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unbitchable:
That's good. Lewa will be sharing the podium with his idol. One podium, two winners- Lewa & Messi. That's good.

The old fraud would be watching on TV while crying.

They will organise one Dubai award for the old fraud to console him

I swear I love this...
Lewandowski really deserves to win balon d'or...
Messi 7th balon d'or loading...

kenex4ever:
Mr know it all, from what u posted, didnt u see that Pere passed Maria with less than 1%. Why didnt Biggie evict Pere along with her? He decided to keep him and he survived narrowly. Had biggie evicted him them, u wouldnt be complaining by now.

Today, biggie decided to let the 4th and fifth play a game that massively favours the male gender and u guys are crying. Its biggie's game.

If he hated Pere so much like u lot are insinuating, he would have let his gossiping ass go with Maria.

Did pere have more votes than Maria?? Please just answer this question truthfully...

kenex4ever:
they even gave pere an easy game as a man. Maria left with high vote too.

No game is fair.

Please next time if you don't what to say, don't tag me...
This is plain rubbish and you are bringing Maria into this, do u even watch the show??

kenex4ever:
they even gave pere an easy game as a man. Maria left with high vote too.

No game is fair.

Please show me proof of how Maria left with high vote, if you can't show me a proof, never ever mention me in your life again...

BeeBeeOoh:
I pray Buhari don't see these people's reactions because he will top up his wickedness

Ronaldo can stand any pressure in this world...
Some foolish people are saying he was afraid of Martinez...

Biggie de mad... Pere won this girl in votes why is he doing this??

Lol

Saga up next...

Long overdue

shantti:
Omo I laugh come fall down
U must be Chucky's descendant, ur evil

She loves mummy too na...

We all know how this business works, they will fix a rematch and Joshua will kill him and take his titles back... No be foolish boxing again??

150 here

Eeghe:
Who are these people?

That's how we roll, no need for vowulence

Oyin2212:

No be you go pay. You dey do yourself

She has a car, so she can pay for herself...

Manchester United will not lift any spoon with Ole Gunnar .... Mark my words...

Nothing , I will hug her very tight, then say to her "Come let's go do it to your mother's car too"

Zainabthegirl1:
It’s a normal thing in a relationship.it depends on how both partner deals with it

True though

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Oga mosdii

Iniobong34:
Abeg e too long jare

Just take ur time and read through it, you will enjoy and learn from it...

Pumpumking:
:^^^^this will not work with Nigerian women oooooo......they from a different planet sir!!!

It works, I have talked to people about this severally and it works..

According to psychologists, there are roughly 10 reasons why relationships fail. These include trust issues, unmet expectations, and compatibility to name a few. Fighting consistently can also lead to a troublesome relationship, and if handled poorly, could end the relationship altogether. While fighting in a relationship is normal (no one is perfect!) there are ways to stop fighting and handle your conflict with poise and understanding.

Fighting well takes time and commitment to get to the root of the problem no matter what it is. If you’re in a relationship where you find yourself fighting more than having fun with your significant other, rest assured, there are ways to stop fighting and enjoy each other more.

nship altogether. While fighting in a relationship is normal (no one is perfect!) there are ways to stop fighting and handle your conflict with poise and understanding.

Fighting well takes time and commitment to get to the root of the problem no matter what it is. If you’re in a relationship where you find yourself fighting more than having fun with your significant other, rest assured, there are ways to stop fighting and enjoy each other more.

How to Stop Fighting in A Relationship
If you’re tired of fighting with your significant other, here are some ways you can halt it before it gets worse.

1. Dodge the Defensive
It’s normal and natural to want to become immediately defensive when a fight erupts. You may feel attacked, wronged, or blamed for something you didn’t do. Taking criticism or statements from your partner as personal only adds fuel to the fire.

But, objectively evaluating the situation is the best course. Did you say or do something causing hurt to them? If so, work to make it right.

This could include apologizing, fixing what happened, or just asking how you can make it right. Often, it isn’t about you as a person, but what happened. Be receptive to what the other person has to say and internalize it, asking questions if you need to.

2. Step Away From the Situation to Cool Down
Often during a fight, our thoughts and emotions can become cloudy or irrational. Fighting in this mindset causes more discourse, as we typically say things we don’t really mean.

If the argument becomes too heated, step away for a while and regain your perspective. Allow your mind to cool down by taking a walk or spending some time alone. Usually, you can approach the conflict with a renewed attitude once you clear your head.

3. Always Fight or Argue Face to Face
In our digital world, we can think before we text giving us an opportunity to control our conversation. But not everyone reads texts and tones the same way, and your partner could be taking what you ‘say’ completely out of context, paving the way for more fighting.

When people fight face-to-face body language is clearer and it’s easier to pick up on vocal tone. If an argument is especially complex or intesnse, long, drawn-out text messages are difficult to type out and are best discussed in person.

4. Create Boundaries for A Fight
Fighting becomes out of hand when you attack the person’s character instead of the problem itself. Swearing, yelling over each other, and avoiding the real problem can all mount and the fight becomes an all-out war.

Sit down with your partner and discuss some boundaries for when you fight. For example, one person may speak first in a respectful tone with no yelling or name calling. These destructive behaviors redirect you from the issue needing attention and create an unsafe space for each other to feel heard and accepted.

5. Remember Why You’re in The Relationship
Though the honeymoon phase of your relationship might be waning or completely over, it doesn’t mean it’s a lost cause. Many people go on to have successful, deeply fulfilling relationships long after they’ve first started dating or after the first years of marriage.

This could be because they remembered why they’re in the relationship and what they love about their partner. They realized their lives are better with each other than without. Though everyone has their baggage and personal problems, there’s good to remember and this gives the relationship something to fight for.

6. Take Care of The Conflict as Soon as Possible
Couples who allow problems to intensify break up sooner than those who approach conflict quickly. Not speaking up and letting our feelings simmer brews unspoken resentment or bitterness which could permeate the relationship.

This is damaging, especially if the other partner does not know. Coming clean about our feelings or issues and laying it all out on the table forces us to work through those problems so there’s nothing weighing on our minds throughout the course of the relationship.

7. Consider Therapy
If the fighting seems too difficult to handle on your own, or you’re feeling lost, consider couples therapy.

Couples who choose to receive therapy can learn to relate to and understand each other better, and themselves. Therapy gives you an opportunity for a third party to peek inside your relationship and identify problem areas you may overlook.

A good therapist provides practical steps to work towards peace in your relationship. They can offer techniques to help you work through arguments and disagreements. Couples therapy is a wonderful outlet to express your thoughts.

Keep in mind, therapy goes both ways. While the therapist or counselor aims to provide you with constructive feedback, it doesn’t work unless you both commit to saving the relationship.

8. Take Some Time Apart
The stresses of our lives can trickle into our relationships. While it could be that things outside of your relationships are causing you stress, it’s true the relationship itself is just stressful.

Think about taking time apart from each other for a time. It could be a weekend alone or with friends just to enjoy someplace or something you love.

Be encouraged at times couples need to spend time apart. This could be for various reasons completely individual to the couple. It’s not necessarily a sign the relationship is in trouble.

Nevertheless, time away provides you with a different perspective on your relationship. If you return believing the relationship is at an end, discuss it with your partner.



Stop Fighting and Start Enjoying Each Other
Every couple goes through rough patches but constant fighting in a relationship is tiring and draining. When you stop fighting, you enjoy your relationship – and each other – more. Take these steps to your next argument and learn to solve the conflict in a healthy and productive way.

PEACE...

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