?
There’s always a catch: when you do this, you’re NOT positioning yourself as a genuine, long-term romantic partner.
For a woman to seriously consider you, she first has to become emotionally attracted to YOU. She should want to connect with you for your personality. She should desire your confidence, character, kindness, and sexuality.

She must value you as a potential lover first and foremost. Then you can eventually be a provider as well.

When you’re trying to impress a woman with money, what are you conveying?

You’re telling her that your primary value is what you can offer. You’re showing her that your real assets are…your assets. Not you.
And the fact that you give up those assets so readily to someone you barely know tells her you don’t really value yourself. You are desperate. Because any man who has worked hard for his money wouldn’t give it up so frivolously.
When you position yourself as the guy who buys a woman off, she won’t see you as the top-shelf guy she wants. She knows how it feels to be truly attracted to a guy, and she’ll know that she’s not attracted to you in the same way.
You’ll always be the backup plan whose primary role is to provide for her. She may settle with you because it’s easy…but not because she’s in love with you.

You lie to yourself and overlook important people in your life

Maybe you’re still trying to justify spending your money on these new women.
Maybe you have a lot of money and it’s not a big deal to part with some of it. You just want to be a generous, nice person to a woman who may not be as fortunate.

Every time I challenge a guy who makes this claim, he eventually reveals that yes, he does have ulterior motives.
Deep down, you’re still trying to manipulate a woman into liking you. You’re not as innocent and charitable as you think.
Just think: you probably don’t do this with other people in your life (especially the ones you don’t want to sleep with).
If you really want to be generous, think of the people who have cared for you and invested in your for years. Don’t they need your support? Couldn’t your friends and family use some help? Aren’t there charities you care about who could really use that aid?
So the fact that you’d rather spend your money on a woman you don’t even know tells me you’re not doing it out of the kindness of your heart.
And if I can see through the ruse — women can, too.

You attract the wrong women who will leave you

What type of woman do you think chases men primarily for their money?
By placing yourself as a financial provider first, you’re likely to attract women who value money over genuine connections.
These are women who care most about living a lavish lifestyle. They will pretend to be invested in you as long as they get that monetary value.
You’re also setting her up to consistently expect that kind of spending because that’s what she wants out of the relationship. You’ll have to keep financing her lifestyle as long as you’re together.

I’ve seen these types of women gaslight men, use sex as a bargaining chip, threaten to leave, and cause endless drama.
I’ve watched guys keep buying their women big homes, fancy cars, luxurious vacations and loads of high-end jewelry. Almost always they run out of money…even the rich. Many multi-millionaire athletes and celebrities have lost their wealth due to fruitless spending on women or through divorce.(mostly in the western world)
Eventually, you’re going to run out of money or your woman is going to find a man who she’s both attracted to as a person AND/OR has money. When you have nothing left to offer, there’s no reason for her to stay.

If you want a casual hookup, be forward and obvious

So when does using money as your primary value work with women? When you’re looking for quick sex and not much more. Also, when you’re looking for a relationship based on what you both can provide for each other (money, sex, attention) and not based on deep emotional connection.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with either of those scenarios. You just have to understand the dynamic and expectations, and not delude yourself into thinking something substantial will materialize.
The best way I’ve seen men handle this is by being super forward about wanting a casual, sexual, and almost transactional “sugar daddy” relationship.
These guys approach women and immediately start pampering them. They buy them drinks, offer rides in their sports cars, take them shopping, and wine and dine them at the best restaurants. They even plan spontaneous getaways.
But at the same time, they’re extremely bold and sexual. They tell women they’re just “looking for some casual fun” and “a good time”. They say they aren’t looking for a relationship. They flirt openly and don’t hesitate to make a move.
This places your intentions and expectations above board with a woman. She then can decide if she’s down for that kind of arrangement and whether or not she’s attracted enough to sleep with you.

If she’s good with this, you’ve got a mutual understanding between two adults. Spoil her as you wish and have some fun sex in return.
If you want to date her, don’t lead with money
If you want to date a woman (for real) or find a long-term healthy relationship, you need to change strategies.

You have to offer your personality as your primary value.

Focus on building a connection by listening well and being an engaging conversationalist. Show her your courage by being a more assertive leader. Turn her on by flirting with her.

You alone should be enough to attract her. If you can’t accomplish that, she’s just not that into you.

Let her recognize your financial status passively. She can learn about it when you tell her about your career. She can see it in your car, your clothes, or when you invite her back to your place. She can even feel it in the way you carry yourself.
That way, she sees your potential as a provider without it being the ONLY thing you have to offer. You’re showing you have self-worth by not trying to win her over with your money.

This doesn’t mean you have to be a cheapskate. You can pay for a drink or a meal on a date. You can pay for her museum ticket or take her to a local music show. But you shouldn’t be doing anything extravagant during the first few dates with a woman you’re serious about.
You can invest your money in her after she’s invested in you. That means she shows you interest, vulnerability, and emotional intimacy. Give yourself time to see if you connect to who she really is, especially after the initial infatuation wears off.
And even then, I would caution being the man who constantly spoils his partner. You should balance being fiscally responsible with indulgence. Because if you don’t value your money, why should she?

Once she sees you as an ATM, you’ll never be the man of her dreams.

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