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see Mr. Psychologist, dey talk like perfect gentle man, we say person na oloriburuku, u dey say make him give am thought, e no go better for thought!

Something wqey no good, make we no call am another name, E no good be dat! Orisirisi, some naija men sef, na ppl like dis dem suppose take sacrifice Ogun

You fools that are leaving stupid comments here, read what dposter said b4 u open ur maggot stricken mouth, he moved d post to a joke section just to get attention, Yes the post is in a joke section, but it's not a joke, get it?

I just think it's a complete waste of time, only a fool will practice these things, and to think this load of crap came from a christian website, shame!

Even with all d problem at hand, some fool here has t he guts to talk about Yoruba ppl, na Yoruba ppl cause all dis dirtiness for Lagos? na only Yoruba ppl dey live for Lagos? Infact, u are mentally chanllenged!

You are old enough to be her father and u are here opening ur dirty mouth talking sh!t, I bet when ur daughter is her age, u will be chasing guys away from her, but here u are making d biggest mistake of ur l ife, and the girls parents too are the dumbest parents alive. I don't even know d right word to use, May God punish u and her parents. I bet she doesn't love u, her family must be d poor kind, they just want to give her off for money, and when u're done sleeping with her for months, u will get tired right?? cos I don't see how a 30 something yr old man will love a 15 yr old. You are nothing but a sore loser!

olanajim:
I can assure you that what you are feeling is infatuation of heigher order. You would never have love him and vice versa had you not sleep in the same room. The feeling would evaporate when you have sex with him and return to your boyfriend. You are passing through a normal situation that demand your self control.

When a normal warm blooded man sleep with a normal warm blooded woman in the same room, imagination is fired up and the emotion stirred. The bottled emotion is exerting pressure on the heart bmd the warning signal is flashing before your eyes. You have the time to stop it now.

So back to your question. What you are feling is infatuation. If the feeling persist, stop, in fact stop sleeping in the same room with him.

You are a genius!


@ poster, u just stay away from this guy for 2 weeks, and u will have answers to ur questions, this is LUST! Infatation!, so not in the same zip code as love, wait ti ll dis guy acts stupid, just something that does not really mean much, u will see d way u will react, cos u will question urself like "what did I like in dis guy", I mean seriously, how long have u known him? what can u say about him? he let u stay in his house, and what else, u slept in d same bed with him and he didn't make any move? (I'm sure he's d kind dat can control himself)

anybody can let u stay in his bed and not make a move, what if d person was gay and u didn't know? u'll start liking him because he let u stay and didn't make a move, right??

Don't do anything stupid, this is not love

If someone did that too me, I'll find it hard to forgive to, she cheated

You were away from her for a while, always promising to come and then u don't, that's one of the reasons why women cheat
We cheat because we don’t feel connected to you anymore. Most women like to talk and communicate. When you stop returning our phone calls,  and other messages, we feel as if you are no longer interested, so we start wandering off into other pastures in search of someone that will talk to us. No matter how busy you are, it only takes a few seconds to let us know that you care and are thinking about us. When you become too busy for us, we take this as a sign to start moving on.
, so there!


Just dump her, and move on, but whatever you do, don't let the next girl u date pay for her sins, and ur brother needs serious ass whopping, u said dat's not d first time he will steal a girl u really like, u should send ppl to beat him up more,  such an asswipe!

LIKES TO HAVE A DRINK?
IT'S NOT AS IF SHE'S A DRUNKARD, SHE JUST LIKES TO HAVE A DRINK, RIGHT? SO WHAT'S D PROBLEM!

NEXT TIME U WAN WRITE POST, MAKE U DEY EXPLAIN VERY WELL, I THINK IT'S A BIG TURN OFF, IF A LADY IS A DRUNKARD, IF I WAS A GUY, I WOULDN'T BE INTERESTED IN SUCH WOMEN! I DON'T HAVE ANY PROBLEM WITH GUYS DEINKING EITHER, BUT IF U GET DRUNK, PUKING ALL OVER D PLACE (IN PUBLIC), DUDE, U'RE A GONNER!!!

Na wa o
I remember those houses wey be say small rain go fall dem go just collapse, dem go con put sign on it THIS HOUSE IS NOT FOR SALE

LOL

Or she played hard to get when u asked her out d first time, when she said No, u gave up without trying again, she likes u, but she might think u
re not really interested cos u didn't chase her, girls love dat!, now she's decided not to hide anymore, so wetin u go do??


or like d others said, maybe she no see anybody else

See madness for number 4, a boy must not be allowed to watch cartoons of any kind What about u that wrote dis post, didn't u watch cartoon when u were a kid? abi u no get TV? or u want to tell me there was nothing like "Homosexuality" when u were a kid Just so u know, Homo's have been i n existence since WAY back, that's d reason why God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah, they were committing the act of Sodomy (Homosexuality), so don't come back and give me that crap about Homosexuality not being in existence 20 yrs ago or something.

Kids must not watch cartoon, I bet ur kid will be one boring kid if u teach him all dis nonsense, he will just end up being a kid with no sense of humor, it's like depriving the kid of his childhood

Who is talking about Biological/genetic components, so you are one of those that believe that crap about people born gay, so those foolish Nigerians that moved to TX or Canada at age 21 then turn gay, were they born that way too? Let's call a spade a spade, nobody is born gay! It's about choice, and also the way u're exposed to d society

and dis post is just a big ol' pack of bull 4uck!
KIDS damn it! how can u be so hard on dem just because u don't want dem to be gay

it just like those parents hiding their girls from boys, the girl sneaks out and ends up pregnant, let them do what they want to do, u're a parent, it's ur job to lead d children in d right way, not to be so strict, teach them what is right, stop following dis crap that someone else wrote out of boredom, you do ur part, let the child go out there and make his choice, I mean u can't be with him 24/7, do u know what he'll do in school??

PLS gimme a break, this is BS!

First, it's called DIS-VIRGIN or DEFLOWER not THIS-FLOWER

That's exactly why most relationships end down the drain, the guy cheats then all of a sudden he's thinking the lady is cheating too, u had a one nite stand and now u're thinking ur girls is not sleeping with u alone, if u're so guilty, don't let her pay for ur mistakes, just tell her what u did, and stop judging her, gosh! guys are something!!!

Do u know what the word "trust" means, clearly u don't, and you don't trust ur girl, cos if u do, u won't even be on Nairaland thinking she's sleeping with other ppl, na guilty conscience wan kill u

Clearly, he don't know what love is, how d heck can u love someone u been with for just 3 months? go see a native doctor pls!

LOL, Y'all are so mean

crazykid:
If he says he’s sorry and is ready to take you home to become his wife, then you should forgive him like the saying “to err is human but to forgive is divine”; what has happened has happened and you the woman should be lucky he was man enough to come to you asking for marriage.

Most guys wouldn’t do that.

SHUT UR MOUTH UP! That was the dumbest comment ever! You rape someone, u should just leave that state and run for ur life, but No, u go back and ask her hand in marriage, if i'm the girl, I will say yes, on the weddign day, I will just shoot u in front of the altar!

How can u marry someone w ho raped u, even if he took away ur virginiti, there is no other word for what is wrong, it's WRONG!!!

Sodomites!

na sign of good living, LMAO

LOL NA WA O so dumb guys like u still dey dis world?

jeff.com:
someone once told me how ladies use guys.

1. a man goes out to fetch for money and food.
(traits of a slave)

2. at bed time, guys go up and down (press up exercise) and all the ladies do is scream.

3. after s#x, a lady feels fulfilled and a guy gets tired and hungry
(but a guy would think he has achieved one important thing).

4. a lady will make a man feel like he is the head so as to get all she wants.
(trying to scam the man)

5. a man works for 24 hours to make ends meet.
(it is only slaves that goes to the field to work for 24 hours for the master to live)


Guys lets stop fooling ourselves

Only a dumbass fool will believe this crap!, Guy going up and down while havign sex, is that d only way to have sex? who says a lady is not tired after havign sex too? Negro, this is just lame!!!

Feeling as if they are irreplaceable, like u can't find a better guy out there when they dump u

Stringing women in long term relationships with no plans in d future,
Cheating on the good women we have trying to entertain “sides” when God has blessed them with a gracious “entrée.”
Never admiting when they are wrong
Very proud, even they all the help they get is from their partner, they still try to be controlling
Never saying what they mean, and meaning what they say
Being unable to control their sexual urges, being dogs unable to think and rationalize the consequences of living to get the next 5 second orgasm.

I could go on,

Na wa o, just her birthday, what if u now had to leave for months, how many times she go do am, abeg I be girl to, but if a guy does dis to me, I no go take am

abeg move on with ur life! kia kia!~!!!

mafolayomi:
Who be that guy wey dey fumble make he go self

ABI O, TELL DEM!!!

Honey, don't even try to beg him, some guys don't know how precious what they have is until they loose it, I won't tell u to hope for smething better, d way he's acting, and I won't tell u not to hope for something better, just give him time, ignore d way he acts fo rnow, but really let him know u don't appreciate him talking to u with no respect, if he does nto seem to change, pls dump his sorry ass and move on, it's hard, nothing good comes easy, u will find someone who appreciate u, leave him alone!